This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Spring Friedlander, 75 years old, born on July 24, 1943, and passed away on March 22, 2019. We will remember her forever.
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March 28, 2019
March 28, 2019
Much love spring, grateful to have known you. Blessings that you Rest In Peace surrounded by love
March 27, 2019
March 27, 2019
Dear Spring;
You and I made a great time together for the last 6 months. I met you through our common connection to the HAI organization.
That truly describes your intention -- building connections. Because I saw the name of your friend on your phone, I got to call my friend that I had lost connection with.
And you had a picture of yourself with another of my special friends as well.
I am a larger heart because of our time together, and have watered my face every day recently because of missing you... and that too feels right.
David
You and I made a great time together for the last 6 months. I met you through our common connection to the HAI organization.
That truly describes your intention -- building connections. Because I saw the name of your friend on your phone, I got to call my friend that I had lost connection with.
And you had a picture of yourself with another of my special friends as well.
I am a larger heart because of our time together, and have watered my face every day recently because of missing you... and that too feels right.
David
March 27, 2019
March 27, 2019
Love you, always, Spring. Be well now.
March 27, 2019
March 27, 2019
A warm,. talented and honest woman, very much herself at all times.
I will miss her.
I will miss her.
March 26, 2019
March 26, 2019
I had many long conversations with Spring on community living. She seemed to be at all my HAI Workshops - Always there with a little ditty about shared housing and a smile on her face. I miss her...
March 25, 2019
March 25, 2019
Spring, I will miss our moments and unique faux pas communication style. Rest easy for a bit, then, come back and stay for a while, my friend. Terra awaits. I'll leave the porch light on for you :)
March 23, 2019
March 23, 2019
We will miss Spring very much. We always had a good time together!
March 23, 2019
March 23, 2019
I am so glad i ran into her recently, so she could teach me a bit about about her planned passing before hand, and we could get clear on what she wanted to do with the Breakaway school materials i have for the U of Houston archive I am donating to... and the SF State Labor History Archive will receive the
Tradeswomen materials. What a great organizer she was.
and Aleia your first name is gorgeous.. is it a flower ? your last name intrigues me also because maybe 4 decades ago i met someone with that last name and it suddenly occurs to me that I should have thanked Spring for an introduction because the person was very, very kind to me. i slept for 22 straight hours on her floor.. i wonder if you were there!? Please email me at lauraxarchives@gmail.com ( lauraxinstitute.org) thanks and condolences to all!
Tradeswomen materials. What a great organizer she was.
and Aleia your first name is gorgeous.. is it a flower ? your last name intrigues me also because maybe 4 decades ago i met someone with that last name and it suddenly occurs to me that I should have thanked Spring for an introduction because the person was very, very kind to me. i slept for 22 straight hours on her floor.. i wonder if you were there!? Please email me at lauraxarchives@gmail.com ( lauraxinstitute.org) thanks and condolences to all!
March 23, 2019
March 23, 2019
I honor Spring's life and death. She brought her conversation and questions to The Brain Exchange, and we were enriched by her honesty, clarity and integrity.
March 22, 2019
March 22, 2019
Farewell Spring- Thanks for your contributions to us all while you were here.
March 22, 2019
March 22, 2019
You will be missed, my dear friend. You were an amazing friend to so many. You were a pioneer for women in construction, and now for ending one's life on one's own terms.
March 22, 2019
March 22, 2019
Aunt Spring you will be missed and loved forever by me! Thank you for being an essential part of my family's life. Rest Easy
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March 22
March 22
Dear Spring, I think of you often, and miss our many trips and time together.
And your brave choices, a model for us all.
Pat
And your brave choices, a model for us all.
Pat
February 15
February 15
Spring,
spider lilies dance in the wind for you.
Reading about your story, I found tears falling from my eyes,
not in sadness for what was,
but tears driven by sublimity.
Your passing is beautiful and good, for you chose for it to be.
Thank you for your bravery.
Thank you for doing what you believed in and felt called to do.
Thank you for taking a stand for the ones who cannot.
In your death, death for many has been remade.
שלום אהוב
Pictures of you loving the community around you,
of you young and old,
of you doing the work that you so loved.
I cry for you happy and beautiful tears.
Peace oh beloved.
Peace is what you sought.
Peace is what you found.
Flowers bloom in Spring.
spider lilies dance in the wind for you.
Reading about your story, I found tears falling from my eyes,
not in sadness for what was,
but tears driven by sublimity.
Your passing is beautiful and good, for you chose for it to be.
Thank you for your bravery.
Thank you for doing what you believed in and felt called to do.
Thank you for taking a stand for the ones who cannot.
In your death, death for many has been remade.
שלום אהוב
Pictures of you loving the community around you,
of you young and old,
of you doing the work that you so loved.
I cry for you happy and beautiful tears.
Peace oh beloved.
Peace is what you sought.
Peace is what you found.
Flowers bloom in Spring.
July 24, 2023
July 24, 2023
Oh, dear Spring, You will always be remembered, and so missed. So many times, I think of all you did and how great it was being with you, both in our NY days, and out here. You are missed, kid. (I called her kid sometimes because she was 4 years younger than me).
Gallery
Spring in Lucerne, Switzerland, on her last full day on the planet.
Found this photo of Spring from her birthday in 2008 today. I still miss her and think of her often.
Miss you Spring! (picture from 2003)
From trip to visit Straus Home Ranch last fall
From trip to visit Straus Home Ranch last fall
A weekend with friends at Straus Home Ranch, in Marshall California, 2018
My daughter and I last visit with Aunt Spring :)
2010, in my living room
2015 housemates at 66th St.
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Re Switzerland
August 7, 2021
by Laura X
hello, I heard about something called the Death Cafe where people talk about anything death-related and it is somewhat run as a 12 step meeting.. no cross-talk. in any case, my friend, who attended some of the meetings, said that someone in the meeting said that the place in Switzerland is no more because they were sued. another person said it costs 20,000 because they were sued.
I would appreciate knowing what's up.. a Spring sat me down to tell me her plans and I thought of many people who could use this info.. Please contact me off this site, if necessary.. by emailing me at laurax@4lx.org thanks mucho,Laura. and ps sorry for your loss of Spring and mine too.. Best of health to all, Laura
I would appreciate knowing what's up.. a Spring sat me down to tell me her plans and I thought of many people who could use this info.. Please contact me off this site, if necessary.. by emailing me at laurax@4lx.org thanks mucho,Laura. and ps sorry for your loss of Spring and mine too.. Best of health to all, Laura
July 25, 2021
Seeing the photos of Spring and me walking in the woods so reminds me of our so many trips to Strauss family farm.
You are so missed, dear Spring, aka Ruth from our much earlier days.
7/25/21
Dear Spring,
Thinking of you on your recent birthday: You were so brave, so ahead of our times in making the decision that you did. But then you were always ahead of your time, in your career, in who you were, and how you lived your life. You will always be remembered; you are so missed - and you always will be.
You are so missed, dear Spring, aka Ruth from our much earlier days.
7/25/21
Dear Spring,
Thinking of you on your recent birthday: You were so brave, so ahead of our times in making the decision that you did. But then you were always ahead of your time, in your career, in who you were, and how you lived your life. You will always be remembered; you are so missed - and you always will be.
March 22, 2020
by Deet Lewis
I first met Ruthy (long long before she was Spring) when she was 9 a nd I was 15. Her parents .... Ben andEva brought her to the moadon (meeting place) where our youth group welcomed children starting at age 10. But her parents said she was tall and very smart for her age. That was true! And we continued to know one another for the next few years within that group (HaShomer HaTZair). And it was so nice to keep in touch over tthe years when we both were adults, and the age difference didn´t matter at all.
MAny years later, I moved to Esalen Institute, and it was easy for me to get to Berkeley and stay at that wonderful communal household.
Since then, I´ve lived in Antigua Guatemala, and didn´t hear from her from until the note telling me of her plans to go to Switzerland to end her life. A difficult and noble decision!
I will ALWAYS remember her, lovingly!
MAny years later, I moved to Esalen Institute, and it was easy for me to get to Berkeley and stay at that wonderful communal household.
Since then, I´ve lived in Antigua Guatemala, and didn´t hear from her from until the note telling me of her plans to go to Switzerland to end her life. A difficult and noble decision!
I will ALWAYS remember her, lovingly!