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September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Some individuals "light up" the moods and spirits of those around them. They may do so by bringing energy, enthusiasm, or a cheerful and persuasive communicative style to their interactions. Suzy had all that, and then more. She had the sparkly eyes and mischievous smile too, and the passionate beliefs in what was "right and just" in her world, which is our world. What a gem, and what a loss. I know Randy and her family know her special light, and will honor it. Thank you, ELR
July 11, 2021
July 11, 2021
So many beautiful memories Auntie Suzy. I can remember how excited I was to be at your wedding. I loved seeing you act in Godspell and played the record over and over again. Near the end of your life “Prepare Ye” song played over and over in my mind. It made me cry but I knew your faith made you strong and brave and that helped me.

I remember waiting in the hospital waiting room for Mathew’s arrival. We all enjoyed so many big family dinners and birthdays and Christmas. So many Easters in the desert too.

We’ve loved sharing the desert with you and our extended family growing up. And as an adult, my family always looked forward to coming by your campsite and hanging out in your amazing set-up when our desert trips overlapped. We think of the fun times you had when we are enjoying your pop-up trailer. I am sure that you helped me pop that pesky door into place more than a few times this last season. We promise we will continue to chase Randy around the desert exploring and enjoy the flora and fauna and we’ll hopefully keep his four wheels on the ground; you know this will be quite a task but one we will look forward to October through May each Borrego season.

I am forever grateful for your love and support for my endeavours and those of my family. I remember you coming to ride horses with me in Sorrento Valley. When I began teaching you came to my school with the rattlesnakes and presented to our students at Knox Elementary; some of whom had never seen a rattlesnake. They loved it!

You bestowed Dusty with his Wilbur In Law Protection Society hat and welcomed him into the WIPS when we got married. You welcomed my grandparents into your home. You brought the Walton amd Wilbur families together at the reunion in Alaska and kept the relationships strong. When Dusty, Angie and I became a family, you developed a special bond. Angie adored you and your undivided attention when you were together.

Thank you Suzy for your love, your smile, the sparkle in your eyes and for bringing Matt and Katy into our world. Thank you also for your love and devotion to my uncle Randy, to my mom Mary and my dad David, and to the bonds reforged between the Wilbur and Walton families. I love you and miss you.
July 10, 2021
July 10, 2021
I am fortunate to have a lifetime of memories of my Aunt Suzy, and I will cherish them forever. Summer trips to stay with the Wilbur’s were always full of adventure, such as zoo and seaworld outings, movies, bedtime stories, hikes, and breakfasts on the patio (Suzy’s Dutch babies will always top my list of favorite foods). More recently, Katy’s wedding and my own provided fantastic memories that I would not trade for anything. I will miss you and love you forever.
July 8, 2021
July 8, 2021
Suzy was always so sweet to me in the praise band at LJ Presbyterian. She was so smart, and kind. A real joy. She was family for me for a few years, at a time when I really needed it. A blessing in my life.
July 7, 2021
July 7, 2021
We first met 35 years ago. Randy and Sue had me over for a month in summer in 1986. We have been in touch since then.
Sue was such a kind, generous, supportive person that I, who came to San Diego from Japan to study English, easily spoke to her and soon fully enjoyed talking with her. The second time I visited the Wilburs, we drove to Yosemite, San Francisco, Los Gatos. All
through the trip, how caring and gentle she was! It was the most fun trip that I have ever had. In December, 2019, my daughters and I had a great time with Sue. She was very beautiful, sensible and strong. I know very few people have the privilege of having such a wonderful person like her. I cannot express enough how thankful I am to her. Sue, I miss you and love you forever.
July 6, 2021
July 6, 2021
Suzy, I will always remember your sweet smile, your joyous presence & relentless optimism. Through & through, your courageous love & faith in the divine inspires me. No matter the obstacle, you seem so accepting & patient while navigating your path. When times got rough, you still showed up with absolute grace. I Love You Aunt Suzy, thank you for being you, for allowing me to be me & for celebrating my gifts. It’s with bittersweet tears that I write these simple words, because I’m so grateful you’re not suffering anymore. You fought hard & you fought tough, all along, you were enough. While I mourn your physical absence & for all your loved ones left behind, I give thanks knowing that you lived a fulfilling life, surrounded with impeccable people & the Love that people dream of.
July 1, 2021
July 1, 2021
I met Suzy and her family for the first time at the end of the 2019. I stayed her house for 2, 3 days with my mom and sis. That was my first visit to USA but, as my mom always talks me about her exchange student life in her university days at San Diego with Suzy and her family, I have been knowing them very much for a long time. That’s why, I was excited like I finally can see Suzy and Randy, and their family!!!
During our days in San Diego, we visited a lot of places and spent great times. In each places, Suzy explained many topics to us writing on her board such as animals, flowers, ecosystem, and more. My sis and I also searched unknown English words to understand what she said and made many questions to her. So, talks between Suzy and us never stopped. Although I never talked much with American people before, I enjoyed listening her explanation and talked many things!!
Thank you Suzy for giving us a wonderful experience. I’m so happy to meet you and will never forget our memories forever ❤️
June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
Suzy. Laughter, light, talent, accents, stories, caring, faith, compassion, adventure, wife, mom, friend. So much to be missed. I met Suzy at REI and began going on adventures with Suzy and 2 other wonderful women, Toni and Joey. Suzy named us MAWU (middle aged women unite) but Randy named us SOTTS (sisters of the traveling sausage) Sisters we became, we bared our souls to each other, camped together in Yosemite, Red Meadows, skied, capsized in the rapids of the American river, sang together and laughed ALOT. I have never known a tighter bond than I’ve had with these sisters and losing Suzy has left a huge hole in our hearts. We will miss you forever and remember you always dear Suzy
June 4, 2021
June 4, 2021
My first time meeting Suzy was 18 years ago and my only regret is not having had more time with her. Despite having only seen eachother on few occasions, the time I spent with her allowed me to get to know her warm and sensibility. Suzy was a wonderful woman and mother. A beautiful human being. I feel blessed to have known her !
June 3, 2021
June 3, 2021
I had the distinct pleasure to know Suzie for many years through the La Jolla Community Church Choir and the Worship team. Suzie was very giving and always was the first to volunteer to lead the prayers for those in need. One choir practice, Suzie mentioned that she connected with the Lord more through music than any other form of prayer. That resonated for me in in a big way and we both commiserated how we could get emotional through our Worship songs. I miss you Suzie!!!
June 2, 2021
June 2, 2021
Today is #LouGehrigDay. The ALS Association recently announced a goal of making ALS a livable disease by 2030.

A man at my company with ALS and many others fought to create this special day. You can read more or donate here: https://www.als.org/lougehrigday

I was lucky enough to somehow get into the same Bible Study group YEARS ago with Suzy and several other incredible women. I recently learned about Suzy and have wonderful memories of her smile, laugh, stories about her family, crazy stories of nature and REI. She was a beautiful person and her spirit refreshes my soul when I think of her.

Here is some background info on #LouGehrigDay in case you would like to learn more. In 2019, Larry Falivena (who works at my company) and others joined a group that had the idea that Major League Baseball should have an official Lou Gehrig Day. After a year's work, that idea became a reality. Most teams will honor Gehrig on June 2nd-the day he started his historic consecutive games streak, and the day he passed away from ALS in 1941. The teams that don't have home games will honor him today/June 3rd.

I made a donation today to support the fight and in honor of our Suzy. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and dear friends.
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Suzy- My first bestest friend and “seester”. We were stand partners playing cello and you accepted me even though I was a grade behind you. Our friendship in high school grew to include Randy, Joel and Terri. And eventually grew to include others (Barbara and Terry). But first it was you. Our group did everything together and I drew such strength and love from all of you. It made me feel so special when I heard you yell out “That’s my seester” at my college graduation. You were my maid of honor and though we were physically miles apart, whenever we were together we were as close as ever. In these later years when I would visit I was honored that you would share your fears and worries with me. But your reliance on our Lord, I knew, would give you strength and made me proud. I prayed for Randy and knew he too would gather strength from your convictions. Our email connection I hope was helpful to you, I know it was for me. You have touched many lives and will be missed. I can’t wait to sing duets with you again. All my love, Faith

Randy- I pray for your strength during these times of remembrance. You will be busy. But there will come other times (and I’m sure have already been) when some small thing will remind you of her and the pain will be sharp. It will not be forever. Cherish the memories. Her love is yours… always.
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Love you, Aunt Suzy. I will not be able to attend your service but will be camping in your memory. Love to you!
May 30, 2021
May 30, 2021
I met Randy and Suzy when I was in Jr. High through my sister Faith. LJPC was a touchpoint for all of us. Godspell tour, backpack trips then Image Dynamics where our creative grist was ground together. Suzy was always open, forgiving, understanding, loyal, jovial, sincere, serving and encouraging to a fault. Her dedication to family was unparalleled in my opinion. Her ability to surpass in hospitality inspired me to do likewise. Seems to me, as she grew older she grew more like the Savior she loved. She sensed need, when I was dull to others, to come alongside with just the right word, touch, compassion and empathy. Yes, we all meet our time to pass on from this life, and in that test we either grow bitter or sweeter. Sweeter is better and Suzy has taught us to pursue that path by the beautiful example of her life.
May 30, 2021
May 30, 2021
I met Suzy in the fall of 2016 in Brain Head, Utah. I am a long time friend of her adventure buddy Elly Vance. It was such a delight to have spent some time with her. She was funny, kind and a loving person. She shined brightly from within. Her love for Jesus spilled over to others. I am looking forward to someday reuniting with her in heaven. 
May 29, 2021
May 29, 2021
I had the pleasure of knowing Suzy since the fall of 2000. We met in a women's life group while both attending JLPC. She was a wonderful friend and sister in Christ. I learned so much from her sense of humor, courage, and faithfulness. I am blessed to have known her.
May 29, 2021
May 29, 2021
I met Suzy probably around 2010 as we were both members of La Jolla Community Church worship choir. For 10 years we met on Thursday nights and rehearsed and then sang on Sundays, usually multiple services. Our church choir was a family. I came to know Suzy fondly and always appreciated the caring and gentle way about her. And she helped me several times with things I needed or thought I needed from REI. Always made herself available. My life was blessed by Suzy's spirit!
May 25, 2021
May 25, 2021
My memories of Susie are from her La Jolla Pres days when we worked on the church's first contemporary service. Her input on the music helped make the service a true worship experience. As I think about those times together, so many sweet memories come flooding back. She had a high level of intuition. When my son was was about a year old, (now 47!) she showed up at the house when I was in a mental meltdown and took over childcare for a couple of hours giving me a break I desperately needed. In later years, I'm one of the ones she helped outfit for the outdoors with great hiking boots.

I'm so sorry I can't come to the memorial. I'll be in Atascadero at a nephew's wedding.
May 23, 2021
May 23, 2021
Because we lived so far apart (I'm in Michigan), I really got to know my cousin Suzy through our emails and Facebook posts. It was such a privilege to share our thoughts, photos, challenges, and joys with each other. My life is better for our contact these past few years!
May 15, 2021
May 15, 2021
Tis a fearful thing to love what death can touch - a fearful thing to love, to hope, to dream, to be - to be and, oh, to lose - a thing for fools, this, and a holy thing - a holy thing to love, for your life has lived in me. Your laugh once lifted me. Your word was a gift to me. To remember this brings painful joy. Tis a human thing, love - a holy thing to love what death has touched.
Yehuda Halevi (around 1120 CE)

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