Tommy & I spent a Lot of time together when he was very young. He was an independent little boy, no fear, so cute, he was a good boy. I would take him to work with me occasionally, we would drive around & stop & visit family members, we always had a good time. At only 5 or 6 yrs old he could fry himself an egg for breakfast (I didn't like that but secretly watched him one morning & he did perfectly) he would ride his bike to the school (I didn't like that either) I worry about things. He was so carefree, so sweet. After his mother passed, he went to live with his father's parents & I didn't get to see him too much. It was hard going from everyday seeing him to not seeing much. But I did see him once in a while & I thought about him everyday. I love you Tommy. I am so sorry for the sadness in your life, the bad times you may have had, the hard times. Some say our life is what we make it but sometimes the circumstances, we cannot control, make our lives much more difficult  & sometimes the choices we make turn out not to be very good choices & well no one but you knows really what you went thru or were going thru, the reasons behind the choices you made, the things you did. You helped make 5 beautiful children, your mom would've loved every one of them as did you, as do I. I truly am sorry for how your life ended & that it did end. I wish I could give you a hug & help you thru life's difficulties or at least say goodbye & tell you I love you. ♡ Aunt Jeanette (auntie net)