THIS PICTURE WAS TAKEN BY ME WHEN TARA CAME TO HAWAII. SHE WAS THERE TO HELP ME THROUGH CHALLENGING TIMES....WE ALWAYS KNEW HOW TO MAKE THE BEST OUT OF ICKY SITUATIONS. 

Guess this is not really a whole story about her life but some of my memories with Tara... I'm beside myself with grief but I will share just some things about her that where amazing and funny and some things that just drove me crazy about her lol!! I remember when i was with here every day there for a long time back before she had her kids, she always wanted to go to the club to shake her booty off and that she had lol.. but she would not go byherself and as much as she knew i hated the club she would beg me to go with her so i did. I remember teaching her how to drive.. wow!! It was pretty scarey hahaha... she would park so far away from the store just so she would not have to park right next to a car lol... i remember one night we were at cheris and we were taking shots of everclear with after shock chasers and troy and cheri walked in and told us that we could not do that and that everclear was not to be taken by the shot but did that stop her or i? nope!! We didnt listen, we caused havoc. people would see us and say here comes trouble lol.. but when tara and i were together all we did was laugh so hard to where we were crying... she just recently got on facebook and i remember sitting right next to her on the couch in her apt and i had my laptop and she had hers and we were chatting through facebook sitting right next to eachother and laughing our butts off til about 2 in the am... thats how tara and i were.. tara was there for me when i was alone and trying to make it. she took me and bought food for my kids and i when i was having a hard time she gave me anything i needed or wanted.. i dont know anyone in my life that is so giving as she is. now to the what i hated or bothered me lol... she would call me telling me she was having problems with some girl so i took care of it and then a week later she would tell me she was friends with that person again .. do u know how many people i hated because they hurt her and still am not fond of ... that was my cousin/ niece/ bestfriend who i would do anything for.. there are many many many more storied that we share like locking ourselves out of her car and trying to break into it and laughing so hard we almost wet ourselves i mean there is so much i could go on and on about but ill leave those memories here and keep the rest of them in my heart for the rest of my life, ill talk to her and laugh with her again someday. i love you tara .... i got your back always and i love you more then words can say.. i wish i coould have just one more day with you.. ty so much for all you have done for me and the kids.. we all love you very much. u will be so very missed!!!