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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Tabijan Inshanally, 47, born on August 28, 1935 and passed away on September 7, 1982. We will remember her forever.

O Allah, forgive Tabijan, accept our duas, prayers and charity, have mercy on her, pardon her, grant her security, provide her an enjoyable place and spacious lodgings, wash her of her sins with water, snow and ice. Purify her from her sins as a white garment is cleansed from dirt, replace her present abode with a better one, make her enter paradise and save her from the trials of the grave and the punishment of hell. O Allah (SWT) grant her comfort, resurrect her with the believers and give her Your shade on Judgment Day for she gave her very best to us unconditionally - Ameen

To All visitors of this memorial...Thank you for visiting my mom's memorial page. You will be rewarded tremendously for all your good deeds!

September 7, 2023
September 7, 2023
Salam mom - 41 years have passed but the memories you left in this world will never fade. Today we celebrate the love and memories you left us. Mom, our love for you is as strong as ever. Sorry we did not do more for you while you were alive. May Allah keep you safe and grant you Paradise ~ ameen
August 28, 2023
August 28, 2023
Salaam dear mother - May Allah accept my duas for you and bless you with comfort & happiness on your b-day. If Roses are in Heaven, God pls pick a bunch and place them in my mother's arms and wish her a happy b-day. Tell her that we love and miss her, & when she smiles, hold, comfort, bless, and reward her for all the sacrifices she made for us. Remembering her is easy but there is an ache within our hearts that will never go away - RIP my dear mother.
August 28, 2022
August 28, 2022
May the peace and blessings of Allah (SWT) be with you today on your special day. You used to be our guardian and shining light. God took you because you could not go on to be our guardian all one while in pains. Now you are a shining star above with no pains and worries. May all your days and nights be blessed with happiness and comfort ~ RIP ~ Ameen
September 7, 2021
September 7, 2021
Salaam dear mom - You are always with us, first in your lifetime, then forever in our memory. May Allah (SWT) grant you a better place of abode - Inshaa-Allah and grant you eternal comfort and happiness - Ameen
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Salaam mom - Happy mother's day with lots of love. May Allah (SWT) grant you eternal rest and happiness in Paradise for you have taken care of us unconditionally when we were small. RIP my dear mother, you educate us, fed us, sheltered us and gave your life for us. Ramadan Kareem mom, May Allah reward you Janatul Firdaus for all the sacrifices you made for us - Ameen
September 7, 2020
September 7, 2020
Salaam mom - today marks 38 years since God took u back. We never let go of your memories, kindness and sacrifice u made for us. We pray that u r better off today with lots of blessings, comfort, light, shade and peace from Allah. U gave your all to us and may Allah return to u all those kindness. RIP dear mom - we never stopped missing u. Our prayers and thoughts r with u
August 28, 2020
August 28, 2020
Salaam Mom - Though you are not with us anymore, you are still adored by all of us. We thank you for giving us life through Almighty God. Happy b-day to you. May Allah (SWT) grant you Paradise - Ameen
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Salam Mom-You were truly a honorable woman who never ever said no. So here is to the best mom that anyone could ever know. You bore me, you raised me up, you showed me right from wrong and you showed me how to deal with life. Thank you mom - Happy Mother's Day - May Allah (SWT) grant you eternal peace in Paradise. RIP
September 7, 2019
September 7, 2019
Salaam dear mom - You left us 37 years ago but your memories are still with us. Mother is a beautiful creation, because in this selfish world, she is the only one who always want to see you happy. Ya Allah, I beg for Your forgiveness for my mom. Grant her Jannah and shine Your Mercy on her soul. RIP - Ameen
August 28, 2019
August 28, 2019
Salaam to you dear mom on your b-day. With Allah (SWT) blessings we are sending lots of hugs and kisses to you. May every tear that has ever fallen from your tired eyes on our behalf become a river for you in Paradise. RIP loving mom. May Allah give you comfort until the day of Judgement and grant you Paradise on the Day of Judgment - Ameen
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
O Allah (SWT) forgive our living and our dead, those who are with us and those who are absent, our young and our old, our menfolk and our womenfolk during this blessed month of Ramadan. Ramadan Kareem to my loving mom who gave her life for my siblings and myself. May Allah grant you paradise for you have taken care of us and given us your all - Ameen
May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019
As-Salaam-Alaikum dear mom - We are sending warm Mother’s Day wishes to you in heaven. We wish that whenever you are, you are always happy and smiling. We cannot thank you enough for all your love, commitments and sacrifice you gave us. We Miss you mom. May Allah (SWT) grant you Paradise. RIP
September 7, 2018
September 7, 2018
Salaam mom - May the blessings, mercy and comfort of Allah (SWT) blow gently and softly upon your soul and wisper in your ear how much we ❤️ and miss u. RIP my dear mother, my prayers are with u everyday. 36 years have gone by but u are still in our hearts. U never failed your children. May Allah reward u tremendously for taking care of us. Sorry we could not return u that huge favor
August 28, 2018
August 28, 2018
Salaam and happy b-day to the best mom than anyone can ever know. U bore & raised us. U showed us right from wrong. U showed us how to deal with life. U were unselfish in everything u did. U loved us unconditionally. We are returning that ❤️ to u today and everyday. U were always there with words of encouragement. RIP and may Allah (SWT) accept our prayers for u
May 13, 2018
May 13, 2018
Salaam dear mother and Happy Mother's Day - May all the love you gave to us come back to you a hundredfold on this special day, and may Allah (SWT) grant you eternal comfort -RIP
September 7, 2017
September 7, 2017
Salaam mom - 35 years have gone by since God the Almighty took you mother but it feels like it was only yesterday. Life took you away from us, too young. You will always be, our hero unsung. The skies look beautiful today and every day because Heaven cannot contain the beauty that you radiate. We miss you – may your soul find comfort and peace with the blessings of God. Ameen
August 28, 2017
August 28, 2017
Salaam mom - May Allah (SWT) shower his blessings upon you today and bless you with peace, happiness and comfort. We believe in angels, miracles, blessings and destiny. We find all these in you - our everything. Happy birthday dear mother. May Allah (SWT) send angels to give you comfort and happiness on your special day. Our prayers are with you today and always. RIP mom.
May 27, 2017
May 27, 2017
Salaam to you my dear Mother - May Allah (SWT) shower his blessings upon you during this blessed month of Ramadan. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
May 14, 2017
May 14, 2017
Happy Mother's Day from your loving children and g-children. May Allah (SWT) send all our love to you on this great Mother's Day for you deserve nothing less. RIP my dear loving mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. My Salam to you. I worry about u, please let me know how you and my 2 siblings are doing.
September 7, 2016
September 7, 2016
Salaam Mom - After 34 yrs. we are missing you today, but you are always in our hearts. We are who we are b/c of your loving hands. We've our sweet compassionate souls from watching you and your generosity and kindness to others. We see the world full of power b/c of your imagination. We've learned to never give up seeing your drive & perseverance. We love u always and forever. RIP - May Allah grant you comfort until me meet again
August 28, 2016
August 28, 2016
Dear Mom, happy 81st birthday coming your way today from your loving children and grand-children. You were our rock, our anchor, and our true North. You were always there for us, and for many others. You were a petite woman, but there was nothing small about your legacy - Its a strong, beautiful, vibrant one. In life you were in a constant state of motion never slowed down until Allah (SWT) stopped you. Thank you Mom for giving us the freedom and space to dream. Be carefree now in Paradise as you never could be in life. Breathe easy finally. May Allah (SWT) grant you comfort always. RIP
May 8, 2016
May 8, 2016
To a mother in heaven: Remembering you is easy, we do it everyday but missing you is a heartache that never goes away. You are always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts. Happy Mother's Day today and always. May Allah (SWT) grant you eternal rest in Paradise.
September 7, 2015
September 7, 2015
Dear Mother: After 33 years since your departure, you are still near, even if we don't see you. You are still with us even if you are far away. You are in our hearts; in our prayers; in our thoughts, in our lives, always. May Allah (SWT) grant you paradise. Ameen.

In memory of your children and grand-children
August 29, 2015
August 29, 2015
Dear Eyden: 

What a great loss to have your lost your mother at such a young age. She must have had a beautiful soul which I know was passed down to you so in a sense she still lives through you. I do believe the spirit never dies and that she is with you always. My love and prayers are with you. Marlene
August 29, 2015
August 29, 2015
Eyden, I see you lost your Mom a long time ago and she was very young, as you were when you lost her. She would be very proud of the daughter she gave birth to and I hope you reach your goal of 1000 visits to this site in honor of your Mom. Fondly, Sarah
August 28, 2015
August 28, 2015
Salaam to you mom. May Allah (SWT) grant you Paradise; our very best birthday wishes to you. "Your life does not conclude with death, nor will it end with ours. For all the lives we touch, you touch, and so on through all time. Happy birthday, dear mother; from your children and grandchildren. ~ R.I.P. until we meet again
June 21, 2015
June 21, 2015
Salaam to you Mom. During this blessed month of Ramadan, may Allah (SWT) accept my prayers and my fasting and grant you Paradise. RIP my dear mother for you have taken care of us and we are trying to lead lives that will make you proud
May 10, 2015
May 10, 2015
Dear Mom: Hope you are enjoying the best of Allah (SWT) blessings today and always. May Allah give you eternal rest, peace, and comfort. Thank you for taking care of us and leaving us in good standing to be able to stand strong, even in difficult times. Happy Mother's Day from all your children and grand-children. RIP
February 12, 2015
February 12, 2015
Hi mom - I am thinking of you and all the good things you have done to make me a better person. May Allah (SWT) give you peace and comfort. My prayers and thoughts are with you. R.I.P.
September 7, 2014
September 7, 2014
Dear Mom: May the peace and blessings of Allah be upon you today and always. Today marks 32 years since you departed from this world which still brings back lots of sad memories. Allah (SWT) knows best and I trust that He has provided you a home full of comfort, happiness and blessings. May (SWT) accept our prayers and reward you tremendously for you have taken care of us unconditionally. Ameen. Our prayers and thoughts are with you R.I.P.
August 28, 2014
August 28, 2014
My mom gave us life but never asked for anything in return. She was as constant as the sunrise, the moon and the stars and we counted on her. She helped us find our way. There are some things only a mother can do, and there are some things only God can do. God, please grant our mother paradise. Birthday wishes to you from your children and grandchildren. May Allah (SWT) grant you peace and comfort.
May 11, 2014
May 11, 2014
A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.” Wishing you a Happy Mother's Day from all your children and grandchildren. RIP
September 26, 2013
September 26, 2013
Sept. 7 marks 31 years since that fatal blow but it is like you are still here and we can see you. May Allah (SWT) grant you comfort until the day of judgment and grant you paradise on the day of judgment. R.I.P. You will never be forgotten.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Another year went by but you are still in our hearts. Happy birthday to you from all your loving children and grandchildren. May Allah (SWT) grant you comfort until the day of judgment and may Allah grant you Paradise on the day of judgment. You deserve nothing less for you gave your whole life away to others and you took nothing with you but you left a whole lot of good memories. Eyden
May 12, 2013
May 12, 2013
Today and everyday I mirror the many values my Mother taught me: 1) Giving is an honorable thing; 2) Knowledge is power and sharing that knowledge is even more powerful. She gave unconditionally all her life, and ultimately her own life for the happiness of others. Happy Mother's Day dear Mother. May Allah (SWT) give you comfort now and forever. Sadly missed by your 6 children & 8 grand
September 23, 2012
September 23, 2012
May Allah send peace, blessings and mercy upon you. You are forever missed and memories of you are still fresh in our minds. Be well until we meet again.
August 29, 2012
August 29, 2012
Happy birthday to you mom. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Peace be unto you.
Love, Eyden
July 18, 2012
July 18, 2012
My dear Eyden,
I am so sorry that you lost one of the most precious gifts a child could ever have and have it taken away at such a tender age.
You are a beautiful daughter and my heart goes out to you for your loss 30 years ago! Your Mom will never be forgotten. In my prayers, forever, Love, Sarah
July 4, 2012
July 4, 2012
In memory of my mother
You touched our hearts in so many ways,
You smile so bright even on the bad days.
You heard Allah calling you home but you didn't want to leave us alone.
You loved us so much, you held on tight, till all the strength was gone and you could no longer fight.
You gave your hand to Allah, the All Knower and slowly drifted away.

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September 7, 2023
September 7, 2023
Salam mom - 41 years have passed but the memories you left in this world will never fade. Today we celebrate the love and memories you left us. Mom, our love for you is as strong as ever. Sorry we did not do more for you while you were alive. May Allah keep you safe and grant you Paradise ~ ameen
August 28, 2023
August 28, 2023
Salaam dear mother - May Allah accept my duas for you and bless you with comfort & happiness on your b-day. If Roses are in Heaven, God pls pick a bunch and place them in my mother's arms and wish her a happy b-day. Tell her that we love and miss her, & when she smiles, hold, comfort, bless, and reward her for all the sacrifices she made for us. Remembering her is easy but there is an ache within our hearts that will never go away - RIP my dear mother.
August 28, 2022
August 28, 2022
May the peace and blessings of Allah (SWT) be with you today on your special day. You used to be our guardian and shining light. God took you because you could not go on to be our guardian all one while in pains. Now you are a shining star above with no pains and worries. May all your days and nights be blessed with happiness and comfort ~ RIP ~ Ameen
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In Memory of Mom

July 4, 2012

“If we have been pleased with life, we would not be displeased with death, since it comes from the hands of the same Master. (Michelangelo)

Mom always supported and encouraged us to do our best no matter what we were doing.  She was our foundation from which we began!  Her love was unconditional and despite any wrong decisions, she loved us, stood by us and supported us always. The love that shone through her was bountiful. The power in her heart can always be seen as she demonstrated that she lived for us even in her final hours.

The words that come to my mind include: independence, courage, generosity, sensitivity, integrity, and dignity, and indeed the word ‘life’ itself – for few people I have ever known – dedicated her entire life to her children.  She struggled through her final months and hours to provide a home for us before she departed from this world.  Among the other words, which come to mind to describe her character, her uncompromising integrity, honesty, and determination have proven to be among the most important guides for myself in my professional and personal life.

Life forces us all into positions of compromise and presents challenges to our honesty and our integrity, and I observed my mother rose and met those challenges one after the other throughout my life with courage and a toughness and a sense of right and wrong which inspired me to live up to her standards. Her sense of dignity was never so tested nor so well demonstrated as in the final weeks and days of her life.  Even with a body overcome with cancer she still was not asking for painkillers nor support from anyone. I struggle to imagine myself being able to meet death with even 1/10th the dignity that I observed in my mother during her final weeks and which swelled me with pride each minute that I spent with her.

My mother had an extraordinary ability to make each of us feel stronger and more confident in our own identity, giving us our own sense of independence and mental toughness, which, speaking for myself has been such an asset in so many ways in my life, and accepting her death.  She will live in our memories and our hearts forever and I will always be extremely proud to call myself the daughter of Tabijan who inspired me to be who I am today.

I’d like to leave you all with this quote, by Helen Keller. She said, “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart” If, by the end of her life, my mother ended up touching all of your hearts ----then I ask you, what else can anyone ask for in this world, but to touch people’s hearts.  Thank you, Mom.

Gone but not forgotten. Rest in peace.  My prayers are with You, Dad and Sally. Love always, Eyden

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