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October 16, 2023
October 16, 2023
Too many years without you, but can still hear you laughing! Missing you in this world.
October 16, 2023
October 16, 2023
Again Tim... thinking of you and smiling, no, make that laughing.
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
A day late but remembering Tim and his laughter and his kindness. A huge spirit he was, and that spirit endures.
October 16, 2021
October 16, 2021
I appreciate this reminder to remember you Tim. I think I took at least one of those pictures on this site.
October 30, 2018
October 30, 2018
Raising a glass and thinking of you Tim, miss you as always
October 16, 2015
October 16, 2015
Thinking of you Tim, today. Feeling your smile, wit, passion, generosity. May your spirit sail on in peace and joy. Always, Yehuda
June 5, 2014
June 5, 2014
Hi Timo,
......and a happy belated birthday up there in nirvana land. Can't wait to party with you again. I'll bring the wine and you bring the other spirits!
January 16, 2013
January 16, 2013
a couple of nights ago I was going through some piles of paper and found the most beautiful note from Tim from a year ago - congratulating me on graduating from college. it was so kind and encouraging - reminding me again of what a huge source of energy he was - a good man. May his soul dance in bliss
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Today marks the 63rd day of your passing sweet Timo. 63 becomes a 9. A number Nine is the ultimate singular digit, once reached it has no choice but to become again, a number out of which all things come and go, open and close, please and no thank you, temporal and spiritual, awake and awoken, ah! but you will know of this ten fold more then I.
December 9, 2012
December 9, 2012
Dear Monikaji, today in the Lower Hamlet at about 1pm local time, Tim's name shall be read out by Thich Nhat Hanh and Tim shall be chanted for by the entire assembled monastic community of Village Des Pruniers in SW France, the great bell shall sound three times in his memory.

Joji xoxox
December 2, 2012
December 2, 2012
Tim, who can I spend the evening with solving the world until well into the next day! will miss you very much
charlie and family
November 27, 2012
November 27, 2012
Tim, tu hai lasciato una traccia incancellabile in tutti quelli che hanno avuto la fortuna di conoscerti. E anche se adesso non ci sei più, i tuoi pensieri continueranno ad ispirare tante persone.
November 25, 2012
November 25, 2012
What a beautiful, gentle, generous man, and a wonderful mate to the Amazing Monica!
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Few people leave a long lasting impression like TIm did on me with his thoughts creativity and expressionism.
When I first arrived at Blake he coined the name Yogi for me and I still use it today.
I will never hear a Jethro Tull song without conjuring up images of Tim and Bill Fraley!
Yogi
November 21, 2012
November 21, 2012
Father Teve! I have fond memories of high school plays...Chyclova Bazatlik will live on.
November 20, 2012
November 20, 2012
Dearest Tim, only together for one year. Impressive moustache and football player. Quiet guy and great character. In memory. Geerten
November 14, 2012
November 14, 2012
Lieber Tim, wir vermissen dich!
Abends zünden wir ein Licht an für dich in unserem Garten.
In loving memory of Tim O`Brien.
November 14, 2012
November 14, 2012
Pour Tim dont la profondeur d'ame, le coeur ouvert a l'univers, l'humour chaleureux ne quitteront jamais ma memoire. L'immense gentillesse a la mesure de ta stature de geant, le don d'ecoute et d'observation au dela des mots, l'enthousiasme d'etre et l'amour de la vie communicatifs qui rayonnaient dans ton beau sourire ne s'effacent pas. Ils sont le reflet de ton Esprit, a present en Paix.
November 13, 2012
November 13, 2012
Wir haben Tim als großartigen, kreativen und einfühlsamen Menschen kennen und schätzen gelernt, der genießen konnte und das Leben als Geschenk achtet. Für unsere Kinder war er ein besonderer Mensch. er lebt in unseren Gedanken weiter.
November 12, 2012
November 12, 2012
In Memory of my Panda Bear friend Tim.

Yuri Friman
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012

In honor of Timothy O'Brien

quentin and tinu
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Dear Timothy, You:
A gentle giant.
A lover of live.
A devote.
A most generous giver.
An inspiration to all who met you.
A great cook, lover and businessman. We love you.
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Written Oct 19, 2012 3:00am

In honor of Timothy O'Brien

Mikki Shull and Jerome China
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Written Oct 22, 2012 3:00am

In honor of Timothy O'Brien and his wonderful wife, Monika.

Allan Mayfield
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
Written Oct 23, 2012 3:00am

In memory of Tim O'Brien

Steve Burnham

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October 16, 2023
October 16, 2023
Too many years without you, but can still hear you laughing! Missing you in this world.
October 16, 2023
October 16, 2023
Again Tim... thinking of you and smiling, no, make that laughing.
October 17, 2021
October 17, 2021
A day late but remembering Tim and his laughter and his kindness. A huge spirit he was, and that spirit endures.
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March 4, 2013
December 18, 2012
Monika, we were so glad to be a part of the memorial service. Kevin said it was the first old soul memorial service he had every been to and really enjoyed the silence. He felt that Tim transmitted how the breath can get one in touch with the divine. He described it as an ecstatic moment.    I felt that I was able to go into a meditative state and went to the river between physical and non-physical reality that Mukund was singing about. I also saw a new side of Tim since I hadn't seen him in his work settings before. I saw how he brought his spiritual values into a work culture where that was absent and he touched so many people with his generosity. 

Love,
Sonora 

Gratitude for the Breath

December 18, 2012

Tim joined us for Thanksgiving some years back.  My mother was there and she made us go through the ritual of each person saying something they were thankful for.  Most of us were self-conscious and eager to get it over with and muttered something about how we were thankful for our families and friends.

Not Tim.  When it came to be his turn, Tim shared his great enthusiasm for "the breath."  I gather that breath had been the key focus of his meditation practices, a spiritual teacher for him.  I don't recall his words, but I recall the enthusiasm, the sense of poetry, of a force that united us all.  He had our full attention, speaking from the heart about something really important to him.

So as a tribute to Tim I'd like to share this poem by Rilke which was quite in keeping with Tim's praise of Thanksgiving.  His breath has joined with ours, we carry on his breath in our own,  Let us always be thankful for it.

The Sonnets To Orpheus: Book 2: I

Breathing: you invisible poem! Complete
interchange of our own
essence with world-space. You counterweight
in which I rythmically happen.

Single wave-motion whose
gradual sea I am:
you, most inclusive of all our possible seas-
space has grown warm.

How many regions in space have already been
inside me. There are winds that seem like
my wandering son.

Do you recognize me, air, full of places I once absorbed?
You who were the smooth bark,
roundness, and leaf of my words. 


Translated by Stephen Mitchell 

Rainer Maria Rilke

 

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