Gone but never forgotten. Keep resting Ozo 1

1 year on daddy! Your memory remains evergreen and no day passes without thought of you.
You are truly cherished and live on in our hearts.
Keep resting daddy ❤️

Dear Ozo,

I know you were watching from above whilst we celebrated Akunne’s Ito Ogbo at Obosi and that you would have been very proud of him and the family. Continue to rest in peace in the Lord’s bosom, Amen.

I know you are resting well.
I miss you, Uncle Ozo.
Continue to be with the Lord

Happy birthday daddy ❤️keep resting and praying for us with the angels

Merry Christmas Ozo 1 ! Ozodiebube our great in law

Uzo is missing you but she is fine and be sure we are here looking after her . Continue to rest in Gods bosom

Your memory lives on daddy. Miss you dearly

Miss you daddy. Your voice echoes in my head everyday. I’m glad you’re resting in a better place away from the turmoil in the world today.

A TRIBUTE TO OZO THEO BY DAME NKECHI IHEME AJOKU
Sir Theodore (Ozodiebube) Okwoli. Continue to rest in peace with the Lord Almighty and Savior. Though the news of your passing was a big shock, who are we to question God. Adieu Sir Theodore. Farewell, Ozodiebube.

Dear Ozo,

We continue to remember, we & your beloved grandchildren continue to remember all we were opportuned to learn from you. ….how to gracefully bring people and families together, how to respect and love unconditionally, how to steal limelights with humility and compassion only. How not to make a fuss, how to accept the beautiful realities of the universe with grace and to continue to love and trust in God.

You will forever be remembered. R.I.P Amen.

I honestly can’t say thank you enough, it meant so much to our family to have your kind support and all your sincere and heartfelt condolences. Your generosity and kind words of comfort helped us bear and cope with the irreplaceable loss and brightened our darkest days. The stories and memories you shared during the funeral truly helped our family appreciate more what a special person daddy is(was). We were so glad to have you there with us in person, online, in your prayers and your sincere good wishes. We truly appreciate and are very thankful for all the words of comfort and tributes. You really made a difference in these difficult times. We sincerely thank you from the bottom of our hearts. From all your remarks, truly his spirit liveth forever.

You are kindly welcome to continue to visit this page anytime you wish to say hello to my Daddy.

I know my daddy is happy,,smiling and fully aware of the immense love showered on him at the funeral events. The love was genuinely overwhelming and truly showcased the Man he was…A LEGEND!

We couldn’t be more proud and help reflect on what is now left for us to carry on…a life worthy of emulation with positive impact on people of all ages.

kind, peaceful, humble and friend to ALL.

A true Legacy.

Love you daddy ❤️

D’Lady
Uzoamaka
Your Dr Makky

I miss you my Daddy Aba. Keep Resting in the bosom of the Lord❤❤❤

St. Peter Claver Seminary, '02 set Old Boys Association mourns with a heavy heart with the entire OKWOLI Family over over the death of their Son, Father, Brother, Uncle, Husband Late Ozo. Sir. THEODORE CHIAZOR OKWOLI.

He is a Great Hero indeed and an Amiable Father to one of our own brother and Classmate, NNAMDI OKWOLI. We condole with you and pray God to grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss. We also pray God to Grant his Soul Eternal rest in his bosom.
Amen.

Engr. Anthony I. Oji-Dike
P.R.O

For,
SPCS '02 Set Old Boys Association

Daddy! You Broke My Heart…
I waited till after you were finally laid to rest because I expected a miracle from God. My dearest godfather, we didn’t say our proper goodbyes. It hurts coz you were so full of life when I left . I miss you , I miss your WhatsApp texts . And I miss you buying me icecream after Sunday mass. Thank you for being such a role model to me . You were such a peaceful and honest man, Ezigbo mmadu to the core. Heaven really gained an Angel. Continue to Rest in Paradise Ozo di ebube. NWANYIOCHA would miss you forever.

VERY TOUCHING AND DIFFICULT
Emperor Phil Odoemena

I watched the funeral service and the intern of my friend's burial-Theo Okwoli- today from 1 a.m. Dallas time. At the time I logged into the Zoom, it had not started. So when I called Rufus Okwoli, he told me when the Church service would commence. I returned later and watched the funeral service, the intern, and the entertainment afterward.
First, the whole event was very touching and difficult to watch. A funeral of a dear friend and trustworthy individual is difficult for anyone to experience. However, after watching the event and reflecting on everything about the funeral, I take solace in the fact that my dear friend Theodore had a funeral befitting a good man who, in my opinion, served the Lord according to the faith that God bestowed in him.
Based on what I viewed from the Zoom presentation, many people came out to honor Theodore, who impacted many individuals. I think that the people who were at his funeral accurately portrayed the faithfulness of Theodore Okwoli. The mourners vividly (while hurting inside) gathered to remember and celebrate Theo's life.
I know it will be hard for Eugenia, Theo's children, siblings, relatives, and friends to lift the weight of the loss from their minds. However, I believe that the sustaining grace of God, the power of Christ, and the complete reliance upon Him at this moment will genuinely make the Okwoli family strong.

Daddy Ozo,
I saw in you a man who understood that in this life, a little does so much, a man we classified as too fine a being to be going home this soon. Who would have thought that the most recent memories I'd have are those we shared over the phone.... our Bible today is assuring us na I nö na udo, na I nwetewala nnukwu ůgwö, n'ihi na Chineke eleghala gi wee hů na I tosiri ezie inönyere ya.... I di ebube, oke nna... May we who are still here be found worthy to join u and be with Him on the resurrection morning.

Farewell, Sir Theodore!

Dear Uncle Ozo,

You will always be in our hearts.

The first great moment I had with you was during my time at Assumpta Minor, when most of my midterm break was spent in Aba. I would join you in the evening to watch local news before we had night prayer.

Fast forward to the present day and talking about Arsenal every season, and our chances of winning the league (or not) is one to be remembered.

We also had a date at least 3 times every year, on 7 January, 16 August, and 05 December; not in my wildest thoughts did I think 07 January 2023 would be our last conversation.

I'm glad you met Buzor as we thanked you at our wedding reception on 10 September for being with us to celebrate our matrimony despite your difficult schedule. And we are grateful to have shared some personal moments with you after our wedding at Lazo's house where you offered us oji, Auntie Ome's ugba, and some wine. It was the last time we got to see you but a great moment we shall not forget in a hurry. We had 3 generations in the living room that evening, you and Auntie Ome, Buzor and myself, Lazo and Chiemeta, as well as their lovely children.

Uncle, you have gone to be in God's presence forever, but you will always be in our hearts.

Rest in peace, The Great Ozo di Ebube.

With love,

Buzor & Chuma.

A courageous and honourable man, whose wisdom, discipline and leadership made men and women out of us, boys and girls.

Realising from these past weeks, that the pain from losing a father never diminishes no matter how long time passes. We will continue to encourage ourselves and thrive, because anyị ma na ỤZỌ AMAKA-our coast is clear, our future is bright, and you have taught us to be brave.

No day is easy without you dad, but the memories of your presence would remain precious. Despite sadness and grief, we cannot question nor challenge God, maka na CHUKWU KA anyị mara ihe niile

You are my hero. A humble man, yet brave and full of strength. Therefore, with IKE NNA and your legacy, we will conquer the sorrows from your absence.

Your worth can never be fully told. A great and peaceful man indeed, you may be gone, but because of your legacy, NNAM DỊ forever.

We will learn to live with the loss, but you’ll never be far from our thoughts, gi na CHUKWU NỌ NSO

"My Chairman" just like you fondly call me. I miss you dad and i’ll always CHETA NNA

It has been very difficult for me to articulate what to say or write. I know that a day like this will come, but I didn't imagine it coming this soon. I called to speak with Ndaa Theo, as I fondly called him, only to get the shocking and unexpected news that he had passed on that morning. It was very sad because Ndaa Theo was one of the finest gentlemen that I have ever know. He was very kind, soft-spoken and very supportive as an in-law. I wish I had spent more time with him.
My brother, my in-law, my Able Worthy, my Ndaa Theo, may your kind soul rest in peace! May God comfort your family, friends, and loved ones you left behind. Your legacy of love and kindness will endure. Adieu, my Worthy Knight!

Dear Sir,

I had the absolute pleasure of meeting you, however brief it had been, I'm glad I got to know you even better through your children and family. You were a man of great character, kindness and wisdom, who touched the lives of so many people, with warmth and generosity. You were a true gentleman in every sense of the word.

Ozo, you were a man of strong faith and values, you lived, loving God and teaching your children to do the same. You were a devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend. You knew what it actually means to cherish relationships and never failed in doing so with your very large family and friends, one can tell that your love for them was immeasurable.

Although we are deeply saddened by your passing, we take comfort in knowing that your memory will live on through the countless lives you've touched. We will always remember you for your warmth, your wisdom, and your unwavering love. Rest in peace Sir. You will be forever missed but never forgotten.

Sonma.

Henry Ndiulo

The Real Soldier of the Cross Matches On!

Bleary eyes, fresh from High School and thrown into the labour market. Dad having retired some years back and my two other siblings in the Uni, I had to get a job to support the family. That was when I met him! You just couldn’t miss his white overalls, corduroy pants, ankle boots and ebullient smile. Yes, what about his spotless gold-coloured Volkswagen Passat car, the status symbol at the time? He was the ideal hero every young man looked up to. You could see his spritely gait of assurance, self- confidence. Oh, his ‘swag’ was always there! No wonder some of his fellow senior colleagues ‘beefed’ him!

Ah, I couldn’t describe how I felt when his younger brother, my friend and colleague, Uche proudly introduced me. I could see it clearly now how he shook my hand and asked ‘Henry, kedu?’ That was how he became the Father and mentor I had in those brutish adolescent days!

He adopted me as a son and passed all the love he had for Uche on to me. He always looked out for me and encouraged me to go back to school. On one occasion when I visited, I ran into his wife and learnt that she is my “distant cousin”. That was the clincher that further integrated me into the family. Ndaa Eugenia became my Mother!
Uche and I would retire to the house days we were off duty and Ndaa m (Mama Amaka) would prepare delicious meals for us. Like her husband she strictly guided me and helped shape my future. I always felt at home with the family.

Chai! Just as Radwan Chowdhury said ‘life is like a sea. We are moving without end. Nothing stays with us, what remains is just the memories of some people who touched us as waves’. Sure. Ndaa Theo touched a lot many lives. What with the multitudes he took off the street and offered jobs, the lot he straightened up and gave hope for a better tomorrow, the families he saved and put food on their table because a family member is at work, his community, his Church? Yes. That’s our consolation!

Ndaa Eugenia, you married your ‘G’, your best friend and most handsome man in town. That’s the dream of every woman. Cheer up Ndaa m because your “G” lived a very fulfilled life in the service to his community, the church and humanity.

To Amaka, Chuka, Ikenna and the rest of the children, your Dad was a real Father and the best in the world. Please do hold on to his legacies.

To Uche, my best friend and brother, and the entire Okwoli family, Rejoice because Ndaa Theo, the Real Soldier of the Cross matches on!

Nnam Ukwu, Rest in Peace!

Dear Daddy,
As I usually call you because that was what you were to me.

It has really taken me days to write this because it still like a movie and difficult to accept.

00:59am 13th March 2023 has been a day with the greatest shock of my life. I waited for days to hear a different story but nothing happened.

You always called me Chidifine and when I got my degree in engineering, you started calling me your Engr and that’s how you have always called me.

Growing Up, I have always known you as my father not just my uncle because you took me as your daughter.
I will never forget how I was to undergo an operation and it took place in Aba. How you stood with my mum and told me I was in good hands that you people were waiting for me to come out. After I woke up and saw my get well gift including the special get well card my daughter that I had until I finished university.

In 2014, when papa was sick,you came back from UK and drove straight to the hospital to see your him. The emotional moments between you two then brought tears to our eyes. I saw the true love you had for your brother.

I remember all your fatherly advice and how you could tell me thank you for making us proud and how you would always tell me don’t allow anyone put you under pressure to get married because it will happen at God’s time.


Dad,thank you for being a father to we all.
Thank you for showing love to we all.
Thank you for being a peaceful man.

I know you are in a better place watching over us.
I know heaven gained a good man

Chidifine miss you.
Your Engr miss you

Rest In Peace daddy ❤️

Ozo goes home !! I couldn't believe the news of your death Ozodiebube that you are gone until I called ,am still in shock bcos I didn't see it coming, recently in Ononaenyi's burial you came to were I was sitting and told me to come and have a shot with you not knowing is for memories,remembrances. You are indeed a great gentle man ,man of peace, always cheerful....who.our are we to question God, as it pleases him....may you continue to rest in God's Bossom till we meet to part no more....Amen.

TRIBUTE TO A NOBLE KNIGHT
I have stared at my keyboard for days now, but I can’t seem to be able to put a sentence together that pays sufficient tribute to Sir Theodore Okwoli.
When not knowing fills one up, amidst a heart that wishes to express itself, what can be next? Tears, tears, and tears, sorrows in me. Where do I even start?
So, I got a phone call on March 12th from my bosom friend Ikenna informing me that you-Daddy had been hospitalized for days due to illness, when I inquired about your condition, I was assured that you will be well. Later that evening, Ikenna texted me with a picture of you laid in the hospital bed, HE SAID "Please remember my dad in your prayers."
I called him immediately to know the situation…the line was engaged, I tried again it was engaged… I could feel that there was a problem, but I couldn't put my finger on what. The following morning when I woke up, Ikenna had left 5 missed calls at 1A.M???... This is unusual, I said to myself.
While I was wondering in thoughts, my wife came into my room and said, Baby, Salas is on the phone. I took the call and he said, “Taker!” My Dad is gone!
His voice was wavering and quavering with grief, agony, and sadness as he described what happened.
In that conversation, I drifted in thoughts as I remembered when I and Ikenna welcomed Daddy Okwoli and Mummy at the Port Harcourt Airport. The warm handshake and hug we exchanged, the gorgeous smile you flashed at us, and not to mention the gist you told us in the car on how you and mummy enjoyed your stay at the UK. Thanks to Uzoamaka your daughter.
I recall my visit to your hometown Agulu during the New Year, where we had an interesting discussion on politics and sports. I could still picture Adaugo your granddaughter running around the sitting room and compound while you expressed your views and opinions.
How can it be that you are no more...? Just like that?
Like Habakkuk, I will stand upon my watch, and set upon the tower, to hear what God will say to me on the demise of a Man so meek and peaceful, a Husband so loving and caring, a Father and Grandfather so committed and devoted. A true Arsenal fan.
Daddy’s moral character and widespread respect in his community made his kinsmen give him the title “Ozodiebube”. In church, he was a Devoted Christian and a worthy Knight.
As we share in this moment of grief, we take solace in the fact that, Daddy Okwoli lived well in this life. He left a legacy everyone is proud of.

A goal in life is not to live forever on earth, rather, for the living to leave legacies excellent enough to be remembered thereafter.

Ozo! You have left footprints on the sands of time, as you sleep with your ancestors, having fulfilled your days here on earth dutifully and faithfully, you will be greatly missed.
“Ome” (like you fondly called Mummy), Uzoamaka, Chukwuka, Ikenna, Nnamdi, Ukachukwu, Chetanna, your grandchildren, extended family members and everyone, will face the reality of separation; the reality of loss; the reality of death but within the context of hope. Yes! Our hope in Christ Jesus gives us strength and bravery when we grieve. This hope is what gives us comfort.

I’m certain that Daddy can see all the tears and hear all the encomiums.

Adieu, My Humble and Noble Knight!

From Sir Nkwachi Nwosu (KGS) on behalf of my family.

Several times I attempted to write this tribute, however, each time, I was put off as I couldn't bring myself to accepting that my brother is dead.  I have been in denial because my beloved brother should not be dead. Even as we make arrangements for his funeral, it still feels surreal to me that he has gone.

Although we have previously lost our parents, this particular loss is the most painful mainly because Sir Theo was full of life on the very day he died. It was him that sent us WhatsApp message earlier that day informing us of his hospital admission - that he had malaria.  Later that day, he 'posed' for a photograph on his hospital bed, taking his time to button up his shirt, to look his best, and he even inquired about the score of his beloved Arsenal's match that evening.  He was informed that the Gunners won 3 - 0.  These were not the actions of someone on his death bed, right?  Rather, he was being his normal self.  He cared for his family, he effortless looks (looked?) his best and he was a true Gooner - an avid Arsenal fan (literally to the end). This was evident to me,  the sheer joy on his face, few years ago when I took him to the Arsenal Emirates Stadium tour during one of his visits to the UK.

Ozo, as he was fondly called by us, his siblings, was my hero, my big brother and my mentor. I grew up in his household and he raised me as if I  was his son. Sir TCO had ears for me and everyone close to him. Each time I called him, he would always inquire about the welfare of my family first before he would listen to any requests I needed from him. This was not peculiar to me alone. Everyone that knows my brother would attest to similar attitudes from him.

He was a people's person and ever ready to assist, despite the harsh realities in Nigeria.  He was a firm believer of that proverbial concept of 'giving a man the means to catch his own fish, rather than merely constantly giving him fish'. He lived out this benevolence trait by the sheer number of people he offered employment in the organisation he worked for. 

To Ozo, it doesn't matter if you are relative, in-law or friend.  He saw everyone as his family.  Only last November, when my wife went home to see her elderly father, Ozo and Omenwa his wife, at very short notice, went to visit my father in-law.  He called me later and very excitedly told me how pleased he was to see my father in-law whom he hadn't seen for few years due to the pandemic restrictions. They were fond of each other.

Ozo was my go-to sibling each time I needed someone back home to assist and to advice. I will miss his genuine felicitation and also his gentle admonition whenever I erred.  Above all, I will miss my big brother whom I have looked up to all my life. Although the tears in my eyes have refused to abate, I am comforted by the fact that Ozodiebube lived a comfortable and contented life. He was a good man.  Rest peacefully in the Lord, my brother. Nzeakonobi.

Attention:

Mr. Ikenna Okwoli (Member CTU)

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE

On behalf of the Board of Trustees and Members of CTU.

We received with a heavy heart, the news of the demise of Sir Theodore Okwoli. 

The news of your father came to us as a shock; nevertheless, let us take solace in the fact that he lived a fulfilled life while on earth.

Sir Theodore Okwoli was industrious, loving, generous and a prudent father. His deeds and other legacies are worthy of emulation.

We share in your pain and sorrow at this moment of grief and pray that God grants you and your family the fortitude to bear this loss.

May his gentle soul rest in peace. Amen!.

Please accept our thoughtful condolences

Mr. Tochukwu Ekezie– Secretary - CTU                                                                         
Sir Nkwachi Anchor Nwosu ( Chairman - CTU)

STRUGGLING TO COME TO TERMS.
By Dr. Phil (Emperor) Odoemena

Any loss can cause lingering agony; no one wants to experience persistent emotional pain associated with a loss, no matter what type; that said, losing a bosom buddy is extremely laborious. Ever since I heard about the demise of my best friend, Theodore Okwoli, it has been a struggle to come to terms with his exit from this world.
Theodore Okwoli, Richard Azoro (may his soul continue to rest in peace), and I lived on the same street (Abukuru), at Ajegunle, during our teenage to young adult years. Our houses were one or two houses apart from each other. We were young, vibrant, and full of hope. There was another group of friends; we called our group the "E" group. We did things together, planned, and were with each other every evening when we returned from work. Theo worked at Trebor (a British company), Richard at Nigerian Television Authority, and I at the Nigerian Ports Authority.
Amongst the three of us, Theodore was more progressive. A few months after he joined Trebor, he was made a manager. A brand new car was given to him. We were on top of the world then. The British Chief Executive Officer of Trebor, who made Theo a manager, saw a thriving young man because Theo's demeanor and appearance were believable. Theo was trustworthy, honest, and had impeccable character. Theodore Okwoli was a friend you could bet your last dollar that he would always stand by you. He will stand by you, use his subtle and gentle manner, and admonish you when you attempt to toil the wrong part.
Theo and I have been close friends for so long. A world without Theodore is wholly altered; the denial of his demise lingers in my thoughts while grieving. So many memories about Theo will never go away. For instance, I was there when Theo met Eugenia for the first time when Eugenia was staying with her uncle, the late Richard Azoro. Before I worked at the Nigerian Ports Authority, Theo employed Eugenia and me at Trebor. We were constantly eating at each other's house. At Theo's house, Ngozi and Aunty-Theo's senior sister) always prepared delicious meals for us.
I am from Ikwuano in Umuahia, and Theo is from Agulu; we both knew each parent well. When my father passed, Theo came to my village. When I visited Nigeria, Theo often visited my town to see me. I remember vividly, on one of my visits to Nigeria, Theo came to Lagos from Aba; after a few days of our reunion events, we both left Lagos for Agulu and spent a day at his village. The last time I saw my friend was in January 2022, when Theo and Eugenia visited me in my town.
Theodore was a true friend you can trust even with your life. The bond between Theo and his friends is beyond the mortal world. The memories I and other friends made with Theo will never be forgotten. Theo, you were a great friend that I cherished. It is hard for me to say goodbye. However, the only thing I can say now is. May you be blessed in heaven, my good friend.

All of us you left behind will not have you physically here on earth; however, you will always be remembered with these treasured memories depicted in the photographs we took during our young adult years. Please, see the photos in the gallery.
Phil Emperor Odoemena

TRIBUTE TO NOBLE / COL T . C OKWOLI

   Words cannot e enough to say what you stood for - commitment to God’s work,hardwork and exemplary life-style , peaceful disposition and harmony among men , jokes and laughter with open-mindedness, numerous achievements without making noise . The history of ST Anthony Of Padua Catholic Church cannot be complete without mentioning your numerous contributions as the pioneer Chairman of the Parish council. Your contributions to the KSJI Comm. 445/Ow. Grand Comm . Where you served as the Comm. President/ 2nd vice Grand President speak volume for you .You lived a fulfilled life in all human endeavors. Death been the gateway to heaven has opened and heaven will shoot for their stars to receive your soul for eternal rest .
 T.C , May you rest in peace .
From Noble Col/Sir C. U Nwiwu

From Nnanna-Ukegbu Family

It is with great sorrow that I learned of your totally unexpected passing. However one must acknowledge that you lived a full and remarkable life. Although I had heard much about you from others, including your loving wife, Eugenia, I only met you for the first time in early 2018, while on a visit to Nigeria. My first impression of you was: what a handsome and quiet gentleman.
Thank you immensely for the happy, sweet and richly fulfilled married life you gave to our dear sister, Eugenia. Our sister in the sense that although she is née Ekpe, she has been staunchly one of us in the Ukegbu Family since she was a child.
Godspeed, the great Theo Okwoli.

It is with deep sorrow that we, THE PIONEER students of ST. BRIDGET’S COLLEGE, pay tribute to SIR THEODORE CHIAZOR OKWOLI, a beloved father to our classmate and friend, Ikenna Okwoli, also known as Salas.

Mr. Okwoli was not just any ordinary father; he was a paragon of coolness. We remember his home was located closest to our school, and therefore we often visited Ikenna after school or during holidays. Mr. Okwoli would always greet and welcome us with open arms and usually engage us in conversations about life, football, and other interesting topics. His house was a haven of warmth and joy, and his personality endeared him to us.

To us, Mr. Okwoli was not only a father figure to Ikenna but also a father to all of us. He had a generous heart, and his family members and children were all caring and lovable, reflecting his admirable traits. Even though we saw him as the coolest dad, he was also quick to correct us with love when we made mistakes.

Mr. Okwoli's love for his family was palpable, and he was a devout Catholic who lived his faith. He instilled strong Christian values in his children, who have now grown into successful adults.

Mr. Okwoli was a compassionate man who touched the lives of many. He was a role model to us, and we are grateful for having him in our lives. His memory will continue to live on in our hearts, and we will always remember him as the coolest dad we ever knew.

May his soul rest in eternal peace.

NOBLE ONE

You were a wonderful husband to your wife and a model father to your children. You loved God with and in everything you did and I believe God blessed you knowing this.

You have been a great man Ozo, and even though you are no longer with us in flesh, I know that you can see all the ways God has blessed you with your family and friends, from up there.

May your soul rest perfectly, rejoicing in the knowledge that you've lived a beautiful & emulating life. We won’t forget you, your family & friends will love you forever. Rest in this assurance Sir Theodore Okwoli.


Oby Okwuba (Mrs)

*Once a Gunner always a Gunner*

Rest in peace, dear uncle. The sparkle of your eyes, the brightness of your smile, and the goodness of your soul will always stay in our hearts because you were one gem of a person we had. Losing you is no doubt a big loss to all of us. Uncle "OZO DI EBUBE" is a success – who has lived well, laughed often and loved much, who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of children, who has filled his niche and accomplished his task. Who leaves the world better than he found it, who has never lacked appreciation of earth’s beauty or failed to express it, who looked for the best in others and gave the best he had.This is the price you pay for having a great-uncle. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments like your great reception which we always looked forward to when we visit Agulu or Aba especially Agulu during the festive periods.The way we ran to you for protection when we were on the run from masquerades.The various funny nicknames you call us when we arrived. Agulu can never be the same with your absence. Death is something inevitable. When a man has done what he considers his duty to his people and his country, he can rest in peace. I believe he made that effort, and that is, therefore, why he will sleep for eternity.
Gone yet not forgotten, although we are apart, your memory lives within us forever in our heart.
Adieu Uncle from your nephews Kosi and Kamsi.

*TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER - THE PEACEMAKER*
It is with deepest sorrow and sadness that I write this tribute.
Sir T. C. Okwoli (Ozodiebube) being the first son of Chief Henry & Mrs Patricia Okwoli, passes easily as my elder brother. He had over the years played a very significant and fatherly role in my life. He contributed immensely through his wealth of knowledge, experience and advice to my personal and even professional growth.
Our Papa's own was to pay my school fees but yours was to dole out pocket money which you backed up with letters always advising me study very hard. You also taught me grammar because all your letters must come with a new vocabulary. For instance you taught me the word PROCRASTINATION. You usually write the new word with all capital letters or you underline such words. I look forward to receiving your letters ( those days of letter writing). Thanks so much *Dede M* for playing that fatherly role in my life.
Ozo was humble, kind, loving, caring and good at heart and soul. He was an examplary, unpretentious self effacing leader to the core who oversaw the well being and growth of his immediate family, extended family and the community at large.
He was a man of principle. Throughout his life, he stood tall for the righteous and never bowed to unscrupulous pressure.
The demise of my dear brother and the first amongst my four brothers will no doubt leave a deep vacuum in my heart. Yes Dede M, you have passed away because you have served your purpose here on earth and while heaven had gained a *SAINT*- another intercessor in heaven. Remember to always intercede on our behalf by taking care of Omenwa, your jewel of inestimable values, your children, grand children and we your siblings.
It's therefore with heavy heart I bid you farewell. I however take solace in the fact that you lived a good life with the good footprints you left for us to step into. I also take solace in that voice of yours (which I am still hearing) in our last telephone conversation about 7(seven) hours before you passed on.
May Almighty God grant you peaceful repose, Amen.
Adieu Brother!
Adieu Ozo Idi Ebube!!
Adieu Dede M
Jee ije Gi nke oma Ezeudo!!!

Chinwe Ndubisi (nee Okwoli)
Your Adadiora

Humm...so sad to get the news of your demise Ozo. Just as a new day breaks in the morning and dusk at night, you just came into my life and left like that. My good friend, father and brother, I'll ever cherish the little time I got to know you, the fatherly advice & prayers you gave me.
Jee nke oma Ozo
Jee nke oma nwoke obi oma
Jee nke oma ezigbo mmadu.
Rest In Peace sir.

His heart was always pure, innocent, and charming like a child. He enjoyed the tiny moments of life as his death came as a shock to me and my family. Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your father, brother, uncle, and grandfather, even though his death was unexpected, so we know his death is difficult for the entire family. Please know that we are praying with you all. May his soul rest in peace, Amen. Je nke oma Ozodiebebe!!

Chief E.O. Aninwobodo for the family

Bro Theo
It has taken me a while to pluck the courage to write this, as it just gives credence to the fact that I'm writing a tribute in your memory. A testament to the reality that you have transitioned to eternal bliss
Well God has spoken and His will must be obeyed. And this is the only plausible explanation I can fathom
I saw Amaka's missed call very early that Monday! My first instinct was to ignore it cos she must have mistakenly pressed my number. I made my way to start preparing for the day. Then my thoughts got the better of me so I called Amaka. She could not speak initially, I became bewildered and frightened all at once!
Then came the narrations of events of Thursday night to very early Monday morning. I instantly concluded that God, your heavenly father, just came for you. If not, you do not joke with all things KSJ! It is unimaginable that you would miss your planned Friday trip on the premise that " I don't feel good", not able to point your finger at what was wrong, then slowly but surely it led to me sitting here and writing this.
Well Bro Theo our friendship; Eugy, Annie, you, I, surpassed just friendship and transformed into brotherly/ sisterly relationship. Your kindness, easy going personality, reliable and dependable nature, your love and service of mankind set you apart. We love you, will always do. It is really hard. I wonder for my friend- Lady, Landlady, Lolo, CNO, Godmother (Mina's),Grandma. My numerous accolades for your dear wife, but I know God, your children, your sweet memories, family and friends will help her through this difficult journey, this emptiness. Last Sunday Mothers day, it was a challenge calling her. I could imagine the enormity of how lost she would feel that particular day!! But as I said God will see her through, will stand by Amaka (The Lady) and her brothers, your beautiful sons. God bless you. God give them and your entire family strength. Annie your Nwannedinamba could not believe you would not respond to his post about Arsenal winning, that Sunday. Now he understands why. Bro Theo we miss you, we will miss you. Stay well. God speed.
Cee Lady,

My dear Chiazor,

As heartbroken as I am today, even in the last few weeks of completely unexpected hell- the darkness and saddest moments of my life- I know how lucky I have been to have shared such a wonderful life and memories with a remarkable and wonderful soul. Not just a wonderful husband, but a wonderful father, grandfather, my best friend, my senior brother, my colleague, my mentor, my inspiration and so much more.. Ozo, you are my steadfast rock that helped me through thick and thin, gave me the experience of being deeply understood, truly supported and completely loved. When I get upset, you stayed calm, when I am worried, you tell me it would all be okay, when I wasn’t sure what to do, you figured out a way. Even on that very sad day as you slept off quietly and peacefully in the lord, you made sure I was not flustered. Your last words to me were ‘yes ma’ - you wanted me to be comfortable at all cost. Those words still echo in my ears and I will always remember them until we meet again.
Chiazor, I am heartbroken and your departure feels very unbearable but the strength of our family and children is the best sign I have that you are still here with us in spirit. You are a man of peace, love and family. You cherished togetherness.
Chiazor, you were my senior brother,You taught me unconditional love and now your death has unleashed an unrelenting pool of testimonies that has taught me the new meaning of kindness. Your gentle soul and amazing ability to make people happy is still with us, it lives on in the stories people are sharing of how you touched their lives, it is very visible in the spirit and resilience of our children and the family.

Things will never be the same without you, but I know the world is better for the years you lived and I will cherish your memories forever.

We will miss your kindness Ozo, but grateful that we had the opportunity to share your dreams, hopes, love, friendship and much more. You will always be in my heart and the love that I and your children have for you will live on forever.

May your gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord until we meet to part no more.

Adieu Chiazor!
Adieu my God’s chosen husband!
Adieu Papa Amaka!
Adieu Di Nwanyinna!
Adieu Di Ome!

Ozo, I have tried everyday to wake up from this awful nightmare, but it is damming on me that it is a reality that you are not here with us any more. My birth Month partner of the family. The news of your death is one of the greatest shock of my life. You are more than a brother inlaw to me. You have played the role of a father, a brother, a brother inlaw, and a mentor in my life. You were like a son to my late parents. "Ozo, Iwukwa nwoko" like my late father Ezeogidi will fundly greet you. Indeed you are truly a man of valor, a man with heart of gold. We have depended on you for all thing. Whenever we call on you in time of need, you are always there, standing on our behalf and carrying us on your shoulders.  Your fatherly  advice, care, support, and love have been a source of strength to us. Ozo, you will always live in our hearts. Your legacy will continue to live on. I call you Daddy, because I truly found a father in you since I lost my father in 2006. I know and truly believe that you are now one of our guardian angels. Please watch over Omenwa " Your soul mate", and our family. We love you but God your maker love you most and knows why it has to happen this way. You are a loving and gentle soul to the end. You will forever be missed. Adieu Sir, "Ozo, I di ebube"  All I pray is that the legacy of love and oneness you left in our family will live forever. Continue to rest in God's bosom  untill we meet again to part no more, Amen.

Dear Papa Ceecee as me and my sisters would call you I am still in shock that you are no longer with us. I never would have thought that i would be writing this so soon but God knows best and we cannot question his will. You have left us with so much memory that writing this does not in anyway do it any justice. My mother took a huge bold step leaving a very dark moment in her life to see light at Vongo crescent all thanks to your encouragement and support. Thank you my for showing us the light. Thank you for your endless kindness without any expectations of reward. Thank you for always caring. Particularly when i was studying at university. You would always check in from time to time and will send me a message “Chibuzor Ntigha….jisike my daughter…..I know it is hard but God is your strength and will see you though. Remember to always say your Rosary and be kind” I remember how you would pick up my sister every morning to drop both her Ceecee to school. The same kindness was extended to me as you would also drop me and Uka at our boarding schools. You were such a huge inspiration in my life and you continued to inspire me even till death. Such a sad loss but I take consolation that you went peacefully and resting well with your maker. Thank you!. Your foot prints will always live on.

May your gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace Amen

You will always be in our heart, Papa Ceecee
“Chibuzor Ntigha” 

Dear Daddy,

Very late into the night on the 12th of March 2023, despite all of the medical jargons, in your usual deep, calm, peaceful and reassuring voice, you took your time to say ‘Goodnight’ and reminded me to send your best wishes to my dear wife (your darling daughter) and your darling grandchildren. I did exactly that, and I promise you that I will continue to send your regards to them regularly in words and in deeds as you have wished. It took me a few days to fully come to terms with and understand the task that you set for me on that night. Ozo, You knew you could always count on me! I heard in your voice that you didn’t want any of us, all your loved ones to be in any despair or be overly worried. That was typical Ozodiebube! You kept your head high till the very end, and slept away very peacefully, knowing that your loved ones were by your side, holding your hands in person and on the phones. You knew that your kind and compassionate nature and memories will aoutshine the inevitable sadness of your physical departure. You knew we will all find the strength to cope by sticking together in love. It filled me with tremendous joy knowing that you were at peace, you were not in any distress at all and your team even won that night. You knew that everything that needed to be done and humanly possible were being done, you knew you were very loved. You wanted us all to retire that night in absolute peace, calm and comfort. You never liked drama. To you, nothing was ever worth the drama. You then slept off peacefully! I was told earlier that evening that you took your time to sit by the edge of the bed, meticulously buttoned your shirt and asked for a photo of you to be taken away from all the hospital gadgets, squeezing out as much grin as you possibly could. That was what you wanted us to remember, that was how you wanted us to remember you. The trouble free, kind and simple man that you always were. You never liked seeing people upset, that magical attribute of deep friendship that did not know any age boundaries nor brackets. You were as much of a friend to me as you were to your grandchildren, your daughter(Adadioranma), my father (Akunne 1), my mother(Ojiazu) and to all of my siblings(ify fyn fyn and your arsenal brothers Ikebobo & Doc). My relationship with you felt more like a second father- Nothing was too difficult nor too complex, it was always okay even when we did something so blatantly wrong. It was so easy with you, sometimes I struggled to reconcile how you headed all those big ‘committees’ and managed those companies and still remained a very simple man. It was so easy to live with you, so easy to go anywhere with you, so easy to prepare your lunch @ Basildon! and nothing was ever difficult nor outside the limits for discussions. We talked about PZ, everything…., Glad you trusted me and allowed me shave your hair during your last visit. Thank you for gifting me and your grandchildren with those wonderful memories. You made it so easy for us all, Chloe, your Chairman and your Prof Prof, it was so effortless to speak with you, nothing was ever too complex. A simple life - a life lesson that I will truly cherish and hold onto for the rest of my life.

Your memories will live with us and in our hearts forever. I promise to continue to share your best wishes and regards to all of your beloved ones as you instructed me to do on that night. 

Goodnight once again Ozodiebube 1.

Your Son
Chinedu Odina

OZO GOES HOME!!!
DEATH IS A NECESSARY END THAT COMES WHEN IT WOULD COME. SO IT HAS COME TO DADDY T.C. OKWOLI. Daddy AS I FONDLY CALL HIM, WAS GOODNESS PERSONIFIED. HE WAS HUMBLE, A PEACE MAKER. HE FORGIVES EASILY, METICULOUS IN ALL THAT HE DOES. MY BEST ACCOUNT/RECORD KEEPER. YOU WERE A FRIEND TO ALL AND AN ENEMY TO NONE. YOUR LADY CHRISTY IS WEEPING, UR LADY CATHY WILL MISS UR FATHERLY ADVISE.
WE SERVED TOGETHER AS FATHER AND DAUGHTER IN OUR PARISH FOR YEARS AND YOU NEVER COMPLAINED AGAINST ALL ODDS. OF COURSE U KNOW THAT I AND ALL MY FAMILY MEMBERS LOVES U AND WILL MISS U DEARLY.[ONYE OMERE AMARALA] U HAVE FOUGHT A GOOD FIGHT. KEEP RESTING IN D BOSSOM OF UR MAKER/AND INTERCEDING FOR D GOOD OF OUR PARISH ST ANTHONY OF PADUA UNTIL THE RESURRECTION MORNING WHEN WE SHALL MEET TO PART NO MORE.
MAY GOD GIVE YOUR FAMILY AND ALL OF US THE FORTITUDE TO BEAR THIS IRREPLACEABLE LOSS.
ADIEU DADDY
ADIEU NWOKOMA ENYI OHA
BRO/SR CASIMIR/CHRISTY NWARU & FAMILY

Sister Eugenia,

TRIBUTE TO SIR THEO OKWOLI FROM EGOGA.
We the Global Executive and the entire sisters of Egbu Girls Old Girls Association received with great shock the news of the demise of your husband, father, brother and uncle, Sir Theo Okwoli. Sadly, it is true what they say"Lives are like rivers". Eventually they go where they must. Not where we want to.
While we extend our deepest sympathy to you, his family, we are aware that words may not be adequate at this solemn moment but we urge you to remember that no one really passes away so long as they took time to leave us with fond memories, and when someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a wonderful treasure to always hold in your heart.
 So as we say adieu to our brother_in law, we acknowledge the exemplary life of humility, kindness, determination and service, Sir Theo projected in his time with us. He shall always remain engrossed in our hearts. We are privileged to have had such a wonderful man as one of us.
 Please be assured that your family is in our thoughts and it is our earnest prayer that the good Lord grants you all the equanimity to bear this irreparable loss.
May the gentle soul of our brother rest in perfect peace! Amen!.

Yours sincerely,
Mrs Ijeoma Enekwa
Global President.

Mrs Salome Akabuike Esq.
Global Secretary.

Nda Theo as I used to call you, the news of your demise came like a shock since I did not not hear you were sick, my mind went to your wife nda Eugy, how she is going to survive this due to the strong love bond between two of you but when I remembered the comforter, the holy spirit,I let go of the thought and called her.
Sir, you were good to everyone who came across you,inlaws, family and friends especially me. You took care of me like a daughter from the time you saw me while in school. Your house was a home to many like me.The best of all the in-laws in my community which of your good attribute will I mention. You taught and helped so many youths I know to be useful in life . You are going to be missed by many especially me but I take solace on the fact that we will again to part no more.
Adieu nda Theo,my best inlaw , guidance and counselor. Good night.

I remember uncle Okwoli (as we referred to him) as a very humble and quiet man. Always walked around with a smile on his face. The news of his demise is still very shocking and unbelievable. I pray that the Holy Spirit will grant aunty and the children the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. Indeed we lost a good one! May his gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord. Amen.

I have always admired Sir Okwoli from afar. From my days at St Bridget Primary School down to the college. He was a perfect family man.

Fast forward to when I trained as a Registered Nurse at Abia State University Teaching Hospital Aba and Mummy Okwoli his amiable wife, the then Chief Martron, he would exhibit an uncommon sense in coming around to check on his wife. I picked that up.

Moving down to his office just behind the old hospital site at jubilee road, he would always call me by my nick name obilo nwanza whenever out path crossed and 8/10, I would see him clutching his home made food in his flask reporting for duty every morning while on my way for lectures, that really taught me a great deal, he's a man intouch with his family. I picked that line as I always insist on home made food rather than eating out. Courtesy of him, I had a designated flask to carry mine to office when I worked from home in Aba.

Finally, as a proud Roman Catholic, he was just a quintessential pious man who held the tenets of the mother church.

Ka mkpuru obi Sir Okwoli zuo ike n'aha nke nna, na nke Okpara na nke muonso... Amen!

Dad,
Your passing on came to me as the greatest shock ever on that morning on my way to work and same left me devastated.
You were a very peaceful man. Your words of love to me and advices while i was job hunting and left alone with you in the house will forever resound in my head.
You took it upon yourself to send me job vacancies and always called to know if i did apply for same .
your love for us till death was immeasurable.
I miss you everyday and will forever miss the father you were to me
Till we meet to path no morr.
Thanks dad.
I LOVE YOU
Rest in glory ozodiebube.
Uchechukwu Isdore(Your son)

Ozodiebube! I call you the man with "1000 Titles". You were a humble leader, a peace lover,a sociable but reserved gentle man.
You were in my office few days bf your demise. We discussed the ugly state of this nation.We promoted your friend Peter Obi. We mimicked & cracked jokes as usual.
But u never gave any sign??. I saw none too. What a big lesson to us all! A definite instruction for the living to live righteously because BOOKS must be OPENED. ACCOUNT must be given.

However, I have no doubt that you will make it in JESUS name. Heaven is our ultimate desire.
I will not say goodbye, let me say Goodnight. We shall see on the RESURRECTION day.

Dear Dad, your demise is still like a shock to me.....it's as if something has left my body. Sometimes I wake up thinking you traveled to come back soon. I still remembered how peaceful you were at the hospital looking at mum and I. I recalled how of a sudden you sat up by your bed side, gently buttoned your shirt and told me to take a snapshot of you. After that I was expecting you would tell me to forward it to your WhatsApp like you always do but instead, you told me thanks after I told you I was done with the pictures and you gently laid down on the bed again. I kept wondering if you knew you were going to be with God because that scenario is something I'm still trying to understand.

On Saturday 11th of March, we discussed football together when I told you Liverpool lost their match. The next day on Sunday 12th, I told you we (Arsenal) won 0-3 away from home and you were very happy and said "that's very wonderful". I never knew that would be our last football discussion.

I remember holding your hands at 2300hrs on Sunday telling you to try and get some sleep that you'll be fine.....but you slept and didn't wake up again. There has always been "Friday the 13th" but "Monday the 13th" is a date I would never forget in my life. I keep telling my siblings that the only consolation I take in your death is that I was 100% sure that God took you to be with him.....but I wished you said a word to me or mum before leaving. I saw you in my dream two weeks after your death, sitting in the parlour quietly.....I was excited and told other people to see you but I was surprised they couldn't see you. I waited for you to say something to me but you remained calm. I believe you have a word for me and i'll patiently wait for it.

You were the most perfect gentle man I've seen in my entire life and I'm proud to be your son.
You were a peacemaker, God fearing, kind, meek, loving, accommodating, generous, admirable, jovial, playful, soft and humble . You were a friend to all, you never segregated and you knew the perfect way to mingle with the good, bad and ugly.

Yes, you're gone Dad but you're still here with us. Your legacies will always be remembered and your memories will continue to live with me.....Your most frequently used phrase "This and That", your beautiful and funny lullabies when putting your grand kids to bed, your elegant handwriting and your passion for watching news channels.

Thank you for your words of encouragement and fatherly affection. There can't be any better father than you.
All I can say is that.....You came, you saw and you conquered.

Ozo, you're forever in our hearts❤️.

I miss you Dad
Ti Saluto Padre
Ozo idi Ebube

Brother m, l am still finding it difficult to believe your very sudden demise from this world on 13th March, 2023. Just like that, not enough notice, only a very brief illness and like a candle in the wind your life just ended. Unbelievable, but it is a reality which l am beginning to accept gradually. I don't have any choice.

Ozo my brother, l lived with you from my late primary school years and you saw me through Secondary and University education. Your kind heartedness and caring nature cannot be quantified. You sacrificed a lot to make sure your younger ones got the best education as well as the best in life. You are always excited and happy with good academic performance be it from your siblings or to others. This attitude of yours endeared you to all as you positively touched the lives of people that you met. You are a peace-maker extraordinary and an excellent adviser at all times and in all matters.

I would have wished you lived for some more years with us but as God has other plans for you, so be it. I cannot ask God questions because l am a firm believer that God's time is the best. I can only pray for a peaceful repose of your soul.

Go well, brother m!
Adieu, Ozodiebube!!
Rest in peace, Amen!!!

My Noble Brother Theo,
It is still like a dream. We served together as Worthy President and Respected President of our Commandery and Auxiliary, same time. We moved over to the Grand Commandery together. The fact that our families knew each other before we became Ksji members brought us together more.
You were my great ally in Ksji, a worthy brother and a good family friend.
It is really difficult to say goodbye. I still remember our meetings, four Grand Officers from Aba. Bro Ukaegbu exited first, we mourned him. Then Bro Enukeme. And now you!
May God grant your soul eternal rest and grant Eugy, your Omenwa, your children and entire Okwoli family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
Adieu my Worthy brother
Gaa ije gi nke oma.