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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved Sherry, for her family, friends, colleagues, students and community she loved. You are invited to share stories, memories, tributes, photos and videos here, to remember her life, honor her memory and celebrate the joy and privilege of knowing this amazing woman. 

She was a creative force of nature, and she took care of our world with generosity, kindness, truthfulness and humor. She will always be missed, and she will be forever in our hearts. 

USITT (United States Institute for Theater Technology) has set up a scholarship fund in Sherry’s name. Go to  usitt.org/swh  and write "New Century Fund in memory of Sherry Wagner Henry".


February 26
February 26
Today I'm grieving for the loss of Sherry in our world. Thirteen years ago we had a conversation in a Linden Hills cafe that changed the course of my life. I would be so proud to tell her how much goodness, joy, catharsis, relief, and edification has come from taking her advise. Love to all of you sharing this space here in her cherished memory.
October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Thinking of you, my extraordinary girl, and raising a glass in your honor. You are greatly missed.
June 5, 2023
June 5, 2023
Spent the last week in New York, Sherry, at the first in-person Arts Administration Educators conference since the terrific one you put together in Madison a year before you left us. Your name came up — a lot! As several have said here already, the mark you made is indelible.
June 5, 2023
June 5, 2023
Three years ago today, tributes to you began appearing on this page. As I read through them again, it affirms the remarkable influence you have on all whom you met. You were, and will always be, an incredible leader, collaborator, influencer, educator, spouse, partner, and friend. We toasted to you last week on patios around the nation. And though we carry on and know you are with us still in different ways, simply put, you are greatly missed. Everyday.
June 2, 2023
June 2, 2023
Thinking about you today. An inspiration, a wonderful person, a thoughtful friend, and a fierce advocate. Miss you my friend!
March 27, 2023
March 27, 2023
Sherry was my best friend in high-school. I was thinking about her and wondering what she was up to. I did a Google search and found out about her passing. I hadn't seen her since high-school. I am so sorry for reaching out so late. She absolutely was such a beautiful soul. My heart goes out to her husband, children and friends. I am very sad but very grateful to have known her.
November 4, 2022
November 4, 2022
I have been thinking about you a lot, Sherry, especially since I started my new job as Director of Development at Arts + Literature Laboratory two months ago. This is the kind of opportunity I dreamed of when I first attended the Bolz Center. It has been a long road to get here, but I feel like I am in the right role/place/time. Doing my best to make you proud.
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
Happy Birthday, gorgeous. Envisioning us on a sunny patio, blue skies above us, hard ciders in hand, serious talkings and loud laughing about life. It’s not the same without you- nevertheless, we carry on, as you’d want us to. Miss you like crazy, girl. 
October 22, 2021
October 22, 2021
Celebrating the humor, light and love you shared with the world. Much love to Mickey, Zhen and everyone who celebrates you and misses you like hell. Love you, girl.
October 22, 2021
October 22, 2021
Thinking of you today, Mickey, Zhen, and all of Sherry's loved ones who are surely missing her tons. May you find the opportunity to celebrate her birthday together in love.
May 6, 2021
May 6, 2021
Thinking of Sherry this month; at one of our last in-person, one-on-one meetings about MYA, Sherry encouraged me to apply to the Bolz Center's new masters program. She was one of my close colleagues in UW work and community service.

I am now graduating that same masters program and attribute this accomplishment to Sherry's vision, and her belief in the arts and people. ♥

Also on my way to become a Crimson Badger, Sherry - miss you!
October 9, 2020
October 9, 2020
Sherry was a visionary leader with an incredible energy and zest for life. She was a wonderful teacher and mentor with a big heart and a knack for connecting people and ideas. Sending love and wishes for peace to Mickey and Zhen during this difficult time.
October 1, 2020
October 1, 2020
Dear Sherry, you will be missed by so many people. Thank you for all of the creative ideas, energy and enthusiasm you brought to my career and education. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to work with you. Mickey and Zhen, I am thinking of you and so very sorry for your loss.
June 19, 2020
June 19, 2020
I still cannot wrap my head around this loss. Sherry was a treasured colleague, member of Forward Theater's board of directors, community leader, and - most of all - friend. Her warm and constant support buoyed me up in many a challenging moment. Her humor kept long meetings from feeling long. And her wisdom left a permanent mark on our arts community. I miss her so. What a gift she was to us all. ❤️❤️
June 18, 2020
June 18, 2020
Sherry was my teacher in the Bolz Center for Arts Administration from 2016-2018. And I am truly lucky for having studied with her. I've never met anyone quite like Sherry: so giving of herself, always thinking of ways to connect others and make their lives richer. And we are all enriched and certainly smarter for having known Sherry.

While a student in my first year at the Bolz Center, I lost my dad unexpectedly. Sherry, with her typical warmth and compassion, went above and beyond the role of teacher—helping me navigate my studies, checking in on me regularly, and showing extreme care. I'm not sure I would've made it through the program without Sherry, and this level of compassion was just second nature to her. I hope her family feels some comfort in Sherry's legacy and knowing just how many lives were made better because of our connection to her. 
June 18, 2020
June 18, 2020
I had the pleasure of working with Sherry through the Bolz Center for Arts Administration. At Wisconsin Public Radio, we've been fortunate to have several student "fellows" work with us in marketing over the past ten years. In addition to the amazing talent, perspective and energy of the students - I enjoyed working with Sherry to better understand the state of arts, arts leadership and "arts in community" over the years. She always had a smile on her face, a compelling idea to share and a commitment to the students. On behalf of all of us at WPR, I offer our sincere condolences to her family, friends and colleagues. We will miss her.
June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
I am so sorry to hear Sherry passed away. I had the privilege of working with her for many years as part of the Wisconsin MBA team. Her smile could light up a room, and her honest joy was contagious. What a terrible loss this is for her family, the alumni and students of her center, and for those of us who admired her passion and valued her creative soul.
June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
For those of you that new Sherry, I am sure you will agree, she had a beautiful infectious smile and was extremely eager to succeed. She grew up on a farm in a very small town, called Tiskilwa Illinois aka "Gem of the Valley" She was part of the Class of 1984. She was always the kindest person, had a beautiful smile and very eager to learn. We are all very sad to learn of her passing. Everything that I have read about her journey, did not surprise me. I am so grateful that she was able to go out and make her mark on life, she truly was a special person. We had hoped to see her at our last reunion, we had messaged each other, however she was very involved in her family and career, and just couldn't attend. So on behalf of the class of 1984, we feel extremely blessed to have grown up with her and grateful so many were blessed to experience her friendship, work ethics and overall kind soul. Sherry will always be a Tiskilwa Indian!!!! 
June 16, 2020
June 16, 2020
I was so sorry to hear the news that Sherry had left this world way too soon. I met Sherry after I gave a so-so talk in Minneapolis many years ago now. She was new to her post running the Bolz Center for Arts Administration at the UW-Madison. She said she wanted to invite me to be in residence as a visiting guest artist / lecturer. That conversation turned into the "beauty course" that I've written about extensively on Jumper. We lost touch for a few years after the course but then reconnected the past couple of years at a few creative placemaking conferences and at the AAAE conference. I was so struck by Sherry's incredible stewardship for creative placemaking in higher education; by her energy and optimism and generosity in every room she was in; and by the great thinking and work she was doing in her program and her humility about that work. I will always feel quite grateful and indebted to her for the opportunity she created for me at UW-Madison--and for our initial phone call after that first meeting in Minneapolis when she asked what I wanted to teach and I mentioned Howard Gardner's "Truth, Beauty and Goodness Revisited" as a point of inspiration and she laughed as she had just been reading it. I'm so glad we had the chance to share a meal in Wisconsin last time I saw her. I am so deeply heartbroken for her husband and son and close colleagues and friends, most notably Becky. RIP, Sherry. You are gone far too soon and your presence is already greatly missed.
June 16, 2020
June 16, 2020
I was extremely sad to learn about Sherry’s passing. She was such a wonderful and passionate educator. I always admired how she encouraged everyone to connect with art and access their own creativity. It’s inspiring to think how her students will carry on her legacy, building and managing organizations that magnify the power of art in our communities. She will be greatly missed.

June 16, 2020
June 16, 2020
I met Sherry more recently as a new employee in the School of Business. In the few interactions I was able to have with her, it was clear that she was passionate about her work - and more importantly, the people her work touched. In talking about leadership classes, she focused on the opportunity to elevate marginalized voices and to use art as a way to heal communities. Even though I wouldn't have worked with her too extensively in our roles, she made a point to ask about my background and get to know me both as a person and a campus partner. She always said hello and greeted people by name in the hallway. Some of these are such small things, but they speak to who Sherry was and the positive mark she wanted to make - and did make - on her world.
June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
Sherry was instrumental in guiding my career path in the arts - where I am now, I owe it all to her. She was always challenging me and inspiring me - she will be missed greatly in the UW arts community.
June 13, 2020
June 13, 2020
Sherry Wagner-Henry was my friend and colleague. I was introduced to her by a mutual friend and colleague Brooke Horejsi. Brooke knew I was moving to Madison from New York and kindly connected to me to the best person she could have to help me feel welcome in my new arts community. Sherry immediately reached out and invited me to speak to her Bolz Center students about my work at Carnegie Hall on The Lullaby Project. The panel included some amazing women in the arts including her dear friends Bonnie Shock and Kathleen Spehar Hansen. She invited us all to her house for food the night before the panel and even know she barely knew me, she treated me like I was a long-time friend. We later had another social gathering with other mutual friends and we talked about her unhappiness with her child's school and I shared my unhappiness with my child's school and that that was what led us to leave New York and move to Madison. Eventually, Zhen joined Margaret at the Wingra School where Sherry invited the Wingra Board of Trustees (on which I served) to partner with the Bolz Center and allow two Bolz students to sit on the board as part of their learning trajectory. Sherry brought two amazing students to the table, for two years in a row, and I expect that wonderful collaboration to continue. While I hope the students gained valuable experience, I know the Wingra Board's value increased with their voices, perspectives, and hard work on behalf of the Wingra School.

And that was Sherry. She saw the opportunities for partnership and collaboration and hustled like no one else to make those mutually beneficial connections for people and for the arts. She was a relationship-builder, understanding that more could be gained by working together. Her hard work and dedication were from the heart. She deeply cared about people and wanted to make a difference. And she did make a difference in so many of our lives.

Losing Sherry is not just a loss for her family and friends. This is also a deep loss for the arts, for learners, for teachers, for creative spaces of all kinds. The world order is not the same. I miss her dearly and send my love and support to Mickey and Zhen.
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
Dear Mickey,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Sherry. Hang on tight to Zhen and remember the special times that you all shared as a family. 
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
I did not know Sheri-- but I am very sad to hear this-- may her memory be a blessing---
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
I'm deeply saddened by the loss of Sherry. Although I did not know Sherry extremely well her impact on me was significant. Her ability to lead by example, her tremendous dedication to the stewardship of young professionals and students into leadership positions was evident in her work, her actions and her words. It was clear that she had absolute love for her son and family. My thoughts are with her family and friends and I mourn with her students and my colleagues and for those who will not experience the tremendous influence of Sherry Wagner Henry.
June 12, 2020
June 12, 2020
Sherry always took the time to listen to my ideas and thoughts. She was kind, considerate, and her ability to be present really influenced me. She helped me navigate a time when I felt unnoticed, and be more than I ever thought I could.

I will always be thankful and remeber her.
June 11, 2020
June 11, 2020
I'm so very sorry to hear of Sherry's passing. While it has been more than a year since I've had the pleasure to work with her, she was always a kind and giving soul. I know she'll be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her husband, son, family, and friends.
June 10, 2020
June 10, 2020
Mentor, colleague, and dearest friend. I'm at a lost to express how great the impact the world of arts and culture will be from not having your wisdom at the table. I know that all your mentees and friends will carry on the work you inspired for equity, equality, and interdisciplinary arts.

I sit her reflecting on the two projects we just started in March, wondering briefly how can I move these forward without you. But then I immediately recall the base of many of our conversations. Our work is always best served in collaboration, and it was only natural that others would join me in this work. The projects that we started these last few months I will continue, grow, and continue again as you taught me. The arts should always evolve, reflect, be a beacon of hope and growth for civilization understanding of each other.

I will miss you and I will always be inspired by your time with us.
June 10, 2020
June 10, 2020
Sherry was my first friend, ally, and mentor when I moved to Minneapolis in 2008 to begin work at Theatre Arts and Dance at the U of M. Sherry, Mickey, and Zhen were among the group that helped me move into my first apartment. Sherry took me to many garage sales and thrift stores to help furnish that apartment. I am staring at the rocking chair we found at one of those many thrift stores. I saw it as soon as we entered the store. Sherry dragged that rocking chair around the store while I continued to shop to make sure no one else took it. As we lived only 6 blocks from each other I spent a number of Thanksgivings and Christmases at their house. Sherry introduced me to the Showboat, the State Fair, and the best waffle fries in Mpls.

Sherry was the inspirational and positive force I needed as I made the major adjustment to the upper Midwest and the full time shift to teaching. 

It seems surreal that Sherry is gone. She was a force of nature. Sherry inspired so many, advocated for her students, advocated for the Arts, and her untimely death has left a gaping hole not just in the Arts world, but in so many lives.

Sherry, you have left your positive and caring mark on so many of us. Rest in peace, my friend.
June 9, 2020
June 9, 2020
Sherry was so generous with her time and eager to connect people to each other. She was a mentor of mine through the University of MN and we stayed in touch through both of our families moving. When my life brought me to southern WI, she did not hesitate to introduce me to her network of arts and cultural professionals that she had built in her time there. She spent time meeting with me and helping me get involved in projects going on in the area. Despite her incredibly busy schedule, she made the effort to carve a great deal of time out for me, and I know she does the same for so many others. She will be greatly missed.
June 9, 2020
June 9, 2020
When Sherry Wagner-Henry was hired as director of the Bolz Center, I was both a member of the advisory board and a candidate for the position. My candidacy lasted until a few minutes into the phone interview when I realized that I was entirely the wrong person for the job: My focus was on the Bolz Center’s past. (I’m confident that Ray Aldag and the other members of the search committee realized it sooner than I did, but they were kind enough not to say so.)

At Sherry’s first meeting with the advisory committee, as I listened to her articulate a vision of the future and practical steps for reaching it, I found myself unable to remain silent. “You really are the right person for this job,” I suddenly blurted out. She was, and she remained so.

A couple of years later, I did become an arts administration educator, taking on leadership of the undergraduate program at UW-Stevens Point. Our relationship broadened and deepened as she helped me, through both advice and example, learn to be a teacher. Our shared time at conferences fed a friendship that grew richer as I joined her on the board of directors of AAAE, our national association, a year ago. When she called me two weeks before her death to share her cancer diagnosis and upbeat expectations, we wound up talking as much about an issue that had been troubling me as we did about her health. As usual, she provided the epiphany I needed.

Sherry Wagner-Henry was a person of intellect and creativity, integrity and compassion. Despite the difference in our ages, she was a mentor and role model, and an extraordinary friend. On every dimension I experienced, Sherry was what a human being should strive to be. I shall miss her terribly.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Sherry is irreplaceable in my universe in so many ways. I will miss her support, advice, and generous spirit. Her spirit will keep living in all the people she touched, the projects she labored to produce, and in the connections she so lovingly fostered I am still in shock and will miss you Sherry.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Sherry invited me to come to the Bolz Center each year to meet with her graduate students. Around those annual connections and in between them, she and I had many opportunities to speak, share, commiserate, and laugh…always, a good laugh (usually more than one). Truly, I have no memory of Sherry that doesn’t envelope me with warmth, joy, encouragement, and compassion. I am grateful for the generosity she exhibited each time we connected. I am grateful for the connection we had, personally and professionally.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
When I first met Sherry I instantly knew I wanted to know her better. There are some people who just invite you in like that, with their genuine warmth and humor and spirit. I remember sitting with her on the sidelines at one of our kids' soccer games, and we talked about parenting and books and travel and we laughed about all kinds of things... and only half paid attention to the game. It was really lovely. I'm heartbroken for the loss of my new friend, and I'm holding Sherry's family, friends, colleagues, and students in my thoughts. Mickey and Zhen, I'm so very sorry.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Sherry was always available and provided Dane County Arts and Cultural Affairs with some wonderful students from the Bolz Program. She was always upbeat and supportive of the many different creative minds and worked tirelessly to build the program. She will be greatly missed.
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Such a tremendous loss and I'm so devastated to hear this news. I had the honor of being a graduate in Sherry's first class at the Bolz Center and she was such an inspiring, smart, kind, funny, creative, and nurturing person. She cared so much for her students and she will be truly missed by all who knew her - and there were so many!
June 7, 2020
June 7, 2020
Sherry was a true colleague who was always thinking of ways to innovate and improve everything that she did. Her students were part of her family and it was an honor to be a part of her arts recruiter event over the last few years. I remember having lunch with Sherry at APAP in NYC at the start of 2020 and the laugher and rich conversation that went way over our intended time. We could not stop talking about her plans for the program, the students and her precious family - she loved them all so fiercely and her passion and joy will truly be missed.
June 7, 2020
June 7, 2020
Sherry was one of the first to welcome me, with open arms, to the field of arts management education. I had been away from academia for quite some time, and Sherry's generosity of spirit, enthusiasm, and deep commitment to the arts and education inspired me.

Thank you, Sherry.
June 6, 2020
June 6, 2020
In my role as ED of the Wisconsin Youth Symphony Orchestras I always looked forward to spending time with Sherry knowing that I would take away some beautiful nugget of valuable information to bring back to my organization. She was so kind, so competent and so generous with her time. What a tragic loss. The loss of her leadership will be deeply felt in our community
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
In thinking about Sherry and her tragic, untimely passing, my first and strongest reaction is that no, this can’t be, I want to see her again and I don’t want her to be gone. I was feeling this was pretty selfish of me, but as I dug down, I realized it was just a reflection of what a lovely, wonderful, and special person Sherry was, and how much she gave to all the communities she was part of.

Sherry was that rare person who could successfully negotiate a career in both the arts and the academy, and do so with a matter-of-fact integrity that made you know you could trust her. She presented the same self no matter where she was or who she was with. That self was super-smart, insightful, and reflective, animated by a clear commitment to inclusivity, fairness, and simply doing the right thing.

Those shouldn’t be rare qualities, but they kind of are. Sherry might claim her virtues were nothing much, but that’s yet another sign of how special she was.

Sherry did so much good work and would have gone on to do more—but there I go, getting selfish again. I knew Sherry as a colleague and friend, and I’m sure the more close you were to her, the more devastating her loss will be.

So it is up to us now, those who knew her, to honor her legacy by working clearly, cleanly, and fairly to bring the arts into people’s lives, and support people’s lives in the arts. Simply doing the right thing isn’t simple at all, but Sherry deserves no less.
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
I didn't know Sherry well, having spent my 4 years at the U of M hiding away in the shop under the direction of her future husband, Mickey. But you couldn't be a student in Rarig and not know her in some capacity. When I look back, I don't pull up specific memories of Sherry, I just see her smile. She was just one of the warmest, most friendly instructors I'd ever known, and everyone loved her. I was thrilled to learn, a few years later, that she and Mickey had married, and I loved watching along via social media connections as their family grew. I'm devastated by the news and heartbroken for her family and dear friends who have lost such a light. She's certainly left her mark on this world.
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
The arts and our broader community have lost a genuine trailblazer. I do not recall one conversation with Sherry that did not make me laugh, think deeply, and appreciate her brilliance. 

There is not one aspect of my own life that will not feel Sherry’s loss. I considered Sherry a colleague both in my professional and community work, a mentor, and a friend. Sherry was not only an ally in my work, but shaped my immediate future; she was the reason I applied to and accepted admissions into the Bolz Center’s new master’s program. My story is not unique when it comes to Sherry’s reach and devotion to community and people.

I was very much looking forward to continuing our work together. As a woman of color, when mentors and advocates are often few, I considered myself lucky to have found in Sherry a life-long advisor and friend. Whether it was working on ID Hub directions, MYAC hiring or talking about life, family and her son Zhen, Sherry was full of life, knowledge, compassion, frankness, and humor. There are not enough words to describe the amazing leader and human we have lost.

Thinking of Sherry, her family, and community. Sherry – I will miss you.

-Ginger
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
Sherry was not only a distinguished and dedicated colleague but a leader in the field of arts management education, a powerful advocate, and a compassionate soul. Many are called; few are chosen.
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
Sherry was a warm and kind human being, and an amazing scholar. I always enjoyed our talks at AAAE conferences and so appreciated her welcoming spirit. As an alumn of the UW-Madison, I was excited to go back home, but under Sherry's leadership, everyone I spoke with felt that this was now their home. Sherry will be deeply missed. 
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
While I did not know Sherry well, every time I met her was memorable and sadly far too brief. As a UW supporter of the department of Art History and the Chazen Museum of Art, every event at which we were both present was an occasion that revealed her enthusiasm, keen intelligence, insightfulness, ability to see the solution to an existing problem that others missed. She will be missed by so many, even by those, like me, who were only slightly in her orbit.
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
Warm, intelligent, insightful..these are just a few words I think of when I think of Sherry. I met her while working on the Any Given Child launch in Madison, and connected again around internships for some of the students she was working with. She always had a welcoming smile and made you at ease, to then have a great conversation about any number of topics. It is so sad to see her light leave, but she lit many candles that will carry on that light. Sending comfort to all of her family and friends.
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
I am devastated by this news. Sherry and I bonded over love of the arts and the business - and joy - of managing arts organizations. She was a lovely, warm, intelligent person, always enthusiastic and always looking for ways to expand and deepen her mission and bring others in. I enjoyed seeing her on my visits to the UW. I will miss her very much.
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February 26
February 26
Today I'm grieving for the loss of Sherry in our world. Thirteen years ago we had a conversation in a Linden Hills cafe that changed the course of my life. I would be so proud to tell her how much goodness, joy, catharsis, relief, and edification has come from taking her advise. Love to all of you sharing this space here in her cherished memory.
October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Thinking of you, my extraordinary girl, and raising a glass in your honor. You are greatly missed.
June 5, 2023
June 5, 2023
Spent the last week in New York, Sherry, at the first in-person Arts Administration Educators conference since the terrific one you put together in Madison a year before you left us. Your name came up — a lot! As several have said here already, the mark you made is indelible.
Her Life
June 4, 2020
Sherry Wagner was born in Tiiskilwa, IL in 1966, the oldest of two girls. She and sister Peggy grew up on a farm, surrounded by a large extended family. Her parents, Pat and Al Wagner, supported her early and unyielding interest in the arts, as she participated in music, dance, debate, and every creative outlet she could find throughout her school years. Upon graduation, Sherry began her lifelong relationship with academia. She attended Illinois State University for a BA in Music Business, a degree, in true Sherry fashion, she created herself. Next was grad school, starting at Columbia University in Chicago until Illinois State University lured her back to be the first ever student in their brand-new arts MBA program. Always one to create innovative new possibilities outside of the box, she curated her MBA to incorporate arts, business, and entrepreneurship. Her self-directed program included a robust study abroad experience in London, where she worked with theatres in London's West End and developed a great fondness for English tea-time. By now, she understood universities to be a fertile ground , for herself and others, to develop ideas, create opportunities, and pursue dreams. Right out of graduate school, she was hired as the Managing Director of University Theatre in the University of Minnesota's award-winning Theatre Arts and Dance Department.  With this dream job secured, she moved to what would become her beloved Minneapolis. 

With the care and ambition of a master gardener, Sherry grew her career, rooted her friendships, and nurtured her family in the Twin Cities. At the UMN-theatre, Sherry had a profound impact on the department and developed many deep and life-long friendships. She mentored dozens of theatre students in the business of the arts, launched arts administration course work, and championed the rebirth of the Minnesota Centennial Showboat as not only a one-of-a-kind professional development opportunity for undergraduate theatre students, but also as a wildly successful arts, business and community development project.  It was here that she met and fell in love with Brent "Mickey" Henry. Sherry and Mickey married on the Showboat on August 30, 2003, forming the legendary Wagner-Henry team. Together, they renovated houses, hosted dinner parties and backyard patio soirees, coordinated bowling outings and created many social engagements that were loads of fun for all who attended.

Community building was one of Sherry’s greatest joys. At work, she continually built connections everywhere- across departments at the university, across the Twin Cities, and across the nation, all to advance excellence in the arts and cultural sector. She was actively engaged with Twin Cities arts organizations, the Association of Arts Administration Educators (AAAE), United States Institute for Theatre Technology (USITT), and The Alliance for the Arts in Research Universities (a2R2), as a board member, trusted advisor, and collaborator. Meanwhile, Sherry and Mickey leapt into parenthood when, in 2007, they welcomed Zhen into their lives. Sherry often said the day Zhen was adopted was the greatest day of her life. The journey to Zhen, and the days thereafter, were full of great adventure, collaboration, and joy. This included welcoming Menga Gao, a bright, engaging college student from China, into their home as part of the family. The Wagner-Henrys started traveling, including stops in Illinois and the West Coast to see family, and overseas with Zhen to explore London and Hong Kong. Always curious to see new places, learn new traditions and make new friends, Sherry’s adventures on-the-road put more miles on her car, points in her frequent flyer account and stamps in her passport.

As family and friendships grew, so did Sherry’s career. In 2009, after eighteen years in the Department of Theatre and Dance, her big ideas took her to the College of Continuing Education as Director of Graduate Studies for the Master of Liberal Studies Program (MLS) at the University of Minnesota. In collaboration with her wonderfully creative staff, Sherry created multiple degree programs for MLS. Most significantly, she helped to create and shepherded the start of the Master of Professional Studies in Arts and Cultural Leadership. This fulfilled a life-long passion she developed since arriving at the university, and met the leadership needs of an increasingly robust Twin Cities arts community. Her work was being noticed by other universities throughout the country, and in 2012, Sherry accepted a new role as the Director of the Bolz Center for Arts Administration in the prestigious UW-Madison School of Business MBA. This new opportunity moved the Wagner-Henry clan to Madison, WI, where Mickey found work as a senior rigger at Electronic Theatre Controls (ETC) and Zhen continued school and developed his love for math, soccer, and gaming.

Life in Madison was demanding and always busy. Sherry led the Bolz Center, the top arts administration program in the United States, to new heights. She continued to develop innovative enhanced educational experiences that always emphasized applied learning, creative placemaking, and connections between creative majors and business students. Always innovating, she pushed the business school to form deeper partnerships locally and nationally, grounded student experiences in current industry trends, and built relationships to garner more resources for her students and program. Sherry’s most recent goal this year was the creation and launch of a brand-new MA in Arts and Creative Enterprise Leadership. She, Mickey and Zhen strove to balance modern life with simple pleasures. Their welcome mat was always out, and the TreeTop Lounge was the place Sherry often found comfort, solace, and joy.

In her work and life, Sherry was a creative visionary with a generous heart. She helped people discover their strengths, hone their talents, and find the confidence to believe in themselves and their dreams. She listened to everyone’s story with sincere interest, and made you feel like you were the only person in the room. She inspired everyone who met her to engage in community building, strive for excellence, and find their purpose in life. She consistently fostered women's leadership, was a fierce advocate for those around her, and would drop everything to help a student, friend, or family-member bring their ideas to life. Sherry possessed a wicked sense of humor, keen intuition, quick wit, razor-sharp intellect, and a disarming smile. She loved her work in the arts, making connections and having deep conversations, drinks and laughs on a patio, and most of all Mickey and Zhen. 

She will forever live in our hearts. She is, and will always be, profoundly missed.   

Recent stories

A story of closure

June 21, 2020
After talking with many of mine and Sherry's friends I realize that many have not had a sense of closure yet. One of the many problems of trying to grieve during this dumpster fire of a year.
I would like to share with you Zhen and my little bit of closure that we got last week, and maybe it will help you. It still f**king sucks but it has helped.
There is a little back story to this as well. About 18 months ago I found a Youtube channel called Ask a Mortician. I highly recommend it if you are curious about what happens after a death and the funeral industry. I learned that you can "create your own adventure" when someone passes. You need to have an idea what you want before you talk to a funeral director so you get your needs met. So when it came time to find a funeral home I already had the idea and then had our friend Mark check my initial research that occured at 5 am the morning of Sherry's passing. This is also most helpful to have a someone help you choose.I knew that direct cremation was the route I wanted to go and that we were going to be present when she was placed into the flames so to speak.
We found Informed Choice funeral home that would arrange such a thing. They work out of the Cress funeral home so they use their facilities. When we met with the funeral director she helped arrange what we wanted and was really kind and helpful. We were told that we had minimum of 10 business days until the cremation could occur. So I thought we had time to get some details ready like clothes and gathering things to be with Sherry when we sent her off.
Well that did not go to plan- so unlike Sherry. I got a text the following Tuesday that the death certificate was in and they could proceed as soon as soon as Thursday morning. A mild panic set in. I did not have clothes picked and the shirt that I thought would be perfect was not going to make it. Thanks for trying Pearl. Stupid Covid delaying shit. I also did not know if I was ready emotionally yet, but Sherry guided my way into saying to just get it done. I then ventured into her closet with Pearl on the phone with me looking for the "right" shirt(s). I hope I picked well. The final choice was a Minnesota shirt and with that a shirt that was mine that she acquired soon after our wedding and had not discarded it. The story behind it, but it can wait. Then to find the "offerings". One was a given and thanks to Gino, she had an extra copy of the commemorative Showboat brochure. While I was looking for said item in the basement storage I found many things but not that (yet) I also found a box that Sherry had packed full of items from our wedding, so many things from that box joined the pile including a piece of her wedding dress. Zhen added a stuffed elephant that Sherry would use as a pillow when she read to him at bedtime. A box of Milkduds that I got her for mothers day this year finished out the pile. This by the way is one of her favorite candies only to be outdone by chocolate covered peanuts.
Thursday morning came and Zhen and I met with the staff at Cress to have a short viewing. Since we did not have her embalmed it could only be immediate family and for a limited time. They had a nicely furnished room with appropriate lighting that allowed us to see her one last time and place the items with her to help her on her way. It was very hard for both of us because any disbelief we had was now gone. We then sat in the room with her and went through pictures that ranged from our most recent trips all of the way back to the first day we met Zhen. This allowed us to place the good memories to the front of the line instead of what happened the night of her death and what we were seeing in front of us. Once we were ready we let the staff know and they moved her into the next room where the retort is located. This room is furnished like the viewing room except on one wall there is the retort. FYI the retort is the cremation machine. The staff opened the retort and allowed Zhen and I to push her in and then to press the start button. I wanted to let you know that we were with her until the very end.
If you have gotten this far, I hope this helps you in some way during these crazy times. We will meet to celebrate her life once we can safely. Especially since we are a group of huggers.
Now she is residing on the counter next to the coffee machine, which she would hate since she hated clutter on the counters. Too Bad Sherry- you shouldn't have left us.
Peace to all of you and thank you for all of the support we have received.

Arts administation soul mate & beautiful friend

June 6, 2020
I first met Sherry Wagner at University Theatre at the U of MN. After a career as a K-12 arts educator, I was ready to get my master’s degree & felt arts administration was the path. I found the program- Master of Liberal Studies- and now I just needed an accompanying teaching assistantship. Found it at University Theatre, and had arranged a meeting with Sherry. So I dressed up in my business best and showed up at her doorstep. She was busy, so it took about 2 hrs to get some time with her. I became aware that I needed to get approvals from the university, acceptance from the MLS program, and still compete with other candidates to be considered. Competition? Bring it on. So I spent about three weeks checking in with Sherry- emailing her, showing up at her doorstep, and filling her in as I checked all the boxes I needed to become her teaching assistant (TA). She was positive the whole time while making it very clear what needed to be done. In the end, I became her TA, without understanding how this would become one of the best friendships in my life.

In our friendship, we discovered a connection in the shared values, interests, sense of humor, honesty, and admiration for each other. Sameness and difference that blended together with trust, love, acceptance and forgiveness. She brought so much joy and understanding to my life. In our more recent years, she was always wise, generous and intuitive. These three values were the rocks I leaned on for support. I tried my darndest to reciprocate, attempting to give back to a woman so self-sufficient and independent, who always saw her role as the one to help me out and make my life better. 

Courage has always been hard to find, and once that space is found, difficult to occupy. Sherry always helped me find a way to that space. So now, I step in and stay. There is still work to be done for the dreamers and doers, friends to love, support to be given, truths to be told, forgiveness to bestow. Our teamwork with continue. Sherry and I will always be there for each other, just in a different way.

Oh my girl, my beautiful friend who is gone too soon from this earth. There are many dreams left to transform into realities, trips to take, visits to make, patios to takeover, laughs to share, silliness to create and smiles to light up our days together. I promise to keep sharing these moments with your girls, with the women leaders you nurtured and invested in, with the man of your dreams, with your beloved son, and with the friends and colleagues your life touched. Your legacy will carry forward in our work and our lives. Oh my friend, how I love and miss you so.

June 5, 2020
Sherry, my friend, I was so shocked to hear that you had left us, especially at a time when we need a spirit like yours so desperately.  When I met you shortly after you joined the Bolz Center, we realized we also had many connections in MN.  Francois connected us because he knew we shared a passion for the arts and a desire to help arts organizations and artists become more successful and sustainable through effective business training and practices.  We tried to meet over lunch or dinner whenever I came to Madison and had long chats about helping arts organization boards be more effective and helping artists become better business managers.  And then you took those ideas and ran with them, creating and selling amazing programs.  Thank you for the huge impact you have had and the legacy you have left.  You are and will continue to be missed.

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