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April 19
April 19
Happy Birthday Ma
I think of you and miss you every day. Please keep watching over all of US. Especially Carol, Madison and Christopher. Make sure you remind Dad that he's supposed to help me win Big at Bingo. I hope you are all together
Love You
Robin
January 12
January 12
Hi Mama
As you know I had a hard time to get here, computers stinks. I know you have been watching over your Great Granddaughter and you see how smart and gifted she is, just like me :) she takes after Christopher ( the smarts ) she;s doing real well in school, at least that's what she says Ha Ha, the lady that live at the circle is a phycologist and she told Jim she's a very special girl and not because she his granddaughter either and she does have sympathy, empathy, willing to help anyone out if they need it without being asked, she's has many friends and loves doing things when asked I am so proud of her and Christopher your favorite and she'd be your favorite too. well I think about you often and wonder what you dad Wanda and Gary are doing. so tell them to take care and Guide and Guard her watch over her, protect her from the evil, hate. violence let her have a Healthy Happy successful life. Happy 88th Birthday .
Love You and Miss You Always
Carol
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January 12
January 12
Hi Ma
I hope you're doing well and are all together again with Dad, Wanda and Gary. I miss and think of you every day. Everyone needs to look over all of us especially Carol and Madison also Sandy and make sure Christopher's surgery goes well. I hope you are all together and that Dad is Happy Now and pain free.
Love and Miss all of You
Can you or anyone give me a sign that you are with me
LOVE
Robin ❤️
April 19, 2023
April 19, 2023
Happy Birthday !!!!!
I'm sure you're happy to see Dad and Wanda and I'm hoping they're Happy tp Be with everyone that has passed! Thank You for Looking after Madison. Jim, Robin , Christopher and Sandy !!! and now that Wanda and Dad is with you, you can watch over us and all the family that's left, Please and Guide and Guard Madison thru her journey thru live May she has have a healthy happy relation with Christopher Nicole Gabby and Givanni. I really miss and think of you guys all the time but you know that already. and Baby Beckett is well also !!1!! Thank You ;) I could lose more weight and it would be extremely nice if I get to meet and talk to Dolly Parton what a dream that would be !!!!!!!
Love You Always and Forever and all the rest of the Family with You, Until We Meet Again on God's Golden Shore Know You All are Loved and Have Faith I know I Do.
Love You Aways and Forever
Carol
April 19, 2023
April 19, 2023
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Ma   . Miss you everyday. Please continue to look over all of Us especially Madison Carol, and Christopher.
Hope Dad is there with you , Gary and Wanda
Love You
Robin
January 12, 2023
January 12, 2023
Hi Ma
It's been 19 yrs and it doesn't seem it, I miss you always everyday but you know that, dads cancer has grown further in his spine and he's hurting. Robin will be going for surgery on the 17th so keep an eye on her, I hope I can help her maybe she'll come and stay with me until she feels good enough to go home. Sandy isn't doing good she's hurting all the time, she can't even go out for lunch, hopefully they'll get the right mix in her meds so she can return to somewhat normal, we'll never be normal but to a place where we can live a life, Baby Beckett is getting better and please watch over him and let him grow stronger everyday. Most of all Please take care of Madison she's a very smart and intelligent thoughtful girl, she helps everyone who needs help without asking Please Guide and Guard and watch 0ver her, keep Jim Healthy also and Happy, I pray every night for Health, Happiness and a Wonderful relationship with Chris. Bless them all. I wish you were here, but this is the closest I can get besides praying to you. Love You Always Carol
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
Happy Birthday Ma !!!!
You would be 87 today and I wish you were here for them all. Please take care of Madison, you would be soooo proud of her she's such a intelligent girl that has sympathy ,cares about all people I don't have to tell you because you see her and watch over her . please guide her thru her live and keep her healthy , Happy and with her daddy they get along really good . she's an angel I tell her all the time not to change and stay like she is, she's not afraid of anyone because daddy showed her how to punch LOL! and I hear it's a good one at that. please watch over Madison, Chris, Robin, Wanda, and sandy and dad although I don't talk to him. I miss you always I think of all the times we had together happy and sad, I just keep those memories in my brain.
Love You Always and Forever
Carol 
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
HI SHIRLEY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! PLEASE KEEP WATCHING OVER US ALL.MISS U WISH U WHERE HERE KNOW U ARE WATCHING US ALL LOVE SANDY
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA.
I miss you and think of you everyday.
IWe need you to do everything you can to have Christopher to get Madison 5 days a week .That's what Madison wants and she needs to be with Christopher so that she will have a stable life and also be Happy. You need to continue looking over all of us especially Madison ,Carol Christopher and father
LOVE YOU ALWAYS  ♥
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
Hi Ma
everyday I think about you and I know you're looking down on us, Please take care of Madison and keep her away from dangers, temptations , hate, have her figure out difficult situations and objects, and do well in school, guide and guard herlead her down the right path and don't let people take her advantage of her caring ways. she's very smart and will do anything to help people, she is a very special girl she's the light of my life!!!! as you know. as for me it's been a hard road hopefully it's nearing the end but I'll deal with anything that is put to me. Love You So Much btu I know you're here
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
HI SHIRLEY WE ALL MISS U PLEASE WATCH OVER ALL OF US AND CAROL AND MADISON HOPE CHRIS GETS HER WHEN THAY GO TO COURT WE ALL KNOW U ARE WATCHING US ALL LOVE SANDY
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
Hi Ma,
I miss you everyday. We need you to continue to look over all of Us Especially Madison and Carol.
You need to make father realize that he has to come back home with his family. Also please do everything you can to see that Christopher gets Madison 5 days a week and that Madison is Happy and Healthy and has no worries.
LOVE And MISS YOu
Love
Robin
April 22, 2021
April 22, 2021
HI Shirley happy birthday.we all think of u often. help things go good for Madison. also make fred come home where he should be. please watch over us all.LOVE AND MISS YOU.
April 19, 2021
April 19, 2021
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Ma !!❤️❤️
I Love you and miss you. I think of you everyday. You Need to watch over Christopher,Carol ,Dad and Especially Madison. She needs to be with Christopher full time and make sure that she is Happy and has no worries. Also you need to make father come home where he belongs. Please continue to watch over all of us . The main concern right now is Madison. Love You and miss you always.
Robin
April 19, 2021
April 19, 2021
Happy Birthday Ma,
I love you and miss you all the time , we became best friends and I'll treasure all the moments we shared , Please watch over Madison and protect her , guide her and let her be free of any hurt she my encounter. I pray that she stays with the ones she loves and really loves her. I know your with all of us and are protecting us keep us safe , and it wouldn't hurt if you could take some of my weight of me, Make dad smarten up and leave the Bimbo, Have a Wonderful Birthday Love you Always and Forever
Lots of Love and Hugs
Carol
January 13, 2021
January 13, 2021
Hi Ma
I miss you everyday. It's been 17 years it seems like so much longer. Please keep watching over all of US especially Madison and Carol. Also try to work on having Dad come back home for good
Love You and miss You Always
Robin
January 13, 2021
January 13, 2021
hi shirley its been 17 years it seems longer. hope u are resting in peace. we all miss u. please watch over all of us miss and love u !!!!
January 12, 2021
January 12, 2021
Hi Ma,
It's been 17 years and feels like a life time ago , I know you're watching over us all and especially Look over Madison she's such a funny little girl and comes out with things you have to laugh at even if you shouldn't but you already know that. Chris is doing good he's all grown up and has a nice girlfriend her name is Nicole and she has a son Givanni and a daughter Gabby/ I think about you everyday and remember all the time we laughed and cry together and I really miss you. Please keep an eye on us all and protect us.
Love and Miss You Always and Forever in my Heart ;}
Carol
April 19, 2020
April 19, 2020
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA !!!!!!
I think about you a lot especially now. The world is going crazy and I know you know that already!! the sickness and death is really bad , it'e even worst with the president that we have now, he thinks he's Hitler he only like the people that does what he wants your his best friend. if you don't you're a piece of crap. So we're hunched down and eating all the time people when they see me roll down to meet them won't know who I am , they'll think I"m a weeble !!! well I need you to take great care of Madison thru out her life, she's a very smart ,caring and funny girl. I love you sooo! much and I lost you to early, I know your're always with me so keep up the good work.
Lots of Hugs and Love
Carol


April 19, 2020
April 19, 2020
Happy Birthday always miss u. please watch over all of us with this virus going on. Robin takes good care of Fred. Also helps us all.  love and miss u Happy Birthday
April 19, 2020
April 19, 2020
HAPPY BIRTHDAY !! I Miss You Everyday.Please continue to watch over allow of us Especially with this Coronavirus. Also set Dad in the right direction. Make sure to Especially watch over Carol and Madison
Love You and Miss You
Robin
January 12, 2020
January 12, 2020
its been 16 years miss u.but i know u are watching over all of us.Miss and love u sandy
April 19, 2019
April 19, 2019
Hi Ma
As you know I"ve been trying to get on all day and @ 9:30 I finally am here to tell you I love you and think about you all the time. Thank you for looking over the whole family, especially Madison, Mark, Robin and wanda because she's so far away. I know you're looking over me that;s for sure and please keep on doing it because I'd love to watch Madison grow and become whatever she dreams to be. Did you like the flowers I got those because Madison would of got you those because she loves glitter and all different colors. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA I Love You
Always and Forever
April 19, 2019
April 19, 2019
Happy Birthday! up in heaven we all miss u. thinking of u very often. i know u are watching over us all. love ya sandy
January 13, 2019
January 13, 2019
Thinking of you Gram... miss you and as you know think of you often... thanks for watching over us. Love ya!
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
Hi Ma
Miss you and think of you everyday.Miss ttaking you to Bingo. Me Carol Sandy and Margie are going to Bingo tonight and we are going to play a card for you hopefully you can help us win. Please keep watching over all of us
Love
Robin
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
Hi Gram,
I Miss you and think about you all the time. I wish you were here so I could come over and share all the funny stories about the little rat bastards I work with in the schools because I know we would laugh so much! I know you’re with me every day and with Brynne too. I know I was right to name her after you because she is just as feisty, caring and memorable as you are. Love you so much always. Love Cally
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
its been long time miss u so much.keep watching over us all,think of u often wishing u where here but know u can hear me love ya sandy
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
Hi Ma
I know it's been a long time since you left but I think of you everyday . I miss and love you forever and the advice you gave me when I needed it whether I wanted it or not . LOL I miss the walks and going out for lunch for you to get lobster rolls or some kind of fish. the memories and the friends we became not everyone has in a lifetime . I love you ma and miss you to. when Madison does things I just think of how much you would love her, I know you're looking down at her laughing Please keep her safe and guide her through her life so she can be herself and be Happy , Healthy and Wise.
I Love You
Carol
April 20, 2018
April 20, 2018
HI MA
Happy 83rd Birthday !!!! I thought I sent it but I must of not hit the send button. Miss you every day. Please continue to watch over us especially Madison. Love You Always and Miss You.
April 19, 2018
April 19, 2018
Hi Ma
Thought about you all day long it's been such a relief knowing your always watching over me. Please take care of Madison and guide her in the right direction and help her in everyway you can. she is such a great little girl and as you can see funny too, Please protect her, then if you have time you can always help the rest of us HAPPY 83rd BIRTHDAY
Love You Always and Forever
Carol
April 19, 2018
April 19, 2018
Happy Birthday!!! Hope u are watching over everyone love and miss u xoxo
January 14, 2018
January 14, 2018
Hi MA
Miss you and Think of you every day. You need to keep watching over all of us . Especially Madison.
Love You
January 13, 2018
January 13, 2018
Love and miss you more each day. Papo was telling the story to a friend yesterday of when you first met him and said give me a hug you big ape, we laughed so much. Xoxo
January 13, 2018
January 13, 2018
thinking of u always. its been 14 years don 't seem it. miss u wish u where here to help me with advise. i know u watch over us all.love u always
January 12, 2018
January 12, 2018
Hey Gram, hard to believe it’s been 14 years... I know your listening when I talk to you and thanks for watching over my boys and for sending your messages... Hope you and Nana visit often with each other.. I bet you’ve said “told you so” many times over when it comes to me... you were right about so many things wish I had you here for more of your wisdom and no bull crap advice!! Love ya
January 12, 2018
January 12, 2018
Hi Ma
I feel like you haven't been gone as long as you have been .I think about you everyday. I know you're looking over Madison she is such a smart and funny girl as you can see. Please watch over her and chris and I could use a little help too. love and miss you everyday!!!!
Carol
April 20, 2017
April 20, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISS U SOO MUCH . LOVE U TO HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
April 20, 2017
April 20, 2017
Happy Birthday Ma, I miss you everyday, Christopher needs your help watching over him and also Madison
Love You and Miss You
April 19, 2017
April 19, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA
I think of you always I love you and say hi to everyone I know your looking over me but chris needs help too I know you have Madisons back and please do think to help them both. have a great day and thanks for everything you have and still are doing for me Madison and Chris needs your help now
I Love You Always
Carol
April 19, 2017
April 19, 2017
Love you, Grammy! Happy Birthday! I wish I had more time with you, and I miss you, but I know you're watching over us. Love, Leigh
April 19, 2017
April 19, 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MA
Love you and miss you. Wish you were here so you could make everyone laugh.I know you are watching over all of us but certain ones need extra help right now. Hope all is going well with the rest of the family there with you.
April 19, 2017
April 19, 2017
There are no words to describe how much i miss you. Someone who chose to be my grandmother and love me like the rest. That is a bond that is so indescribable and there isnt enough thank yous i could ever say.I hope you hear me talking to you all the time especially when i have my anxiety attacks. I love you and miss you more everyday, happy birthday in heaven to you. Xoxo
March 9, 2017
March 9, 2017
Thinking of you today and every day.Miss you and love you.I know you are watching over all of us. Say Hi to everyone there with you.
January 12, 2017
January 12, 2017
Love you Gram and miss you so much. Brynne Shirley had her first day of skiing today and she loved it - I know you were watching and laughing seeing me run all around chasing her! Love you so much and always thinking about you. Love Cally
January 12, 2017
January 12, 2017
love and miss u always thinking about u. there is only one of u and that is meant in a great way lv sandy
January 12, 2017
January 12, 2017
There isn't a day that goes by that I think of you. remembering the long journey we went thru and the laughs and tears we shared .I love you ma and miss you. always you'll be in my thoughts and in my heart.
Lots of Hugs and Love
Carol
January 15, 2016
January 15, 2016
Love you so much Gram! Miss you everyday. I'm so grateful to see so much of you in little Brynne Shirley. She has been taking "Grammy bites" since day one haha. It's great to see her and Madison growing up together, they would have had so much fun with you. Love you Gram.  Love Cally.
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April 19
April 19
Happy Birthday Ma
I think of you and miss you every day. Please keep watching over all of US. Especially Carol, Madison and Christopher. Make sure you remind Dad that he's supposed to help me win Big at Bingo. I hope you are all together
Love You
Robin
January 12
January 12
Hi Mama
As you know I had a hard time to get here, computers stinks. I know you have been watching over your Great Granddaughter and you see how smart and gifted she is, just like me :) she takes after Christopher ( the smarts ) she;s doing real well in school, at least that's what she says Ha Ha, the lady that live at the circle is a phycologist and she told Jim she's a very special girl and not because she his granddaughter either and she does have sympathy, empathy, willing to help anyone out if they need it without being asked, she's has many friends and loves doing things when asked I am so proud of her and Christopher your favorite and she'd be your favorite too. well I think about you often and wonder what you dad Wanda and Gary are doing. so tell them to take care and Guide and Guard her watch over her, protect her from the evil, hate. violence let her have a Healthy Happy successful life. Happy 88th Birthday .
Love You and Miss You Always
Carol
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January 12
January 12
Hi Ma
I hope you're doing well and are all together again with Dad, Wanda and Gary. I miss and think of you every day. Everyone needs to look over all of us especially Carol and Madison also Sandy and make sure Christopher's surgery goes well. I hope you are all together and that Dad is Happy Now and pain free.
Love and Miss all of You
Can you or anyone give me a sign that you are with me
LOVE
Robin ❤️
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January 12, 2019

Hi Ma

I Love you and miss you everyday.

I wish you was still here miss taking you to Bingo and getting Lobster Rolls.I think that I'm going to go to Bingo tonight and play a card for you and That we win . Please keep watching over all of us.

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