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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Shirley Ann Hunter, 79, born on April 28, 1934 and passed away on December 5, 2013. "Mom forever in our hearts you will be!" Scott, Peggy, Steve and Amy

I know how much you all loved her~  what an honor it will be to celebrate her beautiful life and her lovely soul.

Shirley Hunter Memorial
Thursday, January 9 6:00 pm

University Synagogue - Center for Spirtual Living
3400 Michelson Drive, Irvine CA 92642

Kris Shelton will be singing along with the Center band some of Shirley's favorite songs.

Shirley Hunter loved potlucks! We encourage you to bring a dish to share, enough for 5 people.

Please contact Patty Turrell who will be coordinating the food.

pturrell@cslnm.org or call 714-754-7399

December 6, 2023
December 6, 2023
Dear Shirley:
I was just re-living all the wonderful times we spent together. Feeling a little hole in heart from missing you. I miss you so much and my heart is hurting a little. At the same time, I know that you are watching over all of us and whispering in our ears to keep on living life in our highest purpose and that we will meet again one day in a dimension beyond our imagination.....Love you so Much! from Anna and Roger. we are doing well living in the Northwest part of Washington, not a lot of snow but lots of rain. Bless you my dear!
December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Hello Mom, it’s been awhile. A lot has changed and been learned. I know you are happy and well. I wish you the best, until we meet again may you continue to be in peace, love and joy. You deserve it! Sorry you went through so much. Amy❤️
May 10, 2021
May 10, 2021
Happy Mother’s Day my Love! I sure do miss you and know your looking after us...I can feel it...and really appreciate it

April 28, 2021
April 28, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom! We all miss you and love you very much❤️
December 6, 2019
December 6, 2019
Today is the 6th year without mom/grandma. I had the honor of being there to help her transition and remember it like it happened yesterday. I miss her deeply.❤️

Also today, I had the comfort of this beautiful humming bird in my backyard. I know the pictures do not capture the brilliant red shinny color as the sun reflected off it’s feathers, but it was absolutely gorgeous and reminded me of her. Red was her favorite color too! 

It was also the loudest “humming” bird I have ever heard, my Mom was not the silent type either. The best part, it stayed in the backyard humming around for a couple of hours. And then when I moved to the garage to work, I occasionally heard it out front as well but was not fast enough to capture it on video.

My heart was filled with love and I felt comforted watching and listening to this magnificent creature and I’m very grateful for that opportunity. I love you Mom❤️
December 5, 2019
December 5, 2019
Roger and I were just remembering Shirley's Love and Spirit last week. Shirley you will be forever missed in our hearts!!
April 28, 2018
April 28, 2018
Hi mom,
Happy 84th birthday to you today. I will celebrate your birthday tonight with a double shot of Johnny Walker Black Label with 3 ice cubes and a twist of lemon. Just how you like them. Wish you were here to drink it with me. Oh yeah you are! Your spirit is anyways. I'll see you tonite.

Mom, I love and miss you very much and even though we had many disagreements in our lives I still love you and wish you were still alive to have them with me,

Cheers and Happy Birthday

Love you,
Your son Steve
April 28, 2018
April 28, 2018
Happy Birthday Mom! I love you❤️
December 5, 2017
December 5, 2017
I can't believe it's been 4 years and it still feels like yesterday. I miss you Mom and think of you often, especially around Christmas. This was your favorite holiday. I know you are around because not only can I hear you sometimes in my heart but since you have passed I think your art of cooking is in me. All I have to do is ask myself what you would do and bam all the ingredients I've never really used just come together. Thank you for your gifts~All My Love Amy
April 28, 2017
April 28, 2017
Dear Shirley,
At the change of seasons, I think of you and the wonderful Prayers that you wrote for our Center's Services. You always gave beautiful tributes to the beauty and abundance provided by Mother Nature. And now you are truly One with Her and all that Is! Hover near, we need You! with Eternal Love, Amorra
April 28, 2017
April 28, 2017
Happy Birthday Mom! You are in my thoughts and dreams. You will be forever missed!
December 6, 2016
December 6, 2016
Miss and Love You very much!❤️
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
ice cream spoons

I think of you every time I use them!
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
Think about you often, Shirley. I will always remember our trip to Santa Fe, New Mexico.
April 29, 2016
April 29, 2016
Hi Shirley, I think of you so often, especially regarding my landlord duties & responsibilities. You had so much earthly wisdom, powered by a great love for humanity. Thanks for hovering around - I feel your kindness, and I'm grateful you're in bliss - with no physical pain. With eternal Love and Gratitude, Amorra
April 28, 2016
April 28, 2016
Happy Birthday Mom! We love and miss you very much. I know you are watching over us and one day we will be together again. Much Love
December 6, 2015
December 6, 2015
Another black label rocks. I can do that. Wish you were still around mom, Merry Christmas
Love Steve
December 5, 2015
December 5, 2015
Merry Chistmas Mom! Love you and Miss you very much❤️
April 29, 2015
April 29, 2015
Happy 81st mom. Had another JW black on the rocks with a twist of lemon with you tonight for your birthday. Wish you were around in person, I do feel your spirit around with me all the time.
Love you very much
Steve
April 28, 2015
April 28, 2015
Happy Birthday Day Grandma...We Miss you and Love You! Hunter, Emma and Abby!
April 28, 2015
April 28, 2015
Happy Birthday Mom! I have thought about you all day and I miss you so much! I wish you were still here! The girls are good and Emma really misses you and the Grammy nights over. Hunter is getting ready for college, we visited it today and had lunch after. What a reality check. Wow Mom where has the time gone? I miss you and being able to tell you all about the kids...

I will forever love you and keep you alive in my family...I wish we had more time but I am honored I was there for you in the end. Happy Birthday Mom ~ Forever Missed & Always In My Heart! Amy
December 5, 2014
December 5, 2014
Hi mom
I just wanted to say on the eve of the first year of your passing that I love you very much and I miss you tremendously. It's been so hard this last year without you. I find myself at times starting to drive to your house to tell you something about my day, then realize your not there anymore. Our wanting to call you just to say hi. I miss you a lot mom and tomorrow night I'm going to have a drink of your favorite scotch with a twist of lemon (Johnny Walker Black Lable) oh I'll make it a double !! Don't worry mom I won't drink it until after 5:00 p.m.
Cheers to you mom. Love you.
Steve
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
Only today in an online search for you dear Shirley, did I find that you had left us. I am so sorry that I hadn't been in more recent touch and no one contacted me re your passing. Today I came across a note you had writen to me in a journal you gave me when I moved. You still are one of my dearest friends and I remember so many fun times at your house at the pool. Your laughter remains in my heart.
April 28, 2014
April 28, 2014
potluck in the spheres tonight! see you there in my dreams, dear friend. oh, what fun we'll have. xox Beth
April 28, 2014
April 28, 2014
Dearest Shirl,
Knowing you for the last year of your time with us was a sheer and on-going Blessing. All things good...All things Bright and Beautiful...Life and Light and Love, Warmth and Cheer, Compassion, and Delight, all of these qualities and more are affirmed by your very essence, by your presence, your very Being. Thank you from the very depths of my heart for being my friend, sharing little visits in your wonderful home...created by you to accommodate all of those you loved and who loved you, a space that radiated the Brilliance of your Heart. Love you, Shirl...always.
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Shirl,
You've not been gone a minute from my heart and mind. Each time I drive in the direction of your delightful home, filled with the color and the magnificent Life in you and all around you...I remember our talks on the couch with the 2 precious ones smashed up against our legs.
I was fortunate to spend a fine amount of chat time with you over the last almost 2 years. It came to be partially because of meeting you at Jim's little church at Mesa Verde back in the 90's. Your beauty and sparkle and embrace for everything and anything always stayed with me. How fortunate I have been to have the time I did with you before you left this dimension. You will never be gone, you are there in your brightness with just a thought. I love you. Always, Donna
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Shirl,
The sunset tonight was just like you - brillant, joyful, expansive and filled with the love of the Universe! Thanks for gracing us with your friendship on this human journey. Your laughter, wisdom and love live on in all of us. With much love, Jane and Jean-Pierre
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Grandma,

I have so many amazing memories of you from so long ago all the way up to the day you passed. Memories I will never forget like you taking me and my brothers to the beach in that old Honda and I don't know how but every time id get sun screen in my eyes and you were always there the help me wash them out. Or going to your preschool and being apart of your class for the day. Or going to the movies and watching you argue with the lady at the window for every discount you could possibly get, then falling asleep in the first 15 minutes lol. I love you so much grandma you are such an amazing person to everyone you come across. You have such a huge heart and care about everyone. I hope one day I can be 10% as amazing as you are. I am so happy you were able to attend Brittney and my wedding, a day I will never forget and was so much better that you were there with a huge smile the whole time, not to mention that epic speech :) You will live forever in my heart I couldn't have asked for a better grandma.

                     Love always & forever,
                         Evan Hunter
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Shirley,

Thank you for the love and kindness you always showed me. You are the most amazing mother and grandmother to such a beautiful family and I am so blessed to be apart of it. You are such a strong person and you taught me so much. I will always cherish the memories and time I got to spend with you. I will never forget when we watched Hysteria together and all of the wisdom you shared with me on my journey to becoming a teacher. Right before I walked down the aisle at my wedding tears of joy came streaming down my face and you gave me your handkerchief and you told me it was "something borrowed something blue." That was so special to me and it meant more to me than you know.Thank you for everything Shirley Hunter you are missed more and more with each passing day. I love you so much Grandma Shirley!

Love,
Brittney
January 9, 2014
January 9, 2014
Sweet Sweet Shirley, I will miss your sweet reassurance and love that just emanated from your essence. You have always been there when I needed assistance with the Jr Church and sharing your home with us. Your caring and concern for my family is so appreciated. You made such a positive impact in our church and in my life. Thank you.
January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
Shirley,

I am so lucky to have met you and you have left such an impact on me. You are so strong and invincible. I will miss you dearly and cherish the 4 years I got to have with you. I promise to love and cherish this beautiful family you have made and built.I will miss you dearly.

Love you always,

Deanna Hunter
January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
Dear, Sweet Shirley...you have been the face of the Center since I've been there. I will think of you always with much respect and love. You are a wonderful example for me of how to be a no-nonsense but still loving person.
January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
Grams..
You were the best Grandma a guy could ask for! So strong and positive. I learned so much from you. Ill always carry you in my thoughts and heart. I love you so much! Until the day we meet again..

..<3 Your Grandson, Dylan
January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
When I think of Shirley, I think about the love and compassion she had for other people.
I met Shirley at the Center for Spiritual Living – we had an immediate connection. Our friendship grew when we started a monthly group “tea party” of ladies connecting together with tea, food, support and wisdom. We could always count on Shirley to go over her allotted time of sharing – she loved to share her wisdom and knowledge.
Right after I met Roger, my future husband. Shirley hosted a small group from the church. This was another potluck event and a means to meet and grow together spiritually with other members of the church community. Roger and I had just started to date. Shirley (and few other members of the group) tried very hard to not have Roger and I sit together; but it was an impossible task. Roger and I were meant to be together.
At our wedding Shirley created and read a beautiful prayer – another wonderful gift she had. She could pray and her prayers were superb. She was a part of our wedding from the day we started planning it. She would help in any capacity she could, including hosting our rehearsal dinner (because she loved having parties in her home). If her walls could talk there would be many, many memories and stories.
I remember the Oscar’s every year at Shirley’s – her annual 4th of July party – hosting book clubs, card playing groups, - she did not need an excuse for a party – she just loved having people in her home. Her home was one to share and experience. 
Shirley – you are missed. It’s still sinking in that you are really gone. I know your beautiful spirit lives on in another dimension. Where ever you are I know you are hosting a party or reciting a beautiful self-written prayer or sharing your wonderful wisdom about life and any other category that is being discussed at the moment. Enjoy!
January 8, 2014
January 8, 2014
Grandma:
Thanks for the stories and the talks. You helped shape me to who I am today. I'm proud to be involved in education, as you were so proud of that. My favorite memory of us is being able to share a very special dance with you on my wedding. Thank you so much for that. You will never be forgotten. Lots of love

Your grandson, Nate
January 7, 2014
January 7, 2014
My dear friend and neighbor for six years! You were the best neighbor and friend one could have. You were my sounding board at a time in my life where I needed straight talk and an unbiased opinion. We laughed and cried! Your love of family and God was evident in everything you did. We shared many recipes, meals, and celebrations! Thank you Shirley! I love and miss you! Jeannie
January 7, 2014
January 7, 2014
I hardly knew Shirley. The little I know is an unusual drive to generosity, as she graciously opened her house and her refrigerator to a monthly meeting of friends who talked about deep political and spiritual issues. May she rest in peace and receive an abundance of thoughts of gratitude from those she touched.

Love,
January 6, 2014
January 6, 2014
My dear precious friend Shirley…what a special amazing wise loving friend. You have added so much to my life – your heart so generous your spirit so huge! Your readiness to always be there and have FUN !! Your wonderful inspiring prayers…I appreciate and value all that you are and all that we shared. Your opening your home for my class was so wonderful and meaningful…and definitely the perfect place with your energy and love all around. I do hear you advising me… and your wisdom shining through. You are but a love thought away and always here in my heart. Thank you for all our special moments in time I know we will meet again. In the meantime I see your freedom and wings and dancing in the light of Spirit with your beautiful smile and laughter ringing clear. Your kindness and clarity and knowing yourself so well ….and our first lunch together and opening your heart to me. How precious you and know all is well and your babies are being well loved up and taken care of Shirley style!!! Blessings to you always my dear friend.
January 6, 2014
January 6, 2014
I have sat here to write many times. I have called many times- it is final now. Today is the day I honor my mother-in-law. Today is the day I shout out loud how much I love her. Today is the day I will tell the world about her love, ability to see things clearly, her open arms and her desire to keep the FAMILY. She always gave me much needed advice. She showed so much pride for my sons and my growing family. She was not really my mother-in-law but I was her included daughter. We shared many cups of tea and I cherish all our talks. She was always there for me. " My Angel: My heart is full of memories with pride I speak your name. Though life goes on without you it will never be the same." I now look to the heavens for advice and I am sure God is getting some from her now! She was determined, assertive, loving, caring and kind. She will remain in my heart for ever. She taught me not to "sweat the small stuff" and to always look for the good! I am so happy to have had her in my life. I feel that she is at a better place - no more pain - no more suffering.
Peace I leave with you. My peace I give into you. Not as the world giveth give I unto you. Let your heart not be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
John 14:27
I will miss you Shirley - mom - you will live in my heart until I meet with you again.
January 4, 2014
January 4, 2014
Dear Shirley: What a wonderful friendship we had! We did so much together: traveling, cooking, reading, dancing, attending every symphony, ballet and drama that we could and in the process learning, laughing, living and loving.  I miss you now and always will
January 4, 2014
January 4, 2014
You left us too quickly Shirley Ann. We didn't have enough time to say
a proper goodbye or to try to accept it. We'll miss you a lot. God Bless.
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
Shirley was one of the first people I met at church and I loved her instantly. She generously donated her house for the "tables of eight" and I got to know her better. Shirley was a bright shining light you could see the love eminate from her being. I remember talking about when she left this body at her service she wanted to have "What a Wonderful World" performed. And in our world it was wonderful because of Shirley.
January 2, 2014
January 2, 2014
There are so many, many things I admired about you, my friend..... Strength. Sparkle. Clear intention. Big, big love for everyone. A great laugh. An amazing hugger. An ear tuned to the heart. Always pointed in a positive direction. Grateful. Enthusiastic. Willing. Serving while smiling. Always sharing spirit and soul and the very best of yourself.
The kind of woman I aspire to be, but rarely get it as right as you have, Shirley. Let's visit in dreams and prayers and every time I look at a rose or a cloud or a tree.
January 2, 2014
January 2, 2014
I still can ‘t believe it Shirley You have ever Gone to be with the Divine~All the lIfe You have shared with so many with Your Honest and Wise Words, Your infectious Smile and Your generous nature – You Shirley shower Love to All! I will always remember the Lettuce plant You brought to the Center office – Just because! Your Kindness enveloped for You quite a following of Shirley Lovers! I am definitely One of the Many!  Gone to soon – Whatever You call the Divine know “It” is both Universal and Local – You shared with Me when My Brother was in “confusion” a true story of Life – You shared a book about War and the Soul. I shared it with Him and You lead Him to find a new search for His own Soul- and We would talk about You during our visits – He referred to You as that Wise Woman – that’s how I will always hold You in My memories – that Wise Woman with the New Purse! I Love You Shirley! Colleen
January 1, 2014
January 1, 2014
I was so privileged to have met you and your babies Sophie and Buster :)you were all so sweet. I was so grateful that you trusted me for caring for those 2 beautiful creatures. You were always the kindest lady.
January 1, 2014
January 1, 2014
Dearest Shirley, I will miss your warm and welcoming hugs when I visit the Center. Each time you did a treatment for me, I felt your care and understanding. You were and are the personification of love and kindness. We love you still! Sorry I am out of the country and will miss your service but send love to your fortunate family.
December 31, 2013
December 31, 2013
Shirley,
I will miss you a lot. You helped in my journey with Religious Science as a practitioner and were just a good friend. You were always positive and upbeat and your smile was very welcoming to me. Love you lots
December 31, 2013
December 31, 2013
My Dear friend Shirley......so many wonderful years, memories and laughs shared together as fellow Practitioners at the Center for Spiritual Living!!.....You and I were real comrades in SOM classes doing treatments for each other and laughing and crying through the demonstrations of our prayer work. You were a trooper on our various retreats never pulling the age card but being fully present and participating in the glory of your bright consciousness and spunky personality. We had a special bond that is hard to put in words but we truly enjoyed our Soul connection. I can never help but smile when I think of you. You brought a spirit of enthusiasm to whatever you were doing and I still sense that now . With some tears I will say that I miss you but I am feeling your joy and enthusiasm as I type so I know that all is well with you and that we will surely stay connected in Spirit.
Blessings to all of Shirley's family that she loved and spoke of so affectionately through the years.
Mary Hardesty Clayton
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December 6, 2023
December 6, 2023
Dear Shirley:
I was just re-living all the wonderful times we spent together. Feeling a little hole in heart from missing you. I miss you so much and my heart is hurting a little. At the same time, I know that you are watching over all of us and whispering in our ears to keep on living life in our highest purpose and that we will meet again one day in a dimension beyond our imagination.....Love you so Much! from Anna and Roger. we are doing well living in the Northwest part of Washington, not a lot of snow but lots of rain. Bless you my dear!
December 5, 2023
December 5, 2023
Hello Mom, it’s been awhile. A lot has changed and been learned. I know you are happy and well. I wish you the best, until we meet again may you continue to be in peace, love and joy. You deserve it! Sorry you went through so much. Amy❤️
May 10, 2021
May 10, 2021
Happy Mother’s Day my Love! I sure do miss you and know your looking after us...I can feel it...and really appreciate it

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January 14, 2014

I am Sally Beelner and Shirley was my friend. I do not use that word loosely.  A friend is one who guides you, supports you, laughs at your stories, even if they are not funny and does not allow you to indulge in too much self pity. A friend pushes you to be better than you are.  Sharing boxed wine, day old bread and cheese with a friend becomes a feast.  Yes, Shirley was my friend.

I met shirley at the bridge table.  Shirley, a proper, older woman was a fierce competitor and would always stand her ground.  We would battle eachother over the meaning of cue bids, weak twos and short clubs.  I I misplayed, in her eyes, she would go stone cold.  I am a better bridge player because of Shirley.

For the past five years, Shirley and I went to the Mark Taper Forum-season ticket holders, in the nose bleed section.  We'd either pack a picnic lunch, which always included red wine and dark chocolate-need to get our antioxidents you know.  Or we'd hit Phillip's for a French dip sandwich, beer and 10c coffee.  It was a sad day when the price wet to 35c. We would talk about god, with a small g, politics, books we had read and of course our grandchildren.

Mother Teresa said it best:
Take time to think
take time to pray
take time to laugh

It is the source of power
It is the greatest power on earth
It is the music of the soul.

Take time to play
Take time to love and be loved
Take time to give

It is the secret of perpetual youth
It is God's given privilege
It is too short a day to be shelfish

Take time to read
Take time to be friendly
Take time to work

It is the fountain of wisdom
It is the road to happiness
It is the price of success

Take time to do charity
It is the key to heaven

I read this every day and I cannot help but think of my friend Shirley


January 9, 2014

From my years of working with Shirley as the President of the Arthritis Foundation Orange County Auxiliary and a board member of the Orange County Advisory Board, she was not only a selfless, loyal and dedicated philanthropist but also a great friend.

Shirley was always dedicated to the mission of the Arthritis Foundation and made it her daily passion to raise money to help the children who suffer with arthritis but always make in impact in the community through money raised for research and programs.

Her absence will create a great gap but her memories will remain strong. At the last auxiliary meeting, I remembered Shirley setting up her home beautifully for us to enjoy lunch, catch up and share the progress of the Foundation. Before we started, Shirley held the flag up high and waved it in the air as we did the pledge of allegiance. And at the last Arthritis Foundation juvenile arthritis conference, 1,250 people came from 42 states. The theme was super hero and Shirley arrived as her super hero, wearing a Dr. Seuss hat because she wanted the children to be happy.

Shirley, we will miss you dearly. Your smile and laugh will be everlasting.

 

Friends

January 8, 2014

For me, my memories are about what great friends, both Shirley and Bob, together and separately, were to my parents, Jules & Helen.  When we count our lifetime friends, there are a few that last through all the trials and tribulations of life.  They all kept in contact, even into the elder years. When a major event occurred or they need to touch base, as life changed they talked and supported each other.  Even when life was tough for me, Shirley and Bob were there to care and with understanding.  We miss them, but remember the laughs and wonderful times they had with their friends.

Shirley had a twinkle in her eyes and a smile that would not quit.  Our condolences to all of her children and grandchildren.  She will live on in spirit with all of you.

Pam Gage Ferguson

 

 

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