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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Stephanie Lundy, 38, born on September 23, 1979 and passed away on October 30, 2017. We will remember her forever.   

Stephanie L. Lundy Obituary Date: Monday 30th October 2017

Stephanie L. Lundy, age 38, of Demorest, GA, died Monday evening, October 30, 2017 from complications following surgery at Clearview Hospital in Monroe, GA.

Stephanie was born on September 23, 1979 in Atlanta, GA to Leah and Jonathan Lundy.  She lived in Macon GA then moved to Monroe GA where she attended Walker Park, Carver, and Monroe Area High.

She is survived by her two children, Sabrah and Sabrinah Lundy of Demorest, GA, Boyfriend, William Thompson, of Monroe, GA, Mother, Leah Kunkle of Demorest, GA, Grandfather, Stephen Downs of Roswell, GA, Brothers, Jamel Lundy of Demorest, GA, Joshua Kunkle of Demorest, GA, Neko Lundy of Augusta, GA, Justin Lundy of Daytona Beach, FL, Sisters, Angi Foreshaw of Hillsboro, OR, Alisha Kunkle of Orlando, FL, and Ursula Williams of Warner Robbins, GA.  Numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and cousins all over the US.

She is preceded in death by her Father, Jonathan Lundy of Macon, GA, Grandparents, Albert and Lucille Lundy of Macon, GA, and Grandmother, Lola Downs of Roswell, GA.

She left us way too soon, but touched many in her lifetime with her kind words, deeds, laughter, and love.  Her family and friends meant everything to her, she loved us all deeply.  She had a good heart, and the gift to forgive.  She may be in God's arms but she will always be in our hearts.

A celebration of her life memorial will be held by family, please contact them for information; the family ask in lieu of flowers, please make donations to the charity of your choice in her name.

    

September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Time does not make you not being here easier, memories…it shouldn’t be this way, Steph, we should be celebrating you today, not missing you…you would have turned 43, probably complaining about getting old, I try and think about all the things you would have been doing or saying, it doesn’t help, the emotions overwhelm me and I just fall apart…
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
As always, thinking of you…wishing you were still here
December 28, 2019
December 28, 2019
Mr. William Dale Gray, age 48 of Commerce formerly of Nicholson, Ga., passed peacefully on November 29, 2019 at his home.

He was born on May 17, 1971 in Atlanta, Ga., to the late James Gray, Sr., and Suell Hawkins Partin. In later years he was taken in by Ronald and Mary Ann Lord who were instrumental in his life. He was a builder in the construction industry and member of New Hope Baptist Church of Nicholson, Ga.

He is survived by; a brother James Gray of Dalton, GA and sister Renae Donaldson of Tennessee. Two step sisters Janet Smith and Angela Hancox. Extended family members: Tina Ervin, Denise Waters, and Jeff Lord of the Commerce Nicholson area.

His children: Ayonsa Sanders, of Athens, GA Jared Gray, Laura Gray of Homer, Ga and Sabrinah Lundy, of Demorest, GA. Also, three grandchildren MaKiy, O'Laija, and Cohen.

Memorial Service will be Saturday December 21, 2019 2 PM at Erastus Christian Church. Minister Steve Parker officiating.

Coile and Hall Funeral Directors, 333 E. Johnson Street in Hartwell will be serving the family.
September 23, 2019
September 23, 2019
This would have been your 40th Birthday...I miss you terribly. The emptiness with out you here never goes away.
August 14, 2019
August 14, 2019
Today's the day 2 years ago that you got the news about Tommy Harden passing, August 14th, 2017...Too many others have gone as well since your passing...My friend, Cindy Dickinson, passed away this year, she had just retired to find out she had cancer and only months left to live, so many plans changing...Sabrah graduates this year and starts college...you'd be so proud of her.
April 27, 2019
April 27, 2019
Well, almost a year now and no contact from your brother, Jamel, I know if you were here you would be upset and worried about Jamel, but you know those are his life choices, not the life we wanted for him. He basically left us all back in 2006, we just didn't want to accept it, and tried to hang on to someone that wanted no part of us...It's hard to accept but not as hard on me as losing you...
Sabrah is now 17, has plans for college, she changes her mind on her major, but that's to be expected, she's doing great with the horses, Sabrinah is riding, but not as "sure" about the horses as Sabrah is. You would be so proud of Sabrah, she's awesome, and looks like she's been riding her entire life...Sabrinah still talks to you and about you on a daily basis, well, I do to, but I love hearing her keep you here with us with all the stories and memories she has, I worried for a while that since you left us with her so young that the memories of you would dwindle, but I really don't think they will...
I love you, and miss you forever -
April 11, 2019
April 11, 2019
My birthday was hard, Sabrah's is next, Wesley's birthday just passed...life without you here is so lonely, no one around to keep us all laughing and smiling...you are so missed - love you and miss you forever.
February 23, 2019
February 23, 2019
I'll be 63 years old soon, all our plans of traveling when I retire won't be the same if I still do it without you...I miss you so much every minute, every breath, and it doesn't get any easier over time - no matter what they say...
January 4, 2019
January 4, 2019
Missing you and loving you... forever...starting another year without you...and it's not getting easier, most days are really hard not hearing from you or seeing you, I still wake up every morning from this nightmare praying it's not true.
September 24, 2018
September 24, 2018
Yesterday was hard on all of us, you would have been 39 years old...
August 16, 2018
August 16, 2018
I talked with Valerie today, good talk, great memories, Daniel was the main topic of our conversation, how happy you were then, I'm glad he was a part of your life, and it gives me comfort to know more about that situation, I always wondered...Makes me happy to know how much he loved you then and still does now...you were his one, you'll never be replaced, you were always his first and his last, no matter how many years go by, there will never be another you for him...I love you.
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Today's your brothers 35th birthday, and all I can think about is you, he's mad at me, and doesn't love me anymore, at times I wondered if he ever did, but I have notes and text telling me he does so I'll hold on to that, he blames everyone but himself and takes it out on your little brother, I guess I've built up my wall to keep what's left of my broken heart so he doesn't hurt me anymore...a lot of broken promises from your friends and disappointments, but I guess at the time they meant well and have just gotten caught up in going on with their lives, after all the world didn't stop for them...our routine is the same, the girls are growing fast, Sabrah got her permit, Sabrinah still talks about you nonstop like you're still here which helps me...I worry over time she'll forget those memories, so I let her talk whenever even if it's painful to hear...I survive each day, always thinking of you and missing you...somedays I pretend you're still here...I love you.
July 20, 2018
July 20, 2018
Listened to your voicemails as much as possible, your brother saved them for me, hard to listen to that last one on the morning of your last day, but I need to hear your voice, and you telling me you love me one last time. So no matter how painful it is at that moment, it's wonderful to hear you say you loved me and you needed me as much as I loved you and needed you and still do...love and need you...until I take my last breath.
March 15, 2018
March 15, 2018
I know you always told me you would always need me in your life, but I don't think I ever told you I felt the same, I guess I never thought you would go before me and you reassured me many times you and Josh would be here/there for me in my old age...Josh said you knew, so hope you hear me everyday and every morning that I'm talking to you of how much I need you...I love you, forever...
February 7, 2018
February 7, 2018
38 years just wasn't long enough, I miss you, I miss our talks, I miss hearing your voice, and seeing your beautiful face. They tell me time will heal, and life will be easier, but they're wrong...I will never heal, and life will never be easier...I love you
January 18, 2018
January 18, 2018
Finally after months of waiting, the doctor signed your death certificate...cause of death is listed as pulmonary embolism causing cardiac arrest...

I thought that would help close the door and make it easier to accept, but it only makes me angry...and all the "if only"

If only you had a more medically knowledgeable doctor and nursing staff they would have noticed the changes, if only you had gone to a larger hospital, if only you had gotten a second opinion, if only I had been more demanding, if only...

you were still here...
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
How do you prepare yourself for the death of a daughter - then how do you survive when death comes and takes her away...There's a void in our lives forever, a place in my heart that will always be empty...We love you and miss you...I love you forever.
December 10, 2017
December 10, 2017
Dear Lundy family. I am so sorry to have read of the death of Stephanie. Please accept my sincere condolences. I would like to share something that I have personally found to be comforting. It is found in the Bible at John 5:28, 29 and Revelation 21:4. These verses tell us that soon God is going to bring about a resurrection of our dear loved ones as well as do away with all causes we have for suffering, including sickness and death. Knowing this has always comforted me and it is my hope that these thoughts will comfort your family also
December 6, 2017
December 6, 2017
Life is so empty without you...
November 27, 2017
November 27, 2017
Today, 11/27, this time last month,10/27, you were still here with us...in the hospital, but still alive...this is a nightmare I relive over and over in my dreams...your last day, your face...

I pretend still that it's not true, and you and William are just off doing something, and I'll get the call that you're coming to get the girls...
November 25, 2017
November 25, 2017
Oh, and William took Josh and the girls out to eat, and reminded the girls they needed to come visit on the weekends...
November 25, 2017
November 25, 2017
We missed you at Thanksgiving, Daddy asked why you weren't there because he didn't remember, he's 94 now with short term memory, so he gets upset each time we tell him your gone...He says he'll see you in 2 years, says he's leaving us when he's 96...I know you've met so many relatives to know what a "strange" family you have, and enough of my friends to know how much you and I are alike...I'm still pretending you're still here, and you and William are off doing something so that's why you haven't called...For today, that seems to work...
November 6, 2017
November 6, 2017
I didn’t know Stephanie or your family but wanted to share some words of encouragement. From your comments I can see she was loved by all friends and family around her. Although death just seems to be a part of life, it’s never easy for us to see our loved ones die. This is because we weren’t created to die but rather to live forever. We can look forward to a time when Revelation 21:3,4 will be fulfilled. There will be no death, tears, or pain. Until that time deep sympathy—Julia
November 4, 2017
November 4, 2017
My baby girl, beautiful and loving daughter,I will love you forever, there is a empty place in my heart that will never be filled, the pain is unimaginable, and will never go away. You always were so proud of me as I was of you, you envied me my strength and I envied you your gift to forgive...this is a new road for me to travel, one I prayed to never travel, and I know you will guide me and be with me always, I see you in your daughters, I see you in the mirror, and I hear you when I speak...I know in my heart you are surrounded by family and friends that have gone before you, some you may not remember, some you have not met until now. You touched the lives of many. My guardian angel will find you, and stay with us until we are together again. I will speak of you often, and talk about you every day, Yes, I know this song was on this tribute list for a reason, and how you sang with Whitney, and knew every word, I can still picture you, singing this, with your arms held out, and the big hug you would give me at the end of the song. I chose it just for that reason, even when I can no longer remember my name, I will always remember you. I will always love you. - Mom
November 4, 2017
November 4, 2017
Always a pleasure. You will be missed and thought of always. Much love, babygirl.
November 4, 2017
November 4, 2017
Stephanie,
I remember when I first met you, always had that beautiful smile. You loved with all of your heart especially your sweet girls. That was all you really talked about. No matter any situation you always spoke the truth and “keep it real”. I will miss you and our conversations and most importantly I will smile that smile!!!
November 4, 2017
November 4, 2017
Stephanie...You have touched everyone's hearts you met. I will miss you beautiful contagious smile...And the determination and mindset u had daily. No problem was ever too big for u to take. So I believe God really must've needed the best Angel he could find and u were on Earth. You blessed the world with two amazing girls that will carry your with them bc they both are ur lil twins they have ur your same heart. I wish I could go back and help change your fate but u my dear were stronger than me. I will miss u motivating me when I almost give up on things that fiesty attitude u made unique bc you were just that...unique and one of a kind. I love u girl and was very blessed to have became ur friend. I won't ever forget you. No one ever will.

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September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Time does not make you not being here easier, memories…it shouldn’t be this way, Steph, we should be celebrating you today, not missing you…you would have turned 43, probably complaining about getting old, I try and think about all the things you would have been doing or saying, it doesn’t help, the emotions overwhelm me and I just fall apart…
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
As always, thinking of you…wishing you were still here
December 28, 2019
December 28, 2019
Mr. William Dale Gray, age 48 of Commerce formerly of Nicholson, Ga., passed peacefully on November 29, 2019 at his home.

He was born on May 17, 1971 in Atlanta, Ga., to the late James Gray, Sr., and Suell Hawkins Partin. In later years he was taken in by Ronald and Mary Ann Lord who were instrumental in his life. He was a builder in the construction industry and member of New Hope Baptist Church of Nicholson, Ga.

He is survived by; a brother James Gray of Dalton, GA and sister Renae Donaldson of Tennessee. Two step sisters Janet Smith and Angela Hancox. Extended family members: Tina Ervin, Denise Waters, and Jeff Lord of the Commerce Nicholson area.

His children: Ayonsa Sanders, of Athens, GA Jared Gray, Laura Gray of Homer, Ga and Sabrinah Lundy, of Demorest, GA. Also, three grandchildren MaKiy, O'Laija, and Cohen.

Memorial Service will be Saturday December 21, 2019 2 PM at Erastus Christian Church. Minister Steve Parker officiating.

Coile and Hall Funeral Directors, 333 E. Johnson Street in Hartwell will be serving the family.
Her Life

William Dale Gray (Sabrinah's Dad)

December 28, 2019
I added pictures of Will Gray, he passed away 11/29/2019, he was born 5/17/1971, he was 48 - he was Sabrinah's Dad - Stephanie met him in 2005 when we moved to Habersham County, they were together as a couple until 2012, but remained friends until her death. Will was married but separated from his wife, Teresa, when he met Stephanie, but he told her he was divorced. Stephanie found out not only was Will still married but that she was pregnant in 2008 with Sabrinah, her and Will split up but got back together after Sabrinah was born. Will's divorce was final in 2009. They were together for 7 years - I asked Will after Stephanie passed if he ever loved my daughter, and he told me yes, and that he still did...I think she always knew that, she said he always asked her to come back...


Mr. William Dale Gray, age 48 of Commerce formerly of Nicholson, Ga., passed peacefully on November 29, 2019 at his home.

He was born on May 17, 1971 in Atlanta, Ga., to the late James Gray, Sr., and Suell Hawkins Partin. In later years he was taken in by Ronald and Mary Ann Lord who were instrumental in his life. He was a builder in the construction industry and member of New Hope Baptist Church of Nicholson, Ga.

He is survived by; a brother James Gray of Dalton, GA and sister Renae Donaldson of Tennessee. Two step sisters Janet Smith and Angela Hancox. Extended family members: Tina Ervin, Denise Waters, and Jeff Lord of the Commerce Nicholson area.

His children: Ayonsa Sanders, of Athens, GA Jared Gray, Laura Gray of Homer, Ga and Sabrinah Lundy, of Demorest, GA. Also, three grandchildren MaKiy, O'Laija, and Cohen.

Memorial Service will be Saturday December 21, 2019 2 PM at Erastus Christian Church. Minister Steve Parker officiating.

Coile and Hall Funeral Directors, 333 E. Johnson Street in Hartwell will be serving the family.
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