Sister Elizabeth's Eulogy given at Sister Margarite's funeral at St Joseph's Catholic Church, Epsom.
December 21, 2021
by John Flood
Sister Margarite Windle
First of all, on behalf of all the Sisters in the A/I Region I wish to offer sincere and
heartfelt sympathy to Sr. Margarite’s family, to Sr. Fionnuala, her companion in
Community over many years, to Fr. Bill and the entire Parish community here in
St. Joseph’s. We are grateful to God and to Margarite’s parents, Patrick and
Margaret for the gift of their daughter to our Religious family of SCJM.
People are one of God’s greatest gifts to us. And what a wonderful gift we received in Margarite-affectionately known as Dora to her family. It is natural that we are sad today as that gift is taken from us, and we will truly miss her, but are grateful for all the blessings we have received through her.
Those with whom Margarite worked experienced her loyal, consistent, reliable support, and appreciated her insightful, committed and dedicated approach to whatever the task in hand. As a member of various Leadership Teams within our Religious Family Margarite gave of herself entirely to the growth and development of the A/I Province over many years. In her own quiet and gentle but firm way, she had the ability to look beyond the here and now and broaden the horizon of a discussion to move beyond ourselves as a congregation and include a more global aspect, and perhaps ruffle some feathers by doing so.!!
To those who are sensitive to the needs of others, life offers many opportunities to practise the commandment of love. It is not a question of doing big things, nor is it a question of necessarily giving things; rather it is a question of giving of oneself in little ways, giving of one’s time, energy and love. Without love we know the world would be a very bleak place. So it is not surprising that love occupies a central place in the Gospel. Christ said his followers would be recognised by the love they showed for one another; He even went further and said they would be judged on love, and St. John. Chrysostem was only echoing Xt. When he wrote ‘in the evening of life we will be examined on love’. Margarite will definitely have got distinction plus...
As she hears the wonderful words of scripture “Well done good and faithful servant… enter into the joy of your Lord”.
Each of us here today carry in our hearts our own fond memories of Margarite, that make up part of the rich tapestry of her life, and I wish to share with you Margarite’s own words, written on the occasion of her Golden Jubilee back in 2014. She wrote the following: -
“As I reflect on fifty years as a SCJM, I am filled with profound gratitude
➢ For my loving Catholic home and family.
➢ For my call to be a SCJM
➢ For my Congregation and the Communities to which I belonged.
➢ For my friends and colleagues who support me on my life’s journey
➢ For the many events, joys and sorrows that have shaped my life
➢ For the witness, inspiration and perseverance of committed SCJM’s
and above all for the invitation to:
‘live the life of Jesus, in the Father, under the radiance of the Spirit of love, and so to be apostles according to the heart of Jesus’ (C8).
Margarite remained a very active and involved SCJM right to the end, as she spearheaded research for the recent project on THE HISTORY OF OUR CONGREGATION; we owe her a very deep debt of gratitude. Thank you Margarite.
Today as we give thanks for Margarite’s life of loving service, we recall her many gifts which she shared so generously. Since her death so many people have talked about her quiet, gentle, unassuming presence. Her deep Faith and her Prayer Life were the guiding principles that sustained her through the ups and downs of life.
Let me borrow the words of John O’ Donohue when he wrote
“May you continue to inspire us.
Margarite may you continue to inspire us.
To enter each day with a generous heart.
To serve the call of courage and love.
Until we see your beautiful face again
In that land where there is no more separation,
Where all tears will be wiped from our mind,
And where we will never lose you again.”
May her gentle soul rest in peace.
Sr Elizabeth
16th November 2021
People are one of God’s greatest gifts to us. And what a wonderful gift we received in Margarite-affectionately known as Dora to her family. It is natural that we are sad today as that gift is taken from us, and we will truly miss her, but are grateful for all the blessings we have received through her.
Those with whom Margarite worked experienced her loyal, consistent, reliable support, and appreciated her insightful, committed and dedicated approach to whatever the task in hand. As a member of various Leadership Teams within our Religious Family Margarite gave of herself entirely to the growth and development of the A/I Province over many years. In her own quiet and gentle but firm way, she had the ability to look beyond the here and now and broaden the horizon of a discussion to move beyond ourselves as a congregation and include a more global aspect, and perhaps ruffle some feathers by doing so.!!
To those who are sensitive to the needs of others, life offers many opportunities to practise the commandment of love. It is not a question of doing big things, nor is it a question of necessarily giving things; rather it is a question of giving of oneself in little ways, giving of one’s time, energy and love. Without love we know the world would be a very bleak place. So it is not surprising that love occupies a central place in the Gospel. Christ said his followers would be recognised by the love they showed for one another; He even went further and said they would be judged on love, and St. John. Chrysostem was only echoing Xt. When he wrote ‘in the evening of life we will be examined on love’. Margarite will definitely have got distinction plus...
As she hears the wonderful words of scripture “Well done good and faithful servant… enter into the joy of your Lord”.
Each of us here today carry in our hearts our own fond memories of Margarite, that make up part of the rich tapestry of her life, and I wish to share with you Margarite’s own words, written on the occasion of her Golden Jubilee back in 2014. She wrote the following: -
“As I reflect on fifty years as a SCJM, I am filled with profound gratitude
➢ For my loving Catholic home and family.
➢ For my call to be a SCJM
➢ For my Congregation and the Communities to which I belonged.
➢ For my friends and colleagues who support me on my life’s journey
➢ For the many events, joys and sorrows that have shaped my life
➢ For the witness, inspiration and perseverance of committed SCJM’s
and above all for the invitation to:
‘live the life of Jesus, in the Father, under the radiance of the Spirit of love, and so to be apostles according to the heart of Jesus’ (C8).
Margarite remained a very active and involved SCJM right to the end, as she spearheaded research for the recent project on THE HISTORY OF OUR CONGREGATION; we owe her a very deep debt of gratitude. Thank you Margarite.
Today as we give thanks for Margarite’s life of loving service, we recall her many gifts which she shared so generously. Since her death so many people have talked about her quiet, gentle, unassuming presence. Her deep Faith and her Prayer Life were the guiding principles that sustained her through the ups and downs of life.
Let me borrow the words of John O’ Donohue when he wrote
“May you continue to inspire us.
Margarite may you continue to inspire us.
To enter each day with a generous heart.
To serve the call of courage and love.
Until we see your beautiful face again
In that land where there is no more separation,
Where all tears will be wiped from our mind,
And where we will never lose you again.”
May her gentle soul rest in peace.
Sr Elizabeth
16th November 2021