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Loving someone and losing them, not a moment past, is never easy. However, life is not about regrets and missed opportunities – it is about living it to the fullest and touching the lives of those you love and care for.

Sue Ann, your spirit and love endures in us all. There are so many stories of your life, which you shared so selflessly with those around you, and it would be careless if we did not share those moments with the countless people whose lives you have made brighter. For each one of us has a story, a quote, a happy if not painfully, sidesplitting, laughter induced, hands on our knees, hysterical memory of you. You were always only a phone call away, even at four in the morning, if we needed someone to talk to and feel loved when we thought it impossible. In our darkest moments, you were our light and though you are no longer with us in body, your spirit and memory lives on through us all.

Sinatra sang it best in My Way and the last thing Sue Ann would want is to have a room full of people sobbing for the wrong reason, or in her case, a football stadium filled to the brim! It is never goodbye, it’s see you later, though it may 'bring a tear to me glass eye'.

Please share a memory, photo, quote, anything to help keep Sue Ann's life and love alive and with us always.

 

-HOEFLER FAMILY

December 1, 2017
December 1, 2017
Happy Birthday Sue Ann!! I sure miss you. I know you are still with us and looking out for all of us. :)
December 1, 2017
December 1, 2017
Good morning and Happy Birthday. Glad you were able to return to us for the Holidays. I always know when you are around. You kept that promise. Love and miss Ya !!
December 1, 2017
December 1, 2017
Happy Birthday Mo Sue, Happy Birthday to you......
December 1, 2017
December 1, 2017
Happy 62nd Birthday, Sue Ann!! Thinking a lot of you! I always miss you, my dear sister. You are so special.
Love you,
God bless you!
October 20, 2017
October 20, 2017
Been thinking about you and just wanted to say Hi, and that we all miss you. I am more than certain you have been keeping in touch with us. 

Love you Sis
January 25, 2017
January 25, 2017
Just taking a moment to think of you, SueAnn, and missing you terribly as always! You are not forgotten. Love to the Hoefler Family, and wishing you all the best for 2017. xo
December 11, 2016
December 11, 2016
Love you !!

This was the perfect Web site for you -- ForeverMissed -- But, in my Heart I know you are never really gone. 

PS -- I hope you are Keeping Jack W. walking a straight line - LOL !!
December 11, 2016
December 11, 2016
Missing you every day sister Susie !!!

You are forever in our hearts!

A glass tear in the eye ..............................

love sister joAnne
December 2, 2016
December 2, 2016
Happy Birthday Sue Ann! Just a couple of days ago I was up in our attic looking around. On top of a box was a photo Christmas gift you gave to me and probably Ann Glasheen too. It was taken in 1994 of me and Ann with our bikes going down the B.I.A. road in Bethel. It said two friends in a far away place-going down the road to somewhere. I know you were saying hello Sue Ann. Thank you for that. You always shared so much love with the simple gifts you gave. Blessings to your family and love from Joan Koval.
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Still in our hearts and minds forever. Love ya babe!
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Hi Sue Ann,
I am always thinking of you alot,never stop missing you.
Have a wonderful birthday party up there. love always,Mike
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Happy Birthday my Sister.

I know you are still around and watching over all of us - miss Ya !!

Love ya
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Happy 61st Birthday Susie - LOVE & MISS YOU DEARLY!
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Happy happy birthday our dear Sue Ann. We love and miss you. You are forever in our hearts! 

Love,
Arllen, Tom and Julito Fazzini
September 20, 2016
September 20, 2016
Hi Sis,

It has been a while, But, I was thinking about you and thought it was time to drop a line. I was looking at how many people have signed on to visit you and cannot believe it. OUTSTANDING - you had touch so many lives and made so many impressions. All I got to say is I will be lucky if I get enough to count on one hand - LOL.
Well you are never forgotten by me either - not that I need to tell you this. I know that you are still around from time to time & the new lights I put in are a little bit harder to blow - sorry about that - but you got a little expensive. ok until next time --- until then I love you !!!!
December 11, 2015
December 11, 2015
Miss you sister Susie - always thinking about you . Seems like just yesterday you were gone. I keep waiting for you to call me from Alaska to chat for hours! Love you so much..... "glass tear in my eye"
December 11, 2015
December 11, 2015
Hi Sue, just wanted to update you with some recent news. Barry & Mary's Daughter "Little Mo Hannah" is married and working as a nurse in Bethel...! Julito is still dating Dakota, and he graduates this May. He is doing well in school and with baseball. Hopefully by the end of January he will know what college he will attend and play baseball. Julito misses you something terrible and to help deal with his sadness he is designing a tattoo to encompass his memories of his grandmothers and favorite Aunts. We love you,
December 2, 2015
December 2, 2015
Happy 60th Sueann wish you were here to celebrate together love and miss you call me sometime from the other side Annie
December 2, 2015
December 2, 2015
Sue Ann, I have been with my 94 year old mother in NY for the past few weeks. We have been listening to Frank Sinatra for days now to help her remember the good times. Every time he comes on I have thoughts of you, especially My Way. Smiling inside thinking of the love you shared. Remembering you on this 60th Birthday!
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Sue Ann! I can still see your smile and hear your giggle. I miss you and love you and still feel your presence! Love to the Hoefler family today from the Waldies.
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Sue Ann, I know you are aware of how much you are loved!
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
Happy 60th my Sister - Love and miss you
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
In our thoughts and prayers forevermore.
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
We had a family luncheon today to celebrate your 60th Birthday Susie!
Miss you every single day!
August 27, 2015
August 27, 2015
Good morning my Sister,

Just thought I would say hello. Pat & I stopped down to your old stopping ground in Elmira -- sure has grown up down there, the shopping centers - oh my you would have a grand old time.

Love and miss ya !! Peg
December 7, 2014
December 7, 2014
You will always be a healing angel in my life, Sue Ann. Thinking of you during this sacred December month. My blue bracelet that reads, "Do What You Love" always reminds me that you are still with us. Peace to all of your family and friends, Joan Koval
December 6, 2014
December 6, 2014
I am sure you know how you are still helping those you loved, and who love you!
December 4, 2014
December 4, 2014
"Dear Susanne
Happy Birthday to you !! Happy Birthday to you !!!
Biggest Happy Birthday to uuuuuuuuu. hug ...always think of u 
miss love great are you wonderful !! "
December 2, 2014
December 2, 2014
Just wanted to give you this flower & let you know I am still thinking of you and miss you always. We had lunch yesterday for and with you.

Love Ya !!!
December 2, 2014
December 2, 2014
Dear Sister Susie, I think about & miss you every single day ... brings a " tear to my glass eye". You will be forever young to me. Love your sister JoAnne
December 2, 2014
December 2, 2014
Happy Birthday Mo Sue and keep smiling on us. Julito is doing great driving, playing baseball, still dating Dakota and misses you very much, Arllen and I too. Our conversations are about you today and the joy you brought to us and the love you always showed to Julito. You enriched our lives. The Fazzini's send warm thoughts and hugs to all of the Hoefler Family.
December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
Happy B-day Suzie. You are truly missed and loved.
December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
!!!!!!!HAPPY BIDET AUNT SUZY!!!!!!!

Face your fears, cry with your glass eye and never let those rat bastards have the last word. Not a day goes by where I don't think on you and wish i could still call you at 3 in the morning because of the awesome time difference between east coast and Alaska - something i never took for granted ad miss terribly.

Missing you always.

-Your Nephew
December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
Still missed................Always loved.
December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
Happy Birthday Sue Ann I am sure you are partying with the angels I sure do miss you and often think about picking up the phone and calling you to talk over life issues....should have a hot line to heaven so we all could chat with you love and miss you can't believe it is 4 years already
December 2, 2013
December 2, 2013
You touched so many lives for the time you were with us and I will always strive to love as you did. May God continue to Bless.
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear sue sue, Happy Birthday to you! We Love You SueAnn,
Tommy Too, Arllen and Julito.
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Always smiling with a twinkle in her eye,
This is how I remember Sue Ann-
Always caring, always a "hello",
Loved Nursing and worked hard. Miss knowing she's here.....
March 1, 2013
March 1, 2013
Miss you Sue just needed a little visit with you I have something important coming up next week and would like you to help guide me and keep me calm. Love you Annie
December 12, 2012
December 12, 2012
Not too long ago I was meditating and seeking guidance "on my next step". I called out to Sue Ann in my prayers knowing she always had an opinion! :-) I let the thought go and went about my business. While vacuuming in the bedroom, way back in a closet there was a blue wrist band stuck on the edge of a mirror and it said
"Do What You Love"  I knew it was from SueAnn. Luv You
December 11, 2012
December 11, 2012
Dearest Sister Susie - everyday I miss & love you so very much
December 11, 2012
December 11, 2012
Miss those bed-side chats !! Love you
December 11, 2012
December 11, 2012
Sue Ann , There isn't a day that doesn't go by that I don't think of you and all the things that you taught me. The staff on 3 pm - 11 pm was like a second family when things got tough we all worked together but when it was slow some of the pranks we played , the strike we went through and we lounghed in the sun and sone people yelled at us . I love and Miss You Sue Ann, Love , Punky
December 10, 2012
December 10, 2012
Thinking of you today Sue Ann. Good memories of your beautiful smile and contagious laugh. Just to say hi.
December 1, 2012
December 1, 2012
I still remember!!! You are still missed, my friend. On your day, I will remember the good times and laughs that we shared.
December 1, 2012
December 1, 2012
Happy Birthday Sue Ann, I will never forget you or what a kind and thoughtful person you always were. I think of you every day my friend. Wish we had one more day to talk and be together, but until I see you again , I will try to live my life as you would. Love you
December 1, 2012
December 1, 2012
Happy birthday my awesomely amazing, loving, fun, silly, passionate, crazy smart, sassy pants, strong willed, indomitably spirited, courageous, outspoken, fabulous, inspiring, creative, genius, bestest, most wonderful beautiful aunt Suzy!!!! I miss you so much!!!!
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December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Well, I can't believe it -- It seems like yesterday when you would come home for the holidays.  We always spent time talking and you telling your funnies to make everyone laugh. I know you and mom are watching over all of us.

oh yea -- over 30,000 visited your site - for real. you really left your make in everyone's heart.

love and miss you very much.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
If this didn't just happened 20 minutes ago I don't think I would have posted this but I think I must. I was going through a memory box looking for a poem my son wrote to me when he was very young. Instead I came upon the poem I wrote for Sue Ann's Memorial. Here it goes.     Sue Ann you were soooo funny
One of the greatest nurse's I ever met
Our OB Bethel family, the best kept secret you can bet.
Everyone thought I was the midwife
But little did they know
There was a powerhouse on the late shift
She was really running the show.
Sue Ann could deliver any woman
Turn her body left and right
"Come on rotate that baby. I don't have all night"
I know you can hear her say that
With her honest, humorous tone
She was loved by the Native women
Never leaving anyone alone.
Her colleagues and peers adored her
Knowing she had a strong back bone.
If you ever needed someone to talk to
You could call her on the phone.
Sue Ann was so considerate, so generous and kind
Her inspiration to me is to live fully
And absolutely keep a humorous mind!
Blessings always to Sue Ann's family and friends who loved her.
December 11, 2023
December 11, 2023
Memories of you help to make me a better nurse and person - I miss you even though I talk to you like you are right here.
Recent stories

Sunset over Sleeping Lady

December 1, 2014

I couldn't have asked for a better tour of Alaska or better company than to be with my wonderful sister and two amazing aunts and roadtrip an impressive 5,000 miles in the course of 2 weeks.

love and miss you suzy : )

-Your Nephew- 

Snow Cake

December 2, 2013

Happy Birthday Sue,

When we woke up this morning, we looked outside and saw a snow cake on top of our table, so we decorated it for you...... We love and miss you,

Arllen, Tom and Julito

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