ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Stacey Henry. She was our Sister, Daughter and Friend. We will remember her forever.

Posted by Paul White on August 1, 2020
Bill,
  It seems impossible that nine years have passed since Stacey's passing. I know that you, her mother and her family hold her close in your hearts and love her as much today as you did on the day that she left you. It is so difficult to go on without those that we love so much. I believe that those gone before us are at peace and don't suffer the anguish that those left behind do as they know that it is simply a matter of time. Now being 72 years old I know how quickly life passes and that in a blink in time we will all be together once again. As I suffer through the loss of many good friends and loved family members I think about you often and I know the great loss you endure.
Sincerely,
Paul
Posted by Billy Henry on March 29, 2019
Well as life goes on we still find many days that go by hard with your passing 8 years ago. I still have many questions I will get the answer to when I meet him face to face. Just the other day I scared the girls here at 7:00 am with a cowbell that Stacy had got me for Christmas I told them about the time I had underwear on my head and was pounding on your bedroom window scared the crap out of you. Haha good times. Just know that your loved well and greatly missed. Every day we try to teach our girls to be thankful for what we have complain less smile more for there’s no perfect life it’s just life. The road to success is long there are many mountains to climb. At the end of each day take a moment to look around you evaluate your success & mistakes because as time goes by we’re going to need it when we’re older.
Love and greatly missed
Billy Stacy Neka & Kyra
Posted by Matthew Henry on March 29, 2019
Man Stacey, I cannot believe its been 8 long years since you left us- What I wouldn't give to have you near me these days- Just to have the chance to introduce my kids to you- For them to see their Aunt Stacey- That would be my wish. I still struggle with your passing from time to time, however, knowing you are so much better and in a much place makes me smile- Keep shining down on us, Miss you my sister.
Posted by Billy Henry on March 29, 2016
It's so hard to believe that 5 years have been. Not a day goes by that we don't think about you. We think about you just about every day with our girls. Telling them about us growing up. Things to be thankful of. To give thanks for the mistakes we've made, thanks for the people we have ment and the things we do that have made us who we are today. I just hope Im doing It right. We all love and miss you so much. Love Billy Stacy Neka and Kyra.
Posted by Paul White on March 29, 2016
Stacey you will clearly never be forgotten. So many hearts sharing their expressions of love for you. Parents who would have given life itself to sustain you. At 28 years old you had achieved all that any of us can ever hope for. While I know that your mom and your dad awake every morning and fall asleep every night thinking about you, I hope that time has eased the sorrow and the pain and that they have found solace in knowing that each passing year brings us all closer to that unimaginably joyous reunion.
Posted by Mary Romero on August 4, 2015
I think of you everyday Stacey- you are missed.
Posted by JoAnn Adams on March 30, 2015
Stacey, I think of you often. Love and miss you. JoAnn
Posted by Jayne Holtman on March 30, 2015
I miss you. See you in heaven one day.
Posted by Paul White on March 29, 2015
I hope that time has eased the pain somewhat and begun the healing. There is comfort in the knowledge that in the end there will be great joy in our reunion with those that we have so loved in this life. I wish the very best for all of the good people of the William Henry family.
Posted by JoAnn Adams on August 5, 2012
Happy Birthday Stacey! I miss you. I know you're in a better place and hopefully Toby and Bear are at your feet!
Posted by Billy Henry on August 1, 2012
Happy birthday we all love and miss you
Posted by Tyler Nadeau on August 1, 2012
Happy birthday Stacey love you always and forever
Posted by Matthew Henry on August 1, 2012
Happy Birthday to you Stacey - We Love you so much and miss you even more- Fly high Today !!!
Posted by Rhonda Moore on March 30, 2012
I miss you. I think of you all the time The years I worked with you at willowbrook was awesome. The memories and laughter you gave me still helps me thru tough times today.  my "scary movie" watching buddy and "the stupidier the better" movie watching buddy. the best of times. nobody could do the sprinkler like you.  :-)
Posted by Linda Koenig on March 29, 2012
Thinking of Stacey and all the Henrys today. I know how much she is missed but she is spending special time with Grandma Mamie and Grandpa Willie. Thanks for setting up this memorial Matt. My Mom and I talk about Stacey often and so admired her strength and courage.
Posted by Christine Fernandez on March 1, 2012
I just wanted to let you know that your picture is the only one I have on my desk at work. It reminds me to try to live life with at least half of the courage and strenght you did.
Posted by Matthew Henry on February 15, 2012
Happy Valentines day Stacey! Miss you!
Posted by Matthew Henry on January 1, 2012
Happy New Years Stacey. Hope your Party is a good one. Miss you!!!
Posted by Matthew Henry on October 4, 2011
Hey Stacey, This weekend we walked in your name for the JDRF. We raised 1900.00... Been thinking about you a lot lately. Hope your doing well up there. Miss you tons
Posted by Sarah Conery on August 1, 2011
Happy Birthday Stace. I miss you...
Posted by Christine Fernandez on August 1, 2011
Happy Day Stay-C! Miss you and love ya!
Posted by Heidi Armbruster on August 1, 2011
Happy Birthday Dear Cousin. I have your picture in my kitchen and think about you every day.
Posted by Matthew Henry on August 1, 2011
Sweet Stacey, 
Words cannot explain how much I miss you. But today is your day and always will be. I love you so much and keep you with me close. Happy Birthday Stace
Posted by Matthew Henry on June 21, 2011
Hello Stacey. Happy first day of Summer.
Posted by Christine Fernandez on May 31, 2011
Stacey, I need to thank you. Life has been crazy this week but it could have been a lot worse if I hadn't gone to the US for you and your family in April. You're my guardian angel! Thanks!
Posted by Matthew Henry on May 11, 2011
Hello Stacey, I've been thinking about you a lot today and missing you even more. I just anted tp stop by and say hello and that I Miss you!
Posted by Billy Henry on April 24, 2011
For a wonderfull sister what a good time we had on the boat and jetski when you came to Washington a few years ago, remember going to sealion island, where all the sealions where the baby ones playing in the water.
Posted by Pam Liner on April 18, 2011
I worked with Stacy at Willowbrook Animal Hosp, for 5ish years, she always had a smile and always made us laugh. She loved all the animals with all her heart. Stacy now is in heaven surrounded by lots of furry things, and I know she is happy. 
Posted by Ann Husky on April 13, 2011
Matt, what a beautiful tribute to Stacey! The pictures are beautiful! I'm sure she likes it! We will always remember Stacey's smile and happy outlook on life.
Posted by Tyler Nadeau on April 10, 2011
I miss and love you lilshit,stacey was my only cousin i have ever cared about this much i know your being the same old TOMBOY i know you will always watch over me so save me a spot in your heart cause i know you take so much of mine LUV
Posted by JoAnn Adams on April 7, 2011
I have so many wonderful memories of Stacey. I remember a recent party at her home. She was so happy to be surrounded by her friends and family. I could see the joy in her face and her smile lit up the room. I'll miss you Stacey!
Posted by Thomas Nadeau on April 4, 2011
To my only niece you will be truly missed and we love you so very much you have touched so many lives and were so special in so many ways I LOVE YOU your uncle Joe
Posted by Norma Boehler on April 3, 2011
Norma Boehler
Stacey, what a beautiful lady! I remember seeing you in the hospital with your Dad, and finally getting to meet you. I felt such a stong spirit from you, and that big smile you gave me, such warmth for life.
You will be missed.
Posted by Pat Jappe on April 3, 2011
I will always remember Stacey joining us for lunch at Irwin Preschool...her beautiful smile and pleasant personality lit up the room. Her kind heart and love of animals was a gift to this world. May she find rest in the arms of God.
Posted by Jayne Holtman on April 2, 2011
A mischievous twinkle of her eye
An unabridged laugh
spilling from the perfect smile

These shall remain forever in our hearts
Posted by Patricia Casey on April 2, 2011
Stacey, through Matt,you became family to us and a sister to Sarah. You inspired us with your courage and fighting spirit. I know you are swimming with the dolphins now.
Posted by Linda Koenig on April 2, 2011
Stacey was an inspiration to all who knew her. I know how much she was loved by her Grandma and Grandpa and know they were waiting in heaven to welcome her with open arms.
Posted by John Gist on April 2, 2011
I had only met Stacy 1 time, a few years ago at her birthday party, but have known of her for several years thru her Aunt Barb. She was truly an inspiration to me. I dedicated a motorcycle ride with Bikers Against Diabetes to her.
Posted by Andrea Petree on April 1, 2011
What a wonderful site to honor such a special young lady. We are praying for you all at this difficult time. I will never forget the special bond my 3 little girls had with Stacey. She was so precious and touched many lives!
Posted by Betsy Preece on April 1, 2011
My fondest memory of Stacy was at a car show. She set up Ronald McDonald in front of Roger's Car. We all know what happened next. But Stacy just sat there talking with Ronald lining him up for a picture so it would be just right. Very Funny! Love B
Posted by Barbara Armbruster on April 1, 2011
Beautiful images of a beautiful girl. I remember most of all her giggle. When she and Heidi were tiny, two or so, they would play hide and seek with Pa Henry and Stacey's giggle would always give away her hiding spot!
Posted by Mary Romero on April 1, 2011
Stacey, such a bright and beautiful young woman. You touched so many people and animals with your kind heart. Our thoughts, love and prayers to you and to your family.

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Posted by Paul White on August 1, 2020
Bill,
  It seems impossible that nine years have passed since Stacey's passing. I know that you, her mother and her family hold her close in your hearts and love her as much today as you did on the day that she left you. It is so difficult to go on without those that we love so much. I believe that those gone before us are at peace and don't suffer the anguish that those left behind do as they know that it is simply a matter of time. Now being 72 years old I know how quickly life passes and that in a blink in time we will all be together once again. As I suffer through the loss of many good friends and loved family members I think about you often and I know the great loss you endure.
Sincerely,
Paul
Posted by Billy Henry on March 29, 2019
Well as life goes on we still find many days that go by hard with your passing 8 years ago. I still have many questions I will get the answer to when I meet him face to face. Just the other day I scared the girls here at 7:00 am with a cowbell that Stacy had got me for Christmas I told them about the time I had underwear on my head and was pounding on your bedroom window scared the crap out of you. Haha good times. Just know that your loved well and greatly missed. Every day we try to teach our girls to be thankful for what we have complain less smile more for there’s no perfect life it’s just life. The road to success is long there are many mountains to climb. At the end of each day take a moment to look around you evaluate your success & mistakes because as time goes by we’re going to need it when we’re older.
Love and greatly missed
Billy Stacy Neka & Kyra
Posted by Matthew Henry on March 29, 2019
Man Stacey, I cannot believe its been 8 long years since you left us- What I wouldn't give to have you near me these days- Just to have the chance to introduce my kids to you- For them to see their Aunt Stacey- That would be my wish. I still struggle with your passing from time to time, however, knowing you are so much better and in a much place makes me smile- Keep shining down on us, Miss you my sister.
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Passage of Time

Shared by Paul White on March 29, 2014

Bill I haven't forgotten you or the depth of your love for Stacey, I think about you often. Most of us have faced the loss of someone that we love and we can relate to the pain. Somehow I perceive that the greatest heartache of all is that of the father facing the death of a daughter. I have two daughters who are my world as Stacey was the world to you. I hope that as time has passed you have found some comfort and some peace in all that you and Stacey had together. Peace and comfort in the knowledge that Stacey knew how much that she was loved and in the knowledge that she loved you so much. I believe that in the broad scheme of life it will be just a short time before you will look upon her smiling face once again. Tears of joy will fill your eyes and that heartache will be as it never was.

Your Friend,

Paul White

The little fish.

Shared by Barbara Armbruster on August 1, 2011

Pa Henry bought a kiddie wading pool and filled it with water in his back yard.  He made fishing poles (2) and tied lifesvers to the string.  Heidi and Stacey would jump in and be the fish and pa would go fishing for those little girls for hours.  I do not think he ever caught a fish becase these were well trained fish.  They would eat the lifesavers of the string and keep swimming till the "bait" ran out!   In the quietness of this day I can still hear Stacey's little giggle.  I know she is in a better place but she is missed.  You did a great job with that little fish Bill and Shiela!

Nutz -n- Fudge

Shared by Christine Fernandez on May 16, 2011

 

“How lucky I am to have something

that makes saying goodbye so hard”

 

I have been meaning to write this for sometime now. At first I couldn't, I just wasn't ready. Then there was no time, no internet, no whatever. But everything happens for a reason and today, now is my time, not to say goodbye, to remember and smile at the treasured memories I shared with an amazing person. Today I needed strength. Today I needed to remember Stacey.

Stacey and I had an 'unconventional' friendship. 9 years ago when I first 'met' her, I knew her as UwouldntBelieve, one of her favourite 311 songs, in an msn chatroom. We just clicked. I had never met a person who was WEIRD as I was! Ha, it was awesome. We would chat for hours about nothing and have the best laughs.

We had the same insane random thought patterns that very few people could follow our conversations. So often we'd type the same thing at the same time. Making up our own gang signs out of baseball signals. We were and always will be Nutz and Fudge, the two best ice cream toppings!

One of my favourite conversations was about a news article. 40 drunken santas raided a town centre stealing and running a muck. They even attacked a Christmas Tree. Part of the conversation...

 

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

trippin people with garland tied between two trees

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

wearing fake santa beards with signs that say damn the man

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

posting naughty pictures of the elf's "after hours" party last year

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

LMFAO

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

hahahahaha

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

mean while one drunk emotion tree sits on the curb holding a box of tooth picks crying, pouring out a little tree water for his fallen homies

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

all those wrongfully chopped down without a permit

The end of our conversation went a lil something like that....

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

only to find out that walruses are cheap jew like members of the SP [south pole] who don't tip well enough to make a living

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

This year's christmas show "Rud ‘take its all’ olph"

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

omg omg omg breatheeeeeeeeeee!

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

HAHAHAHA

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

how is it possible for us to take christmas and turn it into a protest and reindeer porno?

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

We’re just that good! Great minds like dirty…. I mean alike?

Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:

nothing is sacred with us lmao

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

LMFAO aawww life wont be as much fun if it was... and we would never be allowed to speak.. or type!

Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:

Im so saving this conversation for the grand kids!

 

Like I said, just crazy randomness. Stacey was the only one I could do that with. She was one of my best friends. She was there for the good times and the bad. I tried to be there for her.

Sept 25, 2009, the day before my wedding ranks up in my 10 best days ever because Stacey and I finally met! BWAHAHA! She was an honorary bridesmaid. Her parents, being the wonderful people they are, drove Stacey 8 hours to be there for me. Something I will never ever forget. Having Stacey there meant the world to me. Everyone who had made a major impact on my life was there, her presence made it complete.

If there was anyone in the world who truly understood me and accepted me and boosted my 'creativity', it was Stacey. She was my soul twin. And my music guru! Although a small part of my heart will always have sadness for her lose, my heart won't be so big without her. My life won't have been so colourful without her. My future won't be so bright without her looking over me.

I hope to have half of Stacey's strength to live life to the fullest. I want to see the colour pink and remember her smile. To celebrate 3/11 every year. To make sure Napoleon Dynamite lives on FOREVER! To own crazy socks. To care for our four-legged and scale covered and water breathing family members. To watch Judge Judy every day... ok maybe not so much that one, but to remember how luck I am to have Stacey in my heart and her family was my friends.

Stacey, you rock my socks and brighten my life. I love you and will miss you always.

Forever, Fudge – Xtine - Christine