ForeverMissed
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Her Life

WHY?

September 11, 2014

I don't like reliving this day so I won't go into details I'm sorry but Shara went missing on September 10,2013 they found her September 17, 2013 that was the worst week of my life .We may never know what really happened to Shara, which makes it worse at least if she had cancer and past away or if she was in a car wreck and she passed it would still be aweful but we would know how she died and it could possibly give us some kind of closer but not knowing what really happened to her just makes it that much harder to deal with her death.Everyday me and my mom wonder what really happened and could she have been saved? With what little we do know I feel she could have been saved but there's only one person that knows the truth and knows what really happened that day,the day that changed my families life forever.The last person she was with was a guy named David Lake Barrett ,I talked to him that day and got text messages from him and so did my mother but he told us 2 different stories of Sharas were abouts,why would he lie to us and why you when the cops wanted to talk to him did he not talk to them then he even stopped texting me and my mom and stopped answering our calls then when we put a picture of shara on Facebook asking if anyone had seen her and we put a picture of lake Barrett as the person she was last seen with ,he deleted his Facebook page and went MIA so what does that tell me GUILTY he knows what happened ,did he have  something to do with her death? Did he kill her? I want answers but this scumbag won't talk to us,I don't know how he can live with himself ,doesnt he have a conscience,it doesn't seem like he does but I wish he would put himself in our shoes what if this happened to his sister_he would want answers too, I also think that the Gwinnett County investigators that had this case did not do there job they did absolutely nothing they had there theory as to what happened and no matter what we told them ,and how wrong we told them there theory was they didn't care no matter what proof I gave them or showed them they didn't care it was an open and shut case in their eyes,they weren't compassionate at all I wish they would have put themselves in our shoes if this was there sister or mother I'm sure they would have stopped at nothing to get answers but they didn't know Shara so they put no effort into her investigation at all.So 1 year later we still sit here no knowing! Why , Why , Why  We Love and Miss You So Much Shara

Shara becomes a mom

September 11, 2014

I remember the day Shara told me she was pregnant ,she was scared but excited at the same time.She got so big she looked like she was having twins,On August 18,2008 Jayden Flannery was born 9 pounds ,I never though a baby that big could have come out of my skinny little sister,I was lucky enough to be right there watching my nephew be born,it was the most amazing thing ,I've had 2 kids of my own but watching Jayden be born was incredible.Shara was a great mom,after all the help she gave me with my kids I new shed be a great mom.Jayden was the love of her life.She spent all her time with him she was always teaching him something I remember she was teaching him the days of the week so she made him these flashcard with the days of the week on them but Instead of square cards she made them of shapes of hands with popcycle sticks glued to them and he learned the days of the week from those and my mom still has those today.But in those 4 years she had with Jayden she thought him so much she was a kind,thoughtful loving mother to her baby boy,and he still talks about the times he shared with his momma,and I will make sure he always does .

Shara teenage years

September 11, 2014

Shara was shy when she was a teenager but she had a heart of gold,she was always there to lend a helping hand to whoever needed one.she was a good kid,she never really gave our mom any problems,there were a few times typical teenage stuff but never anything major,she was my mothers pride and joy.She would always come to my house and help me clean or help with the kids.I remember teaching her how to drive and I tought her well cause she drove just like me and our mom didn't like that at all ,me and shara laughed about that all their time.I was always there for her as her big sister even though there was 19 years between us we were close and got even closer the older she got.

Shara becomes an Aunt

September 11, 2014

I had my daughter Brittany when Shara was 4 years old, she just loved helping me take care of her niece.They spent almost everyday together, and she was  like mother hen to Brittany,Shara was such a sweet little girl ,never gave me any trouble she was perfect and I mean that when I think back I can't remember one time that she gave me or our mom any problems.She was a blessing.As the girls got older they were like sisters they were together all the time.and they started acting like sisters to ( the sisterly spats begin) but they would come and they would go Shara always let brittany get her way,it was just easier that way,(LOL)Then on August 7,1996 2 days after Shara 9th birthday she became an aunt again ,her newphew Blake was born,and once again she helped take care of him as much as she could ,we new one day she was going to be a great mother .With the 3 of them being so close in age they were very close,we all were we were a very close family and always were

Full Time Sister

September 11, 2014

Well I moved to Georgia in 1990 and from that day on I was her big sister ,we all lived together me shara and our mom.Our mom Judie was a single mom so when she worked I watched Shara ,I remember people would always give us comments ,she's so cute,what a beautiful little girl you have etc and of course I ate it up.I spent so much time with her that I felt like she was mine too,I loved her so much and she loved her big sis too.

Toddler Time

September 11, 2014

i first saw my baby sister when she was 9 months old,her and my mom came to visit me where I lived in Boston.I remember seeing her and it was love at first sight .She was a good baby always smiling,when it was time for them to go back to Georgia it broke my heart,(it wasn't long till I saw her again)

A BabysBorn

September 11, 2014

Shara was born on August 5,1987 ,she was born at Gwinnett Medical Center .My moms pregnancy with her wasnt the easiest seeing as my mom was over 40 when Shara was born,but besides that Shara came out a healthy little girl.