January 26, 2010
January 26, 2010
To Darling Mommy,How my heart aches today,every minute of the day i think of you everyday.I luv you so much CindyXXXXXXXXX
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Theresa Beatrice Lodder, 62 years old, born on June 17, 1946, and passed away on December 18, 2008. We will remember her forever.
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January 13, 2010
January 13, 2010
Darling Sister (cookie), back home, thank you for that very special message I received,love you 4eva your heartbroken sister Pat (frikkadel)
January 12, 2010
January 12, 2010
My dearest sister, as usual you in my thoughts again, always, always thinking of you.Love you forever and ever!!. till we meet again xxxxx
Kathleen.
Kathleen.
December 20, 2009
December 20, 2009
Dearest Theresa, on Friday when I released the two yellow balloons I know you were with me and teasing me... you read what I wrote... love you forever!. Kathleen
December 19, 2009
December 19, 2009
Darling Angel Mommy & Best Friend.You have taken a big part of my heart with you & I feel empty.Cannot find words to say how much I miss you & need you so much.Life will never be the same for me.xx
December 18, 2009
December 18, 2009
Mommy today you are gone one year.if i could only turn back the clock.How my heart hurts today,it pains so i cannot believe you are gone.Luv you so much,Luv Cindy,Llewellyn,Danielxxxxxx
December 17, 2009
December 17, 2009
Mommy, tommorrow is one year you are gone just feels like the other day.I am so heart broken.I cannot dry my tears of take away my heartache.I know you are by my side.Luv you forever and ever cindyxxx
November 27, 2009
November 27, 2009
Mommy, I think of you everyday.I miss you so so much & I so wish you were with us.Its Christmas soon again but it will never be the same for me.I feel sad that my Best Friend has left my side. xxx
November 26, 2009
November 26, 2009
Dear Theresa
I still cannot believe what happened. I am still so heart broken, I dont know hope to process the loss of you. Oh Theresa, I am so sorry you passed on as you did and so untimely.xxxxxxx
I still cannot believe what happened. I am still so heart broken, I dont know hope to process the loss of you. Oh Theresa, I am so sorry you passed on as you did and so untimely.xxxxxxx
November 25, 2009
November 25, 2009
Darling cookie,how I miss you! I have tried so hard to accept what has happened, but know that it is impossible,there is a part of my heart that is gone 4ever!Precious sister,I will luv you 4 eva! Pat
November 18, 2009
November 18, 2009
Mommy today is 11 months you are gone.One more month close to christmas.I miss you so much the dream i had about you talking to me about daddy i know you are with him.luv and miss you so much cindyxxx
September 29, 2009
September 29, 2009
Mommy, Like Daddy i never accepted he was gone and the same with you, I will never come to terms with it. I luv you so much and miss you Luv Cindy Tell Daddy i Luv him XXX
September 26, 2009
September 26, 2009
Terry mommy always said "The Rose still grows beyond the wall". That is so true!. Love Marian
September 26, 2009
September 26, 2009
Terry I know you safe with Mommy and Jesus!. We will be reunited. Love Colleen. xxxxxx
September 23, 2009
September 23, 2009
Mommy, today I miss you so so much.I wish you were here with us.There is so much I want to tell you. I think of you all the time till it hurts.Please give daddy a kiss for me. xxxxxxxx
September 18, 2009
September 18, 2009
Today is 9months.Mommy,I still cant believe that you have left us.Its so unbelievable. I love you so much and long for you. Hope your flying high with the Angels.
September 17, 2009
September 17, 2009
Mommy today is the 17th Sept. You are finally with daddy. My heart is full of sadness just how much I wish I could see you and dadddy just one more time together. Always in my heart. I miss you both.
September 17, 2009
September 17, 2009
Why does it have to be 1946-2008. Too soon.So sad cant stop thinking about you!. Tell mommy I said "happy birthday" to her today.
September 10, 2009
September 10, 2009
Oh Mommy, I don't know how to express my feelings of how lonely I feel without having you here in the human form. Everyday is hard and nothing can be undone. I miss you so much.....
September 8, 2009
September 8, 2009
My dearest Mommy, Daniel's birthday is next week and you are not here.I will never come to terms you are gone.I wish i could dry my tears but i cannot.Luv you foreverxxxxx Cindy
September 1, 2009
September 1, 2009
Theresa, our beautiful butterfly, Love you and think of you ALL the time. Till we meet again.xxx
August 31, 2009
August 31, 2009
To Darling Mommy, I think of you every minute of the Day. We miss you so much. I wish you could see Daniel but i know you now see him every minute of the day now. I luv you so much Cindy-Leigh
August 24, 2009
August 24, 2009
We r struggling so to come to terms with what happened. Help us to be strong, remind us you would laugh and say, no man its ok, I'm fine, I'm happy, I'm OK! See you girls one day again. love u 4 ever.
August 23, 2009
August 23, 2009
Mommy,today is Sunday,I miss our drives we had & the precious time spent together. I miss your smiling face. I wish it was easier-but you are just so LOVED & MISSED here on earth. Always in my heart.
August 18, 2009
August 18, 2009
May the road rise to meet you, the wind be always at your back. The sun shine warm upon your face, And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
In loving memory of a dear Sister
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
In loving memory of a dear Sister
August 18, 2009
August 18, 2009
Mommy, my darling Mother and Best Friend. I miss you so so so much - words cannot describe how I feel. Not a day goes by that I long to hear your voice and have a laugh
Your loving daughter Lorna
Your loving daughter Lorna
August 17, 2009
August 17, 2009
Darling Sister, I regret that we never had a chance to say goodbye.... you left so suddenly.. but thats right, its not goodbye, its till later. We'll always look out for Lorna for you. Love you lots!
August 17, 2009
August 17, 2009
My dearest, darling sister, the hurt has been unbelievable, i try not to even think that you have gone, the pain is just too much. May you be forever at my side. Forever loved and missed, love Patxx.
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December 18, 2023
December 18, 2023
Today, I leave a Flower for you Mommy, as I celebrate your life in Silence. You are with Daddy. Peace and Rest. The unconditional love you and Daddy gave Cindy & I, is instilled in our lives today.
Larry will never be forgotten. The gentle giant who supported you through the last leg of your life. Memories are what keep us going.
Larry will never be forgotten. The gentle giant who supported you through the last leg of your life. Memories are what keep us going.
December 18, 2023
December 18, 2023
My darling mommy, you are in my heart every day. I carry you with me. Missing you, is the most painful feeling. The longing is always there. Not being able to share our troubles together, good times & bad times. I will never have the answers to all of my questions.
My heart will never be the same. The loss of you mommy, has been a long long journey. You told me once, that "the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt". You have proved that to me! You left in such a hurry and never said goodbye. I love you dear Mommy forever and ever. xxxx
My heart will never be the same. The loss of you mommy, has been a long long journey. You told me once, that "the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt". You have proved that to me! You left in such a hurry and never said goodbye. I love you dear Mommy forever and ever. xxxx
November 27, 2023
November 27, 2023
I am missing you so much mommy. I so wish you were still here.
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At the end of each day, it's only memories we have.
DADDY
Mommy and Me
Mommy's favourite chair. I always have the peaceful thoughts of her falling asleep on a Sunday afternoon.
So many beautiful memories. Wish i could have them back. xx
We were all together as a family. Our lives are just a vapour in the wind. We had a lot to be thankful for. Appreciate the little time we have together as it can be all taken away in an instant.
If i was granted just one wish, i would go to that beautiful place and spend just 1 hour with Mommy, Larry & my Father and tell them i had loved them.
I so wish i could grab a piece of the old days just to feel the emotions again that i had at the time. We all just hold on to the memories and hope the feeling of longing subsides.
The Mummy
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January 10, 2020
True & Genuine Loneliness is when you lose a Child, A Best Best Friend or Soul Mate. It is here I am feeling it most! In Spirit we might connect but its certainly not the same in the flesh since, you Mommy, Daddy & Larry left. So I keep telling myself that this is only a Journey.
Missing You
May 13, 2018
Who ever thought that You, Daddy & Larry would have left us so quickly without saying Goodbye.
Life is so short Mommy, it is horrible to think that just a small mistake costed you your life Mommy. I have realized that there is so much sadness & sorrow in this world, but when you look closely Life does go on and it can be beautiful!
Our lights can be dimmed whenever the good Lord calls and i cannot wait to see you again.
Our Souls and Hearts are always together Mommy. I know you are right next to me.
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LOVE LETTERS TO MY SWEETHEART
November 24, 2017
I found this note amongst mommys things. It was written possibly before they married in 1969. I think it is just so beautiful how my father loved her. Wish they were still here. There is so much I want to ask them.
A Real Love you have for your spouse lasts forever. Even when they leave this world. It never dies, I saw this in mommy when he left us. The love and memories she had for my father was buried in her heart till she joined him.