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I belong to an online support group call Parents of Suicide (PoS). There is a PoS tradition on Sundays of writing letters if we want to. I don't often write one but I did this week.
1980 was a hot summer in Montreal. I had a toddler and was pregnant with our second child. I had a false alarm around August 25. I guess most expectant moms would have wanted to be induced at that point but it was a hot day and I wanted to go home, so I did. Then around midnight on August 28 I thought this was it. Terry was born at 8 a.m. on 28/08/80. We had just seen the last of the Star Wars films and, really, he looked just like Yoda. However we decided Terence was a more conventional choice (he never really liked his name so maybe Yoda would have been a better choice.) He was a lovely baby. He grew and thrived.
Before I knew it he was walking, talking, attending Miss Weeks Jardin d'enfants creatif. Then it was elementary school. Although he tested with an IQ over 130 he also had some learning disabilities and he found school a struggle.
I look back on Terry as a young boy and I see a smiling, shining face, full of enthusiasm, humour and eagerness to please and be accepted. We used to walk along holding hands and he would wiggle his hand, smile up at me and say 'it's a nice hand to hold.' And it was such a very nice hand to hold.