It is with great sadness that I let you know that Terri passed away Monday, March 7th at 4:19pm from heart failure. She was an incredible wife of 25 years, my best friend, and a wonderful mother to our two remarkable children, Kayson and Bronze. We have created this website to celebrate her life and invite you to participate and share memories as well. Here you can share stories or download photos, audios, or videos that capture her beautiful spirit and kind-hearted nature.
We thank you for all your love, prayers and support as we go through this most difficult time. She will be missed so much.
Love Gerry, Kayson and Bronze
FAMILY & FRIENDS have set up a link for those wishing to deliver meals, or contribute to take out or restaurant gift cards, etc for the family. If you would like to participate, please visit https://www.mealtrain.com/trains/g0vw7o
PLEASE JOIN US:
The Martin family
Gerry, Kayson and Bronze
would like to invite you to join us to
CELEBRATE
the life of
Terri Murai-Martin
at the
Silverado Clubhouse
91 Scarlet Bloom
Irvine, CA 92618
( Casual Dress Attire )
on MAR 20th between 1-4pm
light refreshments will be served
Tributes
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Happy 50th Birthday
Joe and I were so lucky to have spent time with you all on several occasions. Our heart is hurting for you all. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Terri was a beautiful woman inside and out and we will miss her.
Bret and I were so very heartbroken to hear of Terri's passing. There are so many great memories of the beautiful and loving person she was. Terri you are no longer suffering and have entered into a place of peace and eternal happiness. We never want to lose our loved ones and there is no right time...just continue to treasure her memory and she will never leave your hearts. We know she is smiling down upon you all. We love you and send you many prayers! Bret and Lilly
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Gerry, Kayson, Bronze and to the Murai Family, you can take comfort in knowing Terri is now in peace with Our Lord in Heaven.
Your memories of her will be encased in your minds and hearts forever.
We send our deepest sympathy and love to you all.
God Bless,
Tom and Becky
Margaret, Jon, Kyle & Noah Pendleton
Our love to you all,
James, Anna and Alex Burris
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I met Terri in 7th grade and loved her right away. I lived in Fountain Valley and met her through our mutual friend Paula Salituro Clunk. I have many fond memories of Terri. I remember her being so great at applying "Mary Kay" makeup and always looking so perfect! Later in high school ,after Terri moved to Corona del Mar, Jilly Van Hise Toll, Amy Costello Hogan, Paula, and I would have so much fun in Newport Beach. Then in our early 20's we lived near each other in Irvine. We loved going to California Beach and drinking saki and dancing at the Warehouse restaurant. She will be greatly missed! Sending Prayers to you.
Love,
Teresa and Edward Stepanow
Chad.
Today, Heaven received its newest angel. I think the only way we can begin to understand this tragic loss is to believe GOD wanted Terri in Heaven with HIM. We must realize that HIS desires are more important than our desires here on earth. May GOD BLESS you Gerry, Kason, Bronze and all the family. With love, Steve Wachsler
We are so sorry to hear of Terri's passing. She was a beautiful woman (inside and out). Her giving nature and warm smile will never be forgotten. Our prayers are with all of you. Please do not hesitate to let us know if we can do anything to help. Tammy, Eddie, JJ and Connor Meador xoxo
You wife and Mother Terri was such an incredible lady. Needless to say my shock and broken heart the moment I read Gerry's message. Gerry was always a very best friend and made it possible to meet and love Terri. The times spent with Terri, and you guys was just special and you are like family. I will never forget I spent the night with you guys on Scott's couch the day before you moved back to California. As painful as it must be we can find peace in our minds and hearts knowing Terri is in a wonderful place now enjoying peace and happiness.
Love to you all,
Meade, Crystal, Daniel and Nicole
Sending healing prayers and comforting hugs.
Love,
Mona
From the first day I met Terri she was my friend. She was always kind and happy to talk or spend time with me. I cherished our friendship.
I have faith that God has enthroned Terri in Paradise. She is in Heaven.
Gerry, Kayson and Bronze I give my promise I will always be there for you should you need me.
Love,
Patti
When you were first born, I was so excited to see you and couldn't stop kissing you! I knew it was going to be fun to make clothes for you and I did! When you started school, I constantly made you new outfits and your teacher said, "Terri probably thinks coming to school on Monday is for wearing a new outfit!"
Of course I knew you were going to be pretty with that beautiful smile, but I didn't know how independent you were going to be! What a journey! You have made my life challenging but always filled with love and happiness.
One of my favorite memories is of you carrying around your little blue donkey, and your refusal to let me wash it, until FINALLY you consented to me giving "donkey" a bath. You constantly checked on donkey, waiting for him to be dry and when he was, you lovingly hugged him to your chest.
I also remember your "baby tender love' and how much you loved her, and all the clothes I made for her, so one day as I was sitting under the hair dryer, I started making a poncho for her and you refused to leave me until i finished crocheting, complete with tassels! You loved that poncho that was white, dark and light pink!
We had so much fun going to Japan after your graduation from HS! When you first arrived, you said you had never seen so many Japanese people! Your expression was priceless! It was a great mother/daughter bonding trip and it is something I will remember forever and it was wonderful to have you see first hand your heritage in person instead of just hearing about it through me, pictures, books.
I was so proud of you when you started your own secretarial services company and made it such a success. You were always so smart and determined to create something meaningful.
When you met Gerry you found the love of your life. It made me happy to see you so fulfilled and then when you had Kayson and Bronze, you felt your life was complete.
Thank you for being the wonderful loving daughter that you were and giving me such wonderful memories and two beautiful grandchildren that will carry your spirit and love alive. I love you Terri.
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Beautiful Days
H2O Polo Snack Bar Buddies Forever!!!
Walking onto the Northwood High School pool deck these past 2 weeks during swim meets has been so somber for me because this place is where a lot of the action took place for Terri and me. Us two with other moms, hanging out to cheer for our sons during their waterpolo games and swim meets, while running the snack bar. Everywhere I look now, a flood of fond memories come over me. Sweet Terri, I'm missing you!!!
I've had the privilege of getting to know and work with Terri for the past 3 years. She would be one of the first people to show up to set-up the snack bar and stay til tear-down. She had such a giving heart by donating items to help with the sales. I once gave her kudos for suggesting that we sell different varieties of sodas, not just Coke and Sprite. Our customers (mostly students) loved the choices! Understanding kids and being like one herself (hahaha), she knew it would be a cool treat for them.
Terri was so fun and energetic. During one of our waterpolo home games, she came dressed in a cute fireman outfit because it was Halloween Day! With an infectious big smile is how I saw her all the time, especially when she spoke about Kayson and Bronze. I always complimented her on how sweet and polite her kids were. She'd blush and say "Thank you". I know her kids will carry on her legacy!!! XOxo...
I thank God for giving me the chance to meet such an amazing gal and share such precious moments. Terri, thank you for touching my life and being my "snack bar buddy"!!! I know you'll be smiling down from Heaven... til we meet again... =)
My Aunt Terri was full of life. She was vibrant, youthful, and always engaging. I remember how relatable she always felt to me. She would chat about your life and want to know what was going on with you without any age gap or expectation. Looking back, I’m sure that’s how she made everyone feel. She really could get along with anyone, of any age, and in a sense that made her timeless.
I remember her always wanting to gab with us “girls” (the cousins) when Keeley, Angela, Tiffany and I would stay in Newport for a week in the summer. She would bring Kayson to hang out with us, and we’d braid Kayson’s hair or lay out on the beach and Aunt Terri would want to catch up on our lives: she was always asking about boys, friends, school, clothes, makeup, you name it. She loved to be social and I think that’s one of the biggest reasons I personally found her so relatable.
Growing up, I thought of her as the quintessential California girl, embodying the breezy upbeat lifestyle of fun-in-the-sun that seemed so glamorous to me when I was young, living in Colorado. It always felt special when we would get to see her.
I will never forget her laugh, how she proudly talked about Kayson and Bronze, and her cheerful, bubbly spirit. I will always be able to picture her and hear the sound of her voice clear as day.