Memories of a Magnificent Man
I have lots of good memories of Sly. He was a great person, a stellar stylist, and a fantastic friend. He was so talented and shared his talent freely with others. Once, he helped demonstrate a technique on finger waves on my hair-those were the best finger waves I ever had. I remember him giving me great advice, sharing knowledge, food for thought or food for our bellies. He would always buy breakfast burritos from me when I would deliver to the shop. He even attended birthday parties for Bianca, my friend and stylist at Sly's Salon, and although there was an age difference he blended seemlessly in with the crowd and kept us entertained in the back of the limo. One thing I will forever treasure is a deep conversation we had about opening my heart to find new love after the loss of my husband, soul mate and best friend who was murdered a few blocks from his shop on Grant Street. He told me to write a list of qualities I wanted in a man, put it in my wallet and when I met people to refer to the list and see how they measured up. Needless to say, I still have the list and I'm still single but it allowed to me see whats important to me and that I wasnt ready to settle for anything less. I never had anyone take the time to offer an honest male persective on how to find a good man. I thank him for that! I always admired his relationship with Ghandia and his boys. They were a picture perfect family all with lovely locks. I watched Ghandia perform in plays, and remember how she was always so energetic. She used to love the Hunid Racks energy drink that I would sometimes bring to the salon. I know that as such a strong, beautiful, black woman no thing or no one will keep her from living life to the fullest. I pray not just for continued strength but comfort, peace and prosperity for her, Savion and Samson. My prayers are with all who knew him because no matter what the circumstances his presence, positive energy, and unforgettable personality will be forever missed!
In Loving Memory of a magnificent man, my friend, Sly Rest Peacefully!!!!!