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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sharon Tebbenkamp Sooter, born on March 18, 1940, and passed away on June 29, 2014. We will remember her forever.

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Her Life

Vivacious Sharon

May 31, 2020
Sharon had a full, rich life. She had an adventurous spirit and took her joy for living and love for people wherever she went. She made friends quickly with her open friendliness and her easy-going nature. Sharon was a tenacious woman who powered through her diagnosis of MS, making adjustments that enabled her to carry on with gusto. 

Though her own career as an opera singer was cut short, she always continued to sing beautifully throughout her life. She supported and helped Ed's singing career, becoming his manager and his biggest fan. They traveled together to many of the places where Ed was engaged to perform, always enjoying the locals and making new friends. 

Sharon was a fun mom who fully supported her three kids in whatever interests they showed. She gave them opportunities to travel and become independent at an early age, always trusting the best in them. As "Omi", she was also a loving grandma who bubbled over with ideas and was always ready for games and floor time.

Sharon enjoyed long, deep talks, good movies, and games like Scrabble or cards. She was an amazing cook and baker. Swimming was her favorite form of exercise and she kept doing it through 2007. She loved gardening and all things nature and cosmos.

She made sure that her young family, when living together in Germany, went to visit all of their relatives in the States during the summers when possible. Tebbenkamps, Behms, and Hembrees in Missouri and West Virginia, Sooters in Kansas, Swors in Tennessee. She organized many other family trips, such as a wagon tour through Ireland and many visits to the families of German ancestors, the Lohoefners, in Bielefeld.

Later in life she continued to travel to see each one of her kids and their families and to visit with her family in Missouri.

Sharon's grandchildren and great-grandchildren:
Erich with Arianne had Lola, Jakob, Louis and Gwendolyn in Germany
Brett with John had Sarah and Tatjana in Germany and Santa Barbara, CA. Sarah with Jerrod had Cora, Hayden, and Jane in Oregon.
Mahria with James had Natasha and Aaron in Seattle.

Sharon's brothers and sister and families:
Neil Tebbenkamp (passed away in 1962)
David Tebbenkamp (Justin and Jill)
Rosemary Cowan (Matthew)
Daryl and Rhonda Tebbenkamp (Haley, Sarah, Bryan, Laura)

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Sharon and the Spruths

June 12, 2020
From Alice Spruth:
Du weißt, dass deine Mom Pflanzen sehr liebte. Sie war traurig, dass sie ihren Garten abgeben musste und verpflanzte Blumen in unseren Garten. Als wir den nun auch abgben musssten, nahmen wir u.a. die weißen mit, die sich nun vor unserem Haus an der Steinmauer fleißig vermehrten. Die grüne Hängepflanze brachte mir deine Mom eines Tages mit.

Bis heute züchte ich davon Ableger für unsere Fensterbank und auch Freunde. Sie bekommt kleine weiße Blüten und erinnert mich immer an Sharon. Bild 3+7.

Bild 13: Juli 1981 in unserem Garten.  Bild 14: Abschiedsparty im Garten.

Bild 15: Euer letzter Tag in Kiel in unserer Wohnung - 4 Mädchen.  Im Mai 1982 war Sharon bei uns zu Besuch. Bild 11: Sharon und Angela lernen stricken. Bild 12: Angela und Wolfgang in  Schilksee. Sharon guckt zu. Bild 1:  Auf der Hollywoodschaukel.

Sept.- 1988 Bild 4: Im Garten. Bild 5 = Sh. u. A. am Hindenburgufer. Bils 6 = auf dem Fördedampfer.  30.12.1990 , Bild 2 = Sh. u. A. vor dem Tannenbaum. Bild 9 = Sh. erzählt, dass sie zurück nach USA gehen will.  31.12.1990, Silvesterfeier mit Sh. (Sie war so fröhlich und tanzt).    Ich hoffe, du wirst daraus schlau und kannst die Fotos einordnen.

Ach ja, es war eine schöne Zeit mit Sh. . Auch als ihr nicht mehr in Kiel wart, haben wir uns ja oft gesehen. Sie nahm Anteil an meinem Leben und gab mir viele gute Ratschläge.

May 28, 2020
This is written considerably after Sharon's passing.  I am writing my life story now and just got to my college years.  As a result, I am looking up some of my college acquaintances.  My husband Bob and I did our undergraduate work at the University of Kansas at the same time that Sharon did.  My husband never had heard a young singer with such an amazing voice and felt even then that it was a potential Wagner voice.  On an honor recital our freshman year, she stunned the whole audience with her talent and professionalism.  Later in her undergraduate career, she stole the show with her portrayal of Augusta in "The Ballad of Baby Doe".  The person who played Baby Doe was supposed to be a big deal, but it turned out that Sharon was the real "Star."  It's just too bad that she wasn't able to realize her potential.  

Despite all the acclaim she got, Sharon was a genuinely nice person.  I played oboe with her in the KU band our freshman year and enjoyed getting better acquainted with her.  Unfortunately, she was too busy the rest of our undergraduate careers to participate in band.
       Judith Whaley - college oboist - Professional Recorder Performer and teacher
       Robert Whaley - Professor Emeritus of Tuba - Western Michigan University
                                  Principal Tuba - Kalamazoo Symphony in Kalamazoo, MI

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