Growing up i didnt even know he was my Dad, but at the age of 14 i was asked by Patricia smith sellers if i would like to take a trip to North Carolina and i said yes i would,so we went to North Carolina and i was there two days and Pat asked me if i want to meet my real grandma and as weird as it sounded to me i said sure. Well we went to Grandma's house  and i sat there all confused, but we talked for a few hours, then geandma asked me if i would like to meet my real father and still confused cause like i said i never knew him, so she called him and him came over right away, and when he got there i was like looking in a mirror, then three beautiful girls walked in. He said these are your sister's. I was like ok at first but still confused, so Terry Griffin (DAD) and I went outside on the back porch of Grand ma's house and we  talked , then we got up and he hugged me so hard with a tear in his eye he said son i have been looking for you and joey for a long time so i told him about joey and he teard up again so joined him in a tear,  Terry Griffin (DAD) asked Patricia if i colud go with him and Stephanie, Ashley, and Renia Griffin to there house and she said yes that would be fine. So we went  and I went inside and met a wonderful woman known as my step mom Julie Griffin and she was amazeing. and since that day we al were inseparable. Joey and I talked to them all the time.. We love and miss you old man please save us a seat next to you in heaven.