Theresa Beatrice Lodder, (1946 - 2008) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

62 years old
Born on June 17, 1946
Passed away on December 18, 2008

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Theresa Beatrice Lodder, 62 years old, born on June 17, 1946, and passed away on December 18, 2008. We will remember her forever.

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March 14, 2015

Mommy, i miss our togetherness and long talks. I need you so much. I know we cannot choose the path that's given to us but you always walked with me no matter how skew the road. How i wish we were still on that road! You live eternally in my heart.

December 18, 2014

Darling sister, I will NEVER forgot you, our family is just not whole without you. My heart still aches for you, it is still painful to think about you, all your footprints are a part of my life forever. Till we meet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

August 18, 2014

Precious sister, we still have a lot of pain, it hurts to think about you, we will always love and remember you. I know that you are looking down on us, sometimes smiling, something shaking your head...... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

August 11, 2014

Mommy i miss you so much. I need you so much. You are the only person who will understand what i am going through. Nobody cares but i know you are with me and are standing by me and that is all that counts. Please also be with Aunty Lettie. Love you Lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 18, 2014

Mommy how I miss you so much, so much. my heart hurts so much. Please look over Aunty Lettie. She needs you so much. Her best friend and will always be. Miss you so so much. Love you lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 17, 2014

Mommy we miss you so much. Llewellyn, Cindy and Danny. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 17, 2014

Love and will always keep fondest memories of you. Always Dot

June 17, 2014

I will NEVER forget, and NEVER stop loving you...... in my mind and heart at all times. love you sister. xxxx

June 17, 2014

Mommy, you live in me. Your heart is in my heart. Cant wait to see you. Happy Birthday mommy, Thank You for being the greatest mom and best friend. xxxx

March 18, 2014

Not a day passes that I don't miss you Mommy. I envy all the daughters that still have their moms. I guess the good Lord above needed you more.

December 19, 2013

One of the worst days of our lives!. Will always be one of the worst days of our lives, and we will never stop loving and missing you!. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

December 18, 2013

Mommy, i cannot believe today is 5 years. It feels like just the other day. We miss you so much. I need you so so much. I know you are looking down on us. I can feel it and the sign you give me. Llewellyn and Danny and me miss you so very much. I know we will meet again and that keeps me going. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

December 18, 2013

How time flys, always missed and always remembered. Until we all meet again may you rest in peace.

December 18, 2013

Mommy, I love you. R.I.P.

October 25, 2013

Mommy I miss you so much. I think of you all the time. Please be with me and Daniel. We need you so much in this time we are going through even if you are not with us physically. I think of you and Larry, Daddy, Oupa and granny. You all are always in my mind. I love all of you lots and lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

October 25, 2013

Thinking of all my family xxxxx

October 24, 2013

Theresa, you will never ever be forgotten!. We will never stop loving you.... till we meet again. It makes me so sad to see you holding your only little grandson.. not knowing you only had such a short time with him. xxx

October 21, 2013

Mommy, you more in my heart than ever before. I just miss you so so much. I thought it gets easier but it doesn't. One day ......................

June 18, 2013

Miss you, miss you , miss you, my heart breaks to look at your photos, Love you forever..... xxxxxxxx

June 17, 2013

Theresa you will never be forgotten and loving memories remain of you and always will. We will light a candle today in your rememberance.
Love always xxxx

March 2, 2013

I wish I can pick up the phone and phone you Mommy. Times like this we need you. Please be with Cindy. She needs you. Protect her and keep her safe from harm. Miss our talks so much it hurts Mommy. We will be together again.

December 19, 2012

Gone from this earth but never to be forgotten, our loving sister.

December 18, 2012

Mommy today 4 years you are gone yet it feels like just the other day. You are forever in our hearts and i know you are nerby and looking after your Daniel. Love you lots and lots Cindy, Llewellyn and Smurf(Daniel) you used to call him.

December 18, 2012

Thinking of you and all the family again at this time of the yearxxx

September 25, 2012

Mommy, are you hearing me when I talk to you. Sometimes you seem so far away. I wish I could get your advice like in the past. I miss our talks every day. Remember our secret code when I called you? Don't ever forget I love you so much. You know my heart belongs with you. xxx

June 17, 2012

Loving you always and forever in our hearts xxxxxxxxx

June 17, 2012

Thinking of all the family at this time of the year.....love to everyone....

June 17, 2012

Mommy, you were on my mind today. Wish we could have celebrated your birthday together again. You know how my heart feels mommy. Put a kiss on the cross from all your sisters today. Keep them close to your heart they love you so so much. Can't seem to wish you a happy day, its not happy for me. Miss you everyday mommy.xxxxxxxxxxxxx

January 26, 2012

Mommy, I wish I could just pick up the phone and talk to you. All I wish is for us to just talk. I miss you so much nowadays. I miss your advice, your laughter, your voice.xxxx

December 19, 2011

Darling Sister it has been 3 years... the scar is still there it will always be there.. the longing and missing is ever strong... the pain a little softer. We will all never ever forget you, you will always be a part of our lives. Love and miss you xxxxxx

July 5, 2011

MOMMY I MISS YOU TERRIBLY!

June 17, 2011

happy birthday sister!!. You were with us yesterday, you were laughing with us!. Thank you for the wonderful gift you have passed on to us!. Love and miss you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 9, 2011

Darling Sister
Still always in my thoughts, it feels like yesterday you left us. I know you waiting with mommy. See you guys later. Keep a nice warm spot in the sun for me.xxxxxxx

May 30, 2011

Mommy, everyday goes by i think of you. I wish you were here to see daniel growing up, but i console myself that you are watching over him all the time. Your one and only grand son and lorna is the only one that loves him. I know you are our angel.c

April 11, 2011

Darling Sister, Miss you so much. Will always love and miss you no matter how time goes one!!. see you one day. Love kathy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

April 11, 2011

Our darling and never to be forgotten sister, You would be so proud of your two girls Lorna and Cindy. We love and miss you always xxxxxxxxxx

April 10, 2011

My biggest wish came true.THANK YOU Mommy for visiting.THANK YOU for your blessing on Steve & I.It truly means the world to me.Only you know my heart Mommy.I know you with me now.My heart always needs you.I miss you so much. xxx

February 4, 2011

Mommy,it feels so hard nowadays. The pain seems more now than ever.I wish we were together again.I cant wait to see you again.My mommy,my best friend.

November 28, 2010

Mommy,I think of you everyday of my life. Its so painful.I need you so much right now.Nothing will be the same anymore.Miss you so so much.Please watch over me this December.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

November 2, 2010

Hi Cooks! loving and missing you every single breathing moment, has and never will be the same, stay by my side is all I ask, all my love Frikkadel xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

June 17, 2010

Hey dear sister, you not here with us to share your birthday, BUT, where you are the sun shines brighter, the birds sing better, butterflies are bigger!!. Love u, think a lot about you, see you later!

June 14, 2010

Tomorrow is Larry's birthday Mommy. Please give him a huge kiss & hug for me. My heart is always so heavy and aches so much for you and Larry.xxxx

May 16, 2010

You been with me with weekend. Crying so much in my heart, but was strong kept the tears back!. The pain is still so much, wish it would pass. Miss you. Love you.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxkathy.

May 11, 2010

JUST MISSING YOU!!!!!. AGAIN AND AGAIN. XXXXXXXX Kathy

April 30, 2010

Mommy,everyday my wish is to talk to you.I miss your Advise & Comfort you always gave me.I feel you around me all the time.I miss you so much.My heart will never be the same

March 16, 2010

Mommy, at the moment I dont have the words to express how my heart feels.It scares me to carry on without you.Am I making the right decisions now?You were always there to advise me mommy.I miss you so

March 8, 2010

Hello Theresa,
It cannot be over, it cannot be the end, it MUST be till I see you later dear sis. I know I am going to see you again. Always on my mind, be good till we meet again.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

February 26, 2010

Hi Cookie!Missing our laughs so much,missing you so much!nothing will ever be the same you have taken part of my heart, be at peace cookie till we meet again,may you always be by myside,all my luv Pat

February 25, 2010

Mommy,How i miss you so much i still cannot accept your are gone.I need you so much right now.Thank you for the sign you showed me you are with me.Luv you forever and ever CindyXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

February 5, 2010

I have missed you so much mommy.I need you so much right now.You know how my heart feels.You are always on my mind on a daily basis.My world has changed without you here.How I love you so much.

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December 18, 2023

Today, I leave a Flower for you Mommy, as I celebrate your life in Silence. You are with Daddy. Peace and Rest. The unconditional love you and Daddy gave Cindy & I, is instilled in our lives today.

Larry will never be forgotten. The gentle giant who supported you through the last leg of your life. Memories are what keep us going.

December 18, 2023

My darling mommy, you are in my heart every day. I carry you with me. Missing you, is the most painful feeling. The longing is always there. Not being able to share our troubles together, good times & bad times. I will never have the answers to all of my questions.

My heart will never be the same. The loss of you mommy, has been a long long journey. You told me once, that "the deeper the love, the deeper the hurt". You have proved that to me! You left in such a hurry and never said goodbye. I love you dear Mommy forever and ever. xxxx

November 27, 2023

I am missing you so much mommy. I so wish you were still here.

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At the end of each day, it's only memories we have.

Mommy's favourite chair. I always have the peaceful thoughts of her falling asleep on a Sunday afternoon.

So many beautiful memories. Wish i could have them back. xx

We were all together as a family. Our lives are just a vapour in the wind. We had a lot to be thankful for. Appreciate the little time we have together as it can be all taken away in an instant.

If i was granted just one wish, i would go to that beautiful place and spend just 1 hour with Mommy, Larry & my Father and tell them i had loved them.

I so wish i could grab a piece of the old days just to feel the emotions again that i had at the time. We all just hold on to the memories and hope the feeling of longing subsides.

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Missing You

May 13, 2018

Who ever thought that You, Daddy & Larry would have left us so quickly without saying Goodbye.

Life is so short Mommy, it is horrible to think that just a small mistake costed you your life Mommy. I have realized that there is so much sadness & sorrow in this world, but when you look closely Life does go on and it can be beautiful!

Our lights can be dimmed whenever the good Lord calls and i cannot wait to see you again.

Our Souls and Hearts are always together Mommy. I know you are right next to me.

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LOVE LETTERS TO MY SWEETHEART

November 24, 2017

I found this note amongst mommys things. It was written possibly before they married in 1969. I think it is just so beautiful how my father loved her. Wish they were still here. There is so much I want to ask them.

A Real Love you have for your spouse lasts forever. Even when they leave this world. It never dies, I saw this in mommy when he left us. The love and memories she had for my father was buried in her heart till she joined him.

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