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Tom was born in New York, but later moved to San Diego, where he built a successful career (TFL Inc.) and raised a family. He retired to Oregon to spend his last year with his children. 

Tom kicked cancer's butt for 21 years and was a fighter and survivor; Rocky Lennon. He was the most optimistic and generous man. He smiled and laughed effortlessly. He never met a stranger, and everyone whose path he crossed instantly fell in love. He was incredibly intelligent. He read the paper cover to cover every morning and could easily work out math problems in his head, leaving those around him shamefully counting on their fingers. He took his generosity and brilliant mind and applied them to his work as a Court Appointed Receiver. He was especially proud of the pro bono work he did to help save San Diego's Symphony and the fact that this accomplishment earned him a place in Wikipedia. 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Diego_Symphony 

He was involved with numerous organizations through the years, sitting on many boards, and donating his time and money to causes that were dear to his heart. He never turned away a friend in need. 

Tom enjoyed golfing, fishing, and hustling pool. He delighted in beating everyone at Scrabble. He possessed an amazing sense of humor and occasionally attempted to cheat at games. He got the biggest kick out of playing the wrongly accused when he was caught. He was a huge fan of the San Diego Chargers and Padres. He craved adventure and loved to travel. He saw beauty in the desert landscape and found peace whenever the ocean was near. 

Most of all, Tom loved his daughters, granddaughter and son-in-law. 

He only loved his Heavenly Father above his family. He trusted God to care for him and expressed no concern over what his future held. He knew God was in control of his life. 

"I will lift up my eyes to the mountains. From where does my help come? My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1-2

A non-profit foundation has been established in Tom's name. The Tom Lennon Foundation 501(c)(3) at
Singblue.org.
February 18
February 18
Happy Birthday Tom!
We miss you more and more every day, and your absence has left a huge void in our lives that I'm not sure will ever be filled; until we meet again. We were so blessed to have you in our life, even if it wasn't for nearly as long as we wanted. Your guidance and encouragement will remain with me for the rest of my life.
Love, Danny
February 18
February 18
Happy Birthday, Dad. Weird to think 10 birthdays have passed. I miss you so much. I miss celebrating with you. I miss your big smile and your joy. I know you had an amazing party in Heaven today. We celebrated you down here the best we could, even though it's never the same without you. Of course you'd accept nothing less than being celebrated on Heaven and earth. Only you have parties in two realms! I love you forever and always, in all ways. Give Pop my love and wish him a Happy Birthday from us. We had some good Italian food in honor of him on the 14th. I miss my guys. But Danny is taking good care of me, like he promised. Love you to Heaven and back. Until we're together again, always your Apple.
December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Merry Christmas, Dad. I miss you so much today, my heart aches. I feel like all the magic is gone now that you aren’t here for all the special days and even the ordinary moments. You made every celebration so amazing! Sometimes our family is so lost and broken without you. But we’re going to keep seeking joy and laughing at life. I know that anything else would be a disservice to your memory. You left us with so much faith in God’s plan and hope for the future. We hold tight to that. I love you all the way up to Heaven and back.

Please give Pop my love and tell him I miss my Pooh Bear so much.

Always your Apple.
November 28, 2023
November 28, 2023
Nine years today, Daddy-O. Blows my mind that it’s been so long since I’ve hugged you. Lu, Danny and I spent the day at your thoughtful spot, singing for you. It would've made you so happy; the music, the sunshine and gentle breeze, and most of all, the love of your family. Now we’re headed to have dessert for dinner which I know you would approve of! Love you still and always. I promise every generation will speak your name and remember your generous heart, fighting spirit, huge smile and faith-filled soul. Love you, My Big Apple. Always and forever, until my final breath and our eternal hug!
February 18, 2023
February 18, 2023
Happy Birthday, Dad. Isn't it weird that some days, on some years, are just harder? You would be 78 today. That blows my mind! First, how cute you would be at almost 80 and then the fact that I've already missed nine birthdays with you. It feels too fresh to be that long. My goals then were to have one last Christmas and celebrate your 70th birthday. We didn't get either. I know God’s timing is always better than our own and that you are so complete and happy now. In your honor (and Pop’s) we handed out roses around town for Valentine’s Day and backpacks to the homeless. We do our best to make others smile. That is your legacy, perhaps even more than generosity, your JOY! Joy just poured out of you and spilled onto everyone around you. I have your joy, Dad. But your absence also brings sorrow and sometimes such opposites are difficult to balance. I do my best. I love you and miss you with every fiber of my being. Have an amazing birthday in Heaven! We celebrate the blessing of you on earth. Today and always. My Big Apple.
February 18, 2023
February 18, 2023
Happy Birthday Tom! We still miss you every day, and I hope you know how much of an impact you made in my life. Your legacy will carry on through us and you will be greatly missed by us all until we see you again. 

Love,
Danny
February 22, 2022
February 22, 2022
Well, we survived another birthday week. I bought you a hummingbird wind chime that you would love. We celebrated Pop, you and Miss Lu, as always. It’s really hard without you and Pop-the week, the month...every day. I know you had an amazing celebration. In all truth, I’m jealous. I was there before you, but you got to stay. You left here in a good time, when the world still had some peace. This world is so broken now. People are more lost and hurting than ever before. It’s hard to keep going. I know you wouldn’t want to come back here, but I wish we could be together again. I guess I’ll just have to wait until God is ready for me. At least I can find peace in the knowledge that we all will be together again one day soon. Happy Birthday, Dad. I love you. 
November 28, 2021
November 28, 2021
Picturing you in Heaven today. The angels are holding up signs to commemorate your anniversary. There are decorations and gifts. The Angel choir is singing all your favorites. So many loved ones are there with you now, which makes you happy because you love a huge party. Of course there is food everywhere, mostly dessert. After lunch you’ll play your best round of golf ever with Pop and Uncle Vin and you’ll beat The Angel Gabriel in a game of pool. Then, you’ll sit with Jesus and watch the waves crash on the shore of the most beautiful ocean, as whales sing in the distance. Your perfect day. Of course, there is something missing, me. I wish I was there to celebrate with you. I’ll do my best down here but it’s not the same. I cannot even fathom the fact that I haven’t seen your smile, felt you hugs or heard your laugh in seven years. But then, math was never my strong suit. At least it’s going somewhat fast and we are that much closer to being reunited. When we are, I’m just going to warn you now, I’m never letting go. Love you, my Big Apple. More each passing day.
November 28, 2021
November 28, 2021
Tom, I can't believe it's been seven years since God called you home... Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and the love you shared with our family, you were an amazing father, friend and mentor to me and for that I will be eternal grateful.

I hope you know that your legacy of kindness and generosity will go on forever and I will always miss having you in our lives.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Thinking of you today Tom, you were such an inspiration in my life and became an amazing father to me. I will be forever grateful of the time we had together. Happy Father's Day!
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Happy Father’s Day, Dad. This year finds us especially sad and missing you. It’s weird how- some years-special days just go by quickly, while others are extra hard. What I miss most are your hugs and smiles, sound advice and the way you made every adventure fearless and exciting, and filled with child-like joy. Life just isn’t as beautiful without you. It’s harder to find magic in our days. We won’t stop trying though. I know it would dishonor you if we quit. But you left such a monumental emptiness! Why did you have to be so amazing and such a force of life? You could’ve been less wonderful. I love you always. Give Pop a hug from me, please. Tell him he is just as missed and was the most amazing grandpa/ second dad. I was so blessed. Love you to Heaven and back.
April 20, 2021
April 20, 2021
Today is the day I became your daughter. I wish we could spend it together. I’m thankful that God put the two of us together. He knew we needed one another and were the perfect fit for father and daughter. I miss you every day and so long for one of your gentle hugs. One day, soon enough, we will be celebrating together and will NEVER have to say goodbye again. I love you, Big Apple! Thank you for being my dad and for choosing me. I’d choose you every time!
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
Pa Tom...you are, and always will be, my best friend. Knowing you is the greatest blessing of my life. When God chose you to be a part of our family, He picked the closest thing to an angel He could find. You are the kindest, warmest, gentlest, and most caring person I have ever met. I miss you every single day. The spark of magic that you brought to every day sometimes feels like it left with you...but I know it lives on forever through stories, memories, and the multitude of people you touched during your time here. Heaven is now graced with that light. I can’t wait for the day that I get to watch you shine even brighter in perfect. I can’t wait to spend every day with you, holding you close and never letting go. This world Is better off for your presence in it, and I am so thankful that I had the honor of knowing you.

Happy birthday. I love you infinity.
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
Happy Birthday Tom!

I don't think a single day goes by that we don't think about you. We are missing a huge piece of our family with you gone, yet at the same time you were such an amazing influence in all our lives, in some ways it’s like you never left. We see you in the way we live our lives, how we treat others, on special days we think of what contribution you would have added, and you still have a room in our home, you will never be forgotten and we will always honor your legacy. You changed the trajectory of my life in so many wonderful ways and I will be forever grateful for your love and encouragement. I know you were called home because you were a good an faithful servant and we can’t wait to see you again. 
February 18, 2021
February 18, 2021
Happy Birthday, Dad! You always loved to celebrate big, and while we cannot beat the party in Heaven, we are celebrating you with love, memory, honor and a Marrionberry Pie! We have missed you a bit extra this month. It’s interesting how grief evolves. It lessens only in frequency, not in strength. In fact, it gains momentum as we move further away from our last moments together on earth and one moment closer to being reunited in Heaven. It’s an odd longing for what was and what is to come-living both in the past and future. I love you more with each passing day, respect you, try and honor you and make you proud. Your legacy will stand the test of time as each new generation learns to be kind and generous. You began a chain reaction, how many lives you have changed we will never know. Just know that you changed mine. I am a better person because I am your daughter. I love you to Heaven and back, my partner in crime. Your Apple.

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February 18
February 18
Happy Birthday Tom!
We miss you more and more every day, and your absence has left a huge void in our lives that I'm not sure will ever be filled; until we meet again. We were so blessed to have you in our life, even if it wasn't for nearly as long as we wanted. Your guidance and encouragement will remain with me for the rest of my life.
Love, Danny
February 18
February 18
Happy Birthday, Dad. Weird to think 10 birthdays have passed. I miss you so much. I miss celebrating with you. I miss your big smile and your joy. I know you had an amazing party in Heaven today. We celebrated you down here the best we could, even though it's never the same without you. Of course you'd accept nothing less than being celebrated on Heaven and earth. Only you have parties in two realms! I love you forever and always, in all ways. Give Pop my love and wish him a Happy Birthday from us. We had some good Italian food in honor of him on the 14th. I miss my guys. But Danny is taking good care of me, like he promised. Love you to Heaven and back. Until we're together again, always your Apple.
December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Merry Christmas, Dad. I miss you so much today, my heart aches. I feel like all the magic is gone now that you aren’t here for all the special days and even the ordinary moments. You made every celebration so amazing! Sometimes our family is so lost and broken without you. But we’re going to keep seeking joy and laughing at life. I know that anything else would be a disservice to your memory. You left us with so much faith in God’s plan and hope for the future. We hold tight to that. I love you all the way up to Heaven and back.

Please give Pop my love and tell him I miss my Pooh Bear so much.

Always your Apple.
His Life

Ruth's Creed (My Adoption Vow)

January 30
Ruth 1:16-17 NIV “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. 17 Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.”

Poem

Never someone else's child,
Born to be your girl.
Never a visitor in your home,
But a shelter built around me,
To protect me from the world.

A voice that calmed fears.
My safe escape.
Love that dried tears.
A joyful heart.
Faith assured.
Wisdom imparted.

Little girl once half complete,
Made whole by God's all-knowing grace.
Now, trying to imagine a long life,
Without your smiling face.

There is hope in God, my father,
Where despair overwhelms flesh.

There is strength because I am yours,
Though my resolve has been put to the test.

There are days when I am sure I'll survive to make you proud.
And days my tomorrow is clouded by doubt.
And I'm angry, desperate, and consumed by pain,
....then the sun comes out, and the hurt fades.
You're still gone, but so is the rain.

Little girl, you took to your soul with all your being.
Must be something worthy, at times I have trouble seeing.

It's bittersweet to have someone both complete you and leave you broken.
To long for an existence of substance,
At the same time wishing for God to close the final curtain.

Unsure of what my story holds,
Just knowing we're all on earth as a loan,
Loving strong, biding our time, and leaving our mark, until God brings us home.

I would never give up the time we had,
Even if what lies ahead gets harder.
For this little girl was blessed more than I ever deserved,
.....The first time you called me daughter.

By: Jessica Lennon
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