Today we remember your birthday. you are in my . Forever missed and remembered.

Oh Shelley you are so proud of your boys and their dad. They have turned into the men you had hoped. They have had their struggles but are able to go on. Thanks. I miss you too. Keep your spirit shining over us all.

I can’t believe it’s been 4 years Shelley, it still feels so surreal that you’re not here. You shined so bright and left such a big empty space to fill. But Pat has done his best to try and pick up the slack and I am so proud of him and the dad he is. I think of you often Shelley, sunsets seems to look more purple since you left and maybe it’s because your still here with all of us in memory. Love you amity shell, miss you so much.

‘What are we, if not an accumulation of our memories. ‘ and today I remember you, Shelley.

I miss you my favourite aunt . It still doesn’t feel real some days. Each time we get that purple sky we know your saying hi. Love you Shell.

“I keep myself busy with the things I do but every time I pause , I still think of you “ -unknown

Missing you extra today.

Days will pass and turn into years,
But you will always be remembered
With silent tears.
MISSING YOU.

I sit here today bawling my eyes out. I moved to Lethbridge for university and brought with me a picture of my family.I took a long look at that picture and specifically my mom. In an instant feeling pored over me. I spent the last few hours looking at pictures of mom,Crying. What set it off today of all days was I got a credit card. My dad said that I am turning into a man. A man without a mum I thought. The funny thing is that the second thing I felt next to sadness was laughter. I watched the youtube video of moms celabration of life and I found my self laughing (a big belly laugh at that). One thing that conforts me is that mum can still make me laugh. I love you mom and I am missing you!

Missed but not forgotten. 15 years ago we, Pat, Spencer, Kaden, Shelley and I Were in New York on our way to Robin and Camila’s wedding in São Paulo. Thanks for all I shared with Shelley and family.

Was a very nice day yesterday at the Schroh home, Pat has done such a beautiful job on the home renos and it feels like a home not just a house with a bunch of boys living in it. I was very proud of Pat taking the step to have this open house, instead of being alone at home it was a house full of family, friends and memories. Was so fun to talk about those funny tales that Shelley was somehow always involved in. Was nice to share laughs with Pat and Zane along with everyone else. Doesnt seem like its been 2 years, crazy how the time goes by and i miss you Shelley more then ever but the pain is less with the time. You would have loved those homemade cream puffs that Pats friend brought..... they were overfull just like you like them. love you shelley, miss you.

Memories become treasures. We had many stories and memories about Shelley today. Stories about Bennett, birds ducks, salamanders and the pond in Mackenzie Towne. Always saying how much we miss you Shelley. Grief is always there but changes over time. We do miss you.

Here is a memory on Shelley’s Bday. 14 years ago we were in New York for Shelley’s 40 Bday. We visited several sites ate a great New York breakfast then on to Brazil. We had a great trip. I so so miss you Shelley. But all those memories become treasures.

To my amazing brother and nephews.
It was wonderful to read your message Pat. Shelley has provided you five men with everything you need to succeed! She loved you to the moon and back...

To my dear son Pat, and grandsons Spencer, Kaden, Zane and Mylan. Pat what a wonderful tribute to Shelley. I loved your line ‘when she asked me to marry her’. That is so Shelley, and you. So GLAD you accepted. I have watched u struggle to accept the loss of someone so instrumental in your life. But I know u can do it. For u but also in her memory. You have accomplished your best Reno work all in her name and memory. I’m so so proud of u all as you make your way forward. Love u all ‘to the moon and back’. Love to u all and Bennett too.

One year ago today I lost the love of my life, my partner, my best friend. To say that I love Shelley with all my heart pales in comparison to what I feel, there are no words to show how much I love her. Shelley has made me the man and father I am today, there are very few on this earth with such an ability to affect everyone they come in contact with such grace, understanding and positivity, and Shelley is definitely one of them. We met when I was 20 and Shelley was 25, talk about being out of one's league, but when Shelley asked me to marry her was the start of an amazing life with the woman I hold on the highest pedestal. A life cut too short by a long shot. This past year has been very hard for those of us left behind as we try and come to terms with continuing without Shelley in our physical lives. My boys and I are doing the best we can navigating this road with broken hearts. We love you Shelley and we will never forget you. Until we meet again....

Beautiful Shelley, I can't believe you have been gone for a year now....life has been so crazy but a day doesn't go by that I don't think about you. Bennie's doing ok I try to do your cookie monster voice as often as I can with him, he knows his Mama's watching down on him. Your boys are so big and beautiful I see them daily... We miss you Mrs purple

My dearest Shelley.

Shelley was born in 1967 and was Joe and Sherri's Centennial project. She joined our family on a warm spring day and three weeks later there was six feet of snow on the ground. Big brother Roger often pointed his little finger skywards and said " she had their dad wrapped around her little finger". Her love of purple began with the purchase of a purple coat at at an early age. She went through many stages of purple with a purple rug and a purple van and purple hair. After she married Pat and moved to Calgary they raised 4 boys who each came home from the hospital in purple sleepers. Shelley put her all into her family and her passsion for justice for all.
We will always miss you and love you forever and have many good memories.
I an=m so proud of Pat and the boys as they struggled through this trying time as they allowed Shelley to be an organ donor in order to complete her work on earth.

Love you always Shelley,

Mum and George

To all of Shelley's family,

I only recently learned of Shelley's passing (we were away for sometime) and I can't tell you how saddened and shocked I (and my family) feel, I can only and hardly imagine the loss you are feeling at this moment. I knew her as Miss Purple, she taught 3 of my kids- in the 2 year old program. She was the reason I would ever have my kid in a 2 year old preschool program PERIOD. I loved her, and my kids loved her! She was the kind of person that never forgot a name and knew exactly how to comfort and care for the little ones in a way that can only be done by someone who was doing exactly what they were meant to be doing. She was meant to teach little kids, I am certain of this. I don't know a teacher that could match the energy she brought to a space, she was one of a kind and can never be replaced, the void feels heavy at school, and my heart aches for her own children, who's home is forever changed without her in it, I can only imagine.
She used to laugh when telling me that her routine with my jack in order to soothe him when i dropped him off in the classroom was to, "hug him tight, give him a sip of water and occasionally let him wipe his snot on my shirt, then bug him about it". My kids knew she was a safe place to land, her gift to them was her presence. She was funny, loving, fair, organized, she cared and it showed in every way.
The world felt better with her in it, i will never forget Shelley and I will make sure my kids don't either, and god forbid that my kids or any children for that matter, should ever have to leave this earth early, knowing that Miss Purple would be there to hug them, give them a sip of water and a safe place to wipe their nose, brings me comfort. I pray for these same moments of comfort for your family as your grieve the loss of a very very special soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Love,
Elya Cary

Sherri,Cam,Roger,Pat and children.So very shocked and saddened to hear of Shellies death.She was always Joe and Sherries little girl.Shelley will live on by her generous organ donation and will always live on in our hearts.

Sherri, Cam and Roger, My Heart is so sad knowing your sweet Shelley has passed away. There are no words but just want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know families are forever and you will be reunited one day. It is the time in between for that reunion that is so hard. Much love-Danni Pittman Melnyk

There are no words to express how sorry I am for you loss. My dear friend was a blessing in my life, her kindness will be in our hearts forever. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

To Shellys family and friends,so sorry to hear of Shellys accident and tragic death last week. I meet Shelly through ffca and all her work on the board and I through my work with the school councils. She was dedicated to ffca and the staff and students at the school. And was tireless fighting everyday for the well being of staff, students and what she believed the school needed to make it great. I am sorry your family has to go through this and our school lost a wonderful advocate even though she was no longer on the board. I Know she was so proud of her boys and theirs accomplishments in school and their hobbies and career choices they made so far. We have got to know Zane more around our house as my son Carson is a good pal of his, he has been here many times for hanging out and Zane always had something nice to say Or a story to tell about his mom. We wish you peace and comfort and it was a wonderful thing you did donating her organs for others who needed them to have, she will live on in those people. Take care

Dear Family of Shelley,

When word made it to me that Shelley had sustained an accident, my world paused. I immediately froze in the moment, as I was in disbelief. My memories of Shelley are the warmest memories. I had met Shelley and Pat when I was 8 years old...I am now 31. I had the pleasure of living next door to Mrs. Purple :) We had met when I was walking back from the candy store and Shelley had her new puppy Basil out on the porch. She called me over to meet her puppy and for the next 10 years or so, you could find my sisters and I at Shelleys house (or in her pantry)! We would make crafts, cookies, play games and oogle over all her purple items! We watched her carry and raise her boys and stayed close through out our lives. Shelley was always there. Always at bridal showers, weddings, baby showers and special events. She was always supporting everyone and had the ability to make each person feel like they were the only one who mattered to her. She embodied unconditional love. I cherish so many memories of Shelley, and I now cherish the beautiful baby blankets she had made for my 18 month old son. He and I will forever wrap ourselves up in Shelleys love. My eyes are flowing as I write this... there are so many wonderful things to remember about sweet Shelley. I love you forever Shelley. I love you Pat, Spencer, Kaden, Zane and Milan. Our lives have intertwined because of your beautiful wife and mother... I will always honor her memory with a smile and kind words. I will always remember Mrs. Purple. Rest easy Angel. 

Shelley and I spent a lot of time together as kids growing up. So many great memories! Purple everything...room, clothes, hair! She did have another obsession when we were kids...The Bay City Rollers! But I think that one faded as we got older. She truly was one of a kind!  Sending love, hugs and prayers to her husband and children as well as Sherri, Cam and Roger. Shelley was an amazing person and will live forever in our hearts.

Send my hugs and prayers to Cam, Roger and Sherri.
Shelly was such a joy to us all when were growing up in Warner.
To Shelly's husband and children, send you all our condolences.

Pat, Spencer, Kaden, Zane and Mylan,

I admired the way Shelley lived her life and the light she brought to others. She was a very special friend and I am deeply sorry for your loss. She will be missed and always remembered. Sending you my deepest condolences to her family.