My earliest memories of Shirley are of the grown-ups at the table - her visits meant dinner time conversation would take on new breadth and depth from topics serious and light-hearted, grave and animated, practical and imaginative, mechanical and artistic, personal and professional. She inspired everyone around her to share in her remarkable ability to connect - people, ideas, continents.
It is rare that a mentor can connect and inspire across generations and cultures, but this is the case with my family. My father first met Shirley at GM. For my father, a first generation immigrant and a new engineer, she was a mentor in how to thrive in the most-American of corporations, and how to use his cultural fluency to his advantage. She encouraged him to forge connections across divisions and departments, and to seek opportunities beyond the standard career path. When vying for what later turned out to be a career-changing promotion, she advocated for him across those same corporate divisional lines, a fact that wasn’t revealed to him until years later.
For me, an American-born Chinese girl growing up in the Midwest, Shirley was proof positive that leadership could have many different forms and faces, all of which could succeed in the ‘boys clubs’ of Madison Avenue and Detroit’s Big 3. At every major junction of my life, whether it was applying to Wellesley, selecting a first job, finding opportunities for community involvement, or applying to graduate school - Shirley offered her guidance, her support and her time. And in following her guidance, I know that my world has expanded to be richer and fuller of connection.
It is difficult to express the full extent of our gratitude for a person who has made such a difference in our lives, and we will be forever humbled and proud to have been part of her connected world. Thank you Shirley, and may you rest in peace.
Amy Wang & family
Dazong, Mary, Andy, Sarah, Sienna Wang and Drew Morales