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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, THOMAS VALERI, 79 years old, born on July 8, 1938, and passed away on May 13, 2018. We will remember him forever.
July 9, 2019
July 9, 2019
Happy Birthday Tom just is not the same here without you, lots of things have happened since you left this earth. I rather imagine you can now see that Brock is up there with you reach out and give him a hug from us all down here. I wish you were here but I realize it was your time to go that you didn't go because you wanted to but because it was your time. I know you are breathing well again, there is no cancer, your laughing with your friends up there and you Tony and Rob are all dancing in the clouds... forever you wife love and miss the hell outta you .............
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
Thank you for loving me, for marrying me and for all the lessons that you taught me,,, the only thing you did not show me was how to move on with this emptiness ... I never doubted you, yes I know you were a screw up at times but maybe that made you more human... all I know is you are gone from my sight and I do not see the reason for anything... The cold winter winds were really awful this year I stayed cold there was no warmth in this place anymore, everything was different.......... but the days roll on....
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
May the candle light the darkness....
as you lighted up my life,,,,,,,,,
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
Dear Tom,
As you know I was not your first but I was your last. Through the years we grew to know one another and what we lived and felt for each other, others may not have understood but we did. Forgiveness had to be there or we could not have grown and continued on. I think we knew each other better than anyone else knew us.. I miss the things we use to talk about, even the things about each other that drove us crazy. I remember the Christmas Eve the very first one where you said "No one should be crying on Christmas Eve." you sent a friend to pick me up as the roads were to bad for me to drive. I remember telling you I had never seen the ocean, or flew in a plane and you showed me the ocean and you took me flying. You were my first in lots of things, and I was your last kiss,was there with you when you spoke your last words on this earth. I have had a rough time of things but through the years of you teaching me what you thought I needed to learn , I know deep inside that I will survive because there was a you ..... and that you were for me.... I miss your laugh the belly one, I miss your charm and I miss the bickering we did. Others may have thought we were nuts but we loved it and we understood it. Tomorrow that day was not going to be for you , but it was for me and for me to move on without you just seems so empty and useless. I try and imagine your up there looking over me and keeping me safe but if I could have my way, you would be here with me , ,,,,  it's not right that you are not here with me but then its also me being selfish wanting you here when I know you are there breathing freely and being with your two sons that went before you. Please know you were loved, are still loved and always will be loved..... memories created for me by you will never die...........

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July 9, 2019
July 9, 2019
Happy Birthday Tom just is not the same here without you, lots of things have happened since you left this earth. I rather imagine you can now see that Brock is up there with you reach out and give him a hug from us all down here. I wish you were here but I realize it was your time to go that you didn't go because you wanted to but because it was your time. I know you are breathing well again, there is no cancer, your laughing with your friends up there and you Tony and Rob are all dancing in the clouds... forever you wife love and miss the hell outta you .............
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
Thank you for loving me, for marrying me and for all the lessons that you taught me,,, the only thing you did not show me was how to move on with this emptiness ... I never doubted you, yes I know you were a screw up at times but maybe that made you more human... all I know is you are gone from my sight and I do not see the reason for anything... The cold winter winds were really awful this year I stayed cold there was no warmth in this place anymore, everything was different.......... but the days roll on....
March 21, 2019
March 21, 2019
May the candle light the darkness....
as you lighted up my life,,,,,,,,,
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