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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Stella Trottier~Graves who was born on March 14, 1970 and passed away on September 17, 2010. We will remember her forever.

WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME,
When tomorrow starts without me,
And I’m not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn’t get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you’ll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I’d have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I’d always thought,
I didn’t want to die.
I had so much to live for,
So much yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for awhile,
I’d say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.
But then I fully realized,
That this could never be
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked
through heaven’s gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,
He said “This is eternity,
And all I’ve promised you.”
Today for life on earth is past,
But here it starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day’s the same way
There’s no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times you did some things,
You knew you shouldn’t do.
But you have been forgiven
And now at last you’re free.
So won’t you take my hand
And share my life with me?
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I’m right here, in your heart.

March 14
March 14
My Stella, Gone to soon forever Loved and missed. Forever Beautiful!
September 18, 2023
September 18, 2023
13 years not too many days go by and I think k of you!! Just thinking about our bud rides when we played Volleyball as teens; love you dearly cousin
September 17, 2021
September 17, 2021
My Dear Stella, 11years since you went to Heaven. Where does the time go? You are still loved and missed. Someday we will all be together. Love you always Auntie Barbara.
March 14, 2021
March 14, 2021
Dearest Stella, another Birthday in Heaven wow how time seems to fly. Our pain never goes away. Love you Auntie Barbara.
August 13, 2020
August 13, 2020
The anniversary of your your death is coming. Stella pray for me .,
February 14, 2018
February 14, 2018
Stella, It has been very hard since you left us. I remember your big smile and always joking around. You had such a great sense of humor. We could always talk and it didn't matter how much time had passed, it always seemed like we would pick up where we left off from before. You are so missed and I will always keep you in my heart and in my prayers. Till we meet again.
March 16, 2017
March 16, 2017
Miss you Stella. You were a good friend.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Happy birthday you big beautiful soul I miss you a lot. Sometimes I wonder if you're ever watching me. I wonder why god didn't take me with you or why he wanted me to live with this pain. I've been through so much already in such short years, I wish you were here to still take care of me. I still cry over you. I'll forever love you.
September 11, 2016
September 11, 2016
To my cousin Stella; although I didn't get to come to the services; I do think of you often especially your beautiful smile and how nice a person you were. God bless!!
September 9, 2016
September 9, 2016
Thinking of you my beautiful aunt :( Love You
December 27, 2015
December 27, 2015
Merry Christmas in Heaven Stella, forever love you so much
March 14, 2015
March 14, 2015
Happy birthday my beautiful auntie! I miss you so much!
March 14, 2015
March 14, 2015
Happy birthday my beautiful cuz have a great day with all your relatives love and miss you
January 20, 2015
January 20, 2015
I miss your sweet bubbly self you were taken from us way to soon
April 29, 2014
April 29, 2014
I miss laughing with you, you telling me crazy stories of the family, having our make-up parties, when u dyed auntie paulines hair RED as red can be haha, Alana doesn't remember you...she was so young, but I remind her that you two were dancing partners, and everytime I hear Rhianna's song "Love the way you lie" I'll always think back to the times we all danced and laughed in your living room...plus I miss your cooking lol best cook EVER...I JUST MISS U
September 30, 2012
September 30, 2012
Today is remberance day for all victims of homicide,But my dear niece that is very day for me,the hurt has not faded but the memory of your smile also lives on.
September 17, 2012
September 17, 2012
Auntie..it has been 2 yrs...sometimes I still think u r in japan or germany. U r very much missed by many people...who's lives u had touched. I love u!
September 17, 2012
September 17, 2012
Two years ago today we received the most horrific call, someone had taken your life away from you. You are missed every single day! Time does not heal all wounds-as we now know..........One day there will be justice brought against those that hurt you. Love and Miss you. Jenny
June 5, 2012
June 5, 2012
Stella I wonder why you never return my calls ? Girl to find out that somebody took your life away I could only wish I have a super power to punish those people who's responsible for your death. You are my Dearest friend and I know that you are a good loving mom,wife and friend. I Love You Stella and you are forever my best friend.
August 18, 2011
August 18, 2011
My Dear Stella,All most a year now that you have been gone but the ache in my Heart has not changed.They say time heals everything but some days i don't think so!I hope someday they will find the people responsible for your death.We your family will never give up hope..I love you
August 8, 2011
August 8, 2011
Thank you for this tribute to my auntie. She was loved by so many. I love you auntie, thank you so much for everything and being a beautiful soul. I know you are safe with grandpa now...we miss you.
June 13, 2011
June 13, 2011
Stella had such an amazing heart and kind soul. I pray for her kids often, that they will know how much she loved them. She is at peace now with God. May all the people that love her find comfort in knowing that.
May 26, 2011
May 26, 2011
Stella, always remembered and loved. Till we meet again.
May 26, 2011
May 26, 2011
My Dear Stella,I heard you laugh the other day and I rembered what you said oh auntie when you come to visit we can have some fun..Oh Stella how I wish we could have had more time I cry Bitter tears for missed times we could have had.Love Auntie Barb
January 27, 2011
January 27, 2011
Thank you Art and Jenny for this beautiful tribute to an awesome lady. We will never forget you, Antie Stella or stop missing your physical presents in this world.One day we will see you again until then you'll stay right here in our hearts.Rest in Peace Antie, Love for eternity,Shery, Shana, Bryne, Ashley and Brianna.

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March 14
March 14
My Stella, Gone to soon forever Loved and missed. Forever Beautiful!
September 18, 2023
September 18, 2023
13 years not too many days go by and I think k of you!! Just thinking about our bud rides when we played Volleyball as teens; love you dearly cousin
September 17, 2021
September 17, 2021
My Dear Stella, 11years since you went to Heaven. Where does the time go? You are still loved and missed. Someday we will all be together. Love you always Auntie Barbara.
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Miss you forever Stella

September 5, 2019
I was remembering when we were in New York City, you were so full of life and you were so kind to my grandson Harrison he fell in love with you that day! Oh Stella my forever beautiful niece.love you Auntie  B
September 9, 2016

Autie Stella was a great person. She loved her nieces and nephews. I have many memories of you. My favorite is going to kallarny beach with you.  We had such a fun time, the first time i ever road a water trike lol. well myself, shanna and bryan too. We miss you always and forever.....

September 19, 2012

Came across an article about you today. Ill always remember our childhood growing up and how Tracey and I used to love visiting you with my ma. Ill never forget you Stella...

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