Let the memory of Tabitha "Tabby" be with us forever
  • 16 years old
  • Born on August 13, 1994 .
  • Passed away on December 12, 2010 .
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Tabitha "Tabby" Nelson 16 years old, born on August 13, 1994 and passed away on December 12, 2010. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Crystle Calvin on 26th February 2018
I met Tabby when I was young... Maybe six or seven. She lived across the street from my aunt and uncle on Longview Drive in Tallahassee Fl. (Kate and Bill Calvin). When I visited we spent hours together. Running through the yards, making "potions", hiding from "snakes" (sticks) in the dips in the yard... when I left we became pen-pals. For years and years on end we wrote each other, even sent each other pictures of what we looked like so if we ever came across each other in Florida again we would recognize each other (two of which I still have, one is in a scrapbook of my best friends). Month after month and year after year the letters flew back and forth from Massachusetts to Florida and we talked about everything and anything... Until about 2010... I sent multiple letters and heard nothing... I didn't have much of anything for social media, so I never had her added anywhere, never even thought to look.In 2011 I gave up figuring maybe she had moved and lost my address. Now today, February 26, 2018, after seeing my Uncle Bill a few days ago and wondering about her and how she is doing, I found the article that broke my heart in half and I know why the letters stopped. My heart is breaking for her friends that knew her through more than just a few adolescent years and dozens of letters. You were such a beautiful girl, Tabs. Say hello to my Uncle up in heaven, his name is Mike... You two will be best friends. He's a goof and loves making people smile, just like you. He passed away from cancer this past August... The day after your birthday actually... Find him and steal his hat for me
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 13th December 2017
Tabby it's now been 7 years since you were abruptly taken from us and it still seems like yesterday. You would have accomplished so much by now and would have impacted so many lives. I hope you can see how much you are still loved and missed. Sometimes when I'm having a tough time I think of you smiling down on me and that helps me get through a bit easier. So keep looking down over us beautiful girl and I promise I will come visit you again very soon.
Posted by Paul Ball on 12th December 2017
It is a bright but chilly day today, Tabby, one made for outdoor fun. The sunshine makes us smile when we think of you on your birthday, and the chill makes us long for the warmth you brought into the lives of everyone who knew you. Best of Christmas wishes for you, Tabs; you are well and truly loved, deeply missed and will be long remembered!
Posted by Paul Ball on 15th August 2017
Another birthday has come and gone, Tabby; you would have been 23 last Sunday. We had planned on bringing flowers and a jar of pickles to your resting place on Sunday but circumstances dictated otherwise. But we will get you your pickles soon! The passing years have not lessened the heartache and sorrow caused by your absence, Tabs, and we all still miss you in our lives! Remember, you are well and truly loved, The Ball Family
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 12th December 2016
Well another year has passed but the pain of losing you has only gotten worse. I hope you realize how much you are loved and missed by so many. A day doesn't go by that you aren't thought of. We love and miss you more than words can describe. Keep watching over us beautiful girl, and we will all meet you again someday.
Posted by Paul Ball on 12th December 2016
Tabby it has been six short years since you left us so suddenly. We miss you terribly and want you and your family to know you are missed but still remembered, and will always be well and truly loved. --The Ball Family
Posted by Paul Ball on 13th August 2016
Happy Birthday, Tabby! Just wanted you to know you are still loved and missed very much. We will try to visit today and bring you flowers and a jar of pickles. --The Ball Family
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 13th December 2015
Hard to believe its been 5 years now Tabby. This is always a difficult time of year for everybody. Seems like you being gone hurts worse the more time that goes by. I picture your beautiful smiling face and it brings a smile to my face. You would be 21 now and be embarking on your journey of adulthood. You had so much going for you and such a bright future ahead. I can only imagine what would've been. But I know you're in a great place and I always sense you smiling down upon us. You may be gone from us, but you'll never be forgotten and always hold a special place in our hearts.
Posted by Paul Ball on 12th December 2015
Tabby, it's that day again... happens every year... what I want for Christmas this year is to wake up and find out I have been having a very bad nightmare, and then hear you at the front door wanting to show Emily what you got from Santa. I really want that, Tabs.
Posted by Paul Ball on 1st October 2015
Tabby, I missed your birthday as I was out of state dealing with a Celebration of Life for my Dad, who had passed away. His friends and family gathered to share stories of how his life had made their lives special. I thought of you there and thought how wonderful it would have been to have gathered your friends and family together after your own passing and talked about the great impacts and positive influences and overall good times that your life had on so many others. I've wondered over the past few years if you could have felt alone and unwanted or unloved and I cannot bring myself to believe such a misunderstanding would have even been possible. Sometimes people don't share their feelings toward others with those others in an open and timely fashion and such a lack of sharing is sometimes interpreted as a lack of caring. It distresses and saddens me to think you may have misunderstand the importance you had in the lives of so many others. That being said, I wanted to reassure you and those you left behind that you were indeed well and truely loved and will always have a hallowed place in our memories, illuminated by an eternal candle to help you always find your way to a safe haven in the hearts of people who love you, now, then and forever. Rest in Peace, Tabby.
Posted by Paul Ball on 12th December 2014
Tabby, it still seems like it was only yesterday that you and Emily and Helena were romping through our house playing your games. Four years have passed in the blink of an eye but the pain in our hearts lingers on. You are truly missed and still well loved, Tabby. The Ball Family
Posted by Paul Ball on 13th August 2014
Happy Birthday, Tabby! The sadness of your absense casts a cloud over what would have been a joyous celebration of your birth, but we who remain behind can gain some solace by thinking about what might have been had you stayed with us in this life. Happy 20th, Tabby, and know that you live on in the hearts and minds of the many who loved you! -- The Ball Family.
Posted by Tory Mills on 10th March 2014
To think, it's been over two years... Yet I still find myself constantly thinking about you, and how friendly you were, how amazingly kind and how much your smile meant to me. Do you remember how we met? Crystal and Melody introduced us that one day, after school... Even to this day, I find myself crying over how much I miss you. But at the same time, I can't help but smile, because I think you'd rather I smile instead of cry. I bet you want all of us to be happy still, to celebrate the good times instead of shed tears and mourn for the loss of a fantastic friend... Tabby, you were special to me, very special. I looked up to you, I considered you as one of my best friends. I will always remember you Tabby, and I'll always hold you close in my heart. Your smile, your joy, I will treasure it as a precious memory. I hope that one day, we can meet up again and laugh together. You, Crystal, Melody, and I... It'd be fantastic if we were able to get together and tell stories, have fun, and just be like good friends should be. I don't have a song, or a poem, or a fantastic tribute... but I do have my memories, and I will always keep them close. I will celebrate you Tabby, because I love you and you meant so much to me.
Posted by Paul Ball on 23rd December 2013
Tabby, it's just after midnight and I find myself thinking about things past. Emily started her first job Friday and Helena has been working for a while now. Both are enrolled at TCC. I think of you and know that you are missing from what should be milestones of girlfriends growing up together - college and jobs. I know that you would have excelled at both. I still remember your 3rd grade class (Mrs Mayfield's) and how proud I was to be able to award pure silver American Eagle coins as prizes to the Three Amigos - you, Helena and Emily - who had all achieved 5's on their FCATs. Now, as Christmas approaches, I recall with sadness your premature departure from the lives of so many and wish there was some way to call for a "do over" and intervene in your decision. That will be my Christmas wish for this third Christmas and every Christmas hereafter. Sleep in Heavenly Peace, Tabby, and know that you are loved and missed by those you left behind.
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 12th December 2013
It seems like yesterday that you were here. Words cannot begin to describe how much you are missed. Sometimes when I am facing difficulties in life, I am comforted by knowing that you are looking down on us from above. Cheyenne and Noah have missed you alot also. Noah wears your camouflage jacket to school and he tells people that it's his Aunt Tabby's jacket.
Posted by Jamie Norup on 16th March 2013
Miss you tabbs.. Still think about you everyday. I hope you heaven is treating you right. Love you babygirl.. Rest In Peace<3!
Posted by Paul Ball on 3rd March 2013
Tabby, today was a beautiful sunny day, so Emily and I went to visit your gravesite. We left Sponge Bob with you, holding a bouquet of flowers. Sponge Bob was a souvenir we brought back for you from Disney. He's weighted with sand from the beach so you get two favorite things - Sponge Bob and the beach! We think of you often and miss you terribly. You are loved. --The Ball Family
Posted by Michelle Aldridge on 27th January 2013
You are missed!
Posted by Paul Ball on 1st January 2013
Happy New Year, Tabby! You are very much missed and will always be loved by the Ball family.
Posted by Emily Ball on 13th August 2012
Happy Birthday Tabby. I wish you were here to celebrate with me and Helena- all three amigos being 18! We came to visit today. We promise that we'll come back soon!
Posted by Paul Ball on 13th August 2012
Happy birthday, Tabby! You remain well remembered in our hearts. -- The Ball Family
Posted by Emily Ball on 12th December 2011
It's been a year already. I can't believe that. It doesn't seem like it's been that long. I wish I could find something to say but I've always been bad at putting my thoughts and feelings into words. But I hope you know that I AM thinking of you and missing you- every day- and that I'll always love you! ♥ ~Emily
Posted by Jamie Norup on 12th December 2011
We miss you so much tabby & always will. Your everyone's guardian angel. It has been so different since you have left all of us. I'm sure no one will ever be the same. Love you & miss you Tabbs<3!
Posted by Lacey Rathel on 12th December 2011
so its been exactly a year today since you have pasted although it doesnt feel that long i do know this has been the hardest year of my life and it just keeps getting harder not to be able to see you smile
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 10th December 2011
It has been a year now since you have been gone and life without you seems even harder now than it was before. I have found myself thinking about you more and more lately. I know that you're looking down on us and I hope you can see how much we all love and miss you.
Posted by Alexandra Stewart on 5th December 2011
Tabby, I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Its hard to beleive its almost been a year. You and I have had our moments since I've known you and they keep running through my head like a slide show. You are an amazing girl and I miss you terribly. I love you and I can't wait till the day we see each other again.~ Alex~
Posted by Jordan Mckaye on 23rd September 2011
Tabby, I still cannot believe you are gone. You were so sweet and the light in any room. I miss you everyday and can't help but feel apart of me is missing since you have left us. You reminded me of myself in so many ways and I don't feel whole without you. I love and miss you.
Posted by Jamie Norup on 2nd September 2011
We all miss u babygirl. U were the girl that would just give me a goofy smile while i was upset & it would change my whole entire day. I think about u & our old daily talks & am so greatful that u were there. I love & miss u Tabbs always & never forget about how special u are<3.
Posted by Paul Ball on 14th August 2011
Tabby, we spent your birthday on a quiet mountaintop in the Blue Ridge Mountains. Wish you could have been with us in person as well as spirit. We love you and miss you. The Ball Family
Posted by Buddy & Sherry Nelson on 22nd July 2011
tabby you were our loving daughter we miss you so much our lives will never be the same without you i could not have ask for a better daughter you were amaseing you touch so manny livesin a short time i will light a candle every birthday till i die we will never forgetyou<3love u
Posted by Lisa Anna on 10th June 2011
Tabbz- Thinking Summer is finally here and you wont be coming by anytime soon to go swimming, makes me realize that I still havent gotten you off my mind. I miss you. Always will. Love youuu. -LisaAnna<3
Posted by Joe Hight on 12th April 2011
Tabby gave us all something before she left she should us real love nothin fake about that she reached out to her freinds but no one reached back sorry tabby i didnt come to ur rescue but ur my reason for my new goals to help ppl and tabby sorry and
Posted by Hollilynn Noe on 7th April 2011
TabbyGril i miss you a lot and you where always there to make me smile when i had a bad day and you where always so sweet to every one even though they might have not been nice back and your friendship was like a miracle that i was not watching for.
Posted by Amber Wortwick on 7th April 2011
Tabby you were such a wonderful person and friend. I love you and miss you so so much. You blessed my life with your heart of gold. You will always be in my heart and I will never forget you. I love you ~Amber~
Posted by Kayla Weismantel on 7th April 2011
I love you. Always will. Thank you for blessing us with your life. You are truly the most amazing person I've ever known. -Kayla <3
Posted by Paul Ball on 27th February 2011
Tabby, yesterday was a beautiful Saturday, one that you would have loved to spend outside. Emily, Karen and I drove down to visit you and were very pleased to see the numerous tributes left graveside in your memory. The Valentine's Day gifts and flowers, animal figurines and even candy all brought back memories of things you liked. You are well and truely missed.
Posted by Raelyn Butler on 31st December 2010
Tabby, you were such a wonderful person. You have changed our lives forever. We love you and we miss you so much. I think about you every single day. Its now 2011 and my resolution is to reach out to people more. I look up all the time knowing you're watching down on me and the rest of us. I love you.
Posted by Danile Carraway on 22nd December 2010
the greatest thing the you can leave behind is the people that you touch. tabby has touched so manny people, and now the only thing that we can for her is rememmber her just as she was and chearish the time that we spent with her. keep her in your heart and she will always be with you. in loving memmory to tabby.
Posted by Cori Chaganis on 20th December 2010
This is soo hard for me, Alyssa Register, and my friend Victoria Clark. You don't know Victoria you would have liked her she's much like you were Tabby.
Posted by Cori Chaganis on 20th December 2010
Tabby, This is the hrdest thing for us and I hope you have more perfect life than you already had. Love and memories always, Cori
Posted by Sonja Evans on 20th December 2010
Tabby you were my best friend I loved you more then I ever thought I could. You were my little hippie. I want you to know in about a year and a half im gonna be marrying lee (yea I know you figured as much) but I never got to tell you you were gonna be a brides maid and I want you to know im still gonna have that spot for you. I love you tabby always will
Posted by Robert And Trenda McPhers... on 19th December 2010
We wanted to share our son Robby's favorite verse...which says it all: The clock of life is wound but once, and no man has the power to tell just when the hands will stop at late or early hour. Now is the only time you own. Live, love, toil with a will. place no faith in time. For the clock may soon be still. <3 Praying for peace for you and for your family
Posted by Paul Ball on 17th December 2010
Tabby, Tabby, Tabby - - - Your passing left a hole in the universe and forever wounded our hearts. May the strength of your love, warmth of your being and zest for life guide you in your journey and mark the path for those that follow. -- Paul, Karen and Emily Ball
Posted by Sharon Carraway on 17th December 2010
Tabitha you will always be in my heart. Please forgive me for not being there for you in your greatest need. You were so special and there can be no other. I love you and always will. Your Aunt Sharon
Posted by Forrest Aldridge on 17th December 2010
Tabby you will be forever loved and missed. You will always be in mine and Robert's hearts. We may have lost a sister but heaven has gained an angel. And even though you're no longer with us in body, we can feel the miracle of your spirit. We love you Tabby.
Posted by Michelle Aldridge on 17th December 2010
God could see she was getting tired And a cure was not to be SO He put his arms around him And softly whispered "Come with Me" With tear filled eyes we watched him Slowley wither and fade away No matter what we did for him We could not make him stay A golden Heart stopped beating Hard working hands put to rest He broke our hearts to prove to us He Only Takes The Best.

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