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Her Life

MY BEAUTIFUL WIFE

June 8, 2013

LET ME TRY TO TELL YOU A LITTLE ABOUT MY WIFE'S LIFE.I GUESS IT'S SAFE TO SAY, HER LIFE CONSISTENLY WERE HER CHILDREN.SHE LOVED EACH AND EVERYONE OF THEM THE SAME WAY.SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT.SHE WAS ALWAYS CONCERNED ABOUT THEM.I FOUND THIS OUT VERY EARLY IN OUR 47YR. MARRIAGE.A WEEK AFTER WE GOT MARRIED,I WAS SENT TO VIET NAM.HOWEVER I WASN'T THERE LONG.I WAS SENT HOME TO HELP CARE FOR HER AND OUR DAUGHTERS. IT SEEMED OUR YOUNGEST GIRL CAME DOWN WITH SPINA MENINGIATES AND AT THE SAME TIME MY WIFE WAS TAKEN TO THE HOSPITAL.I GUESS WITH HER WORKING AS SHE DID AND THE CARE SHE WAS GIVING TO OUR DAUGHTER,DEBBIE,JUST GOT THE BEST OF HER.DEBBIE WAS ONLY 5YRS.OF AGE WHEN SHE GOT SICK.I REMEMBER GOING TO THE HOSPITAL WHEN I GOT HOME.I WALKED IN MYWIFE'S ROOM AND SHE CRIED.SO DID I.BUT THE FIRST THING SHE SAID TO ME WAS, HOW'S DEBBIE?I TOLD HER SHE WAS GOING TO BE FINE.I GUESS WITH THE GOOD NEWS I GAVE HER,MY WIFE CAME THROUGH WITH FLING COLORS.SO YOU SEE MY WIFE'S FIRST THOUGHT WERE OF HER CHILDREN.AND TILL THE DAY SHE PASSED SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO SEE HER CHILDREN.SHE WOULD LOVE IT WHEN THE GIRL'S WOULD GET TOGETHER AND TAKE HER EITHER OUT TO EAT OR JUST SHOP.THEY MADE HER LIFE,AND THEY WERE A BIG PART OF HER LIFE.WE HAD A SON TOGETHER AND SHE WAS SO EXCITED.YOU SEE, SHE ALWAYS WANTED A BOY.SHE NAMED HIM AFTER ME.SHE WAS SO PROUD.HER EYES LIY UP AND SHE HAD THE BIGGEST SMILE I EVER SEEN.SHE SAID SHE FINALLY HAD A LITTLE BROTHER FOR HER GIR.LS.THE GIRL'S AMES ARE, JUDI-SANDI-AND DEBBIE.SHE ALSO HAD A DAUGHTER NAMED GAIL WHICH I NEVER HAD A CHANCE TO SEE.SHE WAS PUT IN A HOSPITAL NOT TO LONG AFTER SHE WAS BORN BECAUSE SHE CONTACTED MEASLES.THEY WENT TO HER BRAIN AND SHE PASSED AT THE AGE OF 9.THEY TRIED TO SAVE HER,BUT NO ONE ACTUALLY NEW SHE HAD MEASLES.THEY NEVER CAME OUT AND THEY WENY TO HER BRAIN.TODAY I AM SURE THEY COULD HAVE PREVENTED THIS TRAGIC FROM HAPPENING.SO YOU SEE AGAIN,HER CHILDREN MAED UP A BIG PART OF HER WRLD.AND I KNOW TODAY SHE IS WATCHING THEM AND THEY WILL BE O:KSHE LOVED THEM DEARLY AND THE KIDS LOVED HER.WE ALSO HAD A GREAT LIFE TOGETHER.SHE LOVED TO TRAVEL AND BE WITH FAMILY AND LOVED ONE'S.SHE NEVER HAD A BAD WORD TO SAY ABOUT ANYONE.SHE LOVED EVERYONE.MY WIFE HAD MANY ASSET'S.ONE WAS HER SMILE.SHE COULD LIGHT UP A ROOMWITH THAT.SHE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL.SHE HAD A HEART OF GOLD.NO ONE WOULD GO WITHOUT IF SHE HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT.SHE LOVED ALL OF HER GRAND CHILDREN.SHE LOOKED FORWARD WHEN OUR GRANDDAUGHTER HEATHER WOULD COME UP FROM PHILA.AND BRING HER TWO GREAT-GRAND CHILDREN.ROCCO AND MATILDA.OH HOW SHE LOVED THEM.WHEN THEY WOULD LEAVE SHE WOULD CRY.TOWARDS THE END OF HER TIME,I ASKED HER WHY SHE WAS CRYING ANDI GUESS SHE HAD A FEELING SHE WASN'T DOING TO WELL. SHE SAID SHE WAS AFARID SHE WOULD NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN.SINCE SHE PASSED,SHE HAS  BECOME A NEW GREAT-GRANDMOTHER.AND THERE IS ANOTHER ONE DUE ANYTIME.SO AS YOU SEE HER FAMILY WAS HER WORLD.IT IS GOING TO BE EXTREMELY HARD FOR ALL OF US TO GET ALONG WITHOUT HER.SHE WAS OUR "ANGEL" ON EARTH,NOW SHE IS OUR "SPECIAL ANGEL"IN HEAVEN.OH HONEY OUR HEARTS ARE BROKE WITHOUT YOU WITH US HERE ON EARTH.WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH MY DARLING.NOW HONEY WE NEED SO HELP TO COPE WITH THINGS.YOUR PAIN IS GONE,NOW OUR'S BEGAN.AT LEAST UNTIL WE'RE ALL TOGETHER AGAIN.WE LOVE YOU MY DARLING