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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Shulamit Bastacky. We will remember her forever.

If you have pictures you'd like us to share at her memorial on February 2, please email them to Jackie Reese at jreese@hcpgh.org
February 3, 2021
February 3, 2021
Anyone familiar with Shulamit Bastacky's relationship with the Holocaust Center of Pittsburgh is well aware that she was a devout supporter of the Center's mission. I was always impressed at the way she related to youth who attended our programs and heard her relate her story with honesty and clarity. She forged strong bonds with attendees of all ages, but especially teens. It was fascinating to watch how she was attuned to them, and vice-versa. As an ally, and as a friend who gave warm, strong hugs, she'll be dearly missed and never forgotten.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
I am so blessed and grateful to have met Shulamit in fall of 2019. She has been a light in my life during graduate school. I am sad that she will not be able to attend my graduation, though, I will always remember her beautiful smile, joyous laughter, and never-ending support. I will continue to color the inspirational quote coloring book that I had given to her in the beginning of the pandemic. She had thoughtfully re-gifted this to me to continue to color the intricate details. I am glad that we were able to celebrate our birthdays together this past summer and I am thankful for the gift she gave me for my dad for Father's Day. I will miss you, Shulamit.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
I was honored to have Shulamit on my program as an AgeWell Visits Host for the past several years. She was always so positive and happy to interact with all our volunteers, and would call me and leave a cheery message after each visit. She especially loved Megan (whom you saw in the video clip at the beginning of the memorial today). As well, I will always remember how kind Shulamit was to me after the shooting on 10/27 and she gave me 2 special teddy bears - one for my husband and one for myself. I eventually shared them with little twins we knew - and so the goodness and kind energy from Shulamit continues on & on. I will miss seeing her at Forward Shady Apartments - always coming to see me in the lobby when I visited each month. She is a wonderful example of how to keep living and loving life - even after having experienced great trauma. I will miss her. Ellen Leger
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
Thanks to the Holocaust Center for hosting a beautiful Shloshim celebration of Shulamit's life and impact. It was a privilege to be part of her large family of friends. The testimonials to her are evidence of how very large her circle was, and how she made everyone feel like they were important and special. Because she was important and special, she could generously confer that blessing on others.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
What a beautiful tribute this has been today, hosted by the Holocaust Center. We can feel her smiling down in her very kind and special way, from all these beautiful words of her life.
Knowing Shulamit for the past 15+ years, through our work at the JCC and Jewish Federation of Greater Pittsburgh, has created a lifelong impact on our lives, among many, many others. What a model she has been of using ones life in this way. Her bravery and passion behind her message and actions has left such an everlasting mission that will inspire us to continue in her honor, each in our own ways for years to come. She will be forever missed where her memory is such a blessing. ❤️
Nicole and Roi Mezare
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
Shulamit was, and will be a lasting icon of the Holocaust Center. She will be missed.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
my name is Ilana Kwartin and I found Shulamit, who I was looking for, for many years. She is my relative and is an amazing women. I met her in her house a few times and we had wonderful moments together. Her smile, her positivity, her unique view of life, especially in a hard year like this one, are the light of my day. She never seized to amaze me with her thoughts, her knowledge of Israel and her memory for everyone she ever met. I didn't have enough time with her and I will miss talking to her and laughing with her. I miss you my dear Shulamit.
January 28, 2021
January 28, 2021
Shulamit Bastacky was an amazing person. For the past couple of months I got to know Shulamit better and better each week. I am so lucky that I got to know Shulamit, and that I could learn more about her every time. Shulamit had the kindest heart, and I am overjoyed that I got to know her overtime. Shulamit never ceased to impress me with all the kind things she has done to other around the country. I will never forget what an amazing person she was, so thank you Shulamit, for all the kindness and joy that you brought to the world.
January 26, 2021
January 26, 2021
Shulamit was such a source of sunshine, positivity, and spunk! From the moment I started working for the Holocaust Center, Shulamit made me feel welcome and inspired -- and I truly enjoyed visiting schools with her, as well as stopping by her apartment to read her many letters and drawings from the children whose lives she touched. She always called me to see how I was doing, and she ALWAYS sent her blessings to my family.

I miss her dearly, and I am blessed to have known her for a time. I'm really going to miss her hearty hello and her spirited laugh! And I'm incredibly grateful to have witnessed her story, and the impact she had on our local students.
January 26, 2021
January 26, 2021
When I wrote, and directed and produced "The Hidden Children" play for the Holocaust Center, Shulamit came to speak to the actors and help them with their testimonials.
After that I saw her every week at the JCC and she always had a smile and was enthusiastic about life and interested in me and my family. She was quite a fixture at the JCC. I miss seeing her and thank you to Shulamet for your light.
January 26, 2021
January 26, 2021
Shulamit inspired me and my students to be better people. I first met her when my 6th grade class visited the Pittsburgh Holocaust Center. From that first day, she was a gift, leaving her mark on all who knew her. I will miss her not only for what she taught me, but for the very special friend she was. Her giving heart and honest words have made a home in me.
January 25, 2021
January 25, 2021
I was fortunate to know Shulamit when she was an MSW student in the School of Social Work at the University of Pittsburgh. I loved her sense of humor, and how she made everyone feel accepted. All of us who knew her are much better for the experience, and I will miss her greatly.
January 18, 2021
January 18, 2021
The students and staff of Greenfield Elementary were so blessed to have Shulamit visit us. Her warmth, humor, and compassion resonated with all of us -- not to mention the chocolate she shared with our students. Thank you, Shulamit. 
January 17, 2021
January 17, 2021
Shulamit Bastacky was a devoted member of Young Peoples Synagogue. She attended most of the services and social functions that we had. She would bring her friends to services and social functions from the Holocaust Center. She never let her birthday go unannounced at Young Peoples Synagogue with a Kiddush and Dvar Torah with her friends from Young Peoples Synagogue and the Holocaust Center. Being a Holocaust survivor birthdays and Yom Hashoah meant alot to her in addition to her speaking engagements at the different schools that she would attend. We at Young Peoples Synagogue will miss her and we all loved her.

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February 3, 2021
February 3, 2021
Anyone familiar with Shulamit Bastacky's relationship with the Holocaust Center of Pittsburgh is well aware that she was a devout supporter of the Center's mission. I was always impressed at the way she related to youth who attended our programs and heard her relate her story with honesty and clarity. She forged strong bonds with attendees of all ages, but especially teens. It was fascinating to watch how she was attuned to them, and vice-versa. As an ally, and as a friend who gave warm, strong hugs, she'll be dearly missed and never forgotten.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
I am so blessed and grateful to have met Shulamit in fall of 2019. She has been a light in my life during graduate school. I am sad that she will not be able to attend my graduation, though, I will always remember her beautiful smile, joyous laughter, and never-ending support. I will continue to color the inspirational quote coloring book that I had given to her in the beginning of the pandemic. She had thoughtfully re-gifted this to me to continue to color the intricate details. I am glad that we were able to celebrate our birthdays together this past summer and I am thankful for the gift she gave me for my dad for Father's Day. I will miss you, Shulamit.
February 2, 2021
February 2, 2021
I was honored to have Shulamit on my program as an AgeWell Visits Host for the past several years. She was always so positive and happy to interact with all our volunteers, and would call me and leave a cheery message after each visit. She especially loved Megan (whom you saw in the video clip at the beginning of the memorial today). As well, I will always remember how kind Shulamit was to me after the shooting on 10/27 and she gave me 2 special teddy bears - one for my husband and one for myself. I eventually shared them with little twins we knew - and so the goodness and kind energy from Shulamit continues on & on. I will miss seeing her at Forward Shady Apartments - always coming to see me in the lobby when I visited each month. She is a wonderful example of how to keep living and loving life - even after having experienced great trauma. I will miss her. Ellen Leger
Her Life

Shulamit's Story, adapted from "In Celebration of Life" (2017)

January 15, 2021
Shulamit Bastacky was born shortly after the Nazis seized power in Vilnius. Her parents made the difficult decision to give up their daughter to protect her from being killed by the Nazis. A Polish Catholic nun kept Shulamit in a basement, where she was deprived of nourishment and nurturing for the first few years of her life. Nevertheless, Shulamit credited the nun with saving her life. Meanwhile, Shulamit’s parents spent the war enslaved in a small labor camp.

After her parents were liberated, they began looking for their daughter, as did many families who had placed their children in the care of others. After liberation, the nun left Shulamit on a riverbank, where a Lithuanian man found her and took her to an orphanage. There, she was given a new name, until by chance her father walked into the orphanage and was able to identify her from a birthmark. She was very malnourished and did not look like the baby they had seen just a few years before.

After the family was reunited, they moved to Poland. It took Shulamit a long time to readjust to life outside of the basement, and her parents had to learn how to be parents again.

In 1959, Shulamit traveled to Israel, where she lived for five years and served in the Israeli army. She then immigrated to the United States in 1963. She began learning English and finished high school, and was later accepted to the University of Pittsburgh, where she earned her Bachelor’s degree and Master’s degree in Social Work. After graduating, she worked in the field of geriatric social work.

Shulamit developed a teddy bear project where children collect and distribute teddy bears to those who, like her, were not fortunate enough to have them. She spent more than thirty years speaking and sharing her story with children and adults, and her presentation focused on ignorance, hate, and prejudice.

Shulamit passed away after a brief battle with cancer on January 1, 2021.
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