Sister Helen Onyiuke, MSHR, (1936 - 2018) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

Let the memory of Sister Helen be with us forever

81 years old
Born on August 1, 1936 in Nimo, Anambra State, Nigeria
Passed away on February 22, 2018 in FCT Abuja, Abuja, Nigeria

This memorial website was created in loving memory of Sister Helen Onyiuke, MSHR, 81, born on August 1, 1936 who passed away on February 22, 2018.

Before the remains of Sister Helen were moved from Abuja to Enugu on 26th February, 2018, holy mass was celebrated for her at Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Wuse Abuja, by Bishop Anselm Umoren, MSP, the Auxiliary Bishop of Abuja, together with numerous priests, sisters of different congregations, parishioners and friends.

The burial rites for Sister Helen began on Monday 26th March, 2018, with a very well attended vigil mass at Holy Rosary Retreat and Conference Centre Chapel, Nsukka. Archbishop Anthony Obinna of the Catholic Archdiocese of Owerri presided, with countless number of priests, sisters of various congregations from all over the country, her family members, and a contingent of her friends and parishioners from Abuja and elsewhere, in attendance

The burial mass on Tuesday 27th March, 2018, was concelebrated by five bishops - Bishop Hilary Okeke of Nnewi Diocese, Bishop Solomon Amatu of Okigwe Diocese, Auxillary Bishop Denis Isiuzo of Onitsha Archdiocese, Auxiliary Bishop Anselm Umoren of Abuja Archdiocese, and Bishop Godfrey Onah of Nsukka Diocese, who presided together with over a hundred priests.

Over five hundred Sisters of different congregations (including past and current congregational leaders) from all corners of the country, the Onyiuke clan - home and abroad - together with Rosarians, Holy Rosary Associates, parishioners and friends of Sister Helen from Abuja and other places, filled the church and spilled over outside.

Internment followed after the mass amidst tears and sobs.

Adieu, Woman of God and Mother of All ! Adieu, Sister Helen.

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March 15, 2018

A TRIBUTE TO AN ICON SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE MSHR
Ma Helen as you were fondly called. Your leaving us was a real blow. I could not believe that it is true on that 22nd of February 2018 when the news came. I was dazed for a moment even though I have following up with phone calls to know how you are were.

Sister Helen, you are an Icon, a rare gem. It is difficult to describe you because your attributes are numerous. I will only write in part because we see in part.

When I visited Nigeria in 2017, I returned to Ireland through Abuja specifically to condole with you for your death of your brother Greg. We had lovely and thought provoking discussions. You took very good care of me and made sure I got all I needed to be ready. You also arranged for the taxi that brought me to the airport. I appreciated all this memory.

The story of your visit to Ireland in 2015 with Sisters Catherine Asomugha and Cecilia Ezeh, when you came for the Golden Jubilee Celebration of Religious life still hovers around in Brookville where you spent most of the time and of course in whole Region. It was a heart warming encounter. All the sisters in Brookville shared the lovely memories of you during the visit, most importantly that everyone counts for you. Your aliveness was irresistible. You stopped in the shops to greet people for the first time and chatted with them as if you had known them for a long time. This is a peculiar gift you had. We had such a good time that I really missed you when you left for Nigeria. Some sisters in Nigeria called to thank me because you told them how I took good care of the three of you. You appreciate little things.

During that visit and during my visit to Abuja in 2017, you continued to make arrangement to see that the Igbo people acknowledge the effort and dedication of the Missionaries (the Holy Ghost Fathers and Holy Rosary Sisters) in saving our people during the war. You effort came near its fruition when a delegate scheduled to visit Ireland in 2017. You called me and some other person to ask if we will receive him. Unfortunately the visit did not hold. We hope that in some way someday this dream of yours will be a reality.

Will the Holy Rosary Retreat and Conference Centre forget you? We were together in the team when you were the programme Director, Sister Florence Enechukwu was the Administrator and I was the Caterer. You were a household word. We had fun with Mr IK Ozumba the Centre driver about how you usually forgot a very important document you needed for the journey at Centre and then you embark on a journey. You would have reached Ogbede or Ukana before you would remember and say to IK “Elozogokwom ife”. We always laughed when the car drove in 20 or 30 minutes after departure and asked, what did you forget today? You laughed too! And said “amarokwam ife na eme m”. You were human.

During our meetings we disagreed sometimes, and agreed at other times, but we got on well. You did not keep malice. You transcended your experiences.

When I took over as the Centre Administrator you will still there. I will not forget your support for me and the Team. We saw the need to implement a sensitisation programme and awareness campaign against human trafficking and child labour. The new Team did not know where to go for help. You brought me to your niece who was the then Executive Secretary for the National Agency for the Prohibition of Traffic in Persons (NAPTIP), Mrs Nduaguba. With her help we were able to secure funding from the International Organisation for Migration (IOM). The programme was a huge success and gave the courage to plan other programmes.

As a member of the Centre Board, you actively engaged in the assignments that advanced the development of the Centre. Nothing was demeaning as a responsibility as far as it will enhance the Congregation’s Mission. You were a Holy Rosary to the Core.
Where would we have been today with the Centre security without your help? It is difficult to enumerate all that happened.
Who will believe your age? You died standing. Your total dedication, forgiving spirit, youthfulness and commitment are inspiration for me and indeed for many.
You will surely live in our hearts.
As it has pleased the Lord to take you, may our good God grant you eternal rest.
Adieu Ma He!
Adieu Sister Helen! We love you and miss you.

Signed
Ngozi Okoli MSHR
Dublin, Ireland.

March 15, 2018

The Regional Leader, Holy Rosary Sisters, Independence Layout, Enugu.
Dear Sister,
CONDOLENCE MESSAGE ON THE DEATH OF REV.SR. HELEN ONYUKE (MSHR).
It is with heavy hearts but yet an unwavering resolve to “praise God in all situation” that we the Congregation of Missionary Daughters of Divine Presence write to commiserate with you on the death of your member, our sister, friend and mother, Rev.Sr. Helen Onyuke.
We admire her amiable qualities and commitment to the service of God and humanity. According to Thomas Campbell, “To live in the hearts of those we love is not die”.
She still occupied and will continue to occupy a place in our hearts. As we collectively mourn her demise, we take solace in the fact that she lived a good and fulfilled life, may this be our consolation and courage to uphold her in our prayers. We sincerely pray God Almighty to grant her eternal rest.
Rev. Mother Mary Caritas Unachukwu, For the Congregation

March 15, 2018

Till now, I cannot come to terms with the fact that you are no more. The pains I feel when I saw it happened gave me a terrible shock, I wish it was just a dream but sadly its real. Your death took everything away from me but I remembered you said to me “Emma, be praying and do all I have thought you that your ways shall be open”.

One of the days during the period you were ill in the hospital you noticed the looks on my face saying “I don’t like the look on your face, be strong and give me positive energy” turning to sister Mary she said “Emma thought that anything will happen to me” with a smile on her face.

The love I have for your will always remained in my heart, a part of you has grown in me, you first loved and care for me. You showered me love unconditionally and immeasurable even in you sick bed. Even in your sick bed obtaining my visa was part of your worries. Your golden and kind heart towards others will always remain indelible.

My success story in life will never be complete without you. It’s been you all these years, I know you will be happy knowing what the Sisters and those who love you have done for me onbehalf of you.

I will keep the two rules you thought me, you will forever remain in my heart. I know you are in heaven, I will always ask for your intercessions.

ASIKASON EMMANUEL VICTOR

March 15, 2018

TRIBUTE TO PRINCESS SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE MSHR.

The news about the departure of Princess Sister Helen Onyiuke came as a rude shock to us. Death was the farther east thing on one's mind when with Princess Sister Helen.

She always had a cheerful disposition and showed real interest in other people's well being. She was a person's person. Ever smiling and chatty.

We met Princess Sister Helen during the course of our Daughter, Chukwudumebi's marriage to her nephew, Johnny Onyiuke. Since then our relationship had remained cordial and warm. She had a likable disposition. Young at heart and fitted in perfectly in any circle she found herself in. Her pet name for me was "MAMA". Sister Helen was very kind and generous. Always sharing whatever came her way with people. She was happiest when she was giving to people thereby confirming the Biblical saying that "There is joy in giving".

We will miss Princess Sister Helen but we will not mourn like those who have no hope; cos those who died in Christ are not really dead for they will rise again. Princess Sister Helen has gone to a better place to be with her maker and her Sibblings.

Adieu Princess Sister Helen,
GA-IJE-GI-NKEOMA Ezegbo Ogo.
May the gentle Soul Princess Sister Helen Onyiuke MSHR and the Souls of all the faithful departed continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen.

Lady Egosonwa Okafor, Prof Ilochi A. Okafor SAN and Family.

March 15, 2018

A Tribute to Rev Sister Helen Onyiuke

The moment I was thinking about Sister Helen, a text message came from my Sister Rose Uchem that Sister Helen had passed away. Since then, it's been all tears. (Anyamili ekwerom akwusi). It has taken me some time to be able to write this tribute.

Sister Helen had a special relationship with my family. This began as Sister Rose Uchem, my sister, entered into the novitiate when Sister Helen was the novice mistress. She solved a sensitive problem in my family. She was a problem solver. My father would have preferred Sister Rose to be working and helping the family, and to get married instead of becoming a sister. Sister Helen stepped in immediately and tried to solve the problem. She handed me over to her late brother and his wife - Papa Greg and Mama Angie Onyiuke - where l lived with them together with their children. They provided for me lavishly and treated me like their own daughter. I appreciate all their love, kindness, medical attention, education and everything they offered me. I will forever remain grateful.

Sister Helen knew the problems of the poor people. Sister, you were selfless in all your actions with humanity. You were full of praise, full of encouragement; you embraced all people. You had a rare quality and embodiment which every human being should emulate. You occupied and still occupy a big space in my life. You were very generous. You were a kind person, with a big heart. You offered great help, assistance and support to Holy Rosary families and you responded very quickly to their needs.

Sister Helen, you are a great woman! You are a living saint!
Sister Helen, l am proud of you. Your life is a legacy to the world. You are irreplaceable. A very active person with simplicity of heart, you reached out to people. You did not discriminate between the rich and the poor people. Sister, you were never negative, antagonistic, nor showed off your family wealth and greatness. Instead, you mobilized your wealthy family and involved them in your missionary work to provide for the needy. Your presence did not make people uncomfortable. Rather, it gladdened the heart. I felt very happy and fulfilled whenever l saw you or heard your voice.

For providing me with a future, I cherish you! I honour your caring attitude, humility, love, and kindness. You will forever be missed and remembered. Sister, with hot painful tears, l say, thank you so much! May God grant you eternal rest. Amen.

With love and gratitude,
From Mrs Stellamaris (Uchem) Nwaiwu

March 14, 2018

Adieu Adieu Adieu from Family of Dr. & Mrs. M.C MBONU
My Dear Mummy,
I never knew this is how you would leave us. It was like a melo drama in which i imagined would soon end, but you made the choice of joining your God and our God. He sure would admit you into His presence for all you have been for us all, especially my family. May your gentle & joyful soul rest in peace. Amen.

Mrs. Tessy Oby Mbonu
On behalf of Mbonu Family

March 14, 2018

TRIBUTE FROM MEMBERS OF ROSARIANS, ABUJA CHAPTER
Dear Sister Helen,
We feel sad that we the ladies that attended Holy Rosary and other of our Mother Mary's colleges are re-grouping only after you left us. You had time without number asked us to re-group and keep the association alive, but we were never able to do so, until now. Please forgive us. We pray that Almighty God receive your humble and beautiful soul into that Kingdom you had always told us about. Amen. Adieu Sister Adieu Mama.
Rosarians, Abuja Chapter.

March 12, 2018

This tribute was added by Sister Gugu S Mbongwa, MSHR on the 12th March 2018.
What a shock to hear that mama Helen is gone to the Lord. I had to phone to find out whether it was true that Mama Helen has passed on.I had to accept the sad news.I didn't know that speaking to mama Helen in January before leaving for South Africa that , that was her final sweet talk with me. She didn't stop by talking but gave me a beautiful dress and told me that she wants me to dress beautifully all the time. She encouraged me to get a degree in Biblical Studies and I did at Cedara in Natal South Africa. I leant a lot from her always generous. She always invited me to Nimo for Christmas break this started a long time while her brother (Dr. John )was alive. She told me I'm part of the family if the family did not see around December time she will call me to find out where I was.
I was looking forward to share about the new President of South Africa Cyril Ramaposa from Venda where she worked very hard to empower women whose husbands were working in Johannesburg at the mines. The people in Northern Province are still singing her praises you can imagine how shuttered they were when they heard about her passing on. "Mama Helen who will fill the gap you left in my heart ?" Dalu Mama "Hamba kahle" Fare you well till we meet again good bye! I'll miss you Ngiyabonga Sister Gugu S Mbongwa.

March 11, 2018

Lagos: 11th March 2018

As I sat with Sister Helen on the Balcony of Mediatrix of All Graces (her home in Nimo) on the morning of the 28th of December 2017, her usual smile signified that as always, she was happy to be home.

She was happy to be seated there watching everyone in such a happy mood, the children running up and down, the adults getting ready for one thing or the other. She would lean close to me to listen to what I was saying and then she would get distracted with the children playing, she would smile and point at my last son Chinwendu and say, “he is such a happy child”. She is so happy because God answered her prayers for Chinwendu when he was very sick.

Sister Helen was happy to be amongst people all the time, she was happy to be useful to people so so often, to a point (especially at our younger age), we thought it annoying. Why must she visit everyone we thought! Sister “I na ezukwa Ike bikonu”.

But she was particularly happy to be home, seated on that balcony and I could tell. She wanted to spend that little holiday with her family that she loved so deeply and yet have her Companions (Sister Hilda and all the other lovely Sisters) around her, sharing her happy time. She wanted it all!!

Sometimes I marvel at how incredibly lucky I am to have such a warm and caring person as my Aunty. She provided constant reassurance of Gods love for all of us. Now she is gone!!! and we shall miss her terribly, especially because we didn’t get a chance to say “Sister Ije Oma” (bye-bye).

But we are consoled because now she will be with our Lord Jesus Christ and all happy people. As we pray God to grant her eternal rest and let perpetual light shine upon her, we are comforted that her prayers for us are now closer to God, only that she cannot tell us how happy she is to be with Him.

We thank God for a life well spent. Adieu Sister, till we meet again.

Your Nephew
Ejiofor Onyiuke

March 11, 2018

Lagos: 11th March 2018

As I sat with Sister Helen on the Balcony of Mediatrix of All Graces (her home in Nimo) on the morning of the 28th of December 2017, her usual smile signified that as always, she was happy to be home.

She was happy to be seated there watching everyone in such a happy mood, the children running up and down, the adults getting ready for one thing or the other. She would lean close to me to listen to what I was saying and then she would get distracted with the children playing, she would smile and point at my last son Chinwendu and say, “he is such a happy child”. She is so happy because God answered her prayers for Chinwendu when he was very sick.

Sister Helen was happy to be amongst people all the time, she was happy to be useful to people so so often, to a point (especially at our younger age), we thought it annoying. Why must she visit everyone we thought! Sister “I na ezukwa Ike bikonu”.

But she was particularly happy to be home, seated on that balcony and I could tell. She wanted to spend that little holiday with her family that she loved so deeply and yet have her Companions (Sister Hilda and all the other lovely sisters) around her, sharing her happy time. She wanted it all!!

Sometimes I marvel at how incredibly lucky I am to have such a warm and caring person as my Aunty. She provided constant reassurance of Gods love for all of us. Now she is gone!!! and we shall miss her terribly, especially because we didn’t get a chance to say “Sister Ije Oma” (bye-bye).

But we are consoled because now she will be with our Lord Jesus Christ and happy people. As we pray God to grant her eternal rest and let perpetual light shine upon her, we are comforted that her prayers for us are now closer to God, only that she cannot tell us how happy she is to be with Him.

We thank God for a life well spent. Adieu Sister, till we meet again.

Your Nephew
Ejiofor Onyiuke

March 11, 2018

Sister Helen,

"You have left a lot of memories in my life. As I write this tribute, I feel the gap that has been created in my life. I will continue to remember you. When I was a novice, the twelve of us spent our holidays in your community, Wuse Abuja. Your Warm Welcome and inner joy of that day affirms it that you are a SAINT. You did not look at the big number that come to the community, but you looked at the heart of each novice at that time. I samba remember you very well when You said, "My dear sisters, You are most welcome. Feel at Home. This is your home. After you have eaten your food, start organizing yourselves on how you will make this place as a home. Remember putting food as your first thing on your plan then sleeping and resting should follow. Eat well and rest plenty".

Sister Helen this was how I learnt on what it means to be a responsible sister even as a visitor in a community.

Sister Helen, I remember when you used to come in the kitchen. You were had working. I learnt a treasure that you have left with me as gift. Each day you used to carry your beautiful hand bag. In the hand bag, you carry only your phone, handkerchief and your room key. One day you were cooking while having your hand bag on your shoulders. I made a joke that you were cooking while having your beautiful hand bag. We all laughed. Your response was a SAINTLY ONE. You Said, "My dear sisters, When I was trained to become a sister in those days in Ireland, we were taught to be responsible in everything. Carrying a hand bag in the kitchen while cooking is a good sign. It shows that you are attentive and responsible with what you are doing. You are not scattered but united with God".

Sister Helen, each moment, you always called for unity. I will continue to remember you for this special gift that God gave you. You were a mentor in my life. Thank you too for such a wonderful sister to our congregation. You were a gift to every person that came your way.

May you rest in Peace. Amen.

March 11, 2018

Mama Helen what a shock to hear that mama Helen has gone to the Lord! I had to make enquiries to confirm whether it was true. I only spoke to you in January before leaving for South Africa. I did not know that you were giving me a final speech. You did not stop by giving a final speech but, you also gave me a beautiful dress and told me you want me to dress well. You encouraged me to get my degree in Religious Studies when I met you in 1997 in Venda and I did.You were so happy to hear that Cyri Ramaposa was the new president of South Africa. I was looking forward to share with you about Venda Northern Province of South Africa where the people are still singing your praises. You can imagine how shattered they were when they heard the sad news about your passing on. Fare you well Mama Helen! "Hamba kahle" Who will fill your gap in my heart. Dalu Sr Gugu Mbongwa MSHR.

March 10, 2018

Sr Helen, mama Hehee as we fondly called you. It is very difficult for me to believe that you have left us to the great beyond. Mama Helen, my heart is broken to just think that my phone discussion with you on the 12th of January was the last interaction with you on this our earthly dwelling. Oh Jesus, this is difficult and painful.
Sister l know that since after your thirty day retreat you had always said to me "nwa Omerebere I think think I have finished my bit on earth, I am now waiting on His Majesty to call me home and I am ready". Each time you said that to me my reply was uche Chukwu ga eme. Sometimes His will can be difficult to accept like your death at this time.
I want to thank you sister Helen for the great sister and mother you were to many people especially to your Holy Rosary family. You were a wonderful and God fearing formator and a wise spiritual mentor. You were generous even to a fault. You had a big and all embracing heart. Forgiveness, charity, and cheerfulness and simplicity of a child were the robes you wore. Your smiles were very therapeutic especially when the roads seem cloudy. Your encouragement at such times will never be forgotten and I thank you sweet sister.
Mama Hee Hee our annual regional meetings will really be something else without you. The unique contributions you make and your balming presence will be greatly missed. We love you sister Helen and you knew that fact. My consolation is that we now have a saint with God in Heaven praying for us so that we can live out the legacies you left behind for us.
Sister laa nke oma. May your beautiful soul continue to rest with God in Heaven until we meet to part no more.

March 10, 2018

Our beloved Sr. Helen, May the Light of Christ which guided your life here on earth lead you to God's presence where you will enjoy for ever the fullness of life. Adieu our Big Sister !

March 10, 2018

A TRUE DAUGHTER OF PA SHANAHAN, A FAITHFUL MISSIONARY IS GONE

Is it really true you are gone? We all know that our time in this world is limited, and that eventually each one of have to travell the same road, but not this way mama Hee Hee, as we fondly called you. It happened very fast. I find it difficult to believe that you are gone. I was opprtuned to live you as a community member. To you everybody was ‘nwam’ including your elder brother Greg. I once asked you on one occasion whether Greg was also ‘nwam’, and I got my expected answer ‘ụmụaka a rapụnụ m aka.’ You have a large heart that embraced everybody. You loved seeing people around you and making sure they were okay. I was teasing you one day that when eventually you would come to the ‘Mission House’ which also serves as our retirement house, that people passing your room would be tip toeing because your response on hearing any foot step near your room would be ‘ọdụ onye na-aga, bịarị nwa m’, unknown to me that you would end up your journey in Abuja. Mama Hee Hee, to say we will miss you is an under statement. You were a mother to the cure. ‘Nne ọra nine’

One important lesson I learnt from you mama Hee Hee that will ever remain with me is letting go, never to hold unto anythig especially hurt. You were ever ready to say ‘I am sorry’ no matter who was involved. You indeed had a golden heart., a very generous heart. It is hard to see you go but God called back and like an obedient and faithful child you answered. Anyi agaghị eje ọgụ be ndị mmụọ. We only have to say goodbye, sleep on; enjoy a well deserved rest in the bosom of our Lord. Jee nke ọma!
Julie Oguekemma

March 9, 2018

This tribute was added by the Catholic Men Organisation (CMO) Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Wuse, Abuja

"It was a sad day for all members of the CMO Holy Rosary Parish, Wuse Abuja when news filtered in that you had passed on, on Thursday, 22nd February, 2018. We had been monitoring your movements in and out of hospital since early February and missed your company at our first meeting of 2018 on 10th February, 2018. We were delighted to visit you on your sick bed on Monday, 12th February, 2018, for what has become our last fellowship with you.
Sweet Mother - Sr Helen, you became a permanent feature of CMO and CWO meetings in our Parish from 2012/13. You took the challenge of addressing every CMO meeting on issues which showed you intense love and respect for the family setting and how to make the "Domestic Church" bedrock for the transmission of the Catholic Faith. You were concerned about how fathers acted out their roles as models for the children. You were courageous to speak and condemn faithless actions in the home. You believed that every man/father should be a person of INTEGRITY and FORTHRIGHT BEHAVIOUR and transmit these as legacies to their children. These were the virtues you preached and practiced. For these efforts which you gave freely and with motherly love we say THANK YOU; THANK YOU.
Now you are gone. There cannot be another Sr. Helen. You were unique. We shall forever cherish your memories and always recall with pride your gingerly steps in and out of our meeting venue - St Kizito's Hall, Civic Centre. Though you are gone, you shall live forever in our hearts and in GOD'S KINGDOM that your worked tirelessly to propagate for over five decades of Religious Life. ADIEU Our Beloved Sr. Helen. GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL. REST IN PEACE, AMEN.
CHRIS MBAMALU NELSON C. OKOKON
CHAIRMAN SECRETARY
For CMO HRCC Wuse Abuja, Nigeria"

March 9, 2018

This Tribute is from the Catholic Men Organisation, Holy Rosary Parish, Wuse, Abuja, Nigeria
"It was a sad day for members of the CMO Holy Rosary Parish Wuse, when news filtered in that you had passed on, on Thursday, 12th February, 2018. We had been monitoring your movement in and out of the hospital since early February this year and missed your company at our first meeting of the year on the 10/02/18. We were however delighted to visit you on your sick bed on Monday 12/02/18, for what has become our last fellowship with you.
Sweet Mother - Sr Helen, you became a permanent feature of CMO and CWO meetings in our Parish from 2012/13. You took the challenge of addressing every CMO meeting on issues which showed your love and respect for the family setting and how to make the "DOMESTIC CHURCH"bedrock for the transmission of the Catholic Faith. You were concerned about how fathers performed their roles as models for the children. You were courageous to speak and condemn faithless actions in the home. You believed that every man/father should be a person of INTEGRITY and FORTHRIGHT BEHAVIOR and transmit these as legacies to their children. You sincerely desired the best for all families. These were the some of the virtues you preached and practiced. For these efforts which you gave freely and with motherly love we say THANK YOU, THANK YOU.
Now you are gone. There cannot be another Sr Helen. We shall cherish your memories amd always recall your gingerly steps in and out of our meeting venue - St Kizito's Hall. Though you are gone, you shall live on in our hearts and in GOD'S KINGDOM that you worked tirelessly to propagate for over five decades of religious life. Adieu Our Beloved Rev Sr Helen . GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL. REST IN PEACE AMEN.
CHRIS C. MBAMALU NELSON C. OKOKON
Chairman Secretary
CMO WUSE PARISH ABUJA

March 8, 2018

A Tribute To My Spiritual Mother.
"When Beggars die there are no comets seen;/
The heavens themselves blaze forth the death of princes. " (Julius Caesar act 2scene2, 30/31). This is so apt, given my experiences before the sad news reached me and left me broken . I agree with Alfred Lord Tennyson who opined that death is "One clarion call". Yes this call will certainly bring you to your maker face to face .Sr Helen will not need introduction to st Peter He knows very well I've reminded him .
O death , death, death, you are an unfair player. How cruel can you be ?
Sr Helen so well beloved ! My mother, my sister, my confidant and friend.. Sr where are you without a word to me ? Is this true ? I can't call you ? This is so difficult to accept. I will cling tightly to my believe in the Communion of saints and continued to talk to you whenever I want.
Sr Helen, your charisma earned me a YES from my dad who was until you visited my home in the company of sr Catherine Asomugha an " OLYMPUS" as far as the debate about my religious vocation was trending .
Thank you sister for teaching me so much without the classroom You were so humble,caring, loving, and generous. You had an understanding that was heavenly.
Sr You were the first senior prefect of my alma mater . I was looking forward to presenting you in the forth coming anniversary of the school as I proudly did during the golden jubilee of the school in 2009.
Adieu Sr, we shall miss you here ,but hope to meet you there on the resurrection morning.. I love you sr Helen .It was a privilege and am glad you knew I did ..You will be in my heart as long as I live Let's pray for each other May your sweet and gentle soul rest in peace Amen Sr Basi Ada Uzoahia HHCJ.

March 8, 2018

The Sad Exit of an Icon

Rev. Sister Helen Onyiuke of Holy Rosary Congregation was my mentor, mother, teacher and counselor. Indeed, words fail me, emotions elude me as I try to describe who Sister Helen was to me.

From my childhood, Sister Helen was very fond of me. I lived with her for a short while and I must say it was such a pleasant time I had with her. Sister Helen later taught me in Standard Two at Holy Rosary Primary School, Nimo. Afterwards, I gained admission into Holy Rosary Secondary School and to my greatest surprise I met Sister Helen there as the Senior Prefect of the College. She insisted I must be assigned to her school house (St. Bernadette) so that she could oversee my daily school activities.

Our closeness never ceased even when I got married. My husband, Ben, easily related with her because of her caring demeanor, while my children never relented in inquiring about how Sister Helen fared. Emeka my son always extolled the qualities of Sister Helen and often told me how he and his family were being pampered by her.

It is very unfortunate Sister Helen has left us all to be with the Lord. Indeed, we have lost a precious one, a jewel of inestimable value, a lover of all. I feel very sad. Adieu great one, Adieu our very caring and loving Sister Helen.
Ka anyi dibenu!!!
Je nkeoma Sister Helen.

Dame Carol Nwazojie

March 7, 2018

TRIBUTE TO REV SR. HELEN ONYIUKE

The women of this Parish (Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Wuse – Abuja) came in contact with Rev Sr. Helen and the Missionary Sisters of the Holy Rosary Congregation as far back as 1987 in the course of their missionary work in the Parish.

Sr. Helen had worked closely with the CWO as our Spiritual Adviser and had not relented in her work with the women even at her old age. She was there for us all ensuring that we are grounded in the doctrines of the Church which should reflect in our homes as mothers. She had been in the vanguard of women empowerment and had encouraged us on a regular basis to support and pray for our families.

At our monthly meetings, Sr. Helen had never stopped reminding us of the need for us to be spiritually ready as the time of departure is not known to us. Her emphasis on the need for peaceful and harmonious existence with one another would not be easily forgotten.

To the women of this Parish, the pain resulting from this departure, will linger for a long time. It would be difficult for us to find a replacement who would act as a mother, Spiritual Adviser, a prayer warrior and a mentor to all the women of Holy Rosary Parish as Sr. Helen was. Her relationship with us did not end at the CWO level; it also extended to our individual family levels.

To us, Sr. Helen fell into the category of those described in the compilation of C.S Lewis Journal from a letter to Sarah (a goddaughter) 3 April 1949 that there are only three kinds of things anyone need ever do; (1) Things we ought to do (2) Things we’ve got to do and (3) Things we like doing. Sr. Helen fulfilled all these three and we are consoled by the fact that she left nothing undone which she ought to have done.

Adieu, our epitome of humility, dedication, motivation and exemplary mother.
May your gentle soul rest in the bossom of the Lord.

Mrs. A.M OGBELU Mrs. CHINYERE UKAOHA
President Secretary

March 7, 2018

My dear Aunty Sister Helen, your love for God transcends beyond all understanding that at an early age you dedicated your life towards serving him by joining the holy Rosary Missionary sisters. Though a missionary you were it really never kept you away from the one family you loved most your very own Onyiuke family. This assertion is evident in your presence in every single activity held by the Onyiuke family. Sister Helen I will not forget the day I opened my front door far away in Scotland Dundee and there you were. If that gesture alone is not love I wonder what is. The truth Sister is that I almost fainted wondering what I had done to deserve your saintly visit. I now know what it was. Love. I will miss you a great deal. Adieu
Love your Nephew
Cabrini Onyiuke

March 7, 2018

TRIBUTE TO SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE (BIG MUMMY)
As I seat and write this tribute my heart trembles with tears because it is still hard to believe that Sister Helen Onyiuke AKA Big mummy is gone. It came so unexpectedly; Just a couple of months ago, sister spoke to me about her late brother who passed away a year earlier; she had reiterated how close he was to her. It is very sad to say the least. I have to pick up courage to write this tribute. This is because she would not have wanted me to tremble in despair and sadness. Sister, had always known me ever since I was a toddler, as she always reiterates during most of our discussions Di ka Nnaya. After my sojourn overseas, I relocated to Abuja in Nigeria. My relationship with Sister was renewed and rekindled by my mum Mrs. Caroline Nwazojie during one of her courtesy visits to the city of Abuja. Irrespective of the fact that she was one of the spiritual directors/teacher’s during my mum’s youth history, she took me under her wings as my guardian in Abuja. She transcended the love she had for my mum to myself. Such compassion tremendously admired.
Once I had secured a job and got married, Sister, strengthened her care and concern for my family as a whole. She always wanted me to be a very successful individual in all ramifications of life. During any of my visits to her convent, she never hesitated to tell me how proud she was of me in terms of maturity, religious life and marriage. She adored my son very much whom she had conversations on issues; I still cannot comprehend. That is Big Mummy for you. Always having time for every one irrespective of age. As much as I would like to say that her relationship with my family was quite warm, I quiver on her to break the news of her demise to my son. He is a very inquisitive, and fond of her. May the good lord give me the wisdom to do so? Mother’s wisdom and care was one attribute that I greatly appreciated. During my visits to the convent, her concern about my welfare was one to be desired. She practically immersed herself into my ordeal and made my challenges hers. Despite the fact that she was a Reverend Sister, she always had a way of finding solutions to my problems. She did it directly or indirectly. For instance anytime I have a challenge in securing good employee for my firm , she always went the extra mile of thoroughly scrutinizing potential candidates on my behalf before handing them over for employment. As a young man raising a family, issues affiliated with day care, nurturing and values is prevalent in our modern society. Sister never hesitated to assists in that regard. Sister was so distinct in her affairs and approach to issues that her reaction and feedback always inspired you to strive for greater heights. This was clearly exhibited in her reaction when I told her that I was recently appointed as a visiting lecturer in a University. She gasped for joy and said’ “this will put you on the map”. Such inspirational quotes would be profoundly missed.

Sister (Big Mummy) warmth and love rubbed off on the other reverend sisters in the convent. Her Kindness and warmth made the Sisters, Security personnel, House help and other occupants of the convent see me as part of the family. Everyone literally bestowed that kindness and free spirit associated with sister on my household the other Reverend Sisters became my sisters as well. I felt quite humbled during one of my visits to the convent when one of the Reverend Sister’s directed the House help to call sister saying “ Go and Tell Sister Helen that her son has come” Amazingly enough the Security Guard stressed on it as well saying “Go call Sister im pikcing done come”. Unvbelievable.

This part of my tribute is the one that is better said than written. This is because it is health related. In the month of December 2017, I never got a chance to see Sister as often as much as I wanted to do. This is as a result of my work schedule. It is still very vividly clear in my mind; on that faithful day during the yuletide season she called and said in her usual tone “nwam, come and take the chin chin I prepared for you it is on the table in the convent living room. I would be going to the East. When I get back I will see you”. Even though, I eventually saw her before her proposed trip that was the last time I saw Sister Helen in her usual jovial, animated and energetic state. In the month of January 2018, I went over to the Convent to wish Sister Helen Happy New Year. Even though I was told that she had returned from her trip I was not able to see her because she had been diagnosed with Pneumonia. As a result of the development she needed rest. Eventually when I saw her I noticed that she was a bit frail but still full of vigor. Irrespective of that fact I believed she was on her way to full recovery. My anxiety and concern began to take a different turn when I discovered that she had been admitted to Dr Hassan Hospital. During my conversation with Sister at Dr Hassan hospital I got a better perspective of her ailment. Even though I was visibly sad, she kept on telling me to continue praying for her I asked mummy what I can do to , she would say Nwam tiyem na ekpele.( Keep me in your prayers). She would look at me and say Nwam I am at peace. It is at this point in time that my fears got confirmed. Even though several medical text were carried out by the doctors at Dr Hassan’s Hospital to diagnose the true situation of her ailment, her condition took a turn for its worse with breathing challenges and continuous vomiting. As much as I tried to do my part by booking mass and saying special prayers for her, Sister Hilda told me that she had been transferred to the National Hospital Abuja. During my visit to the National Hospital I noticed that her condition had deteriorated; Doctors, Revered Sisters and family members tried to do all they could to resuscitate her but she eventually gave up the Ghost. Sister Helen is definitely in Heaven. Your life, attitude, character and good works would always be one of emulation of all mankind. Sister, your are dearly missed and loved by your son (Picking) Emeka Emmanuel Nwazojie.

March 7, 2018

TRIBUTE TO AN ACCOMPLISHED MISSIONARY SISTER: REV. SR. HELEN ONYIUKE, MSHR. Added by Sr. Felicity Nwaokeleme on 7th March, 2018.
What a loss of an illustrious and accomplished daughter of Papa Shanahan, in the person of Late Rev. Sr. Helen Onyiuke. Sr. was an embodiment of goodness and religious decorum. She touched many lives with her exemplary live both in Nigeria and beyond. I pray the Lord Jesus who called her to Himself, to grant you the salvation He earned for you by His suffering.
Sr. Helen, my little encounter with you showed me how humble and humane you were. You taught me how to run poultry farm and prepare feeds of chickens during my candidacy at Kaduna when you visited us. In addition, you interrupted your early morning sleep to bid me farewee to Kenya after my first home leave in Nigeria as a Sister. In the process of coming out from your in Independence Layout Enugu, you fell down; but you bravely put up a beautiful smile in the midst of pains to wish me safe journey. You did what a loving Mother could do in that circumstance and I remain eternally grateful to you..
Sr; You are a noble soul and your departure has created a vacuum in the MSHR family. I love "Mama" but God loves you most and that is why He has called back to Himself. Pray for us that we may emulate some of your virtues and live and work as true daughters of Bishop Shanahan our founder.

Requiescat in Pace

March 7, 2018

Whenever death strikes, it leaves in its wake,trails of sorrow and anguish among the living. Such grief is often very deep specially the deceased is such a loving caring and a saintly woman like my dear Sr Helen.(Ochiliozua).

My dear sister you were a religious to the core. Holiness of life is indeed your main aim in life and this you preached to all those you came in contact with. Whatever that concerned other people always captured your attention and you did not spare any effort in rendering any ready assistance. It is only the all-knowing God that knows why you had to leave at this time. We cannot question Gold's wisdom. Our consolation remains in the fact that you led a life worthy of your calling.

Sr Helen jee nke oma and rest in the Lord.
Pau-Pau Nwamu

March 7, 2018

MY MEMORY OF SR HELEN ONYIUKE ( By ADA ADIBE – MSHR)

Oh death where is your sting! It is so sad that I will never see you again my dear Sr Helen. Since it is your creator, our maker that needed you more than myself, I will not question him.
I am grateful to God for giving you to me at the very early stage of my Religious life as a Community member. You were a mother, a sister and a friend to me despite the gap both in age and in Religious life. I treasure all those moments of companionship, encouragement, support, corrections, prayers, praise and sacrifice as their memories linger on. When I was transfered to Gwagwalada Community, you told the Sisters, “I will take Ada to Gwagwalada myself” and you did. So, how can I forget all your love and care! I miss you “Mami Hee-Hee”! My family also miss you, “mama Sister”! You were so proud of me that you would like me to accompany you for any function or for a task.
You were so simple and humble that you did not find it difficult to affirm, appreciate goodness, genuinely accept complements from others, undertake duties some might feel it’s for younger ones and to admit your mistakes.
Thank you dear Sr Helen for allowing me share in your life!
Thank you Mami Hee-Hee for all your prayers and good wishes for me!
Thank you our loving God for the gift of Sr Helen Onyiuke to us!
Since you have taken her from us, may you grant her eternal joy and peace through Christ our Lord and our resurrection, Amen!

March 6, 2018

A Tribute to Rev. Sister Helen Onyiuke

Rev. Sister Helen was born into the family of Chief Michael Onyiuke, who promoted Catholicism in Nimo. The fact that Sister Helen was born into a family that had a high esteem for Christian values helped lay a strong moral foundation in her life as a young ambitious girl. It is noteworthy that the way of life and good deeds of the early Rev. Sisters who came from Ireland to St. Patrick Church, Cool Camp, Enugu, was part of the dominant factors that later influenced her choice of becoming a Rev. Sister.

To my recollection, Rev. Sister Helen was one of the major agents of spiritual and material progress in the Holy Rosary Congregation. She was recognized by late Bishop A.K Obiefuna as a “goal getter” following her successful solicitations for promoting material and spiritual progress in the congregation she served at Nsuka.

Until her demise, she and her late sister, Princess Margret Agbim, had a very cordial bond. She was very much fond of Princess Margret. In fact, on the 4th of January, 2018, she and her fellow Rev. Sisters attended the remembrance ceremony of my late wife, Princess Margret Abgim, at Saint Kevin’s Catholic Church in Nimo. Little did I know that Rev. Sister Helen was going to leave this wicked world to her heavenly abode forty eight days after her sister’s memorial service.

Helen, I am glad you accepted Christ as your personal Savior, and I am certain that you are now with your late sisters in heaven. My family and I pray that we will all accompany you there someday. We love you very much. You will forever be in our hearts. May your soul rest in perfect peace.

Sir, Gabriel N. Agbim(KC)

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO A TRUE SISTER: REV. SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE
-By Sr. Susanmary Otuonye, MSHR.

'Erina,' I find it hard to get you off my mind since I heard the shocking news of your death. It was so unexpected. I began to think of when I saw you last. So it means I will not sing and dance your name again with you: "Erina Nwa Mama, ihe gi asogbuo muo, onye nkwari." Helen, you were a happy person in yourself, and shared it around.

Everybody was your child. "Oo Nwa!" I remember talking to Bishop Godfrey Onah once about you and he said that when they were in the seminary, you used to treat them like your children. "O n'amu anyi ka nwa."

When you were Novice Mistress at Nsukka, and we were living together in the community, we worked hand in hand. When I was in Ireland, you visited my parents. My sick father kept calling me all the time you were with them. When you came back, you told Sr Joseph Therese that my father needed to see me before he died. So Joseph Therese and yourself sent a message to Ireland to let me come home to see my father. The Sisters in Ireland came where I was studying and arranged for me to go home to Nigeria to see my parents and I stayed for some time and went back to Ireland. That was the last time I saw both of my parents. My father died shortly after that and my mother died two years after. If it were not for your kindness and thoughtfulness, Sr Helen, I would not have been able to see my parents for the last time; and I was not home for the burial of either of them.

I miss you so much, Helen but I cannot change God's plan. Adieu until we meet again to part no more.

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO MY DEAREST AUNTY – REV. SR. HELEN ONYIUKE.
Yes, it was like a play thing when this started. It has now dawned on me that Death is really the thief that it has been known to be. Alas for both young and old it is sudden for all ages.
Sister it is true that you had made beyond three scores and ten but you couldn’t imagine how devastated I was when I reasoned that you are gone even though to a better place. However for fear of not sounding selfish or incurring God’s anger I quickly wiped my tears and I praised God for the life of service and love which you had lived-working in the Lords vine-yard for 50 years was not a joke.
Your life radiated love and charity to everyone that came your way, you were never tired of helping out anyone in need. You were strong and generous and many wondered at your age, where all the energy came from; because even the young were not your match.
You always called me “Adammadu” and I always felt great when so addressed.
Thanks for all the love you showed to me and others. And like St. Paul you have fought the good fight and you have finished the race and now you look forward to a bounteous reward. We love you but Good Lord loves you most. Moreover, to be in the heart of those you loved is not to die. Your legacy lives on. I’m rest assured that you are in the Lords bosom enjoying a most deserved sleep. Adieu dear Aunt!!! Adieu!!! Goodnight.

Your Niece
Fidelia Ugoh.

March 6, 2018

ELEGY ON THE DEATH OF MY FRIEND, SR. HELEN ONYIUKE.
-By Sister Mary Evangeline Odili, MDDP

Why do I weep? Why do I rail on death?
At 10:35a.m, Thursday, 22nd February came the thunderbolt
News spread to stamp the reality of my fate
Life henceforth without Sr. Helen –a jolt.

O Helen! Good natured lady bigness
Borne out of your being born a princess
Ever carrying yourself with human dignity
Never shirking from your religious duty.

Availability, your Christlike trait must be told
By the poor, the rich, the young and the old
Oh! What a loss to collective humanity
Death, you are bereft forever of discerning integrity.

Helen! Your presence in itself commanded strength
Your wise counsels like spotlights hit the right solutions
Your fearless actions transmitted compelling courage
Blind death; you wallow blindly in blindness.

To kill Sr. Helen whose structure was energizingly fat
Whose heart was accommodatingly large
Whose charity was indiscriminately lavished
Whose friendship was indescribably dependable

Am I not luckily blessed to have boarded the same ship
That floated us together in long elevating friendship
Exploring, sharing zeal and joy for sanctity?
Death! I tell you this separation is not for infinity
Dear God, you have taken Sr. Helen from me, keep her
Dear Helen, you are in unending Divine Presence. Stay there
Until your ever ready arms kept apart in the coffin
Come together around me in welcome, in the offing.

Poor Death! Wait for your own death on Easter Sunday
No more will your indiscriminate dart hit Sr. Helen
Neither can your short hands stretch high enough to reach her any day
Sr. Helen has extricated herself from you forever.

SISTER MARY EVANGELINE ODILI
MISSIONARY DAUGHTERS OF DIVINE PRESENCE
OKIGWE

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO SR. HELEN ONYIUKE, MSHR
-By Fr. Romanus Ochemba CSSP

Dearest Sister of all Sisters, Sr. Helen Onyiuke, I remember the powerful influence you had on us during our studies in Isienu. To think that I cannot chat with you again and gain from your wise counsel is sad. However God’s will is paramount.
Rest in perfect peace. I owe you masses and prayers.
Fr. Romanus Ochemba CSSP
C.K.C. Awka

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO MAMA HEHE
Mama Hehe ,as you were fondly called by some of us, it is hard to believe you are no more and it is difficult to let you go.
You never segregated between young and old, for you everyone counts. You are an encouragement to me. Your childlike heart knows no bound. When I came to the community in December to tell you that I would be leaving Abuja, you said to me "Nwam jisikwa ike", God will see you through. I will come to your office whenever I come down".I was looking forward for the day I will proudly introduce you to the staff of CIDJAP. Now you came down lifeless, what a world!
All the same, as your remains lies in the morgue close to my office, I still feel your presence around. Thank you so much sister for your motherly advice, free moringa treatments and all your encouragement to me.
I miss you but I'm consoled that you are with God interceeding for us. Rest On Great One, Rest On Mama Hehe, RIP Nwanne Mmadu.
Nneka Maduka MSHR

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO REV SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE

Rev Sister Helen Onyiuke was a member of the Missionary Sisters of the Holy Rosary Congregation working at the Holy Rosary Catholic Church, Wuse Zone 2 Abuja. She died at the age of 82.

By its nature, death leaves a vacuum in our lives and such lacuna is more pronounced in the case of a loved and dear one. Rev Sister Helen Onyiuke left behind a rich legacy of commitment to spiritual development of our parishioners with uncommon diligence. As a parish community, we remember with nostalgia her kind and soothing words any time she had an opportunity to contribute during our meetings and Parish events. We shall miss her peaceful disposition, humility, motherly care, love and encouragement. These attributes among many others endeared her to many people.

Indeed, she touched our lives and flew away but we take solace with the fact that she lived a fulfilled life. She dedicated her energy, time and resources to the service of God and humanity. She was charitable and impacted positively on many lives.

Nevertheless, we are strengthened by the words of Mae West “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough”. She carved her name in hearts.

While we struggle to overcome the emotional weight of her demise, we have firm hope in the resurrection and pray that the good Lord will grant her mercy and rest in heaven. Sister Helen is gone but will never be forgotten.

We appreciate the love, care and support showered on her by her family, her congregation, the Parish Priest, Rev Fr. Sam Tumba, the Associate Priests- Fr. Elias Goewam, Fr. Tom Ave Afeyodion and Fr. Naset O. Nwodo and indeed the entire Holy Rosary Parish community during the challenging moments of her life. We certainly share in your grief and pray the Almighty Father to grant us all the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.

Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul rest in peace. Amen
Adieu Sister Helen Onyiuke

Holy Rosary Catholic Church,
Wuse Zone 2, Abuja
March 2018.

March 6, 2018

TRIBUTE TO REV SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE
Prof. (Mrs. ) Regina Eya and family.

I have lost a friend. I shall never see Sr. Helen again in this life. Indeed there is a void. And yes I shed a tear. I wish she had stayed a little longer. But I have behind that pain of loss, the strange joy of knowing that Sr. Helen has gone to heaven and remains the friend she was to me on earth, even more.
From the days at Queen of the Rosary Secondary School Nsukka where my family came in contact with Sr. Helen in the 80s till she died Sr. Helen remained a true friend to my children, my husband and me. She prepared some of my children for their first Holy Communion. She followed the progress of all of them through University. Then we moved to Enugu and Sr. Helen followed us to all the addresses we moved into at different times asking after our welfare, sharing in our joys and our sorrows as they came.
Sr. Helen’s body language was always cheerfulness, calmness and genuine interest in the person she was talking to with concerned eyes. She was always smiling, calm, relaxed, comforting, young at heart and so understanding that she would always make you feel that all was well, and indeed if you listened to her all things actually turned well. She had time for everybody in spite of the enormous work she was doing as a Missionary Sister of the Holy Rosary. I never saw anger in her face. She was at home with the rich and the poor, the young and the old; in fact Sr. Helen was all things to all people and I dare say she saved quite a number of which I am proud to be one. You would always see in Sr. Helen the love and light of Christ.
As she talked about spiritual matters she paid attention to the material too. Only a few weeks ago when she came to Enugu she found me sick with a headache and sent her driver back to the convent at Independence Layout to get me a bottle of Moringa oil. She said to me “just rub this on your temples and you will be alright”, and it worked. The night I got the sad news I came down with a headache and reached out for Sr. Helen’s Moringa Oil and applied to my temples and honestly the headache left me. Now I shall guard it jealously!
Sr. Helen’s departure must leave thousands devastated, but the love she has sown in all those souls is a consolation. Our loss is heaven’s gain. In fact as I pray for her I am already praying to her.
Dear Sr. Helen, I miss you terribly, but I know you will always care for me and so I beg you to look after me and my family from heaven even as I dutifully pray that you rest in eternal bliss, for your work should follow you. May God whom you served so diligently reward you ever more bountifully in His heavenly kingdom. Amen.
Regina Eya

March 6, 2018

In summary, I thank God for the gift of Sr. Helen to her family, our congregation (MSHR) and the whole world. I'm also grateful to God for giving me the opportunity to live and work with Sr. Helen in Wuse convent, Abuja.
Sr. Helen was a very kind hearted person, cheerful, loving, caring, compassionate, patient and sociable. There’s no dull moment with her. She knows how to persevere and would not take no for an answer. She called everyone my child (nwa m) and really cared very much. I received a lot of encouragement, inspiration and support from her and I am grateful.
Sr. Helen, you touched so many lives and helped many people to find peace in serving God. You left us quickly and I am still in shock but God knows the best for each person. I believe and pray that God will surely reward you abundantly for all your good deeds. Adieu woman of faith till we meet again.

March 6, 2018

You had no child of your own yet you lived the life of a dearly loved mother of all. Thanks for lighring up our world like the candle you truelly were. Certainly we will miss but the deep joy in us that you are surely resting wirh our Lord is our only consolation. Adieu our mother and great woman of faith till we meet to part no more.

March 5, 2018

Nwa m, as you fondly called me. I will miss you dearly my loving and ever cheerful grand aunty. When I visited you in the hospital, you were still sounding strong and we chatted as usual.
As I was preparing for my second visit, I got the news of your passing. You helped many spiritually, emotionally and otherwise especially the poor and needy.
I'm rest assured that you're resting in the bosom of our Lord.
Rest in peace Sister Helen.
Your grand niece,
Nneka Emokah ( nee Ugoh )

March 5, 2018

TRIBUTE TO MY QUINTESSENTIAL AUNT REVEREND SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE : THE END OF A GLORIOUS GENERATION

I would never believe that one day I will have cause to write this tribute. To me it is tasking and mentally draining. As Christians we take consolation in this inevitable fact of life's journey. There are so many things to remember you for and I wish to draw reference from just one area. ....Mother Teresa of Calcuta " Spread love every where you go. Let no one ever come to you with out leaving happier. Intense love does not measure , it gives. The miracle is not that we do this work of charity but we are happy to do it ". These quotes were what you lived for Sister Helen. You found faith in charity and self-denial to make all around you, all that you come in contact with and all that come in contact with you were happy. My loving, kind and amiable Aunty. I recall my early secondary school days at Holy Faith Convent Glasnevin, Dublin, at a tender age of 16, alone and homesick. You immediately assumed the role of a Mother. Although you pampered me a great deal but at the same time very strict. During the summer vacation ,you took me to Kilishandra the then Mother house of the Holy Rosary Sisters, that in a way exposed me to all the Reverend Sisters and to the virtues of nearly being one. Though your family is found in different convents all over the world, the place of your immediate family was very important to you. Your nieces, nephews and cousins meant the world to you. You were a Rev.Sister of humble demeanour, an unequalled benefactor, who went the extra mile to provide comfort and succour to the needy and the less privileged. You made sure you instilled in us the fear of God. I am very deeply pained by your passage but, I am consoled by the fact that you lived your life in Christ. You touched every life positively and in your last days, you felt fulfilled and had nothing to regret.
Adieu my serene Aunty, you will forever be remembered. Addio la mia serena Zia. Buona Notte.
Your loving niece Etta Onyiuke-Azih

March 4, 2018

Sr Helen Onyiuke, you were the track, the road, the star, the light, the indicator, the hands etc that led me into the congregation of the MSHR from my residence home No 4 Ulasi street Housing Estate Abakpa Nike Enugu through my Paternal Uncle and his wife Col & Mrs E.M. Udeaja in 1983. Since then you have been a mother, a model, a mentor, a coacher, a spiritual director, you empowered a lot during my novitiate formation under you, you were always calling me nwam or Dora.You remember the holiday we were going to spend together 2017 with Hilda in Abuja. I am going to miss you. Praying for you RIP till we meet in heaven.

March 4, 2018

TRIBUTE TO OUR DEAR SR. HELEN ONYIUKE MSHR
By Sr Therese Odunukwe, MSHR.

Sr. Helen, Nwamama, Ezinne, a great missionary, the news of your sudden departure from this world is shocking, hard to believe and very painful indeed! Our consolation is that the rich legacy of your life of inspiration will continue to live with us. Your encounter and deep relationship with the person of Jesus which left a big transforming mark on you made you identify so much with His life.

I will always remember you for your large heartedness. A heart full of love that embraced all, joyful, generous, full of fun and always
ready to forgive. Everyone, young and old was for you " Nwam"! Thank you for touching my life especially within the short and precious time I passed through you as my novice directress.I learnt a lot from you and will remain ever grateful to you.

Now doubt you are now in the full presence of God. I could imagine how you would have embraced Him with extended hands and open heart as you embraced us here!

Your family of Onyiuke, your Holy Rosary family and the thousands of people whose lives you touched will continue to love and appreciate you with deep gratitude.

A glorious goodbye dear Nwamama till we meet to part no more. Pray for us. And enjoy your rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen.

Therese Odunukwe,MSHR,

March 4, 2018

Tribute to our dearest Novice Directress, Sister Helen Onyiuke

This day 4th March 40 years ago, you witnessed the Religious Profession of your first ever set of Novices of which I was one. The news of your death still hovers like a mirage, but it is a reality that I have to embrace. Fond memories of you elude expression in paper and pen. Your freeing and trusting presence as a Formator was liberating and inspiring. Your enthusiasm and joy in the Religious Life Vocation were of themselves a formative environment. You not only said often "be yourself", but you lived that way, reaching and touching hearts in a deeply human and spiritual way. You welcomed challenging questions during our classes with you, knowing that we were searching for a deeper truth and closeness with God, Jesus. You taught, not with eloquent philosophy, but with spiritual and practical convictions.

You have gone to meet God, Jesus, face to face, the name that was always on your lips, in your heart; the Reality that imbued you with great love, large-hearted generosity and kindness towards all that crossed your path while with us on this earth. Now in the presence of the Trinity and Mary Our Mother, as you gaze on all whose lives you touched in so many ways, and who are still on this temporary side of Reality, continue to keep us in prayer and loving care. You live on in loving
memories!

March 4, 2018

Che-e-i-i! Ewo-o-oh!! our dearest mother, Sr. Helen! You disappeared so fast, at a very short notice and the news set a chill down my spine. What a great loss of a great mother. You had no biological child but your children are uncountable.You tenderly cuddled each, young or old as "nwam" Indeed, you were born a mother and a mother you were to the core till the Lord called you home.
As our Novice Mistress, you wonderfully blended three of us "trinity"
and your greatest desire was that we would grow in maturity; rooted in Christ and be filled with passion for His mission. We did not have to go far to get the sense of what were trying to inculcate in us for you were our admirable model. Mama, Sr. Helen, thank you so much for all you were for us.
Dearest mother, as you answer God's call beyond, I wish you a very joyful entrance into that eternal home where one day we all will meet to part no more. May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen

March 3, 2018

It was with sadness that I received the news of your passing unto eternal glory. You have lived a selfless and God centered life. It is with confidence that I say... You are resting in the bosom of our Mighty God.
Adieu!

March 1, 2018

My darling auntie Sr Helen the Last of the fine Princesses of 'MASTER'-Chief Michael Muoyekwu ONYIUKE son ofANU-ANACHUAMOKWA OF NIMO in Njikoka Local Government in Anambra State.The news of your demise came as a great shock that disorganised me mentally. Our 'ROCK'.You made things happen.Never did we experience a moment of sadness with you.Sr Helen you were so remarkable that you asso ciated with the high and the lowly and never segregated,as you treated every one alike.Your humility had no comparison as you laboured for all and sundry just to put smiles on their faces. Adieu my lovely aunty we would miss you greatly. May your Gentle soul rest in perfect peace Amen.your niece Connie onwuagha.

March 1, 2018

Tribute to Sis Helen Onyiuke

I recall with pain the very last time I spoke with you on the phone. You told me about your failing health, and asked me to put you in prayers. I obliged. Later that week, I got an SMS that you were hospitalized. I stopped by the hospital, but couldn’t see you as I was told you were resting. Two days later, I checked in on you again at the hospital but got the same message that you were resting. I didn’t get to see or speak with you again until I received an SMS of your shocking demise.

Sr Onyiuke … greatly admired, kind-hearted, caring, selfless and generous to a fault. You introduced me to moringa family and healthy living tutorials. My husband, our children and I will forever cherish all your fond memories, especially the packs of healthy chin-chin you graciously sent us every Christmas.

Sr Onyiuke was, and remains greatly admired for her devotion to God and service to humanity. She was among the first golden Jubilarians of the Holy Rosary Sisters Congregation in Nigeria and Africa.

While we are mourning, Heaven – the abode of God Almighty – is in festive mood, rejoicing over the home coming of Sr Onyiuke.

Dame Nkechi Anyaeji, DSG, LSM

March 1, 2018

This is very a shocking news. Sister Helen was a very amiable, jovial person and mixed up very freely with people of all age groups . This rare attribute made her evangelization activities easily welcomed . My husband and i remain indebted to Sister Helen for the role she played in our lives. Our journey of Christianity is incomplete without her. I do know that she touched many lives within and outside her congregation.She left foot prints for her sisters all those that knew her to cherish and emulate.This is a great loss to Congregation of Holy Rosary Sisters and to the catholic church. She has finished the race and gone to recieve her crowning glory. May her soul rest in peace. Amen.
Lady Catherine Adaugo Uzoma.

February 28, 2018

Tribute To Sister Helen Onyiuke
Sister Helen. What can we say than to say Rest In peace!
You were a Mother, Lover. Mentor, Motivator, and an Organiser. You touched many lives by your simple lifestyle publicly and privately. Words can never express whom you were but You succeeded in answering your divine call as well as lived it out
Your faces are everywhere in our albums to always remind us of you but my family will miss you dearly.
Rest in Peace our dear Sister and Mentor as we needed you here ,So also does your Creator.
Adieu.
Bro. and Sis. Rowland Ekechi and family

February 28, 2018

Mama, you were a mother to me and all my sisters. I met you first after morning Mass at Holy Rosary parish, Wuse a day after my return from Italy in 2005. Since then you took a special interest in me and encouraged me often. Our last social outing was my 50th birthday February last year at Gwarinpa. I was filled with emotions as I watched the video yesterday. What can I say?

I thank for the good life you lived and for a holy and happy death. This is the desire of every Christian. I pray that we do not forget all that you taught us in words and in actions. Keep resting in the peace of the Lord. Thanks Sister for who you were, what you were and what you did. Keep praying for us. Sr. Jovita Nkem Nzeduru SJR

February 28, 2018

Beloved Mama Helen, as I favouritely called you. Thank you for being the bundle of joy you were. You motherly and loving visits to us in our Pauline Book Centre will be forever cherished. How I miss your big, warm hugs! Thank you for checking on us, to know how we were faring. Your encouraging words and loving care, your forgiving spirit and kind words may God grant to us whom you have left behind. May God wipe our tears and reward you with your deserved rest in his bosom.

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February 23

Sr, I missed your death anniversary by a day. I'm glad I write to you today. You remain ever green in our memories. The other day Chizzy said she misses you and so do I. I miss your constant care and attention but I'm confident you continue to look after us in your heavenly abode. May your love keep us together till we meet to part no more.
Much love from your niece.

February 22

Sister Helen, it has been six years since you left us, yet your memory lingers, especially during Christmas. Those festive seasons were always more joyful in your beautiful presence. Ngozi, born a year after your departure, reminds us so much of you. She's turning four this year. Chinwendu is flourishing, a testament to your enduring prayers. Sister Hilda assures us he is remembered in daily prayers. Your impact was profound, and your blessings continue to be felt, even in your absence. CONTINUE TO REST PEACEFULLY IN GODS BOSOM. Love, Chioma and Ejiofor

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My dear Aunty Sister Helen, continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord Amen

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March 19, 2018

SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE, MSHR
PROFILE
“Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord. And let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace”.

Sr. Helen Onyiuke departed this mortal life on Thursday morning, 22nd February, 2018, at the National Hospital, Abuja, after a brief illness. Before her death, she was a member of the Holy Rosary Sisters, Abuja Community, Southern Nigeria Region. The following is a brief profile of a woman whose life made a difference -

1. Royal Background: Helen was born in the royal Onyiuke Family to Chief Michael and Mrs Margaret (Beke) Onyiuke of Nimo, Njikoka Local Government, Anambra State, Nigeria, on 1st August, 1936. It is recalled that Chief Michael Onyiuke in his royal generosity had requested Bishop Joseph Shanahan to stay back in Nigeria and live in Nimo, rather than return to Ireland on his retirement. Little Helen therefore drank early from the waters of kindness which reality later characterized her whole life.

2. Humble Beginnings: Despite her foundations in a royal household that lived in a magnificent two-storey stone building in Nimo, Helen grew up in humble circumstances. She was glad to tell of how on the death of her father, the family tasted poverty in its stark reality. One of Helen’s brothers, “Brother Gab” was used by God to see the family through. He later became the Chief Justice of Nigeria [Senior Advocate of Nigeria]. Helen attended her Primary School in Nimo – St. Bonaventure and Holy Rosary Convent. Primary education over, she joined Loretto Teacher Training College, Adazi Nnukwu (1953-55) and graduated as an elementary school teacher. Helen remained a teacher all her life, formally and informally, in season and out of season!

3. Thirsting for Wisdom: The Teacher’s Certificate which Helen obtained was a good qualification, but not good enough to join the Holy Rosary Congregation in those days, for they demanded a thorough grounding in Latin and other basics before one could be accepted as a candidate for formation in the religious life. Helen therefore went back to school – to the Holy Rosary Secondary School, Ihioma, Orlu (1957 – 1962). With her were her other Aspirants including Cecilia Eze and Catherine Asomugha.

4. Blossoming in Faith and Love: The divine call to religious life brought Helen to Killeshandra in County Cavan, Ireland – the Motherhouse of the Holy Rosary Sisters. There with her companion Aspirants, she crossed the threshold of the “House on the Hill” and began her religious formation in faith and love. As could be expected from her humble and trustworthy nature,. Helen blossomed in Killeshandra. She took her turn in the kitchen, laundry, poultry farm. She picked potatoes, plucked berries for jam-making, assisted in making Altar bread, and did publicity work. It was a rounded training to add to her studies in Theology and other Sacred Sciences. Passing through Killeshandra prepared you very well for your missionary life. Helen passed the test and was accepted for First Profession of Vows which took place on 14th August 1965, in the Killeshandra Chapel presided over by His Grace, Most Rev. Dr. Charles Heerey, the then Archbishop of Onitsha, on home leave in Ireland.

5. Maturing in Goodness and Faithfulness: To prepare even more for her mission, Helen was sent to England (1967 – 1969). She studied in Bridgwater, Somerset, where she obtained her requirements for admission to University, leading to her first degree in UNN – University of Nigeria (1970 – 1973). Before that, Helen worked in Biafra, attending to kwashiorkor children, some of whom had to be flown out to Sao Tome. She also assisted in Rehabilitation work in Nsukka after the war.

Another brief spell of studies took Helen to Belinter, Ireland, this time to prepare for Formation work in the congregation. She used her skills to maximum in her eleven years as Novice Directress in Nsukka (1974 – 1985). They were years of maturity in goodness, faithfulness and practical wisdom.

In 1986, Loyola University Chicago welcomed Helen to her Master’s Programme, followed by a one-year social work among African American youth in Chicago. The mellow fruitfulness of all these experiences continued to flow into other areas of Helen’s missionary involvement – Sierra Leone (1989 – 1993), South Africa= (1998 – 2003), Southern Nigeria – Retreat and Conference Centre, Nsukka (2003 – 2005) and finally the fund-raising in Abuja (2005 – 2018). Sister Helen was a vibrant and dedicated member of Holy Rosary Parish, Wuse, Abuja – her last port of call.

6. Surrendering totally to Eternal Love: Sister Helen has bowed her head in her final “FIAT” – “Let it be done to me according to thy word”. It is the total surrender built up over the past fifty-two or so years of her journey in the religious life. She had just celebrated the Golden Jubilee in 2015 of her First Vow. And now in answer to the silent sound of the trumpet, Helen quietly slips away and joyfully surrenders herself to the open arms of “this Tremendous Lover”.

Today, 27th March, 2018, countless people bid Sr. Helen Farewell, from North to South, from East to West – it is a chorus of gratitude to God who has made Helen a “special friend” to everyone. Her life certainly made a difference in our journey to Eternity. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.

Sr. Catherine Asomugha, MSHR
Holy Rosary Convent
11 Magazine Avenue, G.R.A., Onitsha, Anambra State.

Tribute to Rev. Sister Helen Onyiuke

March 16, 2018

Holy Rosary Sisters’ Associates, Shanahan House, 19 Umuokoloagu Street, Independence Layout, Enugu. 15th March 2018.

The Regional Leader, Missionary Sisters of the Holy Rosary, Independence Layout, Enugu.

Dear Rev. Sister Stella Nwosu,

TRIBUTE TO LATE REV. SISTER HELEN ONYIUKE

The news of the death of Rev. Sister Helen Onyiuke truly devastated us, for it was not too long ago that she came to Enugu and paid visits to some of our members amongst other people. Moreover we cannot forget in a hurry her special reception of our associate members at Nimo when she lost her brother Chief Greg Onyiuke who was also one of the associate members.

Born into the noble and great Onyiuke family, Sister Helen lived an exemplary life of humility, kindness and prayer. Sister was highly principled but humane. She derived tremendous joy in ministering to people especially, the underprivileged, the poor, the sick, and the aged. In all the communities where she lived, she took good care of the young Rev. Sisters and also ensured that she showed great hospitality to their visitors.

Sister Helen mentored very many girls and women in Nigeria. In her secondary school days at the Holy Rosary College, Ihioma, in the present Imo State, where she was not only a pioneer student but also the senior prefect, she was outstanding for her obedience to the school authorities. She in addition, observed meticulously all rules and regulations of the school. Above all, she exercised great influence on her fellow students through her prayer life, humility and display of exquisite manners in all her actions and conduct.

In adult life, Sister Helen carried out her missionary work diligently and gracefully to the admiration of all those who came her way. At all times at Nsukka or Abuja, her integrity and compassion stood her out not just among those she lived and worked with, but also amongst her relations and the society at large.

We have no doubts in our minds that the thousands of students Sister Helen has brought up will form a formidable legacy for younger generations to benefit from, while her teachings of the word of God will forever be remembered by many homes.

On our part, we the Associates will always cherish her as one of the founders of the Holy Rosary Sisters’ Associates.

Please accept our deep and sincere condolences to you and the entire congregation of the Holy Rosary Sisters on the demise of our dear Sister Helen, and continue to count on our masses and prayers for the repose of her soul.

Yours sincerely in Christ Jesus,

Chief Chris. C. Onwuzo

President, Holy Rosary Sisters’ Associates, Enugu.

On behalf of all the members.

Godlen Jubilee in Ireland

March 15, 2018

One of the pictures taken during Sr Helen's Golden Year in Ireland.

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