Memorial Service
The Memorial Service for Steve will be held at 1:00 pm on Wednesday, September 10th at St. Denis Church on Avy Avenue in Menlo Park. There will be a reception following the service also at St. Denis Church.
"One of the good ones, an icon, a mentor, a true gentleman, authentic, loving, caring, smart, genuine, funny" These are only a handful of the many words that friends have used to describe Steve.
Please share your words, stories, thoughts, and photos of Steve as we celebrate his life.
In honor of Steve a Memorial Fund has been established in his honor. Below is more detail and instructions for those that would like to contribute.
Steve was an early Menlo-Atherton High School Foundation Board member and remained committed to the cause of supporting economically challenged students in our community throughout his life. In keeping with his values, The M-A Partnership for Success connects at-risk students with comprehensive services on and off campus. Donations can be made to the Steve Bellumori Memorial Fund at the M-A Foundation for the Future in support of the Partnership for Success. Checks made payable to M-A Foundation for the Future can be mailed to P.O. Box 1228, Menlo Park CA 94026. Please note in check memo line Steve Bellumori Memorial Fund or donations can be made online at www.mafoundation.org; Under donor information/address in PayPal in "Note to Seller" please indicate your donation is for the Steve Bellumori Memorial Fund. If you have questions, please contact Cindy Folker at cfolker@seq.org or (650) 322-5311 x 50206.
Tributes
Leave a tributeMiss you Steve! Tracie
You are not with us in body, but you're always with us. Thank you for showing us how one person can make a difference.
Tracie
Also during the course of many days in this crazy RE market I find myself asking the question "what would Steve do?". That compass has never failed me.
Love you my friend!
Tracie
Steve was someone I looked up to and admired. He had a moral compass that was spot on in all business situations. Steve treated everyone with respect and truly cared about the outcome of every deal.
I truly hope I am lucky enough to meet more people like Steve in my life.
Steve has been a friend and reliable real estate partner for decades.
He helped us sell our first home in Menlo Park and find a lovely home in 1997 that we may live in forever. He was always a phone call away for advice on our elderly parents real estate concerns as well.
We have the fondest memories of meeting all the Bellumori family back at Las Lomitas in 1990 where our children were classmates. Words that come to mind to describe Steve only being with: joyful, loyal, enthusiastic, trustworthy, reliable, fun, brilliant and always giving it all his best!!
With profound sympathy, Wendy Petersmeyer & David Bagshaw
I hope the great outpouring of love and respect from his many friends, and associates will bring peace to his family
He set the bar for life's highest standards.
I retired from real estate 14 years ago, yet for 14 years i have received the brochures for Steve's listings and sales,plus his yearly updates.This year was a "TOME",encompassing not only the entire Bay Area but a radius reaching north,south,east,and west.
Some years back Steve travelled East with his 2 sons. On the way he stopped at Niagara Falls, not only to view one
of the wonders of the world, but to visit my mother who was then in her late 80's. To this day Mom who is now 104 still recalls their visit.Yep that's Steve.
Last April he sent out an email announcing my sons's Opera
"LILLITH" which was presented at Menlo Atherton Performing
Arts Center.Steve and Darline came. Yep that's Steve and Darline, too.
We will always look to the heavens and remember this remarkable
Renaissance Man. YEP that's STEVE BELLUMORI.
Please accept our deepest and heartfelt condolences to you Darline, and to the boys and your entire family.
Fondly,
Noreen Harrow and Herm too
-Hill and Honor
he was always very helpful when i called him for advice or information on his listings or recent sales, especially in menlo park. RIP steve.
A sincere goodbye my friend, John
Steve, you are and will be forever sorely missed.
We will miss you so much more than you would ever have imagined.
A lot has already been said about Steve among his real estate colleagues. As a friend and mentor and will be sorely missed.
But he was more than that to us. Yes, Steve was "our real estate broker" ̶ we never thought we'd sell or buy another house without Steve. But Steve was also a wonderful friend. Steve always had a cheery bounce when he saw us (even if the time gap might have been years) and opened with a quick and cherubic "Hello, Jose!" Nobody ever called Joe “Jose” and Joe doesn’t really like the nickname, but coming from Steve, he enjoyed it thoroughly.
Last night we were reminiscing about searching for our first house with Steve in his cream yellow Mercedes in 1987. This was in the days before the internet, so we visited probably a list of 50+ houses. We were dogged. We joked with Steve that since we were raised Catholic there was a right way and wrong way to be a buyer ̶ and we were going to do it the right way. Steve enjoyed that one.
While house hunting with Steve we coined the term "all ducked up" for houses in the 1980s that had been redecorated in the prevailing country-chic of the time with blues, whites, images of little farm animals, etc. that included ducks. Steve loved that term, got a real chortle out of that. For our first house he gave us a concrete garden statue of a duck with a bow around its neck. We still have the duck proudly displayed at the entrance of our driveway, 27 years later (though the bow is long gone).
When Joe was diagnosed with cancer last year, Steve didn’t call to ask what he could do. Instead he just showed up at our house with lunch one afternoon. We sat outside and chatted, laughed, and hugely enjoyed ourselves.
Steve of course will be eulogized for the many big things he did. But in a way it was the many little things Steve said or did that have the lasting impact on many; that is what we will remember and cherish. Although he is no longer with us, his memory will always live on in our hearts – and we will smile every day when we see that concrete duck.
I admired Steve's willingness to commit his time to the many leadership roles he assumed, especially on behalf of organized Real Estate, at the local association with Pen-west and Silvar and at the State level. His interest in improving our industry by giving his time, energy, and ideas for a better run more professional organization with better written more up to date forms continues to benefit all of us.
Steve was a friend, a great guy, and certainly the consumate profesional Realtor. We will miss him greatly.
When it came to knowledge, professionalism, integrity, response, negotiation, issues-resolution, even finance and execution in real estate transactions, Steve was simply unmatched. And he made it all a very pleasant experience. But what was special for us was that Steve became a real FRIEND in a matter of a few weeks. My wife and I trusted him unconditionally. Every time we met him, his smile lit the room. For a couple of months, I would speak with Steve almost every day, and each time I would hang up feeling assured and happy. Our children loved him. Our 20 month old would jump on his arms and Steve would hold him and talk to him like a grandfather while my wife and I checked out listings.
Our children cried when we learned the devastating news. They still talk about Steve. I still find it hard to believe that he is gone. Every time I think of Steve, which is every day, I feel a knot in my stomach. We lost a dear new friend whom we feel we knew forever. And our dinner plans remained suspended. You will always be missed, Steve.
Leave a Tribute
Miss you Steve! Tracie
He'll forever play a part...
During this busy time of year with all of the hustle and bustle of the Christmas Holidays, I've been thinking of Steve Bellumori. Steve made a difference in so many lives and even though he's not physically with us he has continued to touch my life. This past year I've asked myself on many occasions, what would Steve do?
Steve made a difference and was a true treasure! I feel blessed to have had him in my life and thankful for such a GREAT role model.
Kim and I were shocked and very saddened to hear of Steve's passing. We met Steve as newlyweds in 1980. He rented us our first apartment, and went on to find us our perfect first home. He helped us sell that home and buy our next during a very difficult time for us, and was always positive, caring and professional.
He helped us again to sell our longtime family home when we left Menlo Park for Portland (or as Steve liked to tease us, "Poland"). We felt that we could truly trust Steve to do the right thing for us. He was always available to talk, and was very generous with his time and sound advice.
Our sons went to school together and I would find David stopping by with other friends after school. We enjoyed that Steve had such strong ties to the community. As so many have said, we consider him a friend as well as our Realtor. Menlo Park wil not be the same without him. Best wishes and condolences to Steve's family.