Sharron Ackles passed away peacefully on August 24 with Joe and her family at her side. Sharron had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer over a year ago and had fought hard to overcome it. Very few people even knew she was ill. She fought this battle with the same grace and determination that she lived life. This memorial website has been set up to honor Sharron and will serve as a memory and reminder to us all of a woman who touched us all. Please feel free to add pictures, videos, stories, music & letters to Joe and his family.
Memorial Service
Saturday, August 29, 2015
Keauhou Canoe Club at Keauhou Bay
9:00 AM
Following the service, there will be an opportunity to share stories & memories, followed by a scattering of loose flowers in Keauhou Bay and a pot-luck lunch.
We hope you will come and help us celebrate Sharron's life with her family and friends.
Joe's home address is: 75-280 W. Kawena Place
Kailua-Kona, HI 96740
In lieu of flowers donations in Sharron's memory can be made through:
https://netcommunity.pancan.org/sslpage.aspx?pid=796
for furthering research in finding the cause and a cure for pancreatic cancer.
Tributes
Leave a tributeI lost my sweet sister-in-law to this horrible disease.
I fight back by working at our local Relay For Life each year in
Kona.
Joe, blessings to you and your family
Cheryl,
Gerry
Joe, I think of her so often. As a mater of fact, I thought of her yesterday when I was at the post office. Frequently, we chatted in the lobby of the post office and would laugh about meeting there.
What a great lady. I will always miss her.
God Bless, Cheryl
Mahalo for your passion and for sharing your bright spirit with so many Ironman athletes and fans over the years! You are truly missed Sharron!
Love and Aloha to the Ackles Family!
It was a very pleasant time I got to spend with Sharron. She was very nice from the moment I got there even though she was rattled by the fact that so many awards were broken. I got them all fixed and then had a very good time going to the Carb/Welcome party and other events along with the race itself.
My condolences to the Ackles family. I always enjoyed my time around Sharron. She was always a pleasure to work with. Best to you.
I'm sorry that you are experiencing the mourning of losing a love one. Many if not all of us has experienced this, but I would like to share a brief scripture that will may just bring you comfort.
(Revelation 21:4) And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
Thanks for reading.
Maria and I want to wish Joe and the family all the best and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love and Aloha to all the Ackles Family!
My thoughts and prayers are with Joe and the Ackles family as well the many others who were her Ironman family worldwide.
The McCary family has a special affection for Sharron. As you may know she was Ironman Race Director for years. One year the McCary family was competing in the Keahou Half Ironman in Kona which was an Ironman qualifier.
My son, Mike, had shared with me the tragedy of one of his fellow Aloha pilots. His friend, Greg Matson, had lost his daughter in a horrible drowning incident a few years earlier. Greg was also a triathlete and was competing in the Keahou race and hoping to win an Ironman slot. Greg wanted to do the Ironman and dedicate the race to his daughter's memory. He wanted to carry her with him in his heart during the race.
Unfortunately, Greg did not win an Ironman slot.
Following the race food and refreshments were served as athletes milled around and talked about their experiences. As we talked Mike noticed his friend Greg with his wife walking past us. We began to talk with them about the race. Out of the corner of my eye I noticed Mike becoming edgy and restlessly. Something was cooking inside of him.
He caught my eye and nodded to me that he wanted to talk to me. We stepped away for Greg and his wife as my wife Diane continued to chat with them. Mike said, " Dad, what would you think if I asked Sharron if she would let Greg into the Ironman?" Mike was about to break out of his feelings of impotence and take a risk.
"Go for it Mike. Mom and I will keep talking to Greg and his wife." Ten minutes after Mike went looking to find Sharron he came back. He had explained the whole tragedy to Sharron. With tears in his eyes he reported. "Dad, she said YES."
"Should we tell him" Mike said. I said, "why don't you get Sharron and let her tell him." We can then all be a part of it. He left, got Sharron and brought her back and introduced her to Greg and his wife. Sharron then looked at Greg and said "Mike has told me of your wish to qualify and dedicate your race to your daughter." I want to reserve and Ironman slot for you this year or any year you want to compete. Just let me know and I can make all the arrangements."
Stunned would be a major understatement. The offer took time to digest for Greg and his wife. While it was being digested tears started to leak from all who were there. A very special thing had just happened and we all knew it. It was chicken skin for all of us. The spiritual essence of the Ironman was now clearly exposed. No committees, no applications, no hemming or hawing about an Ironman slot. Just a straight shot of compassion from Mike and Sharron's hearts to Greg and his wife wounded hearts.
Greg competed the following October with his daughter in his heart. Thanks Sharron. Those precious moments can never be undone. They are eternal.
With gratitude and love, The McCary family, Diane, Mike, Pat, Kristen, Devonee, Nathan, Austin, Autumn, Landon, Josh and Summer.
The Bourne family shares in your loss. So many great memories with Sharron over the years. We will always remember her pleasant and easy to get along with attitude and personality, her hard work and tireless dedication to the IM and most of all, how she cared about the athletes, both pro and AG. She always kept the idea that we must keep the "Aloha Spirit" as a central theme of IM. She touched so may people with her energy and enthusiasm. Katy, I and the kids, will always remember her kindness and caring as they grew up. God Bless and stay strong in these coming days. Turn the page. We are all there for you. At this Sunday's Dick Evans Memorial Road Race, the peloton will observe a minute of silence prayer, prior to the start of the race
Dan & I want you to know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers.
Sharon was such a beautiful lady. Her constant smile always brightened my day. She will be missed.
God Bless,
Cheryl & Dan Levitz
I met Sharron through Ironman and worked with her on other community events for many years. I loved her passion for life and her compassion for others. She was the ambassador of Kona, the heart of Ironman, and I don’t recall ever seeing her without that infectious smile on her face.
We were the start boat for Ironman for many years. It always surprised me that Sharron would take the time to personally meet with us to make sure our t-shirts were the right size, we had the right passes and ask us, “What else can Ironman do for you?” She did this for all the volunteers!
She once asked me if I would like to volunteer for a race, in which there would be a contest for best themed aid station. We came up with the idea to do Elvis Presley, Heartbreak Hotel in front of Casa de Emdeko. I thought Sharron would think I was nuts, but she was in 100%. We built a hotel facade, cranked up the music and dressed the part. I can still see her in high heels, chasing bikes, handing out water bottles, sporting elbow length white gloves and of course that ear-to-ear smile. Oh, and we won 1st place!
Truly an amazing woman who will never be forgotten.
Words can not express my sorrow in Sharron's passing. She was such an inspiration in my life and helped me in so many ways. Her compassion, love, encouragement were only a few things on her list of things she did for others. Her hugs were genuine and replenishing especially when you needed a hug. I have comfort knowing she will be in heaven waiting for us as we arrive. Her infectious smile will live forever and that is what I will always remember. Love you Sharron and bless your family and friends during this time.
I think its about time for a midnight ice cream party!! :-)
"Ironman". She informed in a amused voice that you had to do more than fill out an application to get in. Her patience with my ignorance won me a friend forever. So sorry Joe for your loss. I know somewhere in heaven she is probably organizing an event even now.
I feel for you and your family. Sharon exemplified a life well lived, and I am sure your family's return to the Big Island allowed for you all to create lasting memories and a sense of homecoming. She truly made it home.
Best,
Rob Perry
Moke & I are so saddened by the news of Sharron's passing....saw her just twice while in Kona by chance & we made plans to get-together but I knew she was in a great fight....she was the best Governor's liaison ever & she made me a better person for having worked with her. We are in Colorado now helping Moke's sister after bypass surgery & won't be able to make the memorial on Saturday but know that our thoughts & prayers are with you and your ohana.....God has another angel in heaven....much aloha, Moke & Debbie Hauanio ❤️
She helped thousands fulfill a wonderful memory in their lives! She was a sister and friend and she greatly blessed my life. Thanks you Joe for sharing her with us. Much love to you and your family.
Joyce Taylor
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That dream did come true, as my angel appeared before me one day without notice. From that day forward we expressed our love for each other in every way possible. We enjoyed a love language that most are clueless of. A special touch, a brief look with a smile, a spontaneous hug, an over-the-top gift, each containing a silent love message that words couldn’t express.
When God chooses who will join him, he is drawn to the prettiest flowers in his garden first.
We that remain, will continue to celebrate our great fortune of having been loved by Sharron during her time with us. She was more than a very special lady, and is lovingly missed !
Please be patient.
The Sharron I remember
The coolest thing about our memories is that we get to choose what we keep in the front of our minds. I chose two to remember Sharron by.
The first year we worked together, 1992, is one of my favorite years. During race week she called me and asked if I was busy (of course!) but not too busy to give her whatever time she needed. She told me to come down to the hotel entrance and she'd pick me up. She sounded very serious, almost grim. I got in the car and she drove away from the hotel. She was chatting about inconsequentials. I finally asked where we were going and she said, "Well, we are much too recoginizable so we are going to get diguises." We spent the next half hour in Longs going through their Halloween stock. We came away with false mustaches. We wore them all day and many of the volunteers joined in the fun and would come up and ask us if we'd seen Robin or Sharron!
a few months later, we were coming back from lunch, riding in the back of a convertible. We were laughing and saying it was like being in the parade. I said yes, only we'd be sitting up on the back of the seats. She looked at me and said, "I will if you will." We spent the rest of the trip back to the office waving at whoever we passed.
Sharron loved to laugh and it was always good to laugh with her. She will always make me smile.
No shame in front!
I had been one of Sharron's coordinators for a few years when one day I was in her office talking about business and shared with her my fustration of my added weight gain. With a gleam and sparkle in her eye and a smile that went on for miles she said "have you tried spinning at The Club?". Needless to say it took her very little time to convince me to come try and I thought, why not.....I hang out in the back and no one will even really notice me. She comforted me and said to just show up and she would have everything ready to go. I reminded her, now don't forget, put me in the back. YA, RIGHT!! Sharron had me set up in the first row, dead center. I was like noooooooooo Sharron! The people behind me will lose their eye site if you put me if front, enrolment will drop, this is not good.
Even with my heart racing with the fear of "being in the front row", within seconds Sharron had calmed me and I was actually at ease getting on the bike. My butt wasn't so happy with me for the next month but if it wasn't for Sharron I would have not have joined the Club for which I am still a member today. Sharron also got me into body-pump for which I knew not to waste my breath telling her I wanted to start in the back. Sharron always had the way to calm and ease people when most stressed or get us over that hump and make us comfortable out of our comfort zone. You will be forever missed Sharron but I wil never, ever forget your love, comfort, compassion and hugs!!
Rest in peace and watch over us till we meet in the Heavenly spin class, and no worries, I will hang in front with you!
A Song for Aunty Sharron
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF0VZXPyHAk
This is one of Kya's original songs that we wanted to share in hopes that it brings uncle Joe and family comfort. Auntie Sharron is found in His love!