This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Stacey Henry. She was our Sister, Daughter and Friend. We will remember her forever.
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It amazes me as we grow older how quickly the years blow by. As I grow older I am somewhat torn between a thirst for living and longing for all of my family that have gone before me. I believe that you have a sense of what I am saying. I know that you would give everything to walk with Stacey once again and to talk about what life has been like in her absence. In her presence those very difficult times will disappear very quickly. Such a wonderful father daughter relationship as you have had with Stacey is to be revered by all. I know how much you love Stacey and that you know that she will be waiting with elation to greet you when the time comes.
Paul
Dad
Miss you,
Mom and Dad
LOVE YOU.
Your little buddy
Eleven years has passed very quickly for most. I know that is not the case for you and your family. Grief has no time limit. The loss of a child a very special child changes life forever. Stacey was the brightest light in your lives and without her the path forward is not as clear. As I lose those that I love I hold on to faith offering hope that there will be reunion in the end. I know how much Stacey was loved.
Paul
Mom and Dad
Dad and Mom and your Frankie
i think about you, Stacey and your family frequently. Year 2020 was a very difficult year for all of us. I lost both long time friends and a sister. It seems that we never get far from the pain of such loss. The years numb the pain somewhat but we never escape an area of emptiness in our lives. It seems impossible to believe that ten years could have passed. There is comfort in knowing that just as quickly as that time has passed we will be reunited with those that we have loved and have lost. Bill I hope that you, Sheila and family are doing well.
It seems impossible that nine years have passed since Stacey's passing. I know that you, her mother and her family hold her close in your hearts and love her as much today as you did on the day that she left you. It is so difficult to go on without those that we love so much. I believe that those gone before us are at peace and don't suffer the anguish that those left behind do as they know that it is simply a matter of time. Now being 72 years old I know how quickly life passes and that in a blink in time we will all be together once again. As I suffer through the loss of many good friends and loved family members I think about you often and I know the great loss you endure.
Sincerely,
Paul
Love and greatly missed
Billy Stacy Neka & Kyra
Words cannot explain how much I miss you. But today is your day and always will be. I love you so much and keep you with me close. Happy Birthday Stace
Stacey, what a beautiful lady! I remember seeing you in the hospital with your Dad, and finally getting to meet you. I felt such a stong spirit from you, and that big smile you gave me, such warmth for life.
You will be missed.
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Passage of Time
Bill I haven't forgotten you or the depth of your love for Stacey, I think about you often. Most of us have faced the loss of someone that we love and we can relate to the pain. Somehow I perceive that the greatest heartache of all is that of the father facing the death of a daughter. I have two daughters who are my world as Stacey was the world to you. I hope that as time has passed you have found some comfort and some peace in all that you and Stacey had together. Peace and comfort in the knowledge that Stacey knew how much that she was loved and in the knowledge that she loved you so much. I believe that in the broad scheme of life it will be just a short time before you will look upon her smiling face once again. Tears of joy will fill your eyes and that heartache will be as it never was.
Your Friend,
Paul White
The little fish.
Pa Henry bought a kiddie wading pool and filled it with water in his back yard. He made fishing poles (2) and tied lifesvers to the string. Heidi and Stacey would jump in and be the fish and pa would go fishing for those little girls for hours. I do not think he ever caught a fish becase these were well trained fish. They would eat the lifesavers of the string and keep swimming till the "bait" ran out! In the quietness of this day I can still hear Stacey's little giggle. I know she is in a better place but she is missed. You did a great job with that little fish Bill and Shiela!
Nutz -n- Fudge
“How lucky I am to have something
that makes saying goodbye so hard”
I have been meaning to write this for sometime now. At first I couldn't, I just wasn't ready. Then there was no time, no internet, no whatever. But everything happens for a reason and today, now is my time, not to say goodbye, to remember and smile at the treasured memories I shared with an amazing person. Today I needed strength. Today I needed to remember Stacey.
Stacey and I had an 'unconventional' friendship. 9 years ago when I first 'met' her, I knew her as UwouldntBelieve, one of her favourite 311 songs, in an msn chatroom. We just clicked. I had never met a person who was WEIRD as I was! Ha, it was awesome. We would chat for hours about nothing and have the best laughs.
We had the same insane random thought patterns that very few people could follow our conversations. So often we'd type the same thing at the same time. Making up our own gang signs out of baseball signals. We were and always will be Nutz and Fudge, the two best ice cream toppings!
One of my favourite conversations was about a news article. 40 drunken santas raided a town centre stealing and running a muck. They even attacked a Christmas Tree. Part of the conversation...
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
trippin people with garland tied between two trees
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
wearing fake santa beards with signs that say damn the man
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
posting naughty pictures of the elf's "after hours" party last year
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
LMFAO
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
hahahahaha
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
mean while one drunk emotion tree sits on the curb holding a box of tooth picks crying, pouring out a little tree water for his fallen homies
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
all those wrongfully chopped down without a permit
The end of our conversation went a lil something like that....
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
only to find out that walruses are cheap jew like members of the SP [south pole] who don't tip well enough to make a living
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
This year's christmas show "Rud ‘take its all’ olph"
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
omg omg omg breatheeeeeeeeeee!
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
HAHAHAHA
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
how is it possible for us to take christmas and turn it into a protest and reindeer porno?
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
We’re just that good! Great minds like dirty…. I mean alike?
Smalls McNinja (Stacey) says:
nothing is sacred with us lmao
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
LMFAO aawww life wont be as much fun if it was... and we would never be allowed to speak.. or type!
Kung Pao Ninja Hurt (Me) says:
Im so saving this conversation for the grand kids!
Like I said, just crazy randomness. Stacey was the only one I could do that with. She was one of my best friends. She was there for the good times and the bad. I tried to be there for her.
Sept 25, 2009, the day before my wedding ranks up in my 10 best days ever because Stacey and I finally met! BWAHAHA! She was an honorary bridesmaid. Her parents, being the wonderful people they are, drove Stacey 8 hours to be there for me. Something I will never ever forget. Having Stacey there meant the world to me. Everyone who had made a major impact on my life was there, her presence made it complete.
If there was anyone in the world who truly understood me and accepted me and boosted my 'creativity', it was Stacey. She was my soul twin. And my music guru! Although a small part of my heart will always have sadness for her lose, my heart won't be so big without her. My life won't have been so colourful without her. My future won't be so bright without her looking over me.
I hope to have half of Stacey's strength to live life to the fullest. I want to see the colour pink and remember her smile. To celebrate 3/11 every year. To make sure Napoleon Dynamite lives on FOREVER! To own crazy socks. To care for our four-legged and scale covered and water breathing family members. To watch Judge Judy every day... ok maybe not so much that one, but to remember how luck I am to have Stacey in my heart and her family was my friends.
Stacey, you rock my socks and brighten my life. I love you and will miss you always.
Forever, Fudge – Xtine - Christine