Love and memories last forever...
  • 72 years old
  • Born on February 23, 1946 .
  • Passed away on May 2, 2018 .

Thomas F. Bilotta known to family and friends as “Tommy” suddenly passed away on May 2, 2018 at the age of 72 years old. 

 Formerly of Southwest Philadelphia, Tommy was a United States Air Force veteran and a self-taught, amazingly talented carpenter who loved to spend time with his family and his grand-dog Jax.  Tommy will be forever remembered for his wonderful sense of humor, his love of cars, and watching the Phillies.   

Tommy was the beloved husband of Carol Bilotta (nee. Lioy) for 42 years.  He was the loving and devoted father to Marisa Bilotta. He is survived by close immediate family who loved him and will miss him dearly.   


Visitation Wednesday, May 9 from 10-11am at The Church of the Incarnation, 240 Main St., Mantua, NJ 08051, where Mass will be celebrated at 11am. Interment private.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Penn FTD Center.  Checks should be made out to the "Trustees of the University of Pennsylvania". The "Penn FTD Center" should be clearly indicated in the memo line.

Donation checks can be mailed to:
Attention: Katie Pizziketti
Penn FTD Center
3 West Gates
University of Pennsylvania Medical Center
3400 Spruce Street
Philadelphia, PA 19104

Posted by Ellen Britton on 17th May 2018
Carol & Marisa, sorry for your loss will keep you & your family in our thoughts and prayers. Fran & Ellen Britton
Posted by Susanne DiGaetano on 7th May 2018
Carol and Marisa, I’m so saddened to hear of Tommy’s passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I’ll always remember his smiling face. So many memories!!! Rest In Peace....you will be missed... Sue DiGaetano
Posted by Robert Dipascale on 7th May 2018
Tom I have known you for over 40 years and worked with you for more than 30 years. I cannot express how much sadness I feel from not only a brother-in-law but also a coworker. We used to talk, laugh, play games and just hang around either at my house or yours. And of course all the house projects we built and pondered over how to fix a problem. I of all people will miss you greatly. Rest In Peace and look over us. Bobby
Posted by Steven Spinelli on 7th May 2018
Tom, for the time that I have known you we shared our love for ravioli’s. It’s going to be tough without you being there to test them to know when they are ready to eat. We are going to do our best to live up to your “taste testing standards.” I’m sure you will be smiling down during Sunday dinner. Rest in peace.
Posted by Debbie DiPascale on 7th May 2018
I am so sad with the sudden loss of my brother in law Tom! I will always remember all the good times we had together!! My thoughts and prayers are with Carol and Marisa!
Posted by Britney D. on 7th May 2018
Words cannot describe this difficult moment. We still wake up every morning hoping this is a dream, and it hurts knowing you are gone forever. I will cherish every single moment that I spent with you Uncle Tom. Rest in peace. I will miss you.
Posted by Elizabeth Derins on 7th May 2018
I’m so sorry to hear of Tommy’s passing. You guys watched me grow up and always made me feel like a part of your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I’ll never forget him.
Posted by Diane Digaetano on 7th May 2018
Carol and Maisa - We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Tommy. You are in our thoughts and prayers. He was a great person and will be missed. Diane and Vincent Digaetano
Posted by Sharon Sullender on 7th May 2018
My Uncle Tommy - I didn't get to see you often enough over the years but I will always be grateful for the time we had together especially recently with the family. I will always remember your handsome face, your smile and your great laugh! Rest in peace dear uncle.
Posted by Lorraine King Foley on 6th May 2018
Yes, you were the very best brother a sister could have. You will be missed by me for so many reasons: your sense of humor, your caring ways, your tight hugs, your ‘I love you’ texts every single day and that handsome face. Roe and I will always be there for your Carol and Marisa. You left us way too soon and will be missed forever. I love you. Rest In Peace.
Posted by Joe Zongaro on 6th May 2018
I hung out with Tommy a lot when he lived on Greenway. We lost touch over the years, but he was always a straight-up guy who had your back. RIP Tommy.
Posted by Marie Walls Everly on 5th May 2018
So very sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Always will have fond memories of our grade school classmate & neighbor on Greenway. Prayers for your family during this difficult time.
Posted by Roseann Benner on 5th May 2018
You were the best brother a sister could ever have. I will miss you and your wonderful smile. Thank you for all you did for me and always being there for me when i needed you. I promise to look after Carol and Marisa. I love you Tommy...rest in peace my dear brother.

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