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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Steven Kapotas, 47 years old, born on September 13, 1965, and passed away on September 2, 2013. We will remember him forever.

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Kevin LaMarre
September 13, 2020
September 13, 2020
I still think of Steve from time to time and always offer a prayer of thanksgiving for having had the gift of knowing him through the re-enacting community. It's my hope that his family is well despite these challenging times. Special 'hello' to brother George.  Although my friendship was brief with Steve, he left a lasting impression with his special brand of humor and friendship. Good times.  See you one day in heaven Steve, but not yet!
Blessings!
Andrew Hunter
September 2, 2020
September 2, 2020
Still missing your friendly demeanor and smile my friend......
Rob O'Hannon
September 2, 2018
September 2, 2018
It is hard to believe that it has been 5 years. At events I still expect to see him every time I round a bend in the road, or come out from behind a tree. I will remember him always.
Rob O'Hannon
September 13, 2017
September 13, 2017
I still think of Steve during events and after. I will always have fond memories of his smile and friendship.
Kevin Titus
October 12, 2015
October 12, 2015
I knew Steve and his commanding of US Army troops at Fort Mott,NJ,Sandy Hook,NJ-Fort Hancock. He almost got me in to doing WW2 US Army portrayals? I feel we all will see him at a future site,looking over the men ? RIP Steve
Stephanie Sheridan
September 13, 2015
September 13, 2015
Steve you are not forgotten. Knowing you and your family was a big part of Pat & I. Pat enjoyed his time with you and George. Thank you for the memories.
Eric Goodridge
September 6, 2015
September 6, 2015
It has been two years since you left us. We think of you often and we are not over losing you and never will. You were a good friend but I also considered you my brother as well. You were always a phone call away when I was dealing with my mothers illness. You always had something to say that built me back up. Thank You Steve. I know you are around us all and will always be there. As long as I live, I will remember you and the good times we had. Rest In Peace.
Rob O'Hannon
September 2, 2015
September 2, 2015
I have not forgotten him, and his kindness and read smile. He will be remembered each time I attend an event.
Kevin LaMarre
September 2, 2014
September 2, 2014
To Steve's Family and many Friends;
   On this First year anniversary of Steve's passing, it's my hope and prayer that some of the great pain of loss has passed, and some healing has been able to take place. I can only speak from the historical re-enactor contingent, as that is where I knew Steve. I also knew that he was a consumate husband, father, and friend to so many.
Going forward can be a difficult thing after losing a loved one, but it's what we must do, to honor their memory... we can do no less. In going forward, Steve walks with us, and from a much better place shares with us our triumphs, and our sorrows, and all those other little things of life. Rest assured, he'll be laughing and crying along with us! 
Steve will never be forgotten. As time passes, we'll recall more and more all those good things and great times rather than the not so good or great...and that's where Steve's memory will really shine!
To all who were touched by having Steve in their lives; be well, live well,
and do well.  Steve's not as far away as we may think.
God Bless,
          Kevin LaMarre
          Raymond, Maine
Stephanie Sheridan
November 28, 2013
November 28, 2013
Just finding out that a wonderful person I knew, Has gone to a better place. I have so many memories of him. Spending time with my husband Patrick at Time Line and George his brother. Steve will always be remembered in our hearts and so glad that I knew him. May you rest and be watching over all of us down here waiting to see you again.
Kevin LaMarre
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
To the Kapotas Family, Br. George, All in the LHA and the 914th:
   I was greatly saddened to learn of Steve's passing. Steve was a man of exceptional character and a special sense of humor. His love of family, history, and re-enacting was an example. My prayers and sincerest condolences to all of you who knew Steve and were touched by him.
Rae Holland-Long
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Steve was a wonderful man who contributed some much to our lives. He came to water works at the Warwick Y with a smile on his face even though his illness was progressing rapidly. He loved my cookies and cakes with a relish and shared them with Joshua. He will be missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Otto Lorenz
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Having known Steve for over 20 years he will always be one of my friends. It's now time for you to rest and we will meet soon enough.
In treue fest.
Bob Lawrence
Drew Hunter
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
In 1998 I attended my first IGAP. After a 14 hour trip from Atlanta and dog tired, I met Steve as I was 'setting' up in barracks. His warmth, kindness and help that day washed away the sluggishness of that road trip and impressed me so to this day. In subsequent years he and I shared many great times in the 'Field', long may you find rest my friend, you will be missed - Dein Waffenbrueder.
Carl Moeller
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
Great guy. Friendly and caring. He will be missed. God has another angel.
Helga Pregnolato
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
I will always remember Steve for his smile and friendly demeanor at our water aerobics class at the Kent County YMCA. I knew he wasn't well but that didn't stop him from helping and caring about everyone he met. He never complained about his illness and he tried to make me laugh. Steve, I will miss you and all the ladies won't forget you. I know there are angels watching over you right now
Keith Rayeski
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
This news of Steve passing is nothing less than stunning to every sense! He was a class act with few who could hold a candle to him. I didn't see him as often the past few years but kept in touch through the web pages. The loss of Steve will reverberate throughout the reenacting/living history community and I have not doubt, is irreplaceable. You will be missed profoundly Steve. RIP
Jeannette Eckert
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
We also had the pleasure of meeting Steve through the Living History Association and its Timeline Event. We were always impressed with his authentic portrayal and his love of keeping history alive. You will be missed! Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
With sympathy from all of us in The Champlain Rifles Civil War Group
Betty Sprague
September 7, 2013
September 7, 2013
I knew Steve from the Kent co.YMCA. We were in the "water works" along with some great people.Steve was always so friendly and always smiled.He loved his children and would bring them in sometimes. He will be missed by all of us at the Y and my heart goes out to his beautiful children.Rest in peace Steve.
Joann Stamm
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
I met Steve in 1985 and we had an instant attraction. We spent the next months enjoying our special time together as we knew it would end once I moved out of state but that didn't stop us from going "all-in". I will always treasure that special time and be forever changed by his love, kindness and caring. While we lost touch over the years, we did reconnect earlier this year. Love you!
Chris Mekdsy
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
I knew Steve through the Warwick, RI, water aerobics class. He was always sweet and pleasant to be around, with a good sense of humor and attitude. He would bring in his children once in a while; and it was evident as to what a wonderful Dad he was. We will all miss his smiling face and gentle ways.
jennifer kapotaa
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve and Iet back in late 80's and we had an instant connection we married in 1991 and later had a son Steven he a few years later we had our daughter Marianthi and we had our perfect family. Like everyone we had our ups and downs unfortunately the downs took over after separated we got close and my kids and I were there til the end Weiss u and ur smile and we have a void luck ya rip hun
Kurt Fegelein
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
met steve a few times at gap and odessa always nice had a few drinks with him,
Vance Anderson
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve got me hooked on reenacting at the Collings Foundation "Battle of The Airfield" Event in 2007. He welcomed me as a friend for the first time meeting him, like he does with everyone. In that time we've made a friendship that will never end. He was like the father I always wanted and never had. Steve's brother George iwas lucky to have a great brother like Steve. Ill Miss you Steve.
George Krochin
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
you will be deeply missed my friend rest in peace.
Kathy DiMartini
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve and I met 22 years ago at an LHA Timeline. We became instant friends as do most who meet him. During that time we have shared many good times and made memories I will always hold in my heart. I will always remember the passion, enthusiasm and positive attitude he always had about everything. Rest in Peace my dear friend. Watch over us.  Love to you always.
Martha Smith
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve was one of those people who come along and touch everyone he met. He was a dear friend and a mentor in the reenacting community. He was always ready to lend a hand, share a drink, or just make you smile. Even when he knew he didn't have much time left his attitude was always positive. I'll miss you my dear friend. Major Martha
Bob Stella
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I've only known Steve for 1 year yet I feel I've known him for 10.
“Carve your name on hearts, not tombstones. A legacy is etched into the minds of others and the stories they share about you.”
Steve will live on as we share stories and raise many a drink to him.
Alan Crane
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I first met Steve back in 1992 or 93, when he took the time to talk to an 18 year old kid about a hobby he loved so much. Over the years I have fought beside him and against him at many events. He was truly a great guy to be around and a good friend who was always willing to lend a hand. I miss him, and know he will always live on in the stories told where ever re-enactors gather.
Larry Clinton
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I’ve Known Steve since I started re-enacting back in '96. Real good guy, and a big loss to the living history community. Sorry to see you go. Tell Muth and Danny I said 'Hi', and I will see you guys soon.
Bob Beairsto
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I met Steve and George back in the early 90s and always enjoyed their competition when facing them in the field. Our 26th unit always had its hands full when facing them. Its very sad to see such a great guy like Steve leave us at such a young age. Rest in peace Buddy
Rob O'Hannon
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve always had a smile, and a way of making you feel welcome without saying a word. As with many, I met him through re-enacting. He was always a sane and serene prescence in the midst of the insanity we sometimes experienced at events. I will never forget him, and offer my sympathies to his family and friends.
Vince Milano
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I met Steve when he first asked about re-eneacting some many years ago. He was just one of those people who voraciously learned and added to all he did. I remember the countless conversations about history and details with him. You will always be missed, rest well my friend.
James Powers
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve had an aura about him, few people have. He made you feel wanted, and your opinion mattered. He never held bias toward what uniform you wore, or which unit you belonged to. I will try not to mourn his passing. But I will celebrate his life. And how much joy he has brought to others. Rest in peace my friend. And may the angels hold you in theirs.
Cameron Thomas
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I knew Steve from my first day in the hobby many years ago now. He was a staple in the New England living history community, and a friend to all those who knew him. I can speak for the entire 26th YD when I say that we are all going to miss him dearly. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Rest in peace, Steve.
Chris Douglass
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I met Steve with the 916th(1996)and again with WW1,26div. Words can not convey the sense of loss to all. He was a great man. God bless his family . I will concentrate on the good memories of Steve and remember him thru those..
Eric R
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I first met Steve in 2003 at the LHA Timeline event in Shaftsbury, VT. It was spitting rain and, if I remember right, the event had a total of 10 other participants; Steve was in his WW1 impression carrying around a BAR, the first time I had seen one outside of a museum. From that day on I always had someone I could fall in with or talk to, and he always had a token German for VT events!
Bruce Pitt
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Steve was all ways cheer full you wouldn't think by tailing to him he had any other worries in the world . I was all ways treated with respect and kindness by him and anyone around him at the time . I will think of him with respect and call him my friend . God bless the family
Judy Keane-Browne
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
I met Steve 28 years ago at Lechmere in Cambridge. He became a good friend to me. Never forget that giggle he had!! People's lives change and time slips away..Steve will always have a special place in my heart. Much love to your family.
Ben Kierstead
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
"I started reenacting with Steve and 914 six years ago when I was still in 8th grade. He made me feel so welcome and at home That I have been stuck with them ever since. The LHA and reenacting in New England lost a great man, I will never forget you and when I am out of Norwich you shall have your hetzer for you my friend."
Gretchen Tucker
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
I think I met Steve for the first time at the Timeline or a board meeting. He was extremely passionate for his unit, the Living History Association, and World War II. history. He never stopped asking us to join the 914th. He never stopped living or stopped doing what he loved even to the end. We love you Steve, you are in a better place now :)
Guy Mazzarella
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
I met Steve when I first started doing WWII Living History with the 26YD Co.B.. I'll always remember how helpful & friendly he was when ever we met at an event, traded emails or spoke on the phone or his smile when he said hello whenever you met him at an event. Steve was a class act and will be missed by all those that knew him. Rest in peace my friend.
d k
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Kathy,
You are a dear friend to have spent time with Steve, I met him in doing wwii living history and will always remember his positive, can do, attitude during his illness, he always was there to " guard my display" when I needed a break, my thoughts of sympathy, diane

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Kevin LaMarre
September 13, 2020
September 13, 2020
I still think of Steve from time to time and always offer a prayer of thanksgiving for having had the gift of knowing him through the re-enacting community. It's my hope that his family is well despite these challenging times. Special 'hello' to brother George.  Although my friendship was brief with Steve, he left a lasting impression with his special brand of humor and friendship. Good times.  See you one day in heaven Steve, but not yet!
Blessings!
Andrew Hunter
September 2, 2020
September 2, 2020
Still missing your friendly demeanor and smile my friend......
Rob O'Hannon
September 2, 2018
September 2, 2018
It is hard to believe that it has been 5 years. At events I still expect to see him every time I round a bend in the road, or come out from behind a tree. I will remember him always.
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September 9, 2013
by James Cherry

I met Steve when I was a small child tagging along to a reenactment with my dad. From that day on, both he and George were always great to hang around whenever I got the opportunity to attend another event. I would just sit and listen to the stories that they had to tell for hours. Fast forward 20+ years, I had the pleasure of taking part in a reenactment and met up with Steve and George. They took me in like I was one of the guys that had been hanging out with them and having "grown up" conversations forever. It was great to see the look on Steve's face when he saw me and couldn't believe how much I had grown up! I can honestly say that just being around Steve and George set a positive example for me as a young man. Steve always made me feel that if I had anything to talk about or a question to ask about anything, that he would do his best to answer me completely and honestly. He may not have gotten the "what's life about" questions from me, but he never made me feel like I was anything other than important to the group. I remember his passion for his hobbies and the caring in his heart. Steve, you made me feel like a son and also a brother. You will be missed greatly and I look forward to the day that we can meet again!

The First Time I met Steve

September 5, 2013
by Rob O'Hannon

The first time I met Steve was at an event in Southern MA. I couldn't find the place; roadside construction had detoured traffic around the directions to the event I had. It had taken me two hours to get near the event, and then I drove around for another hour before I found the place.

When I arrived I was not a happy camper and a bit frantic, as the action had started and the battle was somewhere off in the woods. But as I parked the car I saw Steve. He waved at me and smiled. That wave and smile took all my anger away. He came up and introduced himself, pointed me to registration, stood by as I did the paperwork, and then walked me to the road that led to the battle.

I was impressed by his calm, and willingness to help. By the time I reached the scene of the battle, which wasn't long, I was relaxed and ready to have fun. That was the first occassion that he had the effect on me, but not the last. I will remember his smile at many events, and will always picture him that way in my mind.

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