It’s been 14 years since she left the physical world. The years have passed but the mark my Mum left on this world will never fade. Today we mark the anniversary of her passing—and we celebrate the love and memories she gave us. For years following the death of my Mum, I wanted to write about her. I started writing... about growing up as her child, but I never could finish... I was too close to that loss, and too eager to try and resolve things, to make her death make sense. What I have learned is that She's in the sun, the wind, the rain, she's in the air I breathe with every breath I take. She sings a song of hope and cheer, there's no more pain, no more fear. I see her in the clouds above, hear her whisper words of love. We'll be together before long, until then I listen to her song. You loved me even before I started breathing. Now I will miss you till my last breath. Love Skooch

Hi sis, I miss you. As time goes by I think of you alot, wish I could phone you and talk. Until we see each other again, love patti

My goodness Sheila, I was just telling my friend about you the other day. I think you would be proud of the work I do involving protecting children. You were always protecting children, not just your child. But you treated every child, even me for a time, as your own. You were an amazing woman. I didn't realize until I was an adult when I realized what an impact you had on me. 1st you were like a mother, then kinda swayed to like really cool aunt. But in our older years you became my friend. You've always been my family and I hope you're kickin ass and takin names up there. I know you're happy because you can see Matt and Mike and their beautiful family. You raised an amazing son and I know you beam with pride as you should. I think God's purpose for you in life was to be a mother, praise to you on your 74th! I love you and I miss you. ❤

14...WOW - It's still so hard for me to accept that I haven't celebrated your last 14 Birthday's with you. Of course I still celebrate you everyday, and even more so on this special day with your favorite Chocolate Chocolate cake.

I've said it before and I'll say it again - To the woman who always loved me at my best and more so at my worst, along with all those times in between. Through good times and bad, my Ma was my number one fan. I am so grateful to have felt her love during her time here on earth. I continue to speak to you everyday through your Grandkiddos, Colton & Maleah.

Mum, I'm missing you even more today, as it's your 74th special day, Happy Heavenly Birthday Mum.

FYI, this picture is % YOU in true fashion, always speaking your truth and never giving a fuck!

Love Skooch.

Thirteen years and your memory is alive in well in my heart and in my home... I often look to the photos on my wall and look to you for guidance. I know that you are still with me Shelia always the brave protector... thank you for never leaving me. I love you and I miss you terribly.

13 ! – How can that be? Mom, you always supported me, stood up for me, and had my back, no matter what the circumstances. Your many acts of are forever held in my ❤️ and captured in my mind. You were always such a kind and gentle soul, but strong as steel and so very bold. I miss hearing your whenever I tell a joke. I miss everything about you, Mom, every day! So many times, each day, I think, I need to tell Mom about this, I see or read something and reach for my ☎️ to call you. You were my best friend, you were a wonderful role model, and I only hope my kids feel the same way about me. You celebrated every day with great ! I know this sounds very cliché, It’s been 13 years, I still do not know how to live without you. When you died, Mom,I felt the world crumble beneath my feet. I may never walk on solid ground again, but I will walk, and I will move forward because of the love and strength you showed me throughout my life. Yes, there is a big hole in my life, but I carry on each day, knowing you're still watching over me. Thank you, Mom, for being such a positive force in my life. I miss you; I love you to the moon and back! ❤️Love !

Dearest Sheila... Happy Happy Happy heavenly birthday my love you are so terribly missed. I know you are watching us from above... You see your beautiful grandchildren??? Look how amazing your Matt is doing. I know you are as proud as a mom could be. I only wish you could be here with him and his amazing family!! WE ALL miss you and love you very much. Kiss mom for me please and dance in the heavens on your day we are celebrating here!! Love you Sheila!!!

To the woman who always loved me at my worst. Through good times and bad, my Ma was my number one fan. I am so grateful to have felt her love during her time here on earth. Missing you on your 73rd special day, Happy Heavenly Birthday Mum.

To most people, a mom is the most important figure in life. She gives you life, loves you unconditionally and makes many sacrifices just to bring a smile on your face. However, tragic things happen, and your mother may pass away before you are ready, which is one of the most heart-breaking things. 
My mum taught me very important life lessons so that I was more prepared for real life. So, Mum, I will say this, it will never get easier losing you to death when I still needed you so much. But in your honor, I continue to live a life that would have made you proud of me if you were still here. The day you left us was a dark and frightening day Mum because I felt so helpless and alone. I am learning to live without you, but it still hurts so bad. No matter how many years go by, 12 to be exact, I still miss you so much. If only I could see your smile, hear your laughter and just hold your hand one more time mum, if only. I love you and miss you.

Mum, the day you passed away is the saddest moment of my life. But it comforts me to know that you are happy where you are now, free from all the troubles that life may bring. I miss you very much and words will not be enough to convey how much I long to hug and kiss you, have a wonderful 72nd birthday in heaven, Mum. I’m sure you already know, as you’re always looking down on me. I wanted to let you know that I finally met my brother (your firstborn), in person. It was a good visit, as you know he’s not doing very well, continue to watch over him as well as my family. Love you, Mum!

Happy birthday, I miss you . Have a great celebration and hope there is plenty of chocolate cake.

Gosh it's been 11 years now since you passed away. I sometimes feel like you're not really dead that you're alive and that I just haven't seen you in a while. It's so hard for me to even think about you, it makes me so sad that sometimes I just think that you're still around. I'll see a woman walking down the street, on the train, or in a store that looks you and I'll turn my head thinking that it's you. I miss you so very much! I wish you were still here.
I wish you could see how handsome your grandson Colton is. He would just love you so much. He sees pictures of you and says, that’s my Grammy. I just wish he could have met you.
As an adult now I understand a lot of why you made the choices you made in life. I've made some of the same and have learned a lot in 44 years. I think I've turned out just like you. I’m crazy, I don’t take shit from anyone, but care so much about my family. I'm so thankful you were my Mother. You were the best and I will always love you and miss you terribly! Can't wait to see you again in heaven some day! Love you Ma, I know that in spirit you are still in my life.

Happy Heavenly Birthday! Give my love to my family!

Happy 71st Mum, missing you everyday. Love always, Matthew

Happy birthday, i miss you. You are always in my thoughts

10 years, it’s been 10 years today. I remember when double digit years was a big accomplishment!! Now, I don’t know what to think.

It’s been 10 years since my mum died and my life changed forever

So much has happened in 10 years and so much more will happen in the next 10 years and the 10 years after that as well.

There’s so much of my life my mum will never be here with me to experience.

Her death taught me a few things:
To lean on family and friends,
How strong I am,
Life isn’t fair,
LIFE IS A GIFT.

My mum's death was 10 years ago and just yesterday at the same time.

It was the worst moment of my life but it taught me the most about myself and I treasure every moment I had with her. So this anniversary I will honour the incredible life she had that ended too soon and the way she shaped me to be the man I am today.

Mum, is there a party up in heaven
To celebrate your 70th today?
Did angels frost a cake for you?
Or sing to start your day?

We're celebrating you down here
As they must be above
I truly hope your special day
Is filled with peace and love

This day was always special
As we gathered 'round you here
We'd sing and laugh and celebrate
Your day with so much cheer

I miss those special moments
That we shared throughout the years
It's hard to find that on this day
My eyes now fill with tears

I'm trying hard to smile for you
But, ohhhh... that empty chair...
I turn around and find myself
Still shocked that you're not there

Please know I'm thinking of you
As I go throughout each day
This day is very special though
Because it's your birthday.

Happy Birthday, I love you Mum!

It's been 9 years today that you've been gone from the physical world.

The gray plastic box you were given to me in is no longer.

After looking long and hard for many years, I finally found something to place you in that i felt honored you.....I hope you love it.

Here are my thought for today:

I thought of you today
But that is nothing new
I thought about you yesterday
And days before that too.
I think of you in silence​
I often speak your name
All I have are memories and
Your picture in a frame.
Your memory is a keepsake
For which I'll never part
God has you in his arms
I have you in my heart ❤️

Love you too the Moon and back, missing you everyday mum.

I'm always saying I wish I could hear from you again, let's make that happen April 7th, until then Happy Birthday, I love you

Enjoy your day in paradise!

Missing you Ma, love you so much

I love and miss you to the moon and back! I hope and pray that you and all your fellow port rats are enjoying being together again. But most of all I hope and pray y'all have found peace.

Happy birthday sis

My dearest Mum how I would love to say
A very Happy Birthday to you on this day
I will say it anyway in the hope that you can hear
Whilst I have a piece of birthday cake and shed a little tear

Happy birthday Sheila!

Death changes everything! Time changes nothing...
I still miss the moments of your life, the sound of your voice, the wisdom in your advice and just being in your presence.
So no, really time changes nothing. I miss you as much today as I did the day you died. I just miss you!

I miss you.

You taught me everything, except how to live without you. Happy Birthday, I love you to the moon and back :)

It still hurts everyday, I miss you more than words can say, please continue to watch over me and keep giving these signs to me, I love you Ma

It's hard to believe that you have been gone for 6 years my friend! Just know that you live here with us in our hearts! Mathew is doing well and misses you very much, but he is a strong man and will be okay! We will love you forever! Rest in peace! Give my brother my love!

Today you would have celebrated your 66 birthday! But I know you are celebrating with my brother in heaven! You will always be missed and live forever in our hearts!

Ma, i'm at a great loss today, not sure why but it hurts more than ever today. Please continue to watch over me. I love you, and i MISS you so damn much. Give everyone up there my love, (Dad, Maria, Helen, Darlene, Larry, and everyone)

5 years have passed so quickly, know that you have been loved and missed each and every one of those passing days! Give my brother my love!

Happy birthday Sheila give my brother my love

Happy Birthday Sheila! Give my brother my love! We miss you!

Its been 4 years today mom, I miss you ........love Matthew

Happy Birthday mom I love and miss you

Happy Birthday Sheila and Happy St. Patricks Day!
We are thinking of you and living life to the fullest in your memory.
We know you are with us every day and keep watch over us always.
Thank-you for many happy memories. Jeanne & Emily

Happy Birthday Sheila! We miss you!

I miss you. Wish I could talk to you one more time. You are my big sister and are dearly missed. You are always in my heart and prays. I Love you your sister Patti

I miss you Mom, more than you will ever know. Without you, a part of me is also gone.I though you would always be here for me and continue to guide me. I never realized how lost I would be without you. I hope you can hear me when I said you were the best Mom in the world. I couldn't have asked for a better loving, caring, giving, fun, thoughtful, intelligent Mom. Love Your Son Matt

Dear Sheila,Though we lost touch towards the end you were and always will be my "sister" and friend. You will be forever missed and forever in my heart! Paul has now joined you in heaven where you can both be happy once again! I love you!