认识珊是07年刚转学到UCon的时候，那时跟老公在学校Dorm住了一阵子，中国同学们总一起聚餐，在Dorm的地下厨房做菜。后来搬出去住了，联系也少了，但是活泼的小妹妹珊给我留下了很深的印象。看到珊，Leshui, Shaozhen, Dong一起的照片，又回想起那段短暂而快乐的时光。

今天无意中发现这条消息，多期望是同名同姓的另一人。和老公说起来也是唏嘘不已。愿珊在天堂一切安好，也愿珊的父母爱人小孩能够尽快走出失去珊的痛苦，坚强地生活下去！

Shan, I still remember the day you picked me up in the airport when I first stepped on America 8 years ago. 5 years together in Connecticut, you offered so much help to us and we had so much fun with you, Wei and Alex day in and day out. What impressed me the most is your unconditional love to Alex no matter how difficult it is. You are our role model. It's been really a pleasure to know you. We really miss you, but we also rest assured knowing that you are in heaven now. -Tony (with Chenchen)

I still cannot accept this sad news and refuse to even think about it. Love your smile and positive attitude. Spending three years together in Connecticut will always be in my heart. RIP in heaven, Shan, my dear friend. - Lei and Weihua

Have met you only for a few times but our family are really impressed on your positive attitude. Not long ago I took a photo for your happy family at Alex's birthday party. I still remember you played a joke on me when Emma hugged Alex. Your smile will stay in our hearts for ever and inspire our lives for ever. Rest in peace. - TianYu & ZuDi

Cannot stop crying after receiving this saddest news this morning. She was one of my best friends when I was at UConn. We took stats classes, discussed homework, prepared exams together..we also explored the restaurants around Storrs, had BBQ at hollow-dam, went sightseeing in the cities around...we had wonderful time with lots of laughter. We were still connected after I left. Things were busy for both us with the kids, but we still talked to each other from time to time. She is very young, but she is one of the strongest and most loving person I have known. May her rest in peace. Best wishes to her family especially her son. - JIA Fan

"Shaozhen and I are shocked and feel so sad by the news. I've cried several times till now. She is a very sweet and caring girl. I can always remember her big and warm smile like sunshine. I cannot imagine how her family will go through this. Rest in peace, Shan. Bless Shan's parents, Wei, and little Alex. - hongyu & shaozhen"

Shan, I refuse to let some stupid little detail, like the fact that I will never see your pretty face or hear your beautiful voice again keep me from being your BFF. You promised me. And I will hold you to it! And just to show you how stubborn I am, I am giving you 20,000 nickels. So there! -Brien Aronov

Shan, I couldn't make it to Boston today to see you one last time, but I've been thinking of you everyday this past week...how we studied for qualify exams together, how lively and beautiful you were...I wish your family the best, I hope that they could be strong get through this. You will always be in my heart. -Weimiao Guo

胡珊于2016年3月7日离开了我们，享年30岁。她的追悼会于3月12日周六在波士顿永福殡仪馆举行。捐款请至 https://www.gofundme.com/shanhu。我们真诚期待您的到场。注册请至https://goo.gl/E4eDZg

Shan Hu., 30, passed away on Monday, March 7th 2016. A memorial service will be held Saturday, March 12, at 9:30 a.m., at the Wing Fook Funeral Home, 13 Gerard St, Boston, MA 02119. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to https://www.gofundme.com/shanhu. Please complete following registration if you decide to attend the funeral. We greatly appreciate your help. For registration, please go to https://goo.gl/E4eDZg 

追悼会流程

9：30 追悼会开始。殡仪馆有停车场，到达后如果您愿意参加之后的火葬场道别请倒趴入停车位，工作人员为您的车顶插上小旗作标志。进门请至二楼，在门口签字，会有工作人员带入追悼厅。

进入追悼厅后，可以向遗体鞠躬，上香。然后绕棺材走一圈，向遗体告别。接下来会走到亲属就坐的地方，慰问亲属。然后就坐。殡仪馆还会提供纸钱，如果有需要的话，就坐后可以叠纸钱，放到燃烧炉里烧掉。

我们请了观音来念经，大屏幕会滚动播放胡珊生照片。门外我们会提供少量点心，但请勿带入追悼厅。

11：00 介绍胡珊生平，家属及朋友致辞。

11：15 工作人员提醒大家要出发去火葬场。由6-8名男士（非亲属）护送遗体上灵车。

11：30 开车前往火葬场(火葬场Forest Hills Crematory，171 Walk Hill St, Roslindale, MA 02131)。大家自行驱车前往，有警车护送车队。

12：00 到火葬场后，进入chapel，每个人和遗体最后告别，由工作人员推入火葬间。整个追悼仪式结束。

2:00 吃饭。Lotus Flower Chinese Cuisine荷花苑，地址是：341 Cochituate Road, Framingham, MA, 01710

Funeral schedule

9:30am Funeral starts at Wing Fook Funeral Home.

Parking: for those who plan to drive to the crematory at Forest Fills Crematory afterwards in procession after the service at funeral home, please follow the direction of the staff members at the funaral home and park your cars in certain area in the parking lot. They will also place small flags onto your cars. If you will not be driving to the crematory in procession, the funeral home staff will direct you to park in another area.

After entering the building door, please proceed to the second floor and sign the register at the chapel door.

After being ushered into the chapel, You might bow to the casket and place the incense sticks which will be provided as a tradition in Chinese funeral. You might then circle around the casket once as the farewell to deceased. After that, you will proceed to the family seating area, offer your condelense to the family members of deceased. The funeral home will provide offerings which are made from paper, such as "afterlife money", for the traditional Chinese ritual of incineration of these afterlife money. After being seated, you can choose to help folding these afterlife money for later incineration.

There will be chanting of Buddhist scripture in the Chapel, and Shan's photos will be displayed on the projector screen. Light refreshment will be provided outside the chapel, which cannot be taken inside the chapel.

11:00am Eulogy and Tribute to Shan by family and friend

11:15am Funarel home staff will notify those who will attend the cremation service. The casket will be carried by 6-8 pallbearers (male nonfamily members) to the hearse.

11:30am Departure from Funeral Home to Forest Hills Crematory at 171 Walk Hill St, Roslindale, MA 02131. For those who will drive in funeral procession, please following the hearse. The procession will be escorted by police cars.

12:00pm Arriving at the crematory. Please enter the chapel and offer the last farewell to the deceased. The whole funeral will conclude here and the casket will then enter the cremation chamber.

 2:00pm Lunch at Lotus Flower Chinese Cuisine, 341 Cochituate Road, Framingham, MA, 01710.