Dear Family and Friends,
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Shawn on the morning of June 25th, 2015. The loss of her is shocking and tragic.
Shawn was a devoted mother, loving wife, and a fun-loving, loyal friend.
Please take a moment to leave a photo, video, or a memory. Her husband and sons will treasure these memories in years to come.
There is a fundraising campaign for Shawn Marie Mendy- to help with the funeral services and the boys. http://de.gofund.me/xy49h8
Please remember Shawn in any way that would make her smile. Let's continue to celebrate her.
Update, June 30th:
The funeral service for Shawn Marie Mendy will be held on July 10th at St. Peter the Apostle Parish church at 10:30am with reception immediately following. The address is 450 South Stagecoach, Fallbrook, CA 92028.
Update, July 2nd:
A website has been set up to coordinate meal delivery. Please check it out. https://mealtrain.com/vv9rgz. Other than a tomatoe allergy the boys are pretty easy to feed.
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Shawn and I had many nicknames for each other. We called each other "Twin Sis" in elementary school because we decided that Mark and I really should have been triplets and she was our other sister. Then we became "Tin Twins" when we both had braces in 9th grade. We loved that we shared a middle name, so to everyone else we were Shawn Marie and Michl Marie. Of course to me, she was also Red, Red Hot, Hot Redhead and the original Fireball!
I have so many wonderful memories with Shawn. She was present for the big milestones in my life – like high school and college graduations; we were bridesmaids in each other’s weddings; and we celebrated careers and motherhood. But I will also cherish the memories of our countless sleepovers, singing at the top of our lungs in her closet to everything from Michael Jackson to UB40, playing fashion show at Contempo Clothing at the Cerritos Mall, and of course, cruising around Norwalk in her Dodge Omni.
Shawn had this amazing knack for making everything fun. Life was an adventure and she lived it to the fullest. She lived with a “Go for it” attitude. You don’t ask permission, just forgiveness if necessary. She was also one of the most positive people I’ve ever known; staying strong even when she had every right not to be. And she gave the best hugs. Shawn’s hugs were not catch and release. She bear-hugged you, and that audible “Umphh” and then came the wiggle. What I would do to have one more of Shawn’s hugs??
Shawn showed us by her example to love like it’s our last day. We never know when we will run out of time. Nothing is promised to us in this world but we are promised an eternal kingdom together if we believe.
So my sweet Shawn Marie, how can I possibly honor our 35+ years of joy, love & friendship? How can I honor how you poured sunshine and music into my life? I can try to share your joy. I can pass it on. I can find a way to turn this broken heart into compassion and service for others like you did so easily.
So I promise Shawn, I will continue to pray for stronger faith for me and everyone who loves you. I pray we all believe that sunshine and music will come back in our lives even in this darkest hour.
I will continue to pray for Jason, Jaxon and Talon for their health, peace, faith and happiness. And I will pray that you Shawn Marie will be in our hearts forever.
This is not goodbye. I know we’ll meet again.
This is just me saying, “I love you my forever friend.”
You gave to those closest to you the biggest gift possible – your enduring love, smiles and laughter - I will never forget the beautiful sound of your whole hearted (“hearty”) laugh! Oh what memories and wonderful times we had: the beaches, night swimming, horse races, watching our children’s performances, singing karaoke - and the way you belted out “You Give me Fever…”.
So much of yourself was poured out to those you love – always with kindness, warmth, inner sweet sparkles and big hugs!!
You will be so missed my dear friend; your spirit will live in our hearts always. We lost a precious soul on earth and Heaven gained a phenomenal angel. Jason, Jaxon and Talon, please know we love you and will always be there for you. The Meisterlins
I am very sorry for your loss and understand there are no words to express the way you feel. Many of us loved Shawn and her family and morn alongside you all the way. May God bless you and may Shawn rest in peace.
Love, the Carlile Family
Shawn Marie your smile was so contagious. Your hugs were sincere and your words were always so sweet. Thank you for always being so kind. We will miss seeing you at the pool and walking your dog. May you rest in peace and love.
Love,
Jessica Hendrix and Family (Zahra's mama)
May you rest in piece forever. Love Tom and Irene
Aunt Ceci and Uncle Bill
Alan & Wendy
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Missing you ♥️
Tomorrow will be 2 years since you left us! I still feel like it was yesterday! I talk to you everyday and cry for you often! You are still my best friend and I miss you so very much! I hope you are proud of me and that you hear my thoughts and prayers! I love and miss you so much baby Sister! I wish you were here!!!
Birthday Fun
I remember us arriving in Cancun; riding in a cramped van signing Hotel California along with the radio. I'll remember this trip always. Although you technically invited me as "the babysitter" you made sure I had a great time. The swimming pool, lounging by the beach, dancing in cages Hahaha. The best was when we pretended that we were escaping from our own hotel, why? Because it was your birthday LOL and you wanting to go out, as you should. Love you and miss you. Hope your having a great week up there <3
Memories
So many times seeing her at school with a smile on her face! She will be missed! May the family be in all our prayers!