A TRIBUTE TO SUNNY OGUNFADEBO
( 1953 - 2020)
There are different seasons and each season brings comfort and despair. The coming and ending of each season confirms that there is nothing in this sinful world that lasts forever. Life itself is not designed to last till eternity. No matter how long one stays on the face of the earth sadly it’s never enough. Death is an inevitable phenomenon that will come upon everyone. No matter the age, when death comes, it leaves painful memories which at times make us to question the essence of creation. With death, we are left with heavy burden in our hearts with painful emotions.
Sunday Olorunwa Ogunfadebo (Sunshine) to nearly all the people that knew him was a tested and trusted gentleman. Sadly he has gone to rest in the bosom of his creator, at the age of 67 when we least expected. Why death? Why death? Why death? Why Sunny? Why now? Every time I ask this question, I became more and more confused. I have asked myself series of questions like why would Sunny die in such circumstances? Not until I stated this tribute that it occurred to me that it is not the number of years he spent on the face of earth that matters but what he accomplished in the course of his just over 67 years journey on earth. It also dawned on me that every one of us has his or her appointed time and it’s only God the Almighty that has monopoly of that knowledge. Sunny lived an exemplary life worthy of emulation. He loved everyone that knew him and was so much loved by them. His character was exemplary, his calmness was remarkable when others were loosing their heads and his loyalty and support to his family, associates, colleagues and friends were unrivalled. He was a complete gentleman and a Banker per excellence . His love for mankind typified his humanity, coupled with his sincerity, warmed him into the hearts of many in his field of human endeavour.
Sunny was always there for everyone, always wanting to help and proffer solutions to problems. He belonged to all and everyone. He was a sports fanatic and sometimes can also be a workaholic. He loved to put his clean hands successfully in many pies of life. A jolly person with no dull moment. He will be greatly missed.
He was a man of many remarkable parts. He was an epitome of simplicity, a good role model, a mentor, a man of good reputation and a Banker of an impeccable character.
Needless to say, Sunny was my very good friend, brother, trusted paddy, business associate, my professional colleague of over 45 years. Unsurprisingly, during our Chartered Institute of Bankers examination, from 1980 till 1984, we studied and revised together in his home in Balham for the Institute’s April and September examinations. Whilst in our twenties in United Kingdom he was my accomplice and what others would call partners in social crime. We took a lot of incalculable social risks by clubbing every week. We regularly visited at that time places like Gulliver’s, Thursdays, etc. He was also a “moderate” funny person. He gave jokes and could also take jokes. He was soft spoken and would softly make very funny and inspirational jokes some of which I still laugh over even when alone.
No amount of words could describe how wonderful and genuine Sunny was and how much we loved ourselves. It is with a heavy heart that I convey my condolence to his family members and other friends. He has left a vacuum in our lives which can only be filled by the Almighty God. I find it extremely difficult to accept that Sunny is dead.
I'm saddened by his death. His death is undoubtedly a great loss to his family and friends but as a man of faith, the ultimate lesson of death is that we all came to this world with nothing and we shall all exit with nothing.
His sudden exit hurts greatly and my heart bleeds. I’m devastated. The shock is unbearable and unexplainable considering that in over 45 years of our friendship, we never for one second disagreed on any issues whatsoever. We touched base regularly and frequently with ourselves.
Egbon mi, Orę mi Sunny. You are one in a million. However, I take solace in the fact that you lived a fulfilled and purposeful life and also the sacred statement that God giveth and only him taketh. God is all knowing and he knows best. May God in his mercy forgive all your shortcomings and grant you paradise. And when you are laid to rest, may he widen your grave and illuminate your grave hugely. In Jesus name. Amen. You served your profession diligently and also served God very righteously till your last second on earth.
I extend my condolences to all your larger families, colleagues, associates, friends, your professional colleagues at The Chartered Institute of Bankers, Nigeria which you were a Fellow, The London Institute of Financial Services (Formerly The Chartered Institute Of Bankers,England and Wales), former colleagues at ABE, Institute of Admin Management and all your well wishers world wide, our friends and colleagues at Fellow Like Minds. I say a big thank you from the bottom of my heart to you all. May God takeaway our sorrows and pains and ultimately bring joys to all your loved ones.
Rest in perfect peace Sunny.
©️Double