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Thanksgiving celebration. Shared by Miriam Erez, Jan. 30, 2021

January 30, 2021
in 1986 I spent my sabbatical from the Technion, Israel, at the Smith School of Management, UMD. I remember that  Steve and Donna invited us to celebrate Thanksgiving  with them. I was very touched by it, as I knew that Thanksgiving is a family holiday when everyone gets together and.  it was very special for me and my family to celebrate with them our first Thanksgiving holiday. I always remember Steve as was very kind and caring person, May he rest in peace. 
Miriam Erez

A Great Friend and Long-term Colleague

February 8, 2018

Steve and I first met over 50 years ago in 1967 when I applied for a faculty position in the small management department in the then-Department of Business at the University of Maryland.  There was no official College of Business with separate departments  until 1973 when Rudy Lamone bercame the first Dean.  Salaries were low and there was some misunderstanding of the role of the modern business school among non-business faculty.  For example, at the first faculty meeting of the Faculty of Behavioral and Social Science, in which we were only one small department among much larger departments, non-business faculty actually questioned whether a business school was appropriate in a university setting.  Largely because of the tireless efforts of Steve, Allan Nash, and Frank Paine in the area of hiring the best faculty and supporting them in whatever way they could, the foundation for the Smith School of Business was put into place.  As more than one colleague at competitive universities remarked in surprise when they learned we had eight or fewer faculty, including three outstanding female professors, when they estimated we had 40 or 50 full-time faculty, we had a management department with no weak links among the faculty.  This was unique at the time. The management department at Maryland was the first to mature, followed by management science and statistics.  Over time all departments at Maryland grew in stature.
     This was the context for the next ten years: A highly supportive Dean, low salaries, some hostility from traditional departments, and the use of a the business school as a cash cow.  We faced many problems and difficulties, but Steve always made the greatest exertions to emphasize what so many others writing on this website openly recognized about Steve: His generosity, scholarship, etc.
     After retirement, as we know, he suffered physically.  Still, he kept in contact via e-mail and, when possible, his presence.  He let me know that another old friend and colleague, Lee Preston, was on his deathbed and could not speak.  Fortunately he could hear and I sent an e-mail that his wife Pat read to him.  Similarly he informed me that Marv Levine was in the final stages and the last time I saw both Marv and Steve was when we and our wives  had lunch at the Levine home.  By then he had lost 25 or 30 pounds. Recently I was on a six-month assignment in Europe when Patrick Flood e-mailed that Steve was in hospice.  I immediately called and tallked with both Donna and Steve and promised to call after Feb. 1 when back in the U.S.  Unfortunately time ran out for a second call.
     All of us have strengths and weaknesses.  In Steve's case the so-called weaknesses were charming.  For someone in HRM, he had difficulty conveying negative feedback with specific steps to improve.  Sometimes his criticisms sounded like praise and more than one student had difficulty interpreting his mixed messages.  On the first written exam that a doctoral student at Maryland wrote that I graded, another professor and I failed the student  on nine of ten questions.  Steve, although he agreed with us, vacillated.  The student passed this exam with a high pass a year later and went on to write several articles with Steve, thus ensuring his promotion at a prominent university.  Several years later, this student joked that he kept a picture of me in his office to motivate him.  I hope he did not use it for dart practice!
     Perhaps the best example of Steve's difficulty in conveying negative information occured after I was promoted to professor and then was a member of the tenure and promotion committee at the divisional level; at the time Maryland had five divisions, each with a provost.  It was an eye-opener.  As one young Associate Professor once told me, she always thought that faculty were very nice until she sat on  a comparable committee; then she realized we were a combination of Dr.Jekell and Hyde.  At any rate, we had an Assistant Professor who was clueless, with good reason, as she was winning teaching awards but publishing in low-level journals that would not pass muster at Maryland.  I enlisted Steve to join the candidate and me at a meeting to convey this information and to indicate a possible path to success, even though the tenure clock was running short.  We met in Steve's office in a meeting at which he barely spoke.  The candidate was resistant to the negative information and plan of action.  Then she started crying!  I was ill-prepared for this, as 95% of all professors at the time were male.  What does Steve do?  He jumps up and says he has to teach, thus leaving me with a bad situation.  Needless to say, we had words about this matter for at least five years, with Steve claiming that I was rough around the edges and needed to be more gentle in my feedback, with me claiming that it was critical to provide negative feedback with specific steps leading to success.  About five years later I was at a conference at which this ex-Maryland professor informed me that that she was recently promoted to professor at a good university and thanked me, claiming that I was the only honest person in terms of feedback.  I immediately told Steve, who still claimed I was rough around the edges,but the barrage of criticisms stopped.
     For about 25 years we had adjacent offices.  A student would come to my office and I would give such sage advice that it was time to get to work.  This took about five minutes.  Then the student would disappear into Steve's office for hours at a time.  I asked Steve why he devoted so much time to counseling these students.  He replied that he was cursed by taking a year-long course in sensitivity training as an undergraduate, which is a structureless form of management training with no one, including the professor, saying anything  for several hours and even days.  At the time UCLA was well-known for this form of training and Steve was a student in a class taught by a  leader of this form of education.  If you have ever participated in this form of training or witnessed it, you know why Steve felt cursed!
     As so many have commented, Steve was unfailingly generous with his time and help.  He was responsible for suggesting a unique methodology that led to the publication of my first major article, namely that job candidates recruited through informat means (e.g., knowing something about the company, personal referrals, reemployment, etc.) tend to stay much longer with an organization than those referred through formal sources such as hiring agencies or newspaper ads.  All key relationships held at the .001 level.  The editor accepted the article subject to one condition, or otherwise he would not accept it.  The condition?  I was not allowed to say there was no research on the topic, but had to add the word published research.  Sadly, this experience distorted my perception of how difficult subsequent publications would become as I faced typically three 20-page reviews, each single-spaced.
     In one conversation, I told Steve about an oral presentation on my dissertation at which a well-known professor began his feedback with: "This dissertation proposal reminds me of the story of the stinking fish in the Dead Sea." Since Steve and I were both Irish-American, he decided to top my story with one of his one.  Specifically, he devoted four years to his dissertation  and produced a first-rate work as judged universally except by one member of his dissertation committee, who threw his dissertation on the table at the start of the defense and said:  "This is the worst piece of junk I have ever read." I asked him how he responded.  Steve  didn't believe him until the final vote: 4 to 1.  As he recalled, he was shaking when he went back to his apartment and had a stiff drink or two to calm down.
     Steve and I were members of an informal group that met over lunch two or three times a week for well over ten years at the cafeteria at University College.  Ordinarily the lunch lasted one hour but somertimes we went on for two our three hours.  We talked about everything: The state of the world, opera, sports, sudents, etc.  One day a colleague who ordinarily had a sandwich at his desk indicated that he was going to join us in the future.  I told Steve, and his response was:  "What a pity.  He's missed out on 20 years of great conversation."
     We finally co-authored a book together.  As usual, we had strong and different opinions on the style to be used, etc.  His approach to research and writing was reflected in his much-noticed desk: He wanted to include everything.  I on the other hand prefer to follow the dictates of Occam's Razor.  We were going to meet in five minutes and  I asked him whether we should meet in his or my office.  Neither.  We used the neutral conference room.  His chapter on Japan ahd the problems of not separating work from family activities is still worth reading.
      Steve was the master of the gentle putdown.  He knew I had eight years of Jesuit education.  One time we were having a faculty meeting at which we were debating something important such as the introduction of a new course.  We were on different sides of the debate, and finally he said:
          "Marty, you think like a Jesuit, you argue like a Jesuit, and you even look like a Jesuit.  But you will never be a Jesuit.  You like the women too much."
     After the peels of laughter subsided, what could I say?  He had blind-sided me!
     These examples are illustrative of the Steve I knew.  We all had great times together, and I will miss Steve in the future.  He was a wonderful human being, a terrific scholar, a great friend, and unfailingly generous.Steve loved university life but also life outside the university, especially his family.  I know that I will miss communicating with him and being influenced by his love of family and life.


Marty Gannon 


Some stories about Steve

February 7, 2018

I first met Steve as a visiting Fulbright in 1993 when I came to UMCP with my wife, Patricia and our eldest son Chris (then 2.5 years old). Ken Smith had previously been a visitor to my university in Ireland and had described Steve -more or less-as an intellectual titan. Steve did not dissapoint. Having met Donna and Steve with my family on Tuesday he turned up at my office door in Van Munching Hall on Tuesday with a bunch of car keys saying, ''Donna and I have been talking- you dont have a car and we have two cars- so here is a car to use for your family'' This type of generosity was typical of Steve and Donna.  I invited Steve to come to Ireland on several occasions which was a great experience for those who met him in the classroom and outside. He said his liver took months to recover after those trips which is quite likely! We also wrote a book together, Persuasive Leadership: Lessons from the Arts (2010, Wiley) which is a great summary of Steve's life philosophy. I never had the heart to tell him that the book was later bootlegged on a website which hurt sales -but it had the advantage I expect of increasing the readership! I learned a huge amount about teaching executives from him.

One legendary story which was told in the M & O hallways was about Steve and the squirrels who set up camp in his office. The health and safety officer wanted to call the exterminators but Steve wanted to give them one last chance. Before he went home, he opened the office window and laid a trail of peanuts from the squirrels nesting place in his cabinet to the window sill. The idea was that they would follow the trail of nuts to the window and leave.Steve had not bargained however on reverse causality. Instead of the squirrels leaviing the office, all their friends and relatives came in and joined them!

Another story told to me by Steve was about a time when he became irate with the parking attendant on campus as he could not find his blue car. As he gained momentum in ''giving out'' he suddenly realised : ''Oh, I brought the red car this morning'''...and apologised. Next time, fellow academics, when you forget where you parked your car- this of this!

In 2010 Steve received the Heneman award for life time career achievement in HRM. I had the honour of reading his citation in Montreal. It was really fitting that he received this honour there as his mother was French-Canadian. It was his mother who as a painter, sculptor and artist model gave Steve his interest in art.
Indeed, his Mum is featured in a number of paintings in the Boston Museum of Art.

When his Mum died, Steve sent me a memoir about her which mentioned a poem which she liked. I read this as part of the citation. I think you will see in the last verse where Steve fits in.


Author: Poetry of James Henry Leigh Hunt 1838

Abou Ben Adhem (may his tribe increase!)

Awoke one night from a deep dream of peace,

And saw, within the moonlight in his room,

Making it rich, and like a lily in bloom,

An angel writing in a book of gold:-Exceeding peace had made Ben Adhem bold,

And to the Presence in the room he said

"What writest thou?"-The vision raised its head,

And with a look made of all sweet accord,

Answered "The names of those who love the Lord."

"And is mine one?" said Abou. "Nay, not so,"

Replied the angel. Abou spoke more low,

But cheerly still, and said "I pray thee, then,

Write me as one that loves his fellow men."The angel wrote, and vanished. The next night

It came again with a great wakening light,

And showed the names whom love of God had blessed,

And lo! Ben Adhem's name led all the rest.  



An Exceptional Human Being

February 6, 2018

     It always hurts to loose a wonderful father and husband like Steve.  I recall, shortly after he came to Maryland, sitting in his doctoral seminar, smoking cigars. And we sat together at many a Maryland basketball and football game as well as the ACC tournaments.  You see Steve was a person of wide interests: sports, classical music, theater and a reader of an incredible wide range of books.  He was a truly educated person, in the classical sense, which is not true of all academics in business.
     There have been many changes since Steve began his adademic career but he was always a step ahead.  A wonderful teacher and scholar but most of all a wonderful human being.  Your memories probably will not focus on his many articles and books,even though they helped him reach the pinnacale of his profession. No, what you will remember is more enduring, his wit and sense of humour, his caring attitude for many and all types of people, and his words of wisdom, from which I also benefited, and his love for his family.  We all leave this earth at sometime.  Steve leaves a particularly large void.  But I'm sure you will benefit from your many fond and happy memories of a truly wonderful person.

A man of character

February 6, 2018

I was a colleague of Steve's at the Universityof Maryland for some 30 years, He was a geuinely nice man but much more than that. Unlike many professors who only wanted to talk about their narrow specialty (or less), he was genuinely interested in ideas. He was interested in philosophy, in psychology, in (with reservations) politics and art. He was a productive scholar and a fine teacher. He treated colleagues and graduate students with respect. And he was courageous. During the student riot period in the late 1960's I organized a petition to not allow student violence to disrupt the campus. Out of about 2200 faculty fewer that 200 signed it. He was one of them. Most faculty were afraid, but he stood up for what was right. Steve was a fine man who led an exemplary life. I have nothing but positive memories of him.

poker buddies

February 4, 2018

Bob (Cannon) and Steve were faithful members of the Univ. of MD poker game that lasted for 30 years.

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