This memorial site was created in memory of our beloved wife, mother, grandma and sister - Simbo Ayonrinde, née Kuku.
She lived for those she loved, and those she loved will always remember.
Thank You
The Ayonrinde and Kuku families would like to thank our friends and families all over the world for the comforting messages and boundless love following the passage to glory of our wife, sister, mother and grandmother. You remain our 'family in-love'.
Tributes
Leave a tributeOur thoughts are with Daddy , “your boys “and the entire family , May Almighty God continue to protect and guide them . Amen
it's been a year since you transitioned to your eternal home in Gods presence, I keep your memory very much treasured and alive in my heart , and miss you dearly. Thank you for the legacy of love, unity , peace , strength and beauty you left with us. I pray God continues to uphold and keep your family and loved ones you left behind and may you continue to abide in eternal rest.
*"My Mother." by Ann Taylor (1782-1866)*
Who fed me from her gentle breast,
And hush'd me in her arms to rest,
And on my cheek sweet kisses prest?
My Mother.
When sleep forsook my open eye,
Who was it sung sweet hushaby,
And rock'd me that I should not cry?
My Mother.
Who sat and watch'd my infant head,
When sleeping on my cradle bed,
And tears of sweet affection shed?
My Mother.
When pain and sickness made me cry,
Who gaz'd upon my heavy eye,
And wept, for fear that I should die?
My Mother.
Who drest my doll in clothes so gay,
And taught me pretty how to play,
And minded all I had to say?
My Mother.
Who ran to help me when I fell,
And would some pretty story tell,
Or kiss the place to make it well?
My Mother.
Who taught my infant lips to pray,
And love God's holy book and day,
And walk in wisdom's pleasant way?
My Mother.
And can I ever cease to be
Affectionate and kind to thee,
Who wast so very kind to me,
My Mother.
Ah! no, the thought I cannot bear;
And if God please my life to spare,
I hope I shall reward thy care,
My Mother.
When thou art feeble, old, and gray,
My healthy arm shall be thy stay,
And I will soothe thy pains away,
My Mother.
And when I see thee hang thy head,
'Twill be my turn to watch thy bed,
And tears of sweet affection shed,
My Mother.
For could our Father in the skies
Look down with pleased or loving eyes,
If ever I could dare despise
My Mother.
On what would have been your 81st birthday, we remember you fondly and remain thankful that the Almighty gave us the opportunity to be part of your life and also that you were a part of ours. Rest blissfully in the bosom of the Lord.
Charles and Tope Iyore
As we meet others today, let us look at each one with eyes of love.
Let us listen with ears of love, speak with a voice of love, and touch with hands of love.
Grant us grace to embrace all people with understanding, patience and tolerance. Through the changes wrought by time and circumstances, let us see the Christ in every face and hear the Christ in every voice.
May we know when to speak and when to keep silent.
May we freely express our divine heritage in the truest manner possible and may we allow others the same freedom.
Let our faith be strong in every circumstance, and when our faith seems to waver, uphold us with your gracious loving spirit.
May our thoughts create the wonder of your world, our words demonstrate our love for you and our actions bring glory and honour to your Name.
We thank you God, for all the wonderful people who fill our world and with whom we share in the marvellous experience of life.
May we be worthy of this love and may we reflect only your light, your love and your wisdom to them.
So be it. Praise Be!
(From Waves of Spirit by Eileen Caddy)
Though its very long I last saw you, memories don't fade especially when they are linked to long lasting genuine smiles. You were one in a million and I so much believe the legacy you left behind would last for ever. Kindness was your password. When I heard you were 80 yrs old, I said 'No' !!! I believe your real kindness made you looked so young. You will be missed. Almighty God will comfort the rest of the family in Jesus name. Amen
Love from all the Adebajos
You will remain in our thoughts always. Your experiences and stories of life travelling and working around the world with Pa have helped inspire and guide us in our current move to Germany. We will always remember your endless joy and countless kind words. For me, Christmas with you and the whole family, has always been a particular joy and the fond memories of it will be everlasting.
Your sincerely,
Foluso Tade and Franziska Wessels
We have been very saddened to hear of the recent passing of Simbo Ayonrinde, dedicated mother of our childhood friends from Larundel Deji, Koya, Kunle and Gboyega and dear friend of our late parents Tamara and Jurij Turlakow. We remember Simbo's always elegant style, particularly when she and Kola graced us with their presence at our wedding, where Simbo danced with much refinement to the raucous swing band. Simbo has generously left us with some lovely items over the years by which to remember her, including beautiful purple Nigerian kaftans and a stunning white crotched bedspread which we cherish. We will always remember her tinkling laugh, beautiful smile and warm and very caring nature. We send our sincerest condolences to the Ayonrinde family for their great loss. With love Horacio, Alla, Pascal and Olivia Correa.
..........We watched dolphins playfully jump in and out of the water...…...gymnastic displays with big splashes and continuously enlarging ripples…….....in the meadow nearby, butterflies fluttered between colourful and fragrant flowers…..effortless, soft, gentle and beautiful……a squadron of squawking cockatoos flew overhead....gradually fading silhouettes on the horizon....a distant kookaburra's laugh punctuated the air........and as shadows grew longer and the golden Australian sun set, so did yours……ever so beautifully…........…to rise again in His eternally beautiful garden.
Simbo has been a much-loved member of our group for several years, having originally come from Nigeria. She was a quiet, faithful and gracious lady, often dressing in her national style with flowing robe and turban. Simbo was a good cook and very artistic - we especially remember the beautiful bead flowers that she made for one of our projects.
We send our deepest sympathy to the members of her family. She will be greatly missed.
Even though we hadn’t spoken for quite a while, my memories are full of moments re-living your smiles and loving kindness as we all grew up. My abiding memory of you was my 3 day holiday with you in Abeokuta and those amazing cookies! I can still taste those cookies today. We love you aunty, but God loves you more. We comfort ourselves with the assured knowledge that you rest eternally in the bosom of the Lord. May your gentle soul rest in Peace.
Idowu Oshibodu
We remember growing up and the times me and my sisters got to spend with you, especially one Easter weekend where we got to enjoy lots of homemade treats. These are memories we'll always cherish. You were a kind, loving, amazing, and special person. We miss you, but are comforted by the fact that you are resting peacefully in God's loving arms.
Tope, Bola, Biso, & Tomiwa
With a warm heart and smiles we remember you, your spirit and your kindest of laughs. I still hear your laugh today and your welcoming smile and hug when we came running in from our childhood exploits in the yard. You will be remembered with love and we pray and wish you a peaceful journey into the light. You have left us with thoughts of kindness and love
Yours Gopal,, Mridula, Prem, Vinita, Hari and Narinder Chopra
I glorified God for a glorious life you have lived on earth.
You have forfeited God's purpose; How?
1. You have sought God first throughout your journey on Earth.
2. You have reproduced for God's Kindom to continue.
3. In your lifetime, you have received grandchildren.
4. Above all, you have not buried any of us your children And grandchildren.
But forever it is still in my memory "The Homemade Biscuits" always fresh from the oven with the sweet smell.
We love you, but God loves you more than we do.
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE IN JESUS NAME AMEN.
From
Oyeleke Ayonrinde and Family.
I take solace in knowing that heaven has welcomed you back to the fold, one of its most priced angels, constantly spreading cheer and joy, always nurturing even to smallies like myself. I'm so grateful to have been touched by you .
I'm still coming to learn those complex cross stitches and embroidery patterns o... :--)
Love and Miss you plenty grandma...sun re o mama...
God just needed you to come home,
Yes we know it has made the family sore.
You will always be remembered every single day,
From the smile on your face to the things you would say.
Seye Adegoke & Family.
May you rest in the bosom of Almighty God.
With love
Ken and Margaret Morrison
I will always love you for being my Aunt. These are the many reasons I will miss you so much:
Your Spirit.
Your aura has always been gentle, peaceful, loving and kind. This inspires me because I know that you have not been excluded from the problems of this world; but chose to be at peace regardless.
Your Presence
I loved being around you because it was so easy and nurturing to be around someone so beautiful in spirit.
Your Kindness
I truly can’t remember you ever saying an unkind word about anyone. You chose to see the best in people.
Your Nurturing and Counsel
You were a great mother and I am so proud of how you raised your four sons. Even the bible says that in the multitude of council there is safety. You taught me that a secret to raising successful children is love and encouragement. As we discipline, we love and encourage 10 times more. When I think of the words that you have said to me through the years, I hear: "We are so proud of you; We love you; How are you doing?" These were words that inspired me to do better and to be a better person. More, it inspires me to say those words to others. It encourages me to choose to see the beauty in this world and to do right by others.
Your Pumpkin Soup
When we visited in 2011 (I cant even believe it has been that long), I was really happy to see that you ate a very healthy diet and had a good exercise routine. You introduced me to what I order when I go to restaurants - Pumpkin Soup. But, none of the soups I've had taste as great as yours. Lol.
Your making me feel so loved and valued.
I think you have given me the greatest gift I could ever want or rather, what I desire most out of life - To be loved and cherished.
Thank you for loving and cherishing me; for making me your daughter and being there for me.
Rest well, Sweet Aunty!
I know so much about you and the beautiful life you lived and the legacy you left behind because i knew your children. They truly reflect all that embodies you. I rejoice in the long, healthy and testimonial life you lived. You are forever cherished.
Rest in peace in the bosom of your creator.
One of your 'FEGO' children,
Bayo Williams.
We will miss chatting with you on Skype.
Sleep in divine peace mummy, till we meat to part no more.
Biyi and Moji Kufo
We would chat and laugh and you would ask after all of the family. ' Se alafia ni Simi ati Reme, Baba won nko' . You made us feel so special. Thank you for being a great mother and we are sincerely thankful that we knew you. I will miss our chats about various recipes. I will miss your gentle smile and your gentle nature.
You remain in our hearts with love.
We pray that God bless and keep you in His care
We would rather have you here with us but we know that God Loves you best. In the knowledge and faith that Heaven has gained an angel we say Mummy, rest in peace.
From Charles and Tope Iyore
Wale on behalf of the Lagundoye family
You were a living exemplar of the finest qualities of womanhood. A mother to so many apart from your own biological sons. You will be sorely missed but we all take comfort and solace in our experiencing of your uplifting love for all during your sojourn on earth. We bid you farewell with heavy hearts.
Very truly yours,
Oyesunbo Olaide Awe (nee Ayonrinde)
Segun & Bosun Ashiru
With much love
Judy Calvert and the St. Cecilia Family.
My dear twin sister, we have been twin sisters since the day we first
Met, when you arrived in Ballarat. Two Mum's with young families
to raise, much work and fun to share along life's way.We shopped for
food (small tummies to fill) cooked together,learned to swim together
Joined school mothers clubs,visited friends and families...Simbo gained
A Mum,Dad,sisters, brothers,aunts,uncles and cousins along the way.
Simbo made friends everywhere she went and we all missed her
company when time came to move on. Simbo and Kola bought their
first Australian home in Ballarat and enjoyed happy times in Sidbury
avenue.Happy memories of my beautiful sister will stay with me always.
With Love ... Your twin sister Bev.
News of your passing has shocked us all and we are deeply saddened that we will not cross paths again in this life. You have had a profound positive influence on the upbringing of myself and my siblings. We will all miss your gentle voice and kind words. I (Muhammad) will cherish the birthday cards you sent every year during high school without fail. Our thoughts and condolences go out to Daddy, Uncle Deji, Uncle Kunle, Uncle Koya and Uncle Boyega. May your soul rest in peace forever in heaven.
Sincerely,
Muhammad, Maya, Otis, Ibrahim, Aisha, Isa and Hadiza Yunusa
You are forever missed ma,
Best regards,
Soji Apampa
Words cannot express the sadness we are feeling from your loss. We have truly lost a special person. I will always remember you for kindness, support, and gentle spirit. May your soul rest in peace.
Ibby
Adieu auntie Simbo.
How could I explain the kindness in her heart, the contagiousness of her joy, smile or the depth of her love? It’s just that she was so remarkable.
Mama Deji was not only beautiful on the outside, she was a beautiful soul. She saw the beauty in others. She respect everyone both young and old around her. A great wife, mother, sister, auntie, and kind hearted to her daughters-in-law. Her husband call her blessed
We must remind ourselves that when we look for her, we can look to the stars at night and we can look into the eyes and hearts of everyone here and find a little piece of her. She will live on forever.
You were chosen by our cousin
You’re the mother of his sons
He chose you to be our sister-in-law
And we are blessed
Gentle woman, quiet light
Morning star, so strong and bright
Gentle mother, peaceful dove
A fantastic mother,teach her children wisdom.
Rest in Peace. Adieu
It broke our hearts to lose you.
We miss you today and always.
God, the giver of life, decided to come for you at His own time , to join the Heavenly Host ,to sing praises around the throne of Grace, and so your golden heart stopped beating and your working hands at rest.
We will miss your soft spokeness , your tender and gentle tone, with warm reception showing deep love. This has taught us to always show love to all around us.
Though we cannot see or hear you, we know that you are near us always.
Your death leaves a heart ache no one can heal and your love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Rest in perfect peace our dear mum and auntie. Till we meet to part no more.
Adieu, Adieu, Adieu.
From the Onolajas. Abeokuta . Nigeria.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
We miss you today and always.
God, the giver of life, decided to come for you at His own time , to join the Heavenly Host ,to sing praises around the throne of Grace, and so your golden heart stopped beating and your working hands at rest.
We will miss your soft spokeness , your tender and gentle tone, with warm reception showing deep love. This has taught us to always show love to all around us.
Though we cannot see or hear you, we know that you are near us always.
Your death leaves a heart ache no one can heal and your love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Rest in perfect peace our dear mum and auntie. Till we meet to part no more.
Adieu, Adieu, Adieu.
From the Onolajas. Abeokuta . Nigeria.
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Coconut Candy & Smokes!
Its been 4 years already? I really wish you were here to hear this fun memory. Kunle, Koya and I used to take over your kitchen in Agbowo from time to time. One of those occasions we made coconut candy and burned the pots quite badly. I remember us trying to scrub the pan before your return - we were still in staff school UI then. The memory I would never forget involves the tobacco. We tried to make cigarettes from the dried tobacco leaves from the garden. On this occasion I took a bic biro, removed to ink cartridge and broke it into the length of a cigarette. I stuffed in dry leaves one end and cotton wool the other and set fire to the other end. Of course it was burning tobacco and fumes from melting plastic I inhaled - my chest, eyes, throat burned so badly and I was probably asphyxiating as well! When I could finally breathe I never touched a cigarette in my life to this day!! I guess it is fun to remember those times and fun to remember you in that setting. May the good Lord make it possible for us all to meet again in eternity.
Best regards,
Soji APAMPA
Wow! Its now 7 years!! You're sorely missed.
Deeply missed
We remember our Auntie today as always. Her memory lingers on
May her gentle soul continue to rest in peace.