This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Susan Marie "Dolly" Colantoni.
Susan Marie “Dolly” Colantoni died peacefully on January 11, 2012, at her home at Magnolia Gardens in Toms River New Jersey.
At her request, no service will be held.
Susan was born on March 5th, 1927 to Italian immigrant parents Frank and Marie Criscuolo in New York City. Susan was happily married to Joseph Colantoni for 57 years and they raised two children together, Ann Koukos and Alfred Colantoni, until his death in 2003.
She lived most of her life in South Plainfield New Jersey. She and her husband also lived in Forked River, and Ocean, New Jersey, and after they retired they lived in Inverness and Celebration Florida.
Susan was a working mother who owned and operated a fountain service store, worked on an assembly line, and was employed by the Asbury Park Press in the mailroom. She loved tennis, Jai-Alai, bowling, Christmas, and being with her family. Susan was a staunch Democrat.
She is survived by her children Ann and her husband George, Alfred and his wife Nicole, her grandchildren, Lisa, Laura, Joe, Terri, David and AJ, her great-grandchildren Falon, Ian, Cassie, Colin and Josephine and her siblings Albert and John Criscuolo.
Susan was preceded in death by her husband Joseph, her brothers Al, Steve and Anthony, her sister Nellie, niece Marie, and nephew Frank.
Susan lived a remarkably colorful life, book to come, and will be greatly missed.
The family wants to especially thank the staff, nurses, and aids at Magnolia Gardens and the Caring Hospice personnel for providing loving care for Susan during her final days. We also want to thank Mom’s loyal and caring aid Norma for making Mom’s life in Florida fun, safe and enjoyable.
Susan was interred alongside her husband Joe at William C. Doyle Veterans Cemetery on Friday, January 20, 2012.
Let the memory of Susan Marie "Dolly" be with us forever
Memorial donations may be made to Habitat for Humanity or the Food Bank of Monmouth and Ocean County.
I realize even more now that the most important thing we leave behind is the part of ourselves that lives on through others. You are always in my heart. Love, Ann
I know I am a day late, my computer has some problems and I didn't get it back until today. The years have gone by, yet time has stood still. There will always be a part of me that left with you. There will always be a part of you that stays with me. I miss you, Love , Ann
Love Ann
Happy Birthday Pop.... Visited you both the other day... You were amazing people with amazing qualities individually and strengthened together as a couple. Your individual qualities were compliment to each others. Your imprint on this world still rings true to this day. Remarkable to say the least. Gram you were a tiger in some ways yet a soft gentle lamb in others. Pop one of the most kind heart souls anyone ask for. Your giving nature was warm and without fault. Know that you are both missed with everyday and loved by many. I love you... Your granddaughter. Laurie...
Wow its has really been a while. One thing about you is that you knew what you wanted from life, and nothing would stop you until you got it. I'm glad I have some of that drive. I know that Pop Pop was your best friend, and when I was with you he was mine too, so I am glad that you can now finally be together. I graduated from Juniata College with a degree in elementary education. Right now I am an aide to one student in a middle school with disabilities. I am married now to a friend from high school who is an Officer in the Marine Corps, I know that would make Pop Pop so proud. I know that you both are watching over me, I just hope I make you smile. Love you!
On another note - it is probably better that you did not experience the election of Donald Trump (yes that actually happen). As a life long democrat his election would have upset you and you would have blamed me because you always accused me of being a Republican (which I am not). Look down every now and then to see how he does (assuming he does not get us all nuked in which case we will all be seeing you sooner then we thought).
The family is growing by leaps and bounds, Nicki and Al are way ahead in the grandchildren department. Each of the additions are a tribute to you and your love of family. We see a little bit of you in everyone of them, I believe, for both of you, that is your dream come true.
Happy Anniversary dear parents.
You are tallying up those great-grandkids, one getting married soon, one just a few months old and more on the way. Al and Nicki ahead five to three and counting! You and Dad would have loved to hold them and coach them through life, but that wasn't to be. We will follow your lead and be there for them.
It has been a life changing year for my family. Actually a whirlwind of change. Some of it will remain forever changed, but thanks to the love and kindness of Al and Nicki so much of the burden and worry was lifted.
I know Tributes are usually shorter then this, but this year sharing seemed important.
This year there is a special gift for you from Laurie and I. In your memory we have helped there to be one less "suitcase" child in the world. Happy Birthday Mom
Love, Ann
The last four years there has been a whirlwind of changes, welcoming new members into our families and saying good bye to others. Throughout that time we have easily kept your spirit alive. Each of us drawing from the life lessons you gifted us. You taught us to be strong but gentle, kind but smart, trusting but aware. You showed us that love of family is the only true strength there is.
Be in peace with Dad
Love, Ann
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Today
The world is going through some real challenges now and I believe you would have been quite outspoken about your opinion of them. It would be fun and enlightening to have a discussion with both you and dad on the issues at hand. Of course, I would have no expectation of winning the discussion/argument, but regardless, the banter would be delightful.
It is a beautiful summer day and with a little creativity we can enjoy the local beaches.
Just wanted to say I love you both, the next generation is missing two very special people, but we will do what we can to fill in the gap.
Love, Ann
Con te partiro Dad
The time we spent together before our final good-bye was short, the years that we were distant were much longer. You and mom happily filled those years with close family, extended family and friends creating lifetime memories.
I miss you, the man I knew, the man who warmed his hands over an outside fire at Christmas, the man who loved to take his daughter to the Elks dancing, the funny guy who could swim laps in the pool with such ease and grace. I miss the man that taught me to ice skate and would shake his head in disbelief when I didn't change the oil in the car. I remember that man with love and gratitude everyday and am proud to be his daughter.
Love,
Ann
St. Joseph's Day
I couldn't help but think about the changes over the years and a family tradition that became less and less important.
Mom, you never forgot, you would always be sure to say "Happy St. Joseph's Day" to Dad. When I was young Dad would get phone calls from family members wishing him "Happy St. Joseph's Day. ' And of course there was the yearly trip to the local or NY bakery to get the special St. Joseph Day's pastry. So, let me say, "Happy St. Joseph's Day" to my father and my son. For the time being I will remember this day for you.
Love, Ann