March 24, 2021
March 24, 2021
You are missed Terry. Your testimony still goes on. Share your story all the time. We will talk later friend.
Terry McGowan, Husband, Father, Grandfather who will be Forever Missed.
Terry Chose this as parting words to all he loved:
Remembered Joy
Don't grieve for me, for now I am Free!
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all...
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life's been full, I've savoured much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief-
Don't shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.
Anonymous
Irish Poem
Terry McGowan was born on Born October 1,1947 and died at age 65 on March 12, 2013. A celebration of Terry's life will be held on: Friday March 15, 2013 at Barrie Central United Church 54 Ross Street, Barrie ON. Visitation 11-1pm Service 1pm Reception to Follow.
Terry was Buried in My family plot in Gatineau QC. To find the location, click the appropriate search button and enter 'McGowan' in the link below.
http://www.lesjardinsdusouvenir.com/en/cemeteries/...
Terry Chose this as parting words to all he loved:
Remembered Joy
Don't grieve for me, for now I am Free!
I follow the plan God laid for me.
I saw His face, I heard His call,
I took His hand and left it all...
I could not stay another day,
To love, to laugh, to work or play;
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
And if my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss...
Ah yes, these things I, too, shall miss.
My life's been full, I've savoured much:
Good times, good friends, a loved-one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief-
Don't shorten yours with undue grief.
Be not burdened with tears of sorrow,
Enjoy the sunshine of the morrow.
Anonymous
Irish Poem
Terry McGowan was born on Born October 1,1947 and died at age 65 on March 12, 2013. A celebration of Terry's life will be held on: Friday March 15, 2013 at Barrie Central United Church 54 Ross Street, Barrie ON. Visitation 11-1pm Service 1pm Reception to Follow.
Terry was Buried in My family plot in Gatineau QC. To find the location, click the appropriate search button and enter 'McGowan' in the link below.
http://www.lesjardinsdusouvenir.com/en/cemeteries/...
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September 20, 2014
September 20, 2014
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What a beautiful tribute to your husband. What a beautiful family.
What a beautiful tribute to your husband. What a beautiful family.
March 23, 2014
March 23, 2014
Thanks Terry. GB Dan
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
Terry I KNOW I will see you again my dear selfless friend.I pray for all those lost last year five family members and 5 from the fellowship in my prayers every night and you are one of my angels.
March 14, 2014
March 14, 2014
Wow, Ann a whole year of healing,remembering and missing has just passed. I admire your strength as you have carried on a new journey in your life with Meagan. Terry you were always such a strong support for me in my journey, teaching me how to enjoy life whatever it might bring. I am very blessed to have known you. Ann, I am grateful to know you. Sending you a big hug today!
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
Terry was a good friend and confident, we could talk about work in our cryptic manor, I miss him and his advise, Ann I lite a candle at mass and do often, he will be missed, I will be on parade Sunday this week. Salute
March 13, 2014
March 13, 2014
Yesterday was a very tough day. It has been a hard year. Not a day goes by that I haven't thought about you. Sometimes it's something I see or hear, perhaps an experience or even a smell that being you to mind. Yesterday was no different. You are always in my thoughts and Brooklyn still talks about her Gramps!
Miss you so much dad.
Love Ry
Miss you so much dad.
Love Ry
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
From one caregiver to another i would just like to say to Ann & Meg what love,courage,and determination you showed us all with Terrys Journey in life. Ann you stood by your husband in good times,and bad , for better or worse. What an incredible support system he had with you and meg . .Terry has touched many lives , and lived life to the fullest . Anyone who knew Terry would have him in their heart for forever and a day ! We miss you Teddy Bear until we meet again xoxoxoxo
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
think of you often Terry, especially at meetings. you will always be my sponsor. save me a chair up there. you will be happy to know i'm smoke free 18 months now. so long for now my friend.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
Terry, your smile, and laugh, are always remembered. Brought up often in conversations, and I know your watching from your perch and smiling still. To Ann Meg, Ryan and Shane, carry on and he will always be with you
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
Thinking of you all today ... BIG HUGS ALL ROUND. Hope you are up there laughing and joking around with Brian Terry.
March 12, 2014
March 12, 2014
My Dear Love Terry,
I didn't know how to express how I felt today until a wonderful young girl who didn't know me, or know it was your one year anniversary, turned to me in line and said 'Have You heard this Song?'. Then she played this for me on her phone. This is what I think and feel too....
The song is called 'Dancing in the Sky' by Dani and Lizzy
Love and miss you Terry. Ann
I didn't know how to express how I felt today until a wonderful young girl who didn't know me, or know it was your one year anniversary, turned to me in line and said 'Have You heard this Song?'. Then she played this for me on her phone. This is what I think and feel too....
The song is called 'Dancing in the Sky' by Dani and Lizzy
Love and miss you Terry. Ann
March 5, 2014
March 5, 2014
One day at a time Ann. Sorry about your loss, Terry was a really kind man. God bless you and your family.
January 31, 2014
January 31, 2014
Hello Everyone, March 12 2014 will mark the one year anniversary of Terry's passing. Please remember him on this day then make a toast to him on St. Patrick's Day which is March 17 2014 - with drink of your choice.
God Bless you all, and thank you for all the support you have given me, and us during this difficult time.
Ann
God Bless you all, and thank you for all the support you have given me, and us during this difficult time.
Ann
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
There is not a day that I do not think about Terry.He is in my prayers always.What a loss!
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
Happy birthday Terry, you have a good bunch to celebrate with up there now. We miss you.
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
my good friend i miss u much and will be truly easy for me to remember seeing as you passed on my belly button birthday, i will always remember you terry and what you did for me and countless others god bless Jimmy. T
October 2, 2013
October 2, 2013
Happy Birthday to a loving man with incredible integrity who silently changed hearts by his example. I will never forget Terry and hope to see him again in the next life. Condolences to the family who undoubtedly miss him terribly.
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
Dear "T.J."
On this your birth date, you are fondly remembered by your family and many friends/co-workers.
You were a true friend and co-worker.
It was a great privilege to have known you & worked with you.
On this your birth date, you are fondly remembered by your family and many friends/co-workers.
You were a true friend and co-worker.
It was a great privilege to have known you & worked with you.
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
remembering the monday nights spent in your kithen with Terry and the Big Book. greatly added to my sobriety and will always remember when.
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
Terry was the most selfless person I ever met.A real doer.Compassionate,comforting yet with a directness that he used when needed.I have had 12 passing this year and pray every evening for each. Hal Lumley
October 1, 2013
October 1, 2013
Though it was only for a short time that Adele and myself got to know Terry through Ann, it was an amazing time. To see the strength he had and showed to so many people, his faith in God, all encouraging. Now in the arms of Jesus we will all soon be together again for all eternity. Today you will have the angels singing to you.
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
Way to go Terry, abraxane has been approved by the FDA. Now others will be able to enjoy living longer and can take drugs to counteract the dreadful side effects you experienced but chose to endure to be part of the study. You life has made such a difference to so many. Thank you. I love you.
August 22, 2013
August 22, 2013
I love this site, and am shocked to find I have not contributed to it. Terry was such wonderful support for Brian and I. Always positive, cracking jokes with Brian and taking him out. God bless you. I feel privileged to have had you in my life. To Ann and Meg ... "Sorry" is just not enough. Huge hugs to you both, and to Terry's sons.
April 4, 2013
April 4, 2013
I went to Police College with Terry in 1968. Met up with him again after retiring in 1996 when he went with IRG. Had a great many laughs and he bought me a drink once for a thank you. The drink, and he was not drinking at this time , was a GALLON OF JACK DANIELS BURBON. I always talk of the day with a laugh and fond memories.
March 22, 2013
March 22, 2013
My Dearest Love Terry, It has been 10 days since your passing and my heart still aches. I will always love you and miss you. Ann
March 19, 2013
March 19, 2013
One of the few guys at 14 Division in the early 70's who would take the time to teach a rookie. A big man with a big heart and a great cop. Your tour of duty is over Terry. My sincere condolences to your entire family.
March 19, 2013
March 19, 2013
Terry was one of the 'good guys' in our fellowship.
I am blessed to have known him.
Good bye my friend.
I am blessed to have known him.
Good bye my friend.
March 18, 2013
March 18, 2013
On behalf of the Drop In Baking girls at Gilda's Club ,we wish to say goodbye to our favourite "taste tester". We enjoyed some good stories and laughs with you.It was a pleasure knowing you Terry
March 17, 2013
March 17, 2013
Dear Ann and Family, so sorry to hear of Terrys' passing. Even though memories of Terry will be locked away in your heart forever, let those memories surface every now and then to ease the pain and sorrow that you all must be feeling. Sincere sympathy for everyone at this time. Cousin - Deborah Lytle and family
March 17, 2013
March 17, 2013
Ann and Family: I am so sorry for your loss. Every time I saw the updates he sent out he seemed so positive. I'm sure the love and care that his family gave to him throughout his illness gave him the strength and the will to continue on longer than he might have. You will be missed Terry!!!
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
I only knew you through Ann, but you were part of the Thin Blue Line, like my husband. May God bless you and your family. R.I.P., we have the watch.
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
Dear Ann,Meghan,Shane & Ryan, My heartfelt sympathy to each one of you. Terry was a special person. He taught us how to live a good life, face adversary and love with all his heart. He was a man of faith, hope and charity - all the great virtues, with just enough of that Irish devilment to make him human.I'll be wearing the green for Terry onf the 17th. 'Gorra Morra Gaw'. Love Aunt Joan
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
Terry, it has ben a number of years since we last shared our last times together. In thoes few years we created a number of life time memories, not to be repeated, only to be remembered. "hurricane gilbert". Really unfortunate that your life had to end in this way and now, that your days are in the past, A final toast to your spirit today and our paths crossing again. c u later, Murray
March 16, 2013
March 16, 2013
1973. In uniform A complaint regarding a disorderly at Dundas and Ossington Next thing fighting for my life. Terry arrived. Pulled assailant off me and slammed him to pavement. Terry saved my life that day. You did so much good R.I.P. brother your watch over......
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
We were cadets together and as I was born 03 Oct.47 we were also in the same Probationary Constable Class , R 3 , and worked 14 division. Have not seen Terry for years but have many memories. So sorry Ann and family ,I share your sorrow having lost my wife and sister to cancer.
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
My heart go out to Ann, Megan, Shane and Ryan. Sixteen years ago today, March 15th, I lost my Dad to cancer. He too was 65. Terry reminded me so much of my Dad. His courage and ability to smile and send his love to others even in his darkest moments is truly the mark of a hero. Today we say adios, farewell to a hero. May he live on in our hearts as he embarks on his next adventure.
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
Terry lived, loved and laughed. "Ann, Megan and family. So sorry for your loss. Ann great "chili" on your move to Barrie. Boys remember the trip to airport getting your Dad there. 21 Div front desk midnights and where is Terry! The best smile ever. Loved his Mountie jacket. Xmas Lunch 2012. You fought hard and will be remembered. Diane and I continue the struggle. Love Forever
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
Terry, Although we never met in person, you certainly enriched my life. Blessings to the family.
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
I know a lot about the BEST THINGS IN LIFE because I had Terry as a friend. He will always be in my prayers and thoughts..........Ron Yarnick
March 15, 2013
March 15, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are there for Terry and his wonderful family. Terry and I along with a select few others had the privilege of starting the first foot patrol in 14 Division. Those were great days we had together as we were Kings on our foot patrol areas. Working with Terry resulted in some great police work and I must admit some great partying. God bless Terry and his family.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
I am a 57 year old retired Police Officer from 51 Division. I do not know if Terry would have remembered me, but I first met him around 1977-78 when he came to 51 Division as a Road Sergeant. I was a young uniformed PC. Terry was a great road Sergeant and he assisted me in developing into the Officer I came to be. I am so proud to say that I had the pleasure to work with him. RIP
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
Ann, Megan and family. So sorry for your loss. Terry will be greatly missed by us all at 21 Division. Terry came out every year to our CIB xmas lunch and was very positive at the lunch in December. Rest in peace and God Bless you Terry.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
I only knew Terry for a few short years but he was some one that you would never forget,A very special person who will be greatly missed by all. My sincere condolences to Anne and the family."May God Bless you..and may you rest in Peace."my friend.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
To Ann and family, Terry gave it all for this disease,I know how you feel.
It's hard to sit back and watch someone you love be taken by it.
I share your thoughts I've been there twice, And time will heal the pain your feeling now. God Bless you all.
It's hard to sit back and watch someone you love be taken by it.
I share your thoughts I've been there twice, And time will heal the pain your feeling now. God Bless you all.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
Partnered with McGoo at CFSEU in the 80's. Dedicated and professional police officer. Stayed in touch over the years, last spoke to him Fri before his passing, still the same guy. Fought this battle like the true trooper that he was. Ann, Meghan, Shayne & Ryan my condolences, sorry unable to attend. RIP my friend.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
Ann, Meghan and the boys Shane and Ryan my thoughts and prayers are with you all.Terry and I did a lot of traveling to-gether we had a lot of talks and a lot of laughs. I will never forget him and what he did for me. What a Great Man and Friend if I could be half the Man he was I would be Happy. Terry will always be in my Heart and mind. Ken
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
I first met Terry in 78 at the old Intelligence building on Richmond Street. He was always good to meet, happy and smiling. Our family has prayed many prayers and lit many candles for Terry and the family and continue. He was such a brave guy and a loved man. Our side has lost a good one.
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
Terry as usual you fought to the end but always smiling. May the wind be at your back. You Terry are a great man. Anne and Megan I am very sorry for your lose. God bless you Terry..........
March 14, 2013
March 14, 2013
To Ann and family, my deepest condolences...Terry showed us how to walk the spiritual path (even in the adversities of life) happy, joyous and free. I do not say goodbye, but farewell my dear friend...no te digo adios, sino hasta siempre mi querido amigo!!!
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March 24, 2021
March 24, 2021
You are missed Terry. Your testimony still goes on. Share your story all the time. We will talk later friend.
September 20, 2014
September 20, 2014
http://www.lords-prayer-words.com/famous_prayers/may_the_road_rise_up_to_meet_you.html
What a beautiful tribute to your husband. What a beautiful family.
What a beautiful tribute to your husband. What a beautiful family.
March 23, 2014
March 23, 2014
Thanks Terry. GB Dan
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March 3 2013
Tatto Ann McGowan
Terry and Rick
At the Zoo
Always bringing flowers
At the zoo again.
Burgers outside police station.
At the shower.
Burke Drive
Recent stories
Meghan's Acceptance to University
March 26, 2014
by Ann McGowan
What a beautiful day this was. Saturday March 3 2013 just 9 days before Terry passed Meghan got her acceptance to university. He was so proud and glad to be there to share it with her. Thank you Abraxane and all the doctors who helped him be well enough to enjoy this time together.
Grandma Fran Coutu
February 16, 2014
by Ann McGowan
Grandma holding Meghan. Mom asked Terry to stay close because she was weak and afraid she would drop Meg. He did as she asked and mad sure everyone was safe.
Us together at the lunch
February 16, 2014
by Ann McGowan
There aren't a lot of photo's of me because I usually am the one taking the pictures. So although my eyes are closed, yes I was there.