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This page was created in memory of our dad, Dr. Stephen J. Carrroll Jr. who passed away peacefully on January 30 after battling lung cancer.  Dad was distinguished, intelligent, wise, loving, funny, warm, caring, giving, supportive, encouraging, non-judgemental, open minded, and simply a great man.  Daily, he sought knowledge and understanding, admired beauty in works of art and the natural world, and supported, cared for, and encouraged those around him.  The result was a life very well lived, and man very well loved.  He will be deeply missed, but forever carried on in the hearts and minds of those who knew him. 

A quote from one of Dad's favorite works of literature aptly fits his effect on the lives of those who knew him.
“But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.” 
― George EliotMiddlemarch

As Dad's friends and family are all across the globe, and per his wishes, we will not be having a formal funeral or memorial service, but would love to hear from you personally or on this memorial. A Scholarship in his name has been set up at the University of Maryland. See details below.  Please take a moment to view this page, learn more about him, and share your favorite thoughts, tributes, and stories about Stephen Carroll. Thanks for visiting and being a part of our Dad's wonderful life. 

Gifts can be made to the Stephen J. Carroll, Jr. Scholarship Fund at the University of Maryland. Please make checks payable to the University System of Maryland Foundation (USMF), 3300 Metzerott Road, Adelphi, MD 20783, or visit http://www.usmf.org/give-a-gift/ 

February 20
February 20
Never forgotten, Steve!

A time to talk
by Robert Frost

When a friend calls to me from the road
And slows his horse to a meaning walk,
I don't stand still and look around
On all the hills I haven't hoed,
And shout from where I am, 'What is it?'
No, not as there is a time to talk.
I thrust my hoe in the mellow ground,
Blade-end up and five feet tall,
And plod: I go up to the stone wall
For a friendly visit.

Robert Frost. "A Time To Talk." Family Friend Poems, https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/a-time-to-talk-by-robert-frost
August 23, 2023
August 23, 2023
Happy birthday, Steve
Here is a poem about Boston which you so often spoke about!

Boston Public Garden by Mina Le
On Boston Public Garden’s willowed shorebank,
two little girls are feeding ducks: they prance
from beak to beak, arms arcing past their foreheads
to farther thrust their crusts. They feel, perchance,

how full the cupboards of their lives are stocked:
so full they’re called to fling the doors wide open.
The charity of children’s soon unlocked;
they seem to say: ducks, take this as a token

of what we humans are at best, who built
this garden, footbridge, benches, willows, lake
that you might cool your plumes and eat your fill,
and we might give as much as oft we take.
July 22, 2023
July 22, 2023
As I reach the end of my professional academic career, I searched for Steve's contact information to tell him and was tremendously sad to read of his passing. Although I have not seen Steve for more than 20 years, I've never forgotten him. I was one of his TAs and later he chaired my dissertation committee. What I remember about Steve was his kindness -- he supported me in what was best for ME, particularly when I did not choose an R-1 after I graduated. Some other faculty were disappointed with my choice of a comprehensive university when I had other options, but not Steve because he knew it was a better fit. He was also instrumental in my choice to pursue academia as opposed to industry -- he got so much joy out of teaching and mentoring and was appreciative that, among other things, he had time to read the paper each morning (i.e., work-life balance) that I decided to go that route. He was so generous -- he insisted that I be "first author" on the 4 papers we wrote together because I was just starting out and he knew how much this would help me. Others in these tributes have talked about how they aspired to be like Steve -- that seemed impossible to me! He was so very talented -- a true Renaissance man -- and brilliant that being like him was beyond my imagination. But I so enjoyed knowing him and am deeply grateful for his kindness, generosity and guidance as I began my academic career. My life is richer for knowing Steve; I've never known anyone like him. Rest in peace, dear Steve.
January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
I love you so much, Dad. Still missing you immensely, five years later. 

This came across my social media one day and it aptly described my grief for my dad.

Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.
-Jaime Anderson
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January 30, 2023
January 30, 2023
Missing you today, Steve and here is a poem for you!

The Arrow and the Song
by
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

I shot an arrow into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For, so swiftly it flew, the sight
Could not follow it in its flight.

I breathed a song into the air,
It fell to earth, I knew not where;
For who has sight so keen and strong,
That it can follow the flight of song?

Long, long afterward, in an oak
I found the arrow, still unbroke;
And the song, from beginning to end,
I found again in the heart of a friend.
August 23, 2022
August 23, 2022
Happy birthday, Steve-a forever happy memory!

Sonnet 104: To me, fair friend, you never can be old
BY WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
To me, fair friend, you never can be old,
For as you were when first your eye I eyed,
Such seems your beauty still. Three winters cold
Have from the forests shook three summers’ pride,
Three beauteous springs to yellow autumn turned
In process of the seasons have I seen,
Three April perfumes in three hot Junes burned,
Since first I saw you fresh, which yet are green.
Ah, yet doth beauty, like a dial-hand,
Steal from his figure, and no pace perceived;
So your sweet hue, which methinks still doth stand,
Hath motion, and mine eye may be deceived:
For fear of which, hear this, thou age unbred:
Ere you were born was beauty’s summer dead.
January 30, 2022
January 30, 2022
The Otter by Seamus Heaney on your anniversary, Steve

When you plunged
The light of Tuscany wavered
And swung through the pool
From top to bottom.

I loved your wet head and smashing crawl,
Your fine swimmer’s back and shoulders
Surfacing and surfacing again
This year and every year since.
January 30, 2022
January 30, 2022
I miss our long phone calls, watching and attending Maryland basketball, football, lacrosse, and everything else together. I will never forget.
August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
A poem from Seamus Heaney for your birthday, Steve

Between my finger and my thumb
The squat pen rests.
I’ll dig with it.
 

from "Digging",
Death of a Naturalist (1966)
August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
Steve-- one of the world's great spirits. He glowed with positivity, warmth, and loving intelligence. He helped us all be just a little bit better.
August 22, 2020
August 22, 2020
Happy birthday, Steve

I found this short poem of yours in my emails today!

Up on the seawall sat  she  and  me,
Watching  the gulls  soar  over  the  sea.
Good  thoughts then filled  our  brains,
Chasing away our  earthly pains.


Best wishes

Patrick
January 30, 2020
January 30, 2020
Robbie and I are writing a jokes book- continuing Steve's great joke telling tradition! Best wishes to all the family.

Patrick and Patricia
January 30, 2020
January 30, 2020
Steve was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He was a distinguished scholar already when I met him in the early 1980s. His openness, positivity, and generosity have always been an inspiration fir me. I will never forget him.
January 31, 2019
January 31, 2019
Reading this a long way from home, Steve and remembering your lust for life and travel- best wishes to Donna and the family today.
December 24, 2018
December 24, 2018
Happy Christmas to all the Carrolls
Steve- you are missed!
August 23, 2018
August 23, 2018
For Dr. Stephen J. Carroll, Academy of Management Fellows Dinner, August 12, 2018

I am deeply honored to say a few remarks in remembrance of our dear friend, colleague, and in my case, mentor, lifelong teacher, and “American father,” Steve Carroll.
We all remember Dr. Carroll with great fondness, first and foremost for his profound humanity, as well, of course, for his scholarly demeanor. I believe the first impression of Dr. Carroll most people will recall is probably the same as mine: a kind, warm, big-hearted person—with a wonderful smile and best of all, a delightful sense of humor!
We all have our Dr. Carroll stories. I have many vivid and clear memories of my initial meeting with Dr. Carroll when I arrived in College Park, Maryland, in the early 80s for my doctoral studies. What comes first to mind is the state of his office—I had never seen a work space so full, floor to ceiling! Somewhere on his desk or on a shelf a small sign or plaque was visible, with a quote from former vice president Hubert Humphrey, I believe, to the effect that “If someone is organized, he or she does not have a clear mind, but if he has a clear mind his office will be messy.” Dr. Carroll was living proof of this axiom! Cynthia Lee, now a professor at Northeastern University’s business school whom many of you might know, was, like me, a teaching assistant of Dr. Carroll, and she likes to tell a story of coming to his office one Monday morning and being startled. “Steve, your office is suddenly bigger!” she joked (perhaps with a bit of irony). “What happened?” As it turned out, poor Dr. Carroll, against his nature, had spent the weekend cleaning it up.
As our relationship grew, mentor and mentee, it was not long before Dr. Carroll made the greatest contribution in molding my future: he convinced me to change my major. This was a completely unforeseen development--a revelation, really. I had entered the Maryland doctoral program as an organizational-behavior student. At that time, there was no strategic management group. I limped along in the OB seminar of Professor Edwin A. Locke and landed near the bottom in my mid-term, which to me, a newly arrived international student, was like an English test instead of an exam of a professional subject matter. By the end of that first year I had managed to climb to the top, and received a very positive annual review from Dr. Locke. And then I walked into Dr. Carroll’s office. At the conclusion of a long conversation, he said, “Ming-Jer, given your interests, and what Taiwan needs, I think you should major in strategy instead of organizational behavior.” With that, he guided me into strategic management. The rest is now history. Ed Locke is here, and let me ask him if he can ever imagine that I would follow in his steps and run lab experiments and continue his goal-setting studies for the rest of my life! I cannot!
My experience is undoubtedly like any number that could be recounted by other students and colleagues of his. He was always helping. For students especially, he was the one professor, confidant, and advisor who could always be counted on for counseling or conflict resolution. Most importantly, everyone knew Dr. Carroll would “be there for you” to offer moral and substantive support if you needed extra help, or to those who felt left out or “lost.” This was particularly true for a lot of international students who were struggling with culture conflicts and living challenges in addition to academic performance.
The kindness that Dr. and Mrs. Carroll, who were married for 57 years, extended to me and my wife, Moh-Jiun, and later my sons, made us feel immediately welcome. They opened their home to us and made the unfamiliar comfortable, and our transition to a new life became immeasurably smoother. Dr. Carroll liked to cook Chinese food, although he was truly not that good from our viewpoint! However, he treasured his Irish background and shared his family traditions often with us, and my wife and I were always so fond of his yummy cucumber sandwiches!
One final thought. Dr. Carroll’s children remembered their father as a man who “sought knowledge and understanding, and admired beauty in works of art and the natural world.” Both he and Mrs. Carroll were vigorous readers, and read widely across a wide range of topics, in addition to watching countless international films together. Dr. Carroll once told me that he and Mrs. Carroll together had read more than 8,000 books—not including the books in his messy office! His children’s description expresses perfectly our friend and colleague’s boundless spirit and humanity. He was a true gentleman scholar of the utmost kindness. As I wrote to the Carroll family after his passing, it is with the profoundest respect that I offer this testimonial to Dr. Carroll, my beloved “American teacher-father.” To sir, with forever love.
August 23, 2018
August 23, 2018
Happy birthday, Steve!
You are talked about regularly in our family and are missed greatly.
I think of you especially when I come across a good joke to relay!
Best wishes to Donna, Chris and Alissa
April 2, 2018
April 2, 2018
I can still hear his laugh: a little husky, quiet, prompted by the smallest detail, often in a story he was telling about himself. He was the best sort of academic, not only warm and wise--full of interesting facts and compelling ideas--but someone who took his subject much more seriously than he took himself. He never taught me formerly but as a family friend from my boyhood he did provide the most compelling model for the kind of life I eventually chose. And he was always one of the people I always looked forward to talking to. I only saw him every few years but I miss very much knowing I will not see him again. He was rare and wonderful.
March 25, 2018
March 25, 2018
I remember Prof. Stephen Carroll as a dear friend and wonderful mentor. I was a student in his class at the University of Maryland and because I was a member of the women’s basketball team I sometimes had to seek his advise on materials that I might have missed due to travel with the team. During those discussions I also learned that he was enthusiastic about the university’s athletics programs, and particularly, I appreciated the fact that he supported women’s sports. Furthermore, he often attended athletic events on campus and I have great memories of our delightful post-game conversations on the court; he would often come to congratulate on a win or give words of encouragement after a tough match. Throughout the ensuing years we continued our friendly dialogue about the sports and also the arts. I cherish the many rich exchanges we had about concerts, arts events, music recordings, and films. In all respects, his friendship made a remarkable and enduring impact on my life. I am truly grateful for his amazing academic, professional, and personal guidance. My heartfelt condolences to Mrs. Carroll, Alisa, and Chris.
March 8, 2018
March 8, 2018
Steve's smile and the incredible sense of integrity and peacefulness are what I see and feel when I think of Steve. I did not know him well, but he was part of my world at the University of Maryland, and I always felt better just passing him in the hall and receiving his loving greeting. I got to know him better through Alisa, who has many of his loving characteristics. I am grateful to have been blessed having just a little piece of Steve in my life.
March 1, 2018
March 1, 2018
“In a completely rational society, the best of us would be teachers and the rest of us would have to settle for something else.”   Lee Iacocca

I was Dr. Carroll’s student for almost 40 years. Steve, in his generosity, would call us colleagues, but in my mind he was always my teacher. I took classes from him as an undergraduate and an MBA student. As a Ph.D student, I worked as one of his teaching assistants, he served on my dissertation committee, and we worked on research together. Steve was a very important part of my years at the University of Maryland and it was his OB class that shaped my decision to become a professor. I described Steve’s influence on my career many years ago when writing my teaching statement as I applied for tenure. Those words remain true today…

Career theorists argue that occupational choice is a developmental and evolutionary process.  While that might be true for most people, it was not true for me. I have wanted to be a professor since I was a senior at the University of Maryland. During the Fall 1979 semester I enrolled in MGT 464 – Organizational Behavior. I enrolled in the class because a professor who had been awarded one of the University of Maryland’s highest honors, Distinguished Scholar Teacher, was teaching it. I assumed that meant it would be a good class. I was wrong. It was a great class. That class changed my life. That professor changed my life. I decided to become a professor based on the example set by one professor in one class. I was convinced that this was the perfect job for me. At the age of 21, my conceptualization of the job was that it involved doing the three things I most loved to do: read, write, and teach. I wasn’t that far off the mark. After 12 years as an academic, the main components of my job involve reading, writing, and teaching. What I learned in Dr. Stephen J. Carroll’s class was that a good professor was both a scholar and a teacher. Twenty years later this one concept is the guiding principle behind my own teaching philosophy. A good professor is both a scholar and a teacher. Given that, my teaching philosophy is quite simple: Love your subject. Love your students. Love to teach.

If you were fortunate to have a class with Steve, you know that he loved his subject, he loved his students, and he loved to teach. Steve loved every subject! There wasn’t a topic under the sun that he didn’t know about or find interesting. An hour conversing with him provided more intellectual stimulation than you could fit into a semester. As so many have noted, Steve loved his students. He was the perfect mentor; he was generous with his knowledge, his time, and his advice. Steve loved to teach, not just in the classroom, but also through his consulting as he sought to make organizations better places to work. Steve was a dynamic and engaging speaker. A natural storyteller, he connected with his audience, and held their interest with his sense of humor and enthusiasm for the subject. I will miss our chats and the way he signed his notes and emails "your Maryland Dad".

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to Donna, Chris, and Alisa. Thank you for sharing Steve with his University of Maryland family. He was the best of us.
February 26, 2018
February 26, 2018
To continue my tribute to Dr. Carroll in this site dated February 16, 2018, I’d like to share some vivid, clear memories of my initial meeting with Dr. Carroll. What comes first to mind is the state of his office—I had never seen a work space so full, floor to ceiling, so chock-a-block with books and papers that it was impossible to walk around! Somewhere on his desk or on a shelf a small sign or plaque was visible, with a quote from former vice president Hubert Humphrey, I believe, to the effect that “If someone is organized, he or she does not have a clear mind, but if he has a clear mind his office will be messy.” Dr. Carroll was living proof of this axiom! Cynthia Lee, now a professor at Northeastern University’s business school, was, like me, a teaching assistant of Dr. Carroll, and she likes to tell a story of coming to his office one Monday morning and being startled. “Steve, your office is suddenly bigger!” she exclaimed (perhaps with a bit of irony). “What happened?” As it turned out, Dr. Carroll, against his nature, had spent the weekend cleaning it up.
As our relationship grew, mentor and mentee, it was not long before Dr. Carroll made the greatest contribution in molding my future: he convinced me to change my major. This was a completely unforeseen development--a revelation, really. I had entered the doctoral program at Maryland’s business school (now the Smith School) as an organizational-behavior student. At that time, there was no strategic management group (it was later established by Professor Frank T. Paine). I limped along in the OB seminar of Professor Edwin A. Locke and landed five from the bottom in my mid-term, which to me, a newcomer to the U.S., was like an English test instead of an exam of a professional subject matter. By the end of that first year I had managed to right the ship, and received a very positive review from Dr. Locke and my advisor Dr. Bob Wood, who thought I’d had a great year.
And then, I walked into Dr. Carroll’s office. At the conclusion of a long conversation, he said, “Ming-Jer, given your interests, and what Taiwan needs, I think you should major in strategy instead of organizational behavior.” With that, he guided me into strategic management. At the time, this was a road much less traveled, to borrow from Robert Frost, and “that made all the difference.”
It should be understood that Dr. Carroll and former Smith School dean Rudy Lamone had consulted for several years to the Taiwanese technology firm Datong Electronic Company, and thus Dr. Carroll was a relatively early bridger of East-West business cultures. On assessing my future, he applied his innate insight into human nature overlaid with the wealth of his experience to make connections that neither I nor anyone else had been able to see. It all became clear to me then, and seemed as if it had been clear all long. Without question, my interests lay much more in the macro and strategic realms than in the micro-focused world of organizational behavior.
With some trepidation, I went back to Dr. Locke and Dr. Wood and informed them that I had decided to change directions and majors. Needless to say, this came to them completely out of the blue and as something of a shock. Yet, a year later I said to Dr. Locke and my other OB professors, “Now, can you imagine me doing lab experiments the rest of my life?” Thankfully, they had come around to my, and Dr. Carroll’s, understanding that this course correction would put me on track toward my life’s true work.
Just as important, Dr. Carroll was the only one to say to me, “Ming-Jer, you know you can write a good theoretical article.” At that time, empirical studies were not only easier to conduct, but for non-English students they were almost the only choice. Dr. Carroll gave me the confidence to become a rigorous theorist, and before long I had placed the first of four successive publications in Academy of Management Review, the most prestigious journal publishing theoretical papers in the management field. For this I owed a debt of gratitude to Dr. Carroll, for his foresight and encouragement.
Because my primary dissertation advisor, Dr. Ken Smith, could not solely chair my dissertation, due to his assistant professorship status at the time, Dr. Carroll was kind enough to serve as co-chair. Not only was he integral to directing my studies, he was a supportive arbitrator when disagreements, small or large, later arose. In December of last year I had an opportunity to call Dr. Smith when I was in Taiwan. As we spoke of Dr. Carroll, our conversation led to an open, honest discussion on, among other topics, cultural notions of aggressiveness. Our divergent views at Maryland, we agreed, had arisen from our cultural differences; we were able to transcend these differences in no small part because of the understated, behind-the-scenes type of mediation at which Dr. Carroll was so adept. Thanks to him, I have sustained a lifelong friendship with Dr. Smith, and a relationship I valued so highly with my respected advisor and mentor was not lost.
This experience is undoubtedly like any number that could be recounted by other colleagues and students of Dr. Carroll. He had a sensitive, delicate way of handling conflict, a natural mediator, always helping, always the problem-solver. For students in particular, he was the professor, advisor, confidant who could be counted on for advice, answers, counseling, or resolution. Dr. Carroll, we all knew, would be there to offer both moral and substantive support to doctoral students who needed extra help, or to those who were left out or “lost.”

For my family, Dr. Carroll’s presence extended well beyond the walls of academia. One of our fondest memories is of a party he and Mrs. Carroll so graciously gave for Moh-Jiun and me, with faculty members and doctoral students, on Dec. 20, 1988. This is a date we recall well not only for the Carrolls’ kindness: two days later, our first child, Andy, was born, and two weeks after that we left College Park for New York and Columbia. The Carrolls’ hospitality is thus remembered as both a baby shower and a birthday. The smallest details of that party are still vivid today, right down to the delicious cucumber sandwiches the Carrolls served with tea, a tradition springing from Dr. Carroll’s Irish heritage and one that we adopted in our own home. Our second child, Abraham, shares Dr. Carroll’s passion for history and film, which has led to many animated conversations in our family over the years.
Dr. Carroll’s shared pleasure with our family’s interests and accomplishments was so genuine. In 2010, when I was elected president and fellow of the Academy of Management, I am certain that my lifelong mentor was more pleased than I, and from that year on, Dr. Carroll and I always attended the Fellows dinners together. I could see how happy and proud he was, and to other Fellows he would refer to me as his “Chinese son.”
As an educator and a Chinese, I recognized how Dr. Carroll embodied qualities revered in the Eastern tradition. In his caring first for other people, he reflected the ethos at the center of Chinese pedagogy. In China, Confucius is considered to be the “father” of the teaching profession. One of his teachings holds that a student is to be taught regardless of background, ability, or any other consideration. Dr. Carroll embraced this belief joyfully throughout his career. As one who had the honor of serving as his teaching assistant (if regrettably not his classroom student), I admired how he taught everyone from doctoral students to basketball players. He loved his Terps, the University of Maryland athletic teams!
Dr. Carroll’s devotion to education was reflected in the high esteem in which he was held within academia—but certainly not only within this domain. He was a true renaissance scholar, well and widely read on so many subjects, and he embraced all that life has to offer. He could converse with ease and grace on any topic, from film and art to politics and, of course, business. Always he was kind and generous, whether with his ideas and time or his companionship.
As Mrs. Carroll knows, after my brief conversation with Dr. Carroll in mid-January of this year I sent him a copy of a forthcoming paper (to be published in June), which I inscribed to him: “This paper is dedicated to Dr. Stephen Carroll, Jr., my dissertation co-supervisor, lifelong role model, and ‘American father.’” I hope this dedication adequately reflects the importance to me of our rich, lifelong relationship.
Dr. Carroll’s children remember their father as someone who “sought knowledge and understanding” and “admired beauty in works of art and the natural world.” In these few words they captured perfectly this man of boundless spirit and humanity, a true gentleman scholar. It is with the profoundest respect that I offer this testimonial to Dr. Carroll, my beloved “American teacher-father.” To sir, with forever love.
February 21, 2018
February 21, 2018
Steve was a member of a small group of faculty that had been recruited to Maryland in the 60's. A colleague at UNC, Chapel Hill, encouraged me to visit College Park to interview for a faculty position. Steve transcended most of the qualities one would assign to a great scholar, teacher, mentor, and friend. I knew then that I had to be with Steve. He was one of the first faculty members to convince me that I should apply for the deanship when it became available.
After quite some time trying to convince faculty that Entrepreneurship was a legitimate field of study. Steve and Ken Smith showed up at my office to say I was right and they would help to create the program. These are simply two examples of ways that Steve influenced my professional career.

Steve and I had the good fortune of working on a research and consulting project of several years in Taiwan and Japan. Our wives and Steve's daughter Alissa joined us on one of the trips. In conclusion, I loved Steve and am forever grateful for the joy and friendship we shared over the years,,,,,,I will miss him greatly.......Steve leaves a great legacy for Donna, his wife,and his children,Chris and Alissa. In the historical tapestry of the Smith Business School, Steve Carroll is clearly one of the gold threads.......Rudy Lamone
February 21, 2018
February 21, 2018
I didn’t know Steve or your family but wanted to share some words of encouragement. It’s never easy to lose our loved ones. From all your comments it seems that he really applied this scripture in the Bible in Ecclesiastes 7:1 that the day of one’s death is better than the day of one’s birth because of what a person has accomplished. We can take comfort in knowing that in the near future God will fulfill His promise in Revelation 21:3,4 to eliminate death, tears, and pain. Until that time — deep sympathy— Julia
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
Almost from the day I started as an Assistant Professor at the University of Maryland, I recognized Steve as someone to be admired as both a faculty member and a person. He had a passion for his research, his students and his colleagues. He was a true intellectual and man of the world, being able to engage in intense conversations about his own work, about the work of almost any of his colleagues and even about Maryland basketball. Probably more important was his humanity – he brought the same passion to his personal relationships with students, other faculty and, of course, his family. People say it is hard to find heroes today – Steve was certainly one of mine.
February 18, 2018
February 18, 2018
I am truly saddened to learn of Steve's passing. My first memories of him date to 1980 when I took his required course in my MBA program at Maryland. It was there that I learned about Organizational Behavior.  I credit Steve Carroll with lighting my passion for that discipline to such an extent that I stayed on for my doctorate there, and have continued to work in this field for 30+ years. Steve was on my dissertation committee and always offered a positive voice of encouragement - both while I was a student and later when I would see him at conferences. A teacher's influence goes far indeed. Yet what I remember most about Steve - and will always cherish - is his great kindness. The world has lost one of the finest people I've known. My heart goes out to his family. As you mourn his passing, please know that his kindness and talents were shared with many others, and that his impact will endure.
February 16, 2018
February 16, 2018
As a new doctoral student arriving in College Park from Taiwan in the early 1980s, I had the incredibly good fortune, or fate, to be taken under the wing of Dr. Carroll. From that day forward he was to be my inspiring teacher and revered mentor. I came very quickly to think of him as my “American father” for the kindness that he and Mrs. Carroll extended to me, my wife, Moh-Jiun, and eventually my entire family. My academic career would be shaped immeasurably over the next few years by Dr. Carroll as he steered me onto a course quite different from the one on which I had had embarked. Guiding me into strategic management—at the time very much a road less traveled, to borrow from Robert Frost—and “that has made all the difference.” Indeed, it is impossible to imagine how differently my career and my family’s life would have unfolded in the absence of Dr. Carroll’s influence. Long after I left Maryland for teaching posts at Columbia, Wharton, and Darden, his presence loomed large, extending well beyond the academic realm. The light of love the Carrolls shined on us would follow us throughout our life and was reflected in so many occasions and acts of giving, such as the baby shower he and Mrs. Carroll held for our first son, Andy, days before his birth and two weeks before we left College Park for New York and Columbia. Our second child, Abraham, like Dr. Carroll is a history buff and film aficionado, and these two passions were always a source of animated discussion on the too-rare occasions when our families would see each other. Well before I began working on my new research stream of ambiculturalism and East-West integration, I realized that Dr. Carroll embodied the ethos of the Eastern tradition of education: caring for other people first, teaching all, embracing the holistic responsibility of educators to society at large. He was a renaissance scholar, so widely read and versed in so many subjects, and a leading light in business education, but I will always remember him for his full embrace of all that life has to offer. Kind and generous, humane, with a boundless spirit—and a wonderful sense of humor, we all remember—Dr. Carroll will forever be my “American teacher-father.”
Ming-Jer Chen
February 16, 2018
February 16, 2018
When I see so many brothers and sister who are in constant conflict I am astounded how close my two brothers, Stephen and Creighton, and I have been all our lives. I cannot remember a single time when we were in conflict. We have always enjoyed getting together, especially if the three of us were together, and we would talk non-stop for hours. I think this natural kinship for each other originated with Stephen. As the oldest brother, his natural warm-heartedness and kindness created a relationship between the three us that has lasted a lifetime.
February 15, 2018
February 15, 2018
I am so terribly sad about the loss of Steve. It’s taken me a while to think of how to compose some thoughts -- so many memories come to mind: Steve’s glorious smile, delight in telling stories and hearing them, insatiable curiosity about every topic under the sun, incredible passion for travel everywhere, great zest for life, and the generosity of his beautiful soul.

Steve had an enormous impact on my life. From Day 1 when I came to Maryland, he somehow scooped me up and took care of me from the get-go, always with compassion, caring, and deep friendship. I imagine that the same story is repeated by many people because – even though he made me feel very lucky and ‘special’, I was certainly not alone in being so fortunate in having him truly look after me. I have no doubt that the path that my career ultimately took was indelibly impacted because of the interest and imprint of Steve. Of course, we also worked and wrote together, always a thrill because of Steve’s deep intellect.

For the years that we were in Maryland, Pete and I felt so fortunate to be part of the Carroll family, and that’s exactly how he and Donna made us feel -- so many meals, holidays, movies together, the most interesting and animated conversations on any topic, he was always keen to learn, yet he knew more than anyone.

His loss leaves a huge hole, but I am hoping that Donna, Chris and Alisa are comforted by the fact that he truly lived such a life in full, impacted so many others’ life journey, and is seen as an ideal for all of us. What a phenomenal human being.
February 12, 2018
February 12, 2018
I came to Maryland to be a doctoral student as Steve was retiring - though as many have suggested Steve was much too active and inquisitive to actually retire. I can best describe Steve's humanity toward students through two interactions. The first occurred during an AoM conference some years after he had retired. A group of MD doctoral students were gathered with Steve at a table in one of the public areas. Steve was clearly enjoying being with us and we with him -- he was so natural that way. The conversation turned to the critical issue of how one could best deal with the frustrating process of publishing in good academic journals. We were talking about the blind review process and whether and to what extent it actually is 'blind'. All of us had experienced the pain of rejection and Steve's comment regarding the all to common but often mis-identified "triple-blind review" which occurs when 1) the author is anonymous to the reviewers, 2) the reviewers are anonymous to the author, and 3) the reviewers don't know what they are talking about immediately made us feel better. After all, if someone as successful as Steve Carroll could empathize about this aspect of our careers, we would all be okay.

The second interaction had to do with my job search. Having a young and growing family, I faced geographic constraints but was feeling some pressure to pursue jobs on the list but not consistent with my family's requirements. One school interested in me was Villanova University. I guess Steve heard through the grapevine that I had a offer there and he sought me out to share that he had some early experience with the school and thought I could have a rewarding career there. As in many things, Steve turned out to be right and I owe him a great debt of gratitude for smoothing my path. I'll miss Steve and am a better person for having met him.
February 12, 2018
February 12, 2018
Steve was a wonderful friend to Lee and me, for many years, and a constant support in Lee’s last days. Among the many memories I cherish was traveling in China with Steve in 1985, for several weeks. He would close every evening with a visit to the hotel bar, wherever we were, chatting with new acquaintances and gathering new knowledge. He has never been too busy to lend a helping hand to everyone around him, generous with his time, and radiating good cheer. We have all lost a treasure of a friend! Donna, my thoughts are with you and he whole family. Pat Preston
February 12, 2018
February 12, 2018
(This tribute is from my mother Marjorie J. Carroll):

I have known Steve many years, as he was the brother of my former husband Creighton. Steve was highly-intelligent and cosmopolitan, and he was a great uncle to my children. Steve will be remembered in our family forever.
February 11, 2018
February 11, 2018
When I was a doctoral student I learned about Steve Carrol from reading his book with Tosi. Then, I happened to come to MD for my post-doc, and later for my sabbatical, and got to know Steve and to admire him. Steve has always been a great scholar and a very kind and nice person. In our competitive world, these two characteristics do not always go together. Steve and Donna invited my family to our first Thanksgiving dinner in their home, and we felt like we have become part of his family. Since then, I used to meet Steve regularly at the Academy of Management meetings, until recently. I am going to miss him a lot.
February 10, 2018
February 10, 2018
I am very fortunate to have Steve as my "American dad." He was my "parent" and teacher in more ways than one. I love his sense of humor and love to listen to his travel stories with Rudy Lamone. I have learned a great deal from Steve and am very thankful for his support and encouragement throughout the years!! I echo Susan that he will be sorely missed!!
February 9, 2018
February 9, 2018
Three attributes stand out when I think of Steve. First, his generosity. I've heard from others he was generous with money, but I played poker with Steve, and more often than not he took my money. But, much more important, w me he was very generous with his time, from my very first days at MD when he served as a mentor, nonstop for the next 35 years, offering whatever he could do to help on any matter. He was also very generous with his compliments - sincere, articulate, and from a person you respected so much they meant the world.
Second, Steve was the most well-rounded person I've ever met. Interests and expertise on so many academic areas (seemed like whatever topic I raised, Steve would refer me to a book he wrote on the subject), and the arts, such as his love for Japanese cinema, but also sports. I enjoyed communing with Steve and Chris at many MD basketball and football games over the years.
Third, Steve was just a fun guy to hang out with. Always upbeat, witty, and quick with a story, a joke, or a good conversation. 

He remains with us from his many lessons on how to live life.
February 9, 2018
February 9, 2018
It was January 30, 1983, the night the Washington Redskins earned their first NFL championship in 40 years. It was also my first visit to University of Maryland and the night I enjoyed my first first dinner with Steve and Donna. It was in a Georgetown restaurant where Steve and Donna positioned themselves with their back to the televised Redskin game. Not a word to the game, although we did talk sports, and everything else. At that time, I would not know that the University of Maryland would become my home for 27 years or that Donna and Steve would become lifetime best friends.

Today, It is heartbreaking for me to think that I cannot turn to Steve for his guidance, friendship and great humor. If I were in charge of sainthood, surely Steve would be tops on the list.  Instead I will remember Steve for the perfect gentleman he was: a man for all seasons, and a inspiration to all others.
February 8, 2018
February 8, 2018
Steve and I played poker many a night. He was a good friend and always asked about my son, Joel. We sat together at football games and always supported the Terps. We visited Steve when he was in the hospital and asked for his advice when a young friend got the same disease. We will miss him!
February 8, 2018
February 8, 2018
I had the great fortune of meeting and being taught by Steve while in the doctoral program at Maryland from 1995-1999. He was a true scholar-mentor, who role modeled his passion for the field as well as an sincere interest in developing others. His knowledge, wisdom and guidance shaped who I am professionally today. May he rest in peace and power.
February 7, 2018
February 7, 2018
I met Steve when we both came to Maryland in 1964. We became close friends and colleagues almost immediately. He was one to envy: tall, attractive, kind, smart, and generous. Our families became close. To me he was a mentor, as well. I lost a friend and will suffer that loss for a long time....
February 6, 2018
February 6, 2018
Steve was one of those rare individuals who combined kindness with intelligence, good will, caring, and insight. He was someone I aspired to be like. Whenever he was around, one's spirits were lifted and the world seemed a brighter, happier place. I have enjoyed him for 35 years, and for this I am thankful. A light has gone out. I feel sad for those nearer to him than I because I know what they have lost. May the world find ways to make more Steve Carrolls and may we all smile again as we think of him. Harry Sapienza
February 6, 2018
February 6, 2018
I and his brother Creighton lived in Los Angles, for 6 months while Stephen was going to college. He was a first class radioman, on a destroyer, and land duty in Ireland. When he came to Boston he always came to see me to talk over old times. A true gentleman.
dit dah dit dah dit Navy talk Means that's all for now.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
What I will miss most about my dad is just talking with him. As many of you know, Dad was an amazing conversationalist. Whether on our frequent phone calls, or stopping over for a brief visit, I could always count on great conversation, usually with Mom and Dad on the phone at the same time. I had a feeling of contentment at having someone to talk with about everyday things and world events. I loved sharing stories about my kids, learning about great television programs and movies that he and Mom recommended, discussing recipes, and gaining his perspective on world events and humanity in general. He was one of the only people I would ever speak about politics with because he was so rational, understanding, and wise. I would evaluate my own thoughts and ideas by speaking with Dad, and he made me feel that I had wisdom and perspective as well. We all loved his many stories that he shared, especially when he would get extra animated and jovial with his broad smile and a twinkle in his eyes. I aspire to be the kind of parent, spouse, friend, colleague, and human that my Dad was. Forever missed, forever loved, and forever a part of all of us.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
I met Steve when he visited Dublin City University in Ireland. He kindly shared his expertise with a number of PhD students including myself. He was a highly respected scholar and such a wonderful person. May him rest in peace.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
From Josette Paul, Paul and Jonathan Miller

From Josette:
"All by myself
I think of you and all the things we used to do.
All the things we used to say
and how we spent each happy day.
Sometimes I sigh, sometimes I smile
and I keep each olden golden while
all to myself."
Josette

From Paul:
We were so very sorry to hear of Steve’s passing but rejoice in a life so well lived. We have been blessed for Steve to have been part of our family’s life ever since I can remember. He and Donna were friends of my parents since their days in Philadelphia where my father was completing his PhD and I was born. Since then, we would be sure to see Steve and Donna at least every few years no matter where we all were on the planet.
After my father died when I was little, Steve became one of the few people who knew my father well and would often take the time to tell me stories about my father to help keep his memory alive for my brother and me.
As we all know, Steve had lively and creative mind, with always something interesting to say on any given topic and importantly equally interested in what others had to say about the world around them. There was nothing to compare to settling down into a chair or perched on a bar stool to have a good chat about any number of topics.
In addition, Steve would often send me articles, newspapers clippings and links on subjects that he thought might interest me. Most often on film, a subject we both loved - especially how film’s emotional quality can be used to help make the world a more informed and better place. Steve also shared papers and books he had written in which he used film and film references to discuss management theory and practice.
I shall miss Steve greatly but celebrate a great, kind and inspiring man and a wonderful life.
Love Paul

From Jonathan:
Above, my brother Paul expressed very well, all our family's thoughts and feelings. He was one of the last links to our past and we will miss knowing he is around and hearing his stories.
I would like to add just one small story about one of those serendipitous coincidences that happen in life sometimes.
Just last week, January 30th to be exact, the day of Steve’s passing, I was moving and sorting out the books at home for some badly needed new bookshelves and I came across one for Steve’s books he had given me which had been sitting, unseen, in a box for many many years.
I got it out and paged through it for some time and then put it on the new shelves thinking ‘wouldn't it be great to speak with him again”.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
I'd like to recount a 'teaching moment' that Steve passed on to me, shortly after I graduated from the University of Maryland. We were at the Smithsonian discussing aesthetics, and he was reflecting on his early career choices in academia. It went something like this:

"Several of us from the U. of Minnesota had defended our PhDs and were celebrating at a bar. Someone asked what our plans were. One guy said, "I plan to pursue fame," and indeed he's now one of the most published guys I know. Another said he planned to get rich, and he's also done quite well. When it came my turn, I answered "I will pursue beauty." Well, you can imagine how everyone's jaws dropped, especially during those days of science. When asked about it, I replied, "Beauty is everywhere if you know how to look. The more you look, the more you find and the more you get back; it's remarkable that way. Once you have it, you always have it; no one can take it away from you. And it grows within and around you if you encourage it. So that's why I will pursue beauty." That's what I've been doing ever since, and so far it's turned out great."

That conversation has affected so many of my life choices, and I know that Steve has also touched thousands this way, whether through his teaching, writing, or his extensive service in and out of academia. I will miss him greatly, but I know his voice will be with me for a long time to come.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
I first met Steve when I went to Penn State in 1967. He was at Maryland and offered some wonderful comments on a paper I presented at AOM and introduced me to Jack Miner. Steve was very gracious with his time and help. He and Tosi began collaborating and writing textbooks about the same time as Hellriegel and I. It turned out to be a friendly rivalry that last for decades. We spent one long week together in Taiwan and Steve showed me around the city. It was terrific and I remember going to the Chiang Kai-Shek museum and seeing all the gold he took from China. Steve was a true gentlemen and scholar. The AOM was a better organization because of his contributions.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
I met Steve several years ago when joining the Smith School. He was an amazing scholar, always inquisitive, an incredible sense of humor, a great story teller and a Gentleman who always, always looked after others. My heart goes out to his family, Donna, Alisa and Chris. He will be Sorely Missed.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
STEVE WAS THE ONE STAR EVERYONE ON THE FACULTY LIKED AND RESPECTED. WE SHARED AN INTEREST IN TERPS SPORTS. SPORTS MINDED FACULTY ALWAYS ATTENDED HIS SUPER BOWL PARTIES, ESPECIALLY IF THE REDSKINS PLAYED. WE ENJOYED WATCHING THE LACROSSE GAMES, AND MORE. AND HIS COLLEAGUES REMEMBER, STEVE'S DESK WAS ALWAYS PILED HIGH WITH BOOKS, FOLDERS, PAPERS, AND MORE. THE COLLEGE SECRETARY EVEN TOLD STEVE SHE WOULD GET A NEW DESK FOR HIM IF HE WOULD CLEAN THINGS UP. BUT, NO, HE KNEW WHERE EVERYTHING WAS AND REFUSED THE OFFER. NOW, THAT'S A TRUE PROFESSOR! AND SO HE WAS. AND A PAL TO THE END. JANE ALWAYS SAID STEVE WAS A WONDERFUL SOUL AND WILL MISS HIS KIND WORDS AND ADVICE. JACK
February 4, 2018
February 4, 2018
The Cannon and the Carroll families have been friends since the 60's We remember the many outings and dinner parties in which Steve would tell us great stories from his research into interesting topics. He was funny, detailed, accurate and fascinating to listen to.
February 3, 2018
February 3, 2018
Steve was the epitome of what I think about whenever hearing the phrase "Gentleman and Scholar.!" My life was greatly enriched by having Steve as a colleague at the University of Maryland's Smith School of Business. Steve, you will be missed! Larry Gordon
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Never forgotten, Steve!

A time to talk
by Robert Frost

When a friend calls to me from the road
And slows his horse to a meaning walk,
I don't stand still and look around
On all the hills I haven't hoed,
And shout from where I am, 'What is it?'
No, not as there is a time to talk.
I thrust my hoe in the mellow ground,
Blade-end up and five feet tall,
And plod: I go up to the stone wall
For a friendly visit.

Robert Frost. "A Time To Talk." Family Friend Poems, https://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/a-time-to-talk-by-robert-frost
August 23, 2023
August 23, 2023
Happy birthday, Steve
Here is a poem about Boston which you so often spoke about!

Boston Public Garden by Mina Le
On Boston Public Garden’s willowed shorebank,
two little girls are feeding ducks: they prance
from beak to beak, arms arcing past their foreheads
to farther thrust their crusts. They feel, perchance,

how full the cupboards of their lives are stocked:
so full they’re called to fling the doors wide open.
The charity of children’s soon unlocked;
they seem to say: ducks, take this as a token

of what we humans are at best, who built
this garden, footbridge, benches, willows, lake
that you might cool your plumes and eat your fill,
and we might give as much as oft we take.
July 22, 2023
July 22, 2023
As I reach the end of my professional academic career, I searched for Steve's contact information to tell him and was tremendously sad to read of his passing. Although I have not seen Steve for more than 20 years, I've never forgotten him. I was one of his TAs and later he chaired my dissertation committee. What I remember about Steve was his kindness -- he supported me in what was best for ME, particularly when I did not choose an R-1 after I graduated. Some other faculty were disappointed with my choice of a comprehensive university when I had other options, but not Steve because he knew it was a better fit. He was also instrumental in my choice to pursue academia as opposed to industry -- he got so much joy out of teaching and mentoring and was appreciative that, among other things, he had time to read the paper each morning (i.e., work-life balance) that I decided to go that route. He was so generous -- he insisted that I be "first author" on the 4 papers we wrote together because I was just starting out and he knew how much this would help me. Others in these tributes have talked about how they aspired to be like Steve -- that seemed impossible to me! He was so very talented -- a true Renaissance man -- and brilliant that being like him was beyond my imagination. But I so enjoyed knowing him and am deeply grateful for his kindness, generosity and guidance as I began my academic career. My life is richer for knowing Steve; I've never known anyone like him. Rest in peace, dear Steve.
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Thanksgiving celebration. Shared by Miriam Erez, Jan. 30, 2021

January 30, 2021
in 1986 I spent my sabbatical from the Technion, Israel, at the Smith School of Management, UMD. I remember that  Steve and Donna invited us to celebrate Thanksgiving  with them. I was very touched by it, as I knew that Thanksgiving is a family holiday when everyone gets together and.  it was very special for me and my family to celebrate with them our first Thanksgiving holiday. I always remember Steve as was very kind and caring person, May he rest in peace. 
Miriam Erez

A Great Friend and Long-term Colleague

February 8, 2018

Steve and I first met over 50 years ago in 1967 when I applied for a faculty position in the small management department in the then-Department of Business at the University of Maryland.  There was no official College of Business with separate departments  until 1973 when Rudy Lamone bercame the first Dean.  Salaries were low and there was some misunderstanding of the role of the modern business school among non-business faculty.  For example, at the first faculty meeting of the Faculty of Behavioral and Social Science, in which we were only one small department among much larger departments, non-business faculty actually questioned whether a business school was appropriate in a university setting.  Largely because of the tireless efforts of Steve, Allan Nash, and Frank Paine in the area of hiring the best faculty and supporting them in whatever way they could, the foundation for the Smith School of Business was put into place.  As more than one colleague at competitive universities remarked in surprise when they learned we had eight or fewer faculty, including three outstanding female professors, when they estimated we had 40 or 50 full-time faculty, we had a management department with no weak links among the faculty.  This was unique at the time. The management department at Maryland was the first to mature, followed by management science and statistics.  Over time all departments at Maryland grew in stature.
     This was the context for the next ten years: A highly supportive Dean, low salaries, some hostility from traditional departments, and the use of a the business school as a cash cow.  We faced many problems and difficulties, but Steve always made the greatest exertions to emphasize what so many others writing on this website openly recognized about Steve: His generosity, scholarship, etc.
     After retirement, as we know, he suffered physically.  Still, he kept in contact via e-mail and, when possible, his presence.  He let me know that another old friend and colleague, Lee Preston, was on his deathbed and could not speak.  Fortunately he could hear and I sent an e-mail that his wife Pat read to him.  Similarly he informed me that Marv Levine was in the final stages and the last time I saw both Marv and Steve was when we and our wives  had lunch at the Levine home.  By then he had lost 25 or 30 pounds. Recently I was on a six-month assignment in Europe when Patrick Flood e-mailed that Steve was in hospice.  I immediately called and tallked with both Donna and Steve and promised to call after Feb. 1 when back in the U.S.  Unfortunately time ran out for a second call.
     All of us have strengths and weaknesses.  In Steve's case the so-called weaknesses were charming.  For someone in HRM, he had difficulty conveying negative feedback with specific steps to improve.  Sometimes his criticisms sounded like praise and more than one student had difficulty interpreting his mixed messages.  On the first written exam that a doctoral student at Maryland wrote that I graded, another professor and I failed the student  on nine of ten questions.  Steve, although he agreed with us, vacillated.  The student passed this exam with a high pass a year later and went on to write several articles with Steve, thus ensuring his promotion at a prominent university.  Several years later, this student joked that he kept a picture of me in his office to motivate him.  I hope he did not use it for dart practice!
     Perhaps the best example of Steve's difficulty in conveying negative information occured after I was promoted to professor and then was a member of the tenure and promotion committee at the divisional level; at the time Maryland had five divisions, each with a provost.  It was an eye-opener.  As one young Associate Professor once told me, she always thought that faculty were very nice until she sat on  a comparable committee; then she realized we were a combination of Dr.Jekell and Hyde.  At any rate, we had an Assistant Professor who was clueless, with good reason, as she was winning teaching awards but publishing in low-level journals that would not pass muster at Maryland.  I enlisted Steve to join the candidate and me at a meeting to convey this information and to indicate a possible path to success, even though the tenure clock was running short.  We met in Steve's office in a meeting at which he barely spoke.  The candidate was resistant to the negative information and plan of action.  Then she started crying!  I was ill-prepared for this, as 95% of all professors at the time were male.  What does Steve do?  He jumps up and says he has to teach, thus leaving me with a bad situation.  Needless to say, we had words about this matter for at least five years, with Steve claiming that I was rough around the edges and needed to be more gentle in my feedback, with me claiming that it was critical to provide negative feedback with specific steps leading to success.  About five years later I was at a conference at which this ex-Maryland professor informed me that that she was recently promoted to professor at a good university and thanked me, claiming that I was the only honest person in terms of feedback.  I immediately told Steve, who still claimed I was rough around the edges,but the barrage of criticisms stopped.
     For about 25 years we had adjacent offices.  A student would come to my office and I would give such sage advice that it was time to get to work.  This took about five minutes.  Then the student would disappear into Steve's office for hours at a time.  I asked Steve why he devoted so much time to counseling these students.  He replied that he was cursed by taking a year-long course in sensitivity training as an undergraduate, which is a structureless form of management training with no one, including the professor, saying anything  for several hours and even days.  At the time UCLA was well-known for this form of training and Steve was a student in a class taught by a  leader of this form of education.  If you have ever participated in this form of training or witnessed it, you know why Steve felt cursed!
     As so many have commented, Steve was unfailingly generous with his time and help.  He was responsible for suggesting a unique methodology that led to the publication of my first major article, namely that job candidates recruited through informat means (e.g., knowing something about the company, personal referrals, reemployment, etc.) tend to stay much longer with an organization than those referred through formal sources such as hiring agencies or newspaper ads.  All key relationships held at the .001 level.  The editor accepted the article subject to one condition, or otherwise he would not accept it.  The condition?  I was not allowed to say there was no research on the topic, but had to add the word published research.  Sadly, this experience distorted my perception of how difficult subsequent publications would become as I faced typically three 20-page reviews, each single-spaced.
     In one conversation, I told Steve about an oral presentation on my dissertation at which a well-known professor began his feedback with: "This dissertation proposal reminds me of the story of the stinking fish in the Dead Sea." Since Steve and I were both Irish-American, he decided to top my story with one of his one.  Specifically, he devoted four years to his dissertation  and produced a first-rate work as judged universally except by one member of his dissertation committee, who threw his dissertation on the table at the start of the defense and said:  "This is the worst piece of junk I have ever read." I asked him how he responded.  Steve  didn't believe him until the final vote: 4 to 1.  As he recalled, he was shaking when he went back to his apartment and had a stiff drink or two to calm down.
     Steve and I were members of an informal group that met over lunch two or three times a week for well over ten years at the cafeteria at University College.  Ordinarily the lunch lasted one hour but somertimes we went on for two our three hours.  We talked about everything: The state of the world, opera, sports, sudents, etc.  One day a colleague who ordinarily had a sandwich at his desk indicated that he was going to join us in the future.  I told Steve, and his response was:  "What a pity.  He's missed out on 20 years of great conversation."
     We finally co-authored a book together.  As usual, we had strong and different opinions on the style to be used, etc.  His approach to research and writing was reflected in his much-noticed desk: He wanted to include everything.  I on the other hand prefer to follow the dictates of Occam's Razor.  We were going to meet in five minutes and  I asked him whether we should meet in his or my office.  Neither.  We used the neutral conference room.  His chapter on Japan ahd the problems of not separating work from family activities is still worth reading.
      Steve was the master of the gentle putdown.  He knew I had eight years of Jesuit education.  One time we were having a faculty meeting at which we were debating something important such as the introduction of a new course.  We were on different sides of the debate, and finally he said:
          "Marty, you think like a Jesuit, you argue like a Jesuit, and you even look like a Jesuit.  But you will never be a Jesuit.  You like the women too much."
     After the peels of laughter subsided, what could I say?  He had blind-sided me!
     These examples are illustrative of the Steve I knew.  We all had great times together, and I will miss Steve in the future.  He was a wonderful human being, a terrific scholar, a great friend, and unfailingly generous.Steve loved university life but also life outside the university, especially his family.  I know that I will miss communicating with him and being influenced by his love of family and life.


Marty Gannon 


Some stories about Steve

February 7, 2018

I first met Steve as a visiting Fulbright in 1993 when I came to UMCP with my wife, Patricia and our eldest son Chris (then 2.5 years old). Ken Smith had previously been a visitor to my university in Ireland and had described Steve -more or less-as an intellectual titan. Steve did not dissapoint. Having met Donna and Steve with my family on Tuesday he turned up at my office door in Van Munching Hall on Tuesday with a bunch of car keys saying, ''Donna and I have been talking- you dont have a car and we have two cars- so here is a car to use for your family'' This type of generosity was typical of Steve and Donna.  I invited Steve to come to Ireland on several occasions which was a great experience for those who met him in the classroom and outside. He said his liver took months to recover after those trips which is quite likely! We also wrote a book together, Persuasive Leadership: Lessons from the Arts (2010, Wiley) which is a great summary of Steve's life philosophy. I never had the heart to tell him that the book was later bootlegged on a website which hurt sales -but it had the advantage I expect of increasing the readership! I learned a huge amount about teaching executives from him.

One legendary story which was told in the M & O hallways was about Steve and the squirrels who set up camp in his office. The health and safety officer wanted to call the exterminators but Steve wanted to give them one last chance. Before he went home, he opened the office window and laid a trail of peanuts from the squirrels nesting place in his cabinet to the window sill. The idea was that they would follow the trail of nuts to the window and leave.Steve had not bargained however on reverse causality. Instead of the squirrels leaviing the office, all their friends and relatives came in and joined them!

Another story told to me by Steve was about a time when he became irate with the parking attendant on campus as he could not find his blue car. As he gained momentum in ''giving out'' he suddenly realised : ''Oh, I brought the red car this morning'''...and apologised. Next time, fellow academics, when you forget where you parked your car- this of this!

In 2010 Steve received the Heneman award for life time career achievement in HRM. I had the honour of reading his citation in Montreal. It was really fitting that he received this honour there as his mother was French-Canadian. It was his mother who as a painter, sculptor and artist model gave Steve his interest in art.
Indeed, his Mum is featured in a number of paintings in the Boston Museum of Art.

When his Mum died, Steve sent me a memoir about her which mentioned a poem which she liked. I read this as part of the citation. I think you will see in the last verse where Steve fits in.


Author: Poetry of James Henry Leigh Hunt 1838

Abou Ben Adhem (may his tribe increase!)

Awoke one night from a deep dream of peace,

And saw, within the moonlight in his room,

Making it rich, and like a lily in bloom,

An angel writing in a book of gold:-Exceeding peace had made Ben Adhem bold,

And to the Presence in the room he said

"What writest thou?"-The vision raised its head,

And with a look made of all sweet accord,

Answered "The names of those who love the Lord."

"And is mine one?" said Abou. "Nay, not so,"

Replied the angel. Abou spoke more low,

But cheerly still, and said "I pray thee, then,

Write me as one that loves his fellow men."The angel wrote, and vanished. The next night

It came again with a great wakening light,

And showed the names whom love of God had blessed,

And lo! Ben Adhem's name led all the rest.  



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