Well my thomas its been a long time sinse i've been on your site,And i'm truly sorry for not being on and writing to you, But i talk and think about you every singal day sinse you had to go from us and i know that you miss all of us and we really miss you old man i'm sure you no this cos you can see and here everything yes.Well what did you think when you saw Rodney i bet your eyes lit up and you had a big smile on that face of yours didn't you. Well your by all means not alone up there are you! I surly do miss you so much and i'll never ever stop loving you and i know that you already no this cos i feel your presents around me all the time and i smell you baby i miss everything that we ever shared and i get so darn lone'ly for you that it makes me cry everytime but it also makes me feel good and better to let it out, Tom there's been so much thats happen sense you been away but you already no this, Well my love what do you think of our granddaughterAlli is'nt she so beauitful how it feels so different with out grandpa not being here on earth as i no your here with us in spirt, Well dad have you met up with cheri she has pass'ed on also now her and Joe can finally be together again, Just like you and Rodney i hope that yous both are having a gas together again.Well as you can see whats going on with me i hope that your proud of me and that i never was out to hurt or yous  you and an kinda of way you'll alway no that i aways loved you,Dad i ask of you to please watch over all of us here for one day we'll all be together again. Well my Thomas i'm going to stop for now but i'll come back on again soon and write you a letter or something for you okay i want you to no how much i love you and how very much i miss you so deeply,Well until i come back on to write you again will you please tell everyone that i love them all and i truly miss everyone, And will you tell my parents that i love them so much and i miss them aslo thanks so much,Well as you also no that all the kids are doing good and they all miss you so much i wish that they would taks time out and write to you here on this site for you there not that busyare they dad, Well im close'ing for now but i'll be back soon okay take care and i love you and miss you so very much Tom :) Yours truly Tillie:)

This was not a good weekend for our family. We had gotten more bad new's on Tom's health, By the time we had left Westfiled Hospital The news from the m.r.i. the Dr. came in and told us the sad new's, There was already 3 more tumors and more to come so by the 2 day the Dr. came in and talk'ed with Tom and Myself h
He had given us more sad news, There was a total of 8 Cancer Tumors to Tom's brain that was the most unhappy news ever, Tom and I look'ed at each other and I just strated to cry and cry I held him in my arms and cryed more, I looked up at him and he had no change in his facial expressions, Isaid to him oh baby what to do now? Im so so sorry Im going to lose you. What am i to do with out you? I'll miss you so very much. This just isnt far what so ever Why god would do this on us, Tom never show'ed any kind of expressions what so ever, Well this picture was taken by our "Daughter Sadie"  And this would be our last sad news ever, Ishare this with all of you that will read on this site.    Written byTillie  "Ruth Bradehoft"

This was a great day seeing these's two brothers together!!! I really enjoy'ed seeing them together and this picture, I wish that they could be together again like brothers are suposed to be well one day i pray for them to come together again. Just want to say and tell you that your miss'ed so very much: Dad-Father-Brother-Friend-Uncle-And my Thomas how we all and most of all I miss you so very much Thomas: "MayYou Rest In Peace"...                 Sent and Share'ed By: Tillie "Ruth"

 

Well Dad: I spin so many hours thinking of you and some times I wish that I was there with you! But you no Tom that would be selfish of me to think. Then the kids wound'nt have any parents, I wounder what it would be like if you were still with useTom.I sit and fine meself woundering of you and the things yous did that made us laugh at each other and then we would always give each other a kiss on the lips,How I miss you soso much Dad thinking of all those's little things that you would due, When I sit outside I can just picture seeing you walking around the grounds and holding on to that can of beer in your hands and sunflower seeds comeing from your month.It's just so different with you not here Dad and it's so darn quite with your voice not around any more Tom. I also wanted to tell you that when your son Dustin sleeps he snores and I think of you how I dont miss it! But I aslo miss hearing your snore Tom! I also want you to no that I Love when the grand kids come and sleep over they sleep with me and I love it because your side isnt empty any more until they have to leave.And then I'm sleeping alone again how I miss you beside me sleeping Dad,But theres one thing I'm glad for is that your not here suffering or that your not in any pain any more my Love it hurt so much to see  you lay there passing away from me Tom.I some times did'nt think that I would make it with out you here Tom, But I had to for myself and our kids and grandbabies here.But I'll always have our memories that we made and shared together Dad! Well until nexts time How much I love you and miss you my dear Tom.      Love Tillie      7-21-2013