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 Thomas Milton Frye passed away peacefully at his home in Phoenix, Arizona

on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 24, 2016.


Thomas was born September 6, 1952 in Brooklyn, New York to the late Mr. Thomas C. and Mrs. Annie Frye. Thomas is preceded in death by his sons loving mother Karen Mulzac-Frye and leaves behind his immediate family members: mother, Annie Frye; sons, Channing and Logan; Daughter in-law Lauren; Brother, Leonard; Sister-in-law Pat Frye, nephews Aaron and Marcus; grandchildren Hendrix, Margaux and Roxie, God-children Hayley and Hayden, many relatives, dear friends and associates.

Thomas (Tom), a Christian man, and CEO of “I” Athlete, had a natural ability to bring out the best in others. Tom’s company was an advocate for the Encouragement of Excellence in academics and athletics. Tom was near completion of his book ‘I Athlete, has worked as a consultant to Fortune 500 companies, small businesses, non-profit organizations and start up enterprises. Tom’s software development and entrepreneur background has allowed him to serve as the Senior Vice-President for Business Development & Planning in Charter School Financing, Operations Manager for Systems Integration at Digital Equipment Corporation, Assistant Vice-President International Foundations for Education & Self Help and as a Instructor at the University of Phoenix.

A life long learner, Tom earned a Bachelors Degree in Elementary Education from Livingston College, M.A. and M.Ed. in International Educational Development and has completed coursework towards a Doctorate of Education, all at Columbia University. 

Tom's hobbies included golf, fly-fishing and spending quality time with his family and friends. He was most committed to helping others develop their True Self. Tom never forgot where he came from and often said, ‘the climb is tough, but the view from the top is worth it.’ 
A sign of a man that always wanted others to develop their True Self.

Home-Going Celebration
10:00 AM
Saturday, December 10, 2016
Christ Church of the Ascension
4015 E. Lincoln Drive
Paradise Valley, AZ 85253

 As an expression of sympathy and in lieu of flowers, the family request memorial contributions be sent in honor of Thomas Milton Frye to
Christ Church of the Ascension (address above). 

Cards can be sent to
Channing Frye
Cleveland Clinic Courts
6101 Brecksville Road
Independence, OH 44131

Len & Pat Frye 14221 Neiman Road. Overland Park, KS 66221

 

November 24, 2023
November 24, 2023
Still adjusting to you not being here. There’s not a week that goes by without my thinking about you. All the good times and brotherly fights. I am playing golf because of you. Trying to get better. Miss you. Love You 
November 24, 2023
November 24, 2023
Tom,
May you continue to rest, our family miss you & have great memories of the things you taught us.

RIP
Tom
September 6, 2023
September 6, 2023
Ascended, but not forgotten, on what would have been your 71st BD today. My dear friend, brother, and father of my neffs.
September 6, 2023
September 6, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday Tom,

We miss you and your funny expression when someone says something that shocks you!  Rest in Peace!

Sister-in-law
Pat
September 6, 2022
September 6, 2022
Happy Birthday Tommy! You will never be forgotten! When I think of you, I just see your smiling face! You are in your heavenly home, at peace and at rest. God is so good.
September 6, 2022
September 6, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven Tom, today would have been your 70th birthday here on earth. Thanks for all the positive and real talks we had. I always shocked you with my thoughts; I thought that was so funny seeing your expression! RIH!
September 6, 2021
September 6, 2021
Missing you Tom on your birthday in heaven. Remembering all the good times we shared together and all the gourmet foods you introduced me to over the years!
September 6, 2021
September 6, 2021
Just taking this time on the birth of one of BK's original Fab Four a Blessed Heavenly Birthday! Missed always but will never be forgotten! Rest easy Tom!
September 6, 2021
September 6, 2021
Thanks for the great times we had together. I miss playing golf with you. I will be playing today and know you will be with me in spirit. I know you will smile when you see the picture I posted today of your sons. Love you. Leonard
September 6, 2021
September 6, 2021
You are truly missed. Now you have mommy and Deborah with you! The loss will always be felt but I’m happy that all of you are together. Thank you for the wonderful memories and letting me be your little flower girl. Forever Loved and Missed.
September 6, 2020
September 6, 2020
Miss you Tom. Thank you for looking out for me. Showing me how to play golf and develop my jump shot back in the days on PS 262’s playground. Love Leonard
November 25, 2019
November 25, 2019
Nice to see Tommy's legacy move forward. Timely that Channing has new show on NBATV and doing very well. RIH my Brother!
September 6, 2019
September 6, 2019
When I see your smile, I think of my mother. I imagine all of the fun you must have had growing up, and all the trouble you guys got into. This is how I have chosen to handle my mourning now. Through memories that are so vividly in my mind, that I know I will have them forever. Happy Birthday, I know there’s a party going on in heaven tonight. Love you, miss you, see you again one day.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
Nothing like haveing a big brother. He loved his family very much. He had two sons just like our dad. I have two sons just like my brother. You are missed. Love Leonard
September 7, 2017
September 7, 2017
Forever will remember that smile and sense of humor - RIP My Brother !
September 6, 2017
September 6, 2017
Happy Birthday! I never imagined so soon after your untimely passing I would be saying "kiss my mom for me". She was heartbroken when you passed and spoke often of your childhood. You are now with the ones I hold dear to my heart. We will never really heal from the departure of those we have lossed but we take comfort in knowing you are all together. Forever missed, forever loved, happy birthday.
January 8, 2017
January 8, 2017
Sorry about the family losing Mr. Frye. I hope each of you will continue long after his passing love and comfort each other. I pray this scripture will help when you are low. "God is for us a refuge and strength, A help that is readily to be found during distresses." Psalms 46:1
January 6, 2017
January 6, 2017
Condolences to the Frye family....I met Tommy years when Len and I started a home base business in the early eighties. He always had a smile on his face and was greatly admired by "Lenny". The Frye family remain in our prayers and hearts. God Bless.
December 30, 2016
December 30, 2016
My deepest condolence to the Frye family. May you find solace during this time of distress of Tom's wonderful love, friendship and accomplishments, for God will give you, ‘thoughts of peace, and give you hope for the future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)
December 22, 2016
December 22, 2016
"Tommy, I'm sure that God will welcome you through the gates of haven because you were a good man". I've known Tommy for more than 30 years and have learned a lot from him. My condolences to the Frye family. May God continue to bless us with the memories of Tommy Frye.
December 19, 2016
December 19, 2016
Bed-Stuy produced some of the brightest and dynamic brothers who moved on to do great things. Tommy was ahead of his time and lived his vision to be self sufficient. Sad to see another member of the family leave us.

Martin Williams
December 12, 2016
December 12, 2016
It took me a while to actually share my memories. I considered Tommy as an uncle more than a cousin. I was the flower girl at his wedding and all my memories are visions of him smiling. I can't remember a time when he didn't have a smile on his face. I took my first plane ride alone to stay with his family in New Hampshire and have a wonderful photo album that Karen nailed to me after I returned home. I can tell he touched the lives of many people and we are all left with wonderful memories. He will be forever missed but I know that I will see him again and can only pray that we all lean on God for support and understanding during this time of loss. Tommy had a smile that could light up a room and he will never be forgotten. Rest In Peace Tommy, until we meet again.
December 10, 2016
December 10, 2016
I met Tom walking down a street in back of the University Of Northern Iowa with his brother Lenny. He was dropping his younger brother off at graduate school. As we got closer Lenny and I had the same hat on and clothes. Tom made sure Lenny had a friend before he left to head back east. I remember that day because Lenny and I have been like Brothers every since. Thank you Tom. Michael Poindexter
December 5, 2016
December 5, 2016
Growing up in Bedford-Stuyvesant Brooklyn NY, I often thought of Tom my brother Roy and Len and myself as the 'Four Musketeers'! I can remember the good times growing up spending time at their, Tom and Len's parents' home with whom my brother and I considered our second set of parents. It's hard to believe that that 'link' will forever be missing. I just want to wish my life-long buddy, friend Lenny, Tom's family, Channing, Logan, their families and my second Mom, who forever to me be Mrs (Anne) Frye and Mom, my sincerest and deepest condolences and for comfort at this time. In my soul and heart I do believe we'll all meet up again! God bless you family!
December 4, 2016
December 4, 2016
To the family of Tom Frye. I pray that God holds each and everyone of you.. I was sadden when I learned of such a loss. Len I know it is hard; I am Praying for each of you to find strength.. May you all hold on to the great memories... One day you will see him again,... Know that he is not suffering any longer... know that your family and friends are hear for you. May God Bring each and everyone of you peace. and comfort. As Tom is with Jesus now....... God Bless you.
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
I always called you my brother because you were just that close to me. I adopted your mom as my own and also Tom and Len as my brothers. I will miss you coming to dinners or just bringing Mama over. You would be smiling from ear to ear as my aggressive little dog crawled all over you. I will remember that huge smile always. You will forever truly be missed
December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
" Much love to my brother-in-law Tom Frye whom I have known over 40years! He was always teasing Lenny and I calling us "Lovebirds" . He had a giving heart and the gift of encouraging young people to set goals and go after their dreams! RIP my brother."
November 30, 2016
November 30, 2016
I am praying the Frye family just keep Jesus at the center of their lives and all things (blessings and understanding) will be added unto them.

Lenny, Pat, Marcus and Aaron ... Much Love ...the Johnson's
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
I loved my big brother very much and will miss him a bunch. We had great times together growing up which extended into our adult life. I always admired his competitive nature and how he always looked to get things done even when he ran up against roadblocks. I find joy in knowing he is with Jesus.
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
Cousin Tom
I was sadden to hear of your passing but Jesus knows best and Jesus does good by us when we need rest he said he will never leave us neither forsake us. Cousin Anne,Lenny, Channing and Logan be of good cheer and remember your love one in his good times.May God bless you today and forever more
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
To the Frye Family, I will always remember Tom from his days in Corporate at DEC! Always the gentle Giant in the room with the big smile, the laugh that made others laugh, and always talking about the latest developments in TEC world. He and Grady could go years without seeing each other, but when the'd see each other, it was a Joke or a Laugh about something from their days at DEC.. I remember the weekend of Hayden & Hayley's blessing in TX, we all had tears in our eyes, and the Man with the Giant Smile I believe had tears too! We Love you Tom Frye, your smile will be missed!
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
I met Tom while working at Digital Equipment Corporation.
He always was a big joker. The smile he carried was always upon his face. We talked about sports and his oldest son. I used to tell Tom to make sure he stayed on the right path. Tom would rise up and say what do you think I am doing?. He use to love the car he drove to work and I teased him about it jokingly. Tom was a joy to be around. I will never forget the way he turned his head.
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
Tom: It was an honor to know you. God bless you and those with memories of you. May God comfort those who love you and the many of us you touched. Thank you for the time you spent with us. A
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
Tom,
We have been friends for more than 30 years. Friends that have worked, traveled, prayed and enjoyed many special moments together. We both have come a long way from our corporate days at Digital. I will never forget the last Thanksgiving we had at Frye Island and I’m most thankful that the Lord chose you to be the twins Godfather. Even though you left earth too soon, you left behind a footprint of what it means to be a dedicated husband, father and friend. That I will always cherish. I will continue to impart your many words of wisdom and love to my family. You were a good friend that I will never forget. I’m sure if there is technology or teaching in Heaven, we will hear from you real soon…
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
It was Thanksgiving in Kansas - more than 18 years ago - where we first met Thomas and Karen and their two boys. We were invited to Thanksgiving dinner by our good friends, Pat and Lenny, and all three couples had two boys each. Keith and I enjoyed meeting Thomas and his wife and enjoyed their stories about Arizona and Brooklyn! We will never forget the fun we had talking to this lovely couple. We are so sorry that they both have passed on. We will keep Thomas, Karen and the Frye family in our prayers!  Linda and Keith Mehlinger
November 29, 2016
November 29, 2016
Always a smile and positive attitude. Shared his love of family and eagerness to promote education to athletes. He was a true friend.

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November 24, 2023
November 24, 2023
Still adjusting to you not being here. There’s not a week that goes by without my thinking about you. All the good times and brotherly fights. I am playing golf because of you. Trying to get better. Miss you. Love You 
November 24, 2023
November 24, 2023
Tom,
May you continue to rest, our family miss you & have great memories of the things you taught us.

RIP
Tom
September 6, 2023
September 6, 2023
Ascended, but not forgotten, on what would have been your 71st BD today. My dear friend, brother, and father of my neffs.
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Kindred Spirit

December 6, 2016

A few years ago after a round of golf at Pinehurst, my group went to "The 19th Hole" in the clubhouse. I noticed a brother sitting there whom I didn't recognize, yet I felt a "kindred spirit" and introduced myself. After eliminating his not being related to the Frye familiy in the area I tried to connect us in college. When I told him I attended A&T for a year and transferred to Howard he said his brother Len went to A&T. "Lenny Frye?!" I said, "Man, Lenny and I were tight at A&T." I also told Tom that my dad, Felton Capel grew up with his dad, T.C. and his uncle Henry Frye and that I had a photo of the quartet our fathers sang in together. Tom told me Len was there and they were part of a big group of golfers who were still on the course. Needless to say Tom and I connected and Len and I reconnected. I was contacted yesterday by a mutual friend of Len and and I from A&T who wanted to book me for a performance and decided to call Lenny out of the blue. Needless to say I was shocked and saddened to hear of the transition of Tom, this great guy, friend and kindred spirit. Lenny and I prayed together which immediately brought healing and comfort. May the Peace that only God can give be with the family and friends of Thomas Frye...I am with you all "kindredly" in spirit.

Dad in Kansas

December 3, 2016

Len, Dad and Tom. This was taken if I am not mistaken when the three of us drove from CA to Phoenix to Kansas City. We were at a restaurant in KC listening to some Jazz. Leonard

Len's Birthday in Vegas

December 3, 2016

Tom and I were in Vegas celebrating my 50th Birthday party.

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