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Longtime Samish Island resident Sue Miller passed away June 21, 2020 after a short illness. Sue grew up in Centralia where she was a leader in "Rainbow Girls" and the Salutatorian of her graduating class. She was the second oldest of four children. Sue attended Centralia Community College, WSU and WWU. Sue moved to Samish Island in 1966 while she was teaching French and English at BEHS.  She married Fred in 1967 and they bought their home on Padilla Bay in 1968.  

Sue had a quiet strength and saw the world with a nurturing heart and an artist’s eyes. She was a teacher, an artist, a mother, and an advocate for the arts, arts education and women’s rights. Susan loved roses and growing flowers.  She relaxed by reading novels and solving sudoku and crossword puzzles. She was a devoted Mariners fan; many of her quilts were made watching the games.  Susan was a quiet person with unlimited creativity; she always had a project in the works and others in her mind. The last twelve years, Susan was a cookie baking, Halloween costume making, art project arranging grandma who talked politics with and loved her grandson, Torin, with endless depth. Throughout her life, family was central and her priority.

Susan started the Samish Island Preschool, or as it is better known, “Suemiller’s School”, and she nurtured 25 years of Island children. It became three and four year olds’ right of passage to get to go down to the beach and be with Sue.  She had an affinity with children that drew them to her and brought out her joy.  

Throughout her time on Samish Island, Sue created art that reflected the beauty around her: the birds and island scenes. She made pine needle baskets, stained glass, quilts, wall hangings, needlepoint, watercolors, pottery and more-sharing her art widely and arranging her created items into a warm and loving home. She was a founder of the Samish Art Festival and every year sold her art, and then the Island history book.  She and Fred co-authored and edited Samish Island-A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s. Sue interviewed many Island elders to gather their stories for the book. 

Sue had a multitude of relationships with other Islanders: long-standing friendships with fellow mothers she met when their children were small, with preschool families, with neighbors and with the artists of the island.  She touched many lives, was very loved and will be greatly missed, most of all by her family, including husband, Fred, and her daughters.  Abby, Jeanene and I (Krissy) were the luckiest of girls to have her as our mother.  

Call or drop by if you’d like to visit with the family (360-766-6548.)

If you wish to remember Susan in a concrete way, we suggest contributing to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU,  donating to the food bank, holding your loved ones close and/or bringing the beauty of art into your lives, including believing that you can create it. 

Please leave memories at this memorial site, in a note to the family or in a memory book at the Miller home.

A more traditional obituary can be found in the "Life" section of this website.  

June 24, 2023
June 24, 2023
I can't help but think that Sue, the artist, would be overjoyed to see another artistic project emerging, right now, in her own family! Yes! Just now, on Samish Island! It's clear that her talented husband, Fred, is once again beautifying the island using his special talents with wood. And a beautiful, new wooden archway, with warm, rich color tones has emerged, on the roadside, among the trees. in place of the former one! 

Sue and Fred - a true Artistic Duo!! These two have been a super, artistic team for many years, creating beauty around them - Sue with her stained glass, quilting, and collage, and Fred with his multiple decks wooden staircase to the beach, and his imaginative archways! Truly, these two have shared their own unique artistic talents with Samish Island. We treasure Sue's legacy! And we cheer Fred on, as he continues his artistic visions! I know that Sue would be cheering you on, and with great pride!! 

Ginny Ramey
February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
I've been saving a very special memento of Sue to use in our new kitchen, when it's finished. When I see these charming little sandpipers, against the blue fabric background, I think of Sue and my eyes smile! Who else would have the eye and the talent to make a humble pair of kitchen potholders into such a thing of beauty and joy??! I'll be using these with delight, as I'm reminded of all the beauty - in both fabric and glass - that Sue has left behind, for all of us to treasure, here on Samish Island.
February 19, 2023
February 19, 2023
Happy Birthday Susan !  Wish we were spending your Big Birthday with you.
June 22, 2022
June 22, 2022
As we, hopefully, come to the end of this pandemic, we're missing Sue, her quiet presence, and her brilliant artistry, here on the island, Just imagine what she could have created during this long indoor seclusion!! Surely the beauty of it would be dazzling to the eye! We miss you, Sue, in so many ways.
June 21, 2022
June 21, 2022
Thinking of you all today and the lovely memories of Susan and her kindness.
February 23, 2022
February 23, 2022
I'm grateful for memories of Sue that shine on in the beauty she created in her home and natural surroundings. Her stained glass adds shimmering beauty wherever it hangs, and our homes and kitchens are alive with herons and shorebirds, wherever her colorful quilts and potholders are found! Thanks to her work with Fred, we know much more history of Samish Island. And this lovely legacy was created by a quiet and gifted woman, whose memory shines on, ever so brightly, through all she has so quietly and generously shared with us.   Ginny Ramey
February 21, 2022
February 21, 2022
Belated Birthday wishes for Susan thinking of you all today. 
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I am thinking of Mom (Susan) today and give all of you a big hug! Steffi
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
From Friends/Neighbors:

"Certainly the end of an era for you and us all. Sue had a huge impact on all our lives, our children's lives, and the floor of life on Samish Island. We all treasure our memories, and I can easily bring up her soft voice and laughter in my mind, as I know you all can, too...such wonderful interactions over the years."

July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
From a Friend/Neighbor/Fellow Artist:

"I don't have words for how sad I am...Sue was so special. She will always be in my heart. She was so lucky to be in yours."
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
From a Neighbor:

"Although I did not know Susan well, her shy smile and quiet presence as a neighbor will be missed. I remember fondly the sweet Christmas cookies tucked in our mailbox. I appreciate so much her work to bring Samish Island history to us."
July 26, 2020
July 26, 2020
From Friends:

"Fred-I am so very sorry to read of Susan's passing. I have fond memories of her from my BEHS days. She was a good teacher and an even better lady. And of course I remember you from my dad's store in Burlington, many years ago. I will hold you close in my heart."
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
From Friends/Neighbors/Preschool Family:

"We love your family and feel so blessed to be part of this community with you. I have started re-reading the Samish Island History book with even more gratitude for all that went into its writing and development. We will always be so grateful for Susie's wonderful teaching and loving [of our son] as a young boy. Will will miss her strong, solid presence in our world."
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
From Two Neighbors:

"What beauty!"

"I appreciate all she did. A wonderful, full life!"
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends/Preschool Family:

"How we loved Sue! She helped raise our children and bring us all into a loving friendship with our neighbors. Many, many thanks to Sue."
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends/Preschool Family:

"What a wonderful woman, creating not just art, but creating wonderful adventures for so many children!"
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
From Neighbors:

"Sue had so much talent-and was a presence in so many lives."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From Sue's Sister-in-Law:

" Susan's sense of humor will be missed. I'm remembering my last visit when Susan and I enjoyed each other so, and she said, "Come back again!"
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Niece:

"Memories of raspberry picking, art projects and berry pies. She will be missed."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From Neighbors, Friends, Preschool Family:

"Sue was a joy and delight for our family!"
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Neighbor:

"...so special to...see any examples of Sue's gifts as an artist. Samish Island will feel this loss for a long time..."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends:

"There is no one so important as a teacher of children, as Sue was for Samish Island youngsters."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Neighbor:

"Such a loss to our community! Sue will be missed."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Neighbor, Friend & Preschool Family:

"The best years of our lives were the SueMiller school years!"
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Neighbor & Friend,

Sue will be sorely missed. Love all her art!
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
From a Neighbor Friend & Preschool Family

"So saddened by the sudden loss of Sue and so very grateful for having our lives touched by her-our whole family-preschool, holiday programs, generous scholarships, stunning art=a Beautiful person both on the in and outside."
July 22, 2020
July 22, 2020
A Neighbor:

Our island grieves for the loss of such a warm, loving, and imaginative soul.
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From a Friend/Neighbor:

"Sue loved much and was loved. We will all miss her."
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From Family Friends/Neighbors:

"We'll miss you Susan-You were a great cook, baker, a good neighbor and a super baseball fan!"
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From a Neighbor:

"Sue, you will always be here with us-you will be so missed. We'll always remember you sitting on your deck reading."
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From a Neighbor:

"Sue, you will be remembered with great fondness. You have brought life to Samish Island."
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From a Friend/Neighbor:

"Susan made the Island such a special place to live!"
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends:

"We're lucky that Sue has been our neighbor and so grateful for her friendship and all the beauty she's brought to us through her amazing arts!"
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From A Friend/Neighbor/Fellow Artist:

"Your quiet patience with all of our young ones-thank you for the launch."
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
From Neighbors/Friends and Fellow Artist,

"Sue, your goodness and friendship will live on in our hearts forever."
July 16, 2020
July 16, 2020
Aunt Susan was a peaceful, caring person. She worked hard to make a home in which all feel accepted and supported, and she brought these qualities into her communities, as well. She loved nature, crafting, art, baseball, and her family. We are so lucky to have had her in our lives.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
From a Preschool Family and Neighbor:

She was incredible and truly loved her 'little ones'. She was one of those people who made such a difference for both us Islanders and for our children. It is a loss.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
From a Neighbor and Preschool Family:

What sweet heart memories of Susan you have shared in these posts.
My sons were friends with Sue and Fred’s girls growing up through Edison School and then BEHS. What a treasure all us moms had growing up our kids together. Sue is woven into those years of memories and I miss her. Way too young to die; she had lots of life yet to share with us.
July 15, 2020
July 15, 2020
From a Neighbor and Preschool Family:

SueMiller as the girls called her was so instrumental in helping us fit into Island life and what an education she gave to our children. Such a great introduction to life skills.
July 13, 2020
July 13, 2020
From Helen Jones:

Sue's memory lives on in so many hearts. Our family has been enriched by the gifts from you and Sue. From your book on Island history to the art and craft Sue inspired in each of us, we are thankful and joyful. Sue extended her gifts far beyond her dreams.
July 11, 2020
July 11, 2020
A poem from a card:

To live content with small means;
To seek elegance rather than luxury,
and refinement rather than fashion;
To be worthy, not respectable;
and wealthy, not rich;
To sudy hard,
think quietly,
talk gently,
act frankly;
To listen to stars and birds,
To babes and sages, with open heart,
to bear all cheerfully,
do all bravely,
await occasions,
hurry never.
...To let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious,
grow up through the common.
This is to be my symphony.

July 7, 2020
July 7, 2020

Words cannot express my sadness at the loss of our dear Sue Miller. She was such a light in our world, a dear woman and a cherished friend. (Our original non-meeting was at BEHS where Sue was the French teacher. I was a student there; I didn't take French). But we met again through S'Miller School, and Playday moms here on Samish Island. Our children were staggered in ages, boys vs. girls. My little boys looked forward to "S'Miller time" like a cozy sweater on a chill evening. She just fit and gave them such a good start! Looking back I can say that those early years were golden as we cocooned in our innocense. In recent years, time went by between our visits but we always picked up right where we left off. I could always count on Sue and our abiding friendship born of common values, respect and mutual admiration. I loved Sue more than I can say. Her death places those feelings of loss in laser focus and leaves a giant hole in my heart. Henry Ward Beecher's words were of comfort to me when John Blau died, "What the heart once owned and had, it shall never lose." I hope it brings some comfort to all of us now. 

With love and sympathy,

Susanne
July 6, 2020
July 6, 2020
To Susan’s family and sister Leslie:
I am so sorry for your loss. I am Susan’s cousin from Minnesota. I haven’t seen her for many years, but get a beautiful handmade Christmas card from her every year. I last saw Susan at Mercedes and Verne’s 50th wedding anniversary many years ago. Mercedes was my mother’s sister. My memories of Susan are second hand, from my mother, Effie. My mom was good about keeping in touch with family. I remember a trip she made to stay with Susan and Fred years ago. She spoke often of the wonderful time she had. They treated her royally, and took her crabbing on the beach, which thrilled her. She also told us about meeting Susan’s three beautiful daughters, one of whom would die tragically in a plane crash.
Thinking of your family, with love to you all at this sad time.
July 6, 2020
July 6, 2020
To Kristina and all your Family, We were very sad to hear of your Mothers passing and Mum, Dad and all our family here in Cork, Ireland send our deepest sympathy and love to you at this very sad time. Your mother looked so like you and such a talented lady --- I would love to have known her. We were very taken by the beautiful picture of your Mum and Torin in the Kitchen baking... the Love shines through and I'm very sure she will be missed dearly. So we are thinking of you all at this the saddest of times xxxxx
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June 24, 2023
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I can't help but think that Sue, the artist, would be overjoyed to see another artistic project emerging, right now, in her own family! Yes! Just now, on Samish Island! It's clear that her talented husband, Fred, is once again beautifying the island using his special talents with wood. And a beautiful, new wooden archway, with warm, rich color tones has emerged, on the roadside, among the trees. in place of the former one! 

Sue and Fred - a true Artistic Duo!! These two have been a super, artistic team for many years, creating beauty around them - Sue with her stained glass, quilting, and collage, and Fred with his multiple decks wooden staircase to the beach, and his imaginative archways! Truly, these two have shared their own unique artistic talents with Samish Island. We treasure Sue's legacy! And we cheer Fred on, as he continues his artistic visions! I know that Sue would be cheering you on, and with great pride!! 

Ginny Ramey
Her Life

Obituary as printed July 19th, 2020 in the Skagit Valley Herald

July 18, 2020
Susan Miller, Samish Island teacher, artist, history writer, community mainstay and advocate for the arts, women’s rights and education died June 21, 2020. She was born in Aberdeen, WA on February 19, 1943, grew up in Centralia, WA and graduated as 1961 Centralia High School Class Salutatorian. Susan attended Centralia Community College and graduated from WSU with a BA in Education and Teaching in 1965, and earned a 5th year early childhood education certificate from WWU. She taught English and French at Burlington Edison High School, and Head Start for the LaConner School District. Susan also ran her own preschool from 1973-1998. On July 5, 1967 Susan married Fred Miller, and they raised their daughters, Jeanene, Kristina and Abigail on Samish Island. Susan was a  founder of the Samish Island Arts Festival, and co-authored and edited Samish Island-A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s with her husband Fred. Susan’s quiet but direct manner, love, and artistry live in the hearts of her husband, Fred; daughters Jeanene and Kristina (Darren Kavanagh); sister, Leslie Hayertz (Brian Jelgerhuis), and brother Glenn Hayertz (Robin); grandson, Torin Kavanagh; aunt, Georgine Herring; sister-in-law, Marilynne Halkola; nieces, Meg Hayertz (Alan Clark), Amy Hayertz, Erica Wingard (Iain), Brenda Hanson Taylor; nephews, Keith Hanson (Cindy) and Jacob Hayertz (Zina), Eric Hayertz, Carl Hayertz, and many cousins, great nieces and great-nephews. She is preceded in death by her parents, Verne and Mercedes Hayertz; her daughter Abigail Miller Busche and son-in-law Ryan Busche; and by her brother David Hayertz. Susan’s family thanks the doctors and staff of Skagit Valley Hospital for the caring way in which they supported both her and the family. The family also appreciates how friends, family and the Samish Island community have stood by them and helped honor Susan’s memory and legacy. Remembrances may be made to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU, your local food bank, or groups promoting women’s health and self-sufficiency. 

Susan's Life

July 16, 2020
Susan Miller, well-respected and loved Samish Island teacher, artist, history writer, community leader and advocate passed away June 21, 2020 at age 77. 

She was born in Aberdeen, WA on February 19, 1943 to Verne and Mercedes Hayertz.  She grew up for most of her childhood in Centralia, WA, the second oldest of four siblings. Susan helped run the family’s corner grocery store on Sundays and made dinner for the family during the week while her parents were working, honing the cooking skills she became known for. During her high school years she was active in groups including Girl Scouts, drill team and Rainbow Girls, a Masonic youth service organization which teaches leadership training through community service. She was chosen as the Rainbow Girls leader, ‘Worthy Advisor.’ She graduated from Centralia High School in 1961 as class Salutatorian. Susan attended Centralia Community College for two years and transferred to Washington State University at Pullman, graduating with a Bachelor of Arts in Education and Teaching degree in 1965.

In 1965 Susan began her teaching career as a English and French instructor at Burlington Edison High School. After earning her fifth-year certificate at Western Washington University in early childhood education, she taught for the LaConner School District Head Start program, working with children and families in the Swinomish Community. Susan opened her own preschool, “Samish Island Preschool,” in 1973, and for twenty-five years brought happy learning to a generation of Samish Island children. Children were drawn to her and brought her joy. She followed her students' lives and their educational progress, keeping an album of photos and articles about them. Susan also taught for a number of years as coordinator and English instructor for a Japanese exchange summer program during the 1980’s. She encouraged her own daughters to be self-sufficient by attending college, following in her and her mother’s footsteps. Susan also established a scholarship for women entering college as older students at Centralia Community College and another for art students at Western Washington University. 

Susan married Fred Miller, a longtime Burlington resident, on July 5, 1967. Susan and Fred raised their three daughters Jeanene, Kristina (Krissy) and Abigail (Abby) on Samish Island, and were married for nearly fifty-three years. Susan devoted herself to her family, leading by example how to raise children for a grounded, self-fulfilled life. Cooking, art projects, making what was needed, holiday traditions and homemade gifts were core elements of the family life that Sue created. Family was central to her life.

Susan was a quiet leader and catalyst in the community, the one who spoke directly and honestly to get things done. She organized “Playday” groups for local mothers and their young children, in addition to arranging regular ‘coffee time’ for her preschool’s parents. Networks of longtime friends originated from these groups. She was a founder of the Samish Island Arts Festival, which she organized for many years and participated in all twenty-three years since its inception. She and Fred co-authored and edited Samish Island: A History From the Beginning to the 1970’s, contributing all profits to scholarships and the Samish Island Community Club. 

Throughout her life, Susan expressed her artistic talents prolifically. Susan reflected the beauty of nature around her in her art: designing stained glass windows and lamp-shades, fabric art, needle point, basketry, pottery, quilts, wall hangings and more.  Susan fashioned her  home into a comfortable and aesthetically rich haven filled with art and surrounded by roses and other flowers. Susan had unlimited creativity; she always had a project in the works and others in her mind. Susan also advocated for arts education. 


She loved reading novels and solving sudoku and crossword puzzles. She was a devoted Mariners fan; many of her quilts were made watching the games. The last twelve years, Susan was a cookie-baking, Halloween-costume-making, art-project-arranging grandma who talked politics with and loved her grandson, Torin, with endless depth. 


Susan’s quiet but direct manner, love, and artistry live on in the hearts of her family and many others: her husband, Fred; daughters Jeanene and Kristina (Darren Kavanagh); sister, Leslie Hayertz (Brian Jelgerhuis), and brother Glenn Hayertz (Robin); grandson, Torin Kavanagh; aunt, Georgine Herring; sister-in-law, Marilynne Halkola; nieces, Meg Hayertz (Alan Clark), Amy Hayertz, Erica Wingard (Iain), Brenda Hanson Taylor; nephews, Keith Hanson (Cindy) and Jacob Hayertz (Zina), Eric Hayertz, Carl Hayertz, and many cousins, great nieces and great-nephews. 


She is preceded in death by her parents, Verne and Mercedes Hayertz; her daughter Abigail Miller Busche and son-in-law Ryan Busche; and by her brother David Hayertz. 


Susan’s family would like to thank the doctors and staff of Skagit Valley Hospital for their significant efforts and for the caring way in which they supported both her and the family during Susan’s last days. 


The family also appreciates the way the community has expressed their deep affection and respect for the gifts Susan offered her community and her presence in their lives. 


Artist. Teacher. Mother. Community mainstay. Role model. Advocate. She gave her best and will be remembered through her many contributions and in the lives of those she nurtured. 


Please remember Susan by contributing to the Abigail Miller Bushe Art Scholarship at WWU, by donating to your local food bank or groups promoting women’s health and self-sufficiency, by holding your loved ones close, by believing in your own artistry and by bringing the beauty of art into your lives.


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February 19
Mom made us feel  special each birthday,  I remember one where she created a hoop skirt for a new doll suspended over a wire frame with a pink frilly dress. Each girl at my party pulled their party favor from under the dolls skirts with a ribbon. Only looking back do I realize that she likely spent hours creating something unique for us each year. I never missed going on an expensive outing. I didn’t even think of it. 

From Friends/Neighbors/Preschool Family

July 11, 2020
My boys and I enjoyed many wonderful years of SueMiller School. They loved their time with her! What a treasure to be able to march down the trail to the schoolhouse on the beach.  I cherish all those great memories of moms' coffee hour, field trips, and graduation on the beach in Bayview.  
One of my favorite stories was when [my son] was very new to preschool.  [He] didn't like to sing during longtime.  When he was barely 3 years old he came home one day and said that he liked SueMiller School because she told him "That's okay, you don't have to sing....you can just enjoy listening to the joyful music." It meant so much to me that she respected who he was as a little boy.  Sue and I reconnected in later years at the art festivals and thankfully we all have beautiful stained glass ornaments and pot holders to hold her memory with us.  Sue was such a kind and gentle lady, an amazing teacher and so supportive of our children and us as moms...we were so very fortunate to have her in our lives.  What a gift we were given!

From Crickett

July 11, 2020
"...Stacey was in Sue's preschool with Krissy, and Troy was best buds with Abby. Later Wendy and Abby were close friends, so we have known each other for about 40 years.  We would talk about the unique adventures we all had living so far from town and going to preschool where moms could share coffee before we left the kids with her and then we would meet for the playday group another time in the week.  We seldom know friends in a neighborhood who could be so unique from one another and raise our children in such different ways, but we all enjoyed each other and our kids for years.  Sue made such a difference because the preschool was almost a foundation for the moms and when requested our prayers as well.  Sue will be missed, but we will all certainly remember her."

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