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Susan Elizabeth Lester Eftink, 66, died peacefully in her home in Garner, NC, on April 6, 2019. She was born in Portageville, MO, on August 14, 1952. She had previously lived for over 30 years in Oxford, MS. Using her master’s degrees in both Education and Social Work, she founded a hospice and worked as an Associate Professor of Social Work at the University of Mississippi. 

She is preceded in death by her parents, Doris and Elza Lester, and her brother, Larry Lester.  She is survived by and dearly missed by her husband, Maurice Eftink, of Oxford and Garner, her three children, Jacob Eftink of Oxford, Anna Kathleen Miller of Garner, Jude “JJ” Eftink of Chattanooga, TN, son-in-law Patrick Miller, and her two grandchildren, Emilea and Bryson Miller.

We will celebrate Susan's life at Grace Episcopal in Clayton, NC, on April 15, 2019. Visitation and lunch will start at 12:30 followed by service at 2:00 pm.

A mass and presentation of her headstone will take place in Portageville, MO in the following weeks. A date will be provided soon.

Donations can be made to the National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization www.nhpco.org or Girl Scouts www.girlscouts.org/en/adults/donate.html.

March 13
March 13
I only just was made aware of Mrs. Eftink's passing. At 37 years old I decided to finish my degree in social work at Ole Miss and I was terrified. Mrs. E and I became quite close and she was a constant source of light, encouragment, and often times pushing me hard to keep me from dropping out and giving up. As we got to know each other we discussed many personal things. We talked over coffee, in her office, and prayed together in church. Although I was not Catholic, she still would invite me for prayer. When I graduated I had no one there for me. And the first person I saw upon dismissal was Mrs. E. She asked if I had anyone there for me. I guess I was embarassed because I didn't and she saw it on my face. She stopped someone and asked her to take our picture together. I still have it. That was in 2009. I'm profoundly sorry for your loss. She had the sweetest and often times most fragile heart I ever knew. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 10, 2019
April 10, 2019
Dear Maurice, Jacob, Anna-Kate and family, and JJ: I'm so sorry for this painful loss in your loving family. Susan was such a friend to Oxford/University that her goodness will live as long as memories last.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
Our Dear Susan...Though we have lived far apart, You are in our hearts.
You were probably my first childhood friend in Portageville...could it be because we lived across the street from one another!!! So sorry that you have had difficult times... Maurice, we pray that you and the family know that so many of your old friends are thinking of you. Love and Prayers of Peace are streaming your way, my friend.
Hope to see you soon.
Kathy and Mike

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March 13
March 13
I only just was made aware of Mrs. Eftink's passing. At 37 years old I decided to finish my degree in social work at Ole Miss and I was terrified. Mrs. E and I became quite close and she was a constant source of light, encouragment, and often times pushing me hard to keep me from dropping out and giving up. As we got to know each other we discussed many personal things. We talked over coffee, in her office, and prayed together in church. Although I was not Catholic, she still would invite me for prayer. When I graduated I had no one there for me. And the first person I saw upon dismissal was Mrs. E. She asked if I had anyone there for me. I guess I was embarassed because I didn't and she saw it on my face. She stopped someone and asked her to take our picture together. I still have it. That was in 2009. I'm profoundly sorry for your loss. She had the sweetest and often times most fragile heart I ever knew. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
April 10, 2019
April 10, 2019
Dear Maurice, Jacob, Anna-Kate and family, and JJ: I'm so sorry for this painful loss in your loving family. Susan was such a friend to Oxford/University that her goodness will live as long as memories last.
April 9, 2019
April 9, 2019
Our Dear Susan...Though we have lived far apart, You are in our hearts.
You were probably my first childhood friend in Portageville...could it be because we lived across the street from one another!!! So sorry that you have had difficult times... Maurice, we pray that you and the family know that so many of your old friends are thinking of you. Love and Prayers of Peace are streaming your way, my friend.
Hope to see you soon.
Kathy and Mike
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