Mom, it's been 20 years and on most days the loss is as raw as it was then.. I hope everything I've been taught all my life is true and you're with Dad, Judy, Ern and your babies.. That would at least ease the pain somewhat.. You were on my mind and I thought you deserved a memorial, cause I strive to be just a fraction of the woman you were, I just didn't inherit your BIG heart...